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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Well, boys I had to do it! This morning I went and put a PFA ~ Protection Against Abuse Order on the ex man! He called all last night until 1 AM, then started callin all over again this morning, so I have been at the courthouse all morning and the police station. But to let you all know I am fine, no bruises or anything. Just thought I'd share the BAD part of my life with your guys! IP: Logged |
XdawgX Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 99) |
![]() ![]() ![]() glad to hear you're doing aiight. not to change the subject, but how's the adipo/guggul stack going? IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks for the update DLADY. I was going through withdrawals here. It finally looks like the case has come to a close with the ex, huh? I think you will be better off. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() i ORDERED IT LAST WEEK STILL WAITING ON IT. HAVENT GOTTEN IT YET. IP: Logged |
Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1191) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() damn Dlady, I didn't even know he was a psycho. Be safe... Slopain IP: Logged |
MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1547) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hope you are allright D ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest IP: Logged |
FlexB Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 813) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Do you want me to kick his ass! ------------------ IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() YEP, SLOPAIN. HE SAID HE FOLLOWED ME ALL WEEKEND. HE KNEW EVERYWHERE I WAS AT. I NEVER HAD SOMEONE DO THIS BEFORE. JUST A BIT SHAKIN UP THAT IS ALL. IP: Logged |
havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 593) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I wouldnt look in your closet tonight if I were you. Just joking. IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() DLADY. he followed you all weekend? Then he must have peeped in on us. Damn, that means he knows who I am. I hope he only saw me when I was blindfolded. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() TD, I am so glad that I can still laugh at you ! Thank You sweetie!! You make everything better! IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Glad I could be of service. IP: Logged |
Romeo Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 728) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() in the words of charlie sheen in makor league "do you want me to drag him outside and beat the shit outta him"
peace romeo IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hey D, Im glad to hear your ok, I hope u have nothing to do with numb nuts any more. Hes obviously a few beers short of a six pack... or.............damn...................could it be..................................that you............................................DL...............................................are really........................................................................that good................................................................in bed!?!? hehehe IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Is there any doubt, Gil? lol IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yea, um, well, ya know... hehehe ![]() IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hey DL, did u see my story at the bottom of the "Topic: slopain ANSWER ME THIS " thread. lol U may find it amusing... Yea, its fukn true. BLAHHHHHH IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Well, guys he is calling me all over again. What am I supose to do? right now as soon as I hear his voice I hang up the phone. And then he keeps calling my house phone and is leaving message after message now. I think I am NOT going to stay alone at home tonight... ------------------ IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() what time should I be there again?..... IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry to hear that DLADY. It's less than a 3 hour flight down here to Sunny Florida, so if you hop on a plane right now, you can be here in time for tea. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Gil, can you put your wings on and fly over right now? I thought he'd leave me alone now. Guys I'm getting scared now, cause I saw a girl today with her face all beaten buy her ex husband and all I thought was, "my God that could be me" I do not want him controlling my life. And right now he is, I changed my locks, got a caller ID box, and put a PFA on him, what else can I do? IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() not only does he need a PFA, he also needs a good ol' ass whoop'n put on him like only a Texan can. IP: Logged |
Latimer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 570) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Go buy a shotgun. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() i DO NOT LIKE GUNS!!!!! WELL, KEVIN SAID HE WOULD STAY WITH ME TONIGHT GIL, SO I AM AFRAID IF THE EX COMES DOWN NOW. HE WILL HAVE A PA ASS WHOOPIN COMING. I AM REALLY LUCKY TO HAVE YOU GUYS,OU ALL ARE LIKE MY BIG BROTHERS... WHEN I NEED YOU TO BE THERE. IP: Logged |
MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1547) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ive never been in a fight before..but if any guy acted lik this towards one of my gf id get my gloves on. ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() fuk the gloves MM, then you cant pull on Moe on him and poke him in the eyes, unless... hes really quick and puts up the block, ooooooo. IP: Logged |
MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1547) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() oh my fighting gloves man..they are not mittens ![]() ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I AM BEING A SOFT LITTLE GIRL TODAY SORRY. I CANT BE MYSELF ( HARD ASS BITCH ) WHEN I AM SCARED AND WORRIED NOW. IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() its ok DL, Ill be gentel... hehehe IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I AM GOING FOR THE DAY GUYS, SEE YOU! ![]() IP: Logged |
juice_boy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 49) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Try to realize that your leaving is probably very difficult for your ex. He very well might be in a state of shock. He might have cared for you to the point that he can't imagine life without you. This can cause a man to do weird things. Most of the time its very non-violent and will gradually diminish. Bringing the cops in sometimes is not a good idea as it will just create more anger and desperation in the man. I wouldn't suggest this unless you have already seen a violent tendency. The best way is not to shut him off completley and help him understand. This is if you had a long term relationship. Immediatley after a breakup a man feels betrayed, hurt, and most of all his pride is destroyed. Just some thoughts. Seen this before. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() OKAY, I MADE KEVIN STEAK, SCALLOPED POTATOS AND CORN LAST NIGHT, AND WE HAD SPAGEHTTI SUNDAY, SO WHAT CAN I MAKE TONIGHT FOR DINNER? ROTISSOIRIE CHICKEN, MASHED POTATOS, AND SWEET PEAS ~ IS THAT GOOD, OR CAN YOU THINK OF SOMETHING BETTER??? HE HATES SEAFOOD! AND SALAD.
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() HHHHHHHEEEEEEEELLLLLLLOOOOOOO! GIVE ME SOME FOOD IDEAS... I MEAN NORMAL FOOD TOO, TD, AND HAVOC! IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I'm sure he wouldn't mind feasting on your freshly prepared bearded clam. lol IP: Logged |
BigGuns2 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 152) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Dlady, be really carful with this guy. He is obviously stalking you. Make sure you have mace with you and try not to go anywhere by yourself. Get a restraining order on him asap! Unfortunately the way the laws are, it's hard for the law to do anything until something bad happens. Good luck. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() haha very funny, i am in no mood right now TD , sorry. ![]() IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() BG I have a restraining order on him now, but it is only temp one. That is what a PFA is in the state of PA. IP: Logged |
The Canadian Oak Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 48) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Dlady get one of the big guys from the gym you talk to to stay with you then get him to take your ex out back and shoot hott potatos up his ass with a tennis ball shooter till he turns purple hehe i hope ur alright ------------------ IP: Logged |
BigGuns2 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 152) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Good luck Dlady. It really pisses me off that someone like you knows that you may be in danger, and yet you have to go through all this bull to try to protect yourself. Keep us posted. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1191) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() #1. You Need a gun. #2. Don't talk about this too much to your new boy-toy b/c that isn't something someone who is starting a relationship (hopefully) wants to hear. It sucks, but its better to just mention it, and say "Im dealing with it, hes a psycho" try not ot go into details or focus on it with him (kevin I guess his name is right?) sorry I aint no chef, I know how to make cereal, protein shakes, tuna (eaten out of the can with no condiments), and scrambled egg whites no fat cheese, and potatoes. Slopain IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry DLADY, sound like your going through a rough period. I can't think of anything to say that might comfort you so I'll just say good luck and I wish you the best. I think you will be able to handle anything that may happen. IP: Logged |
HackN2it Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 65) |
![]() ![]() ![]() DLADY, If he keeps calling you, you can contact the phone company and have that number blocked from your phone.n If you want to bring up further charges you can have the phone company keep track of all incoming calls to your phone. If they say they can't there full of shit! And if that doesn't help I live in NJ...I my X had the same problem with one of her old boyfriends...I solved his problems when I met him with 6 of my boys and pulled from the pool hall he was at....Gave him a hollow point and a message! Problem solved!
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Rexie317 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 489) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Have him killed. Problem solved, Make sure you pay good money though so they get rid of the body. ------------------ IP: Logged |
juice_boy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 49) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I never said that this situation was your fault. My main point is that a restraining order is useless. If this guy is distraut, then a piece of paper will not keep him from doing anything. The only way the police can enforce a restraining order is if they actually see him within the given radius. Generally what happens is this guy will come harass you, then you call the cops, then he disappears until the cops leave, then he starts again. Try to understand this guys motives and mentality. 90 percent of the time things will gradually get better. Time heals everything. Its easy to think that this guy doesn't have rights and that he should just leave you alone. Well, that's right, but its not reality. If I were you I would talk with him and choose your words very carefully. And like it was said before, he shouldn't know that you are with someone else. That above anything else would encourage a violent move by this guy. You know your ex much better than I. These are just my thoughts from my experiences. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() SLOPAIN, Thanks I wish I would have read that last night before I left though. (part about not mentioning it) We fought last night because of this. I went out and bought a Rotissiorie chicken, and just made some potatos and sweet peas for dinner. Kev, was just in a bad mood to begin with cause of shit at his work, so the night turned ou to be a fight and now yes, I might have lost him . The fucking lock the put on my door does not work so I have to have it replaced again today. They put the damn thing upside down so it wouldnt lock. I stayed at my friends house last night. TD, it is okay, I just feel like I rather die right now, or leave here for awhile, (yes I run from my troubles alot) so please do not take it personally okay buddy? I just might end up back in FL before this is over. I do like the fact that I have YOU to talk to on here at least! SWAK ! :0 IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Have you ever felt like you just wanted to crawl in a hole and die, or at least be isolated from the world for awhile? I am so exhausted by stress that i could just fall over now and not care to get back up. I just got a phone call that they can not find my ex. He never got served the P.F.A. and his sister called this morning asking if I have seen him cause he never went home last night. Now I am worried that he did something stupid! IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() He may just be out gathering his thoughts somewhere. Hopefully that is the case, for both of you. Does he work today? You may want to call his job place and see if he showed up for work. IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() DL, remember what I told you. U are not responsible for his stupidity. Dont lose Kev in the process of dealing with this shit. He may start to feel like you still have feelings for this psycho or that you like the attention or drama. Hopefully he realizes you dont. I hope hes there for you and supports you. Good luck. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() TD, I thought of doing that but i do not want to make the PFA void if I contact him, before it is even served to him . I am hoping to that he just took a drive to the ocean again or something. So he could think . I am just worried now, I already had one ex 6 years ago attempt suicide because of me, it wasnt pretty at all and I dont want to be at ICU for a week again, nor a funeral. I do not do the funeral thing well. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Gil, I am taking Slopain's advice and I am not going to bring it up again with Kevin, I think he is getting stressed because of my problems now, I may just be by myself for a few days , so I dont lose him all together. We are suppose to go boating all weekend. (my parents got a Chris Craft 27 footer.) At least I hope that I do not lose him. He is the type of guy that has a good head on his shoulders and wont put up with this BS. The kind of mature guy I need in my life. IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I am going to beat Havoc to the punch here DLADY: Bong hits, Bong hits, Bong hits IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() YEAH, REALLY i THINK I NEED A WHOLE BIG HUGE THE BIGGEST ONE! TO SMOKE ALL DAY TILL I FALL OVER AND DROP! IS THAT POSSIBLE. MY BODY ALREADY FEELS NUMB SO I ONLY NEED THAT FUNNY FEELING NOW. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() HAvoc and TD, Hey guys I left early yesterday so I could just go and THINK. (if that is possible) but everything worked out for the best yesterday, the ex called one lkast time to tell me goodbye and to let me know that he will no longer be bothering me. Now I just have to take the time to heal my own wounds. Now what sex subjects have I missed out on? LOL IP: Logged |
Iron God Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 315) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Glad to see your alright, Did you have a cig? ------------------ IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() No, IG I can be honest and say that I have not smoked any cig's!! I have chewed many stirrer straws in the past few days but , I haven't smoked. Hasnt been that hard really with these pills I am taking for the next week. Thanks for asking ! IP: Logged |
havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 593) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() D Lady, sincerely sorry for the situation you are in, stress sucks no matter what type it is, I appreciate your comments about myself and TD, We feel the same way, well at least I think TD does, but sometimes his Aardvarks and Sheep fetishes come first and I can understand, sheeps and Aardvark roundups are addicting, anyway next time you leave for the day, let us honkys know, I was curious where you went. In a month or two this shit wont even be on your mind, time heals all wounds and you even learned something important in the process. IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Bump for aardvarks and sheep. And I guess DLADY, too. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() HAHA, TD ! "and you guess me too" TD are you starting on me already today? IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I'm still trying to wake up here. I'll be ready to go in an hour or so. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() AHH, WELL I AM READY TO GO NOW, IT'S PAYDAY, I HAVE TAKEN MY SPEED FOR THE DAY, AND HAVE A JAVA IN FRONT OF ME NOW, SO COME ON NOW CATCH UP WITH ME TD. HEY, HOW HOT IS IT THERE TODAY? MY MOM SAID IT IS VERY HUMID. I JUST MIGHT COME DOWN THERE IN SEPT OR OCTOBER THIS YEAR, TICKETS ARE CHEAP RIGHT NOW. IP: Logged |
Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 449) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hey DL, happy to hear everthing worked out for ya. IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I'm going to get coffee now. And the tickets are very cheap, just like the girls. lol IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() THANK YOU GIL, I DIDNT THINK YOU WERE HERE YET! GOOD MORNING! AND TD, I WOULD BE THE ONLY GIRL IN FL THAT WASNT CHEAP! HAHA! I AM A VERY EXPENSIVE LADY! I LIKE NICE (BIG) THINGS!!! IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() I can definitley accomodate you on the "big" part, but as far as the "nice" part.... IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Guys, I thought this was over with last night, but I just got a phone call from the ex, he is at work crying really bad, then he makes me cry. I have so many doubts now. He wants to talk to me tonight , what should I do, let him just talk over the phone to me? I keep having doubts about everything I have done, have ANY of you felt this way and regreted what you did later? I am really doubting my choices right now.... And I threw up my lunch cause of my damn nerves! Why cant this just be over with. IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() If you want it to be over with, then don't talk to him. If you decide to talk to him the conversation will basically be him telling you he wants you back. Is that what you want? This is the same guy that has been threatening you, isn't it. I'm sorry to hear that he is crying, but I think you should end it now and not let it keep dragging on. IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() BUT WHAT IF I AM MAKING THE WRONG CHOICE HERE TD? HUH? WHAT IF HE IS THAT ONE PERSOIN FOR ME, WHAT THEN? I SCREW UP AND LIVE MY LIFE ALONE!!! I AM SURE YOU ARE TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT THIS SHIT ALREADY, BUT I AM GOING CRAZY HERE RIGHT NOW! HOW DO I KNOW THIS IS RIGHT? I AM READY TO GO SEE A FREAKING PHSYIC..... TO TELL ME WHICH IS RIGHT FOR ME. .. IP: Logged |
MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1547) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() there are no ways to tell whats wrong and whats right..thats the thing about life..you take your chances no matter what the topic. and you jus thave to live with the choices you make, dont dwell on them, move on.... Roll the dice! ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray IP: Logged |
Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1392) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Phychics aren't the answer. Go to a palm reader. They are much more reliable. Anyway, how can you tell if he is right for you? Do you enjoy life more when you are with him or without him? Does he make you feel good about yourself? Is he there when you need him? IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() jeg elsker deg ~ to Mr, Muscle! I do not like your answer though! Can I be the Tin Man from Oz now, with no heart?
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() Td. I enjoy life with and without him, everyone needs some space! i do love him, and have said from the day we met he is the man I would marry someday. ( i wonder now though) No, he does not make me feel good about myself, but yes he is ALWAYS there when I need him, more than my father too. Which is odd, I compare everyone to my father. I know it is wrong to do too. IP: Logged |
MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1547) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() thanks D ~jeg elsker deg ogs� Yeah, thats the thing..if you were able to shut down your heart or brain it would be much easier to make a choice wouldnt it? just hang in there girl..ok? ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray IP: Logged |
Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1196) |
![]() ![]() ![]() God knows I am trying MM. Can i just go bury myself in a hole now? IP: Logged |
MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1547) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() that wont help anything D. stuff like this is hard, and it might take some time. but when your thru it you will feel even better that you spent the time you did on it, and found the solution that you think best. ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray IP: Logged |
Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1006) |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() you just need some valium and you'll be in the hole for a few days ------------------ IP: Logged |
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