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Rob-Guns Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted July 26, 2000 10:44 PM
 
To be healthy and get her ass into shape? I just had to tell her last night, when she bought two cakes for us to have after dinner. me I just had half, you know, it was enough to enjoy it, but when she had finished hers, and went for the half that I left, I could not help it, I just had to tell her "you eat too much shit food!!!!" "what, you think I am fat" (like thats exactly what I said!) but I did have to tell her that in the last four months she has put on weight, and if she is not careful, she will get fat, and you may call me a bastard, but I like them keen and LEAN! if I could only encourage her that she would love the benefits of a healthy lifestyle. Beside, she is affectingy own motivation. I was feeling shit and said I was going to give up the weights cause I can not seem to commit like I want to , I felt like shit. Then I read the Yo mamma post, and laughed my ass off!!! thanks! IP: Logged |
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Rob-Guns Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted July 26, 2000 10:45 PM
By the way, thanks for the interesting point of view in the gun control topic. IP: Logged |
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BACKDRAFT Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 284) |
posted July 26, 2000 11:07 PM
 ROB,I've tried for years to tell my mom,dad,and my wife about the benefits of living a healthy life style.It's like beating a dead horse,i would guess it's like someone bilble thumping no matter what you say the person has to make up there own mind.All you can do is live healthy and set a good example,and maybe your friends and loved ones will follow,dont harp on the matter your really just pushing them in the wrong direction.Just my .02 cents IP: Logged |
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bignate73 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1204) |
posted July 26, 2000 11:15 PM
i hear ya bro, it sucks to push yourself and sacrifice in the gym and in the kitchen. and then to have everyone around you just eating and being "normal". get some people around you that think and train like you. at least you will have a support system and some people to vent to. sucks though when you spend so much time on your body and your significant other can let themselves go like that. what to do? ya got me on that. try encouraging her to workout when you do. do some cooking, show her how to cook some meals that are good etc. it takes patience by those who are already there to get people to commit to a healthier lifestyle. good luck bro. IP: Logged |
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The Dude Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 146) |
posted July 27, 2000 07:28 AM
Don't give in and quit dude! Set the example, even is she doesn't follow. If she does "blow up" and, after really trying to help her, she may not be the type of girl for you. It all depends on what you want in a partner. IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 466) |
posted July 27, 2000 08:22 AM
Rob G it usually takes a life threatening moment or an extreme realization that one looks like a pound of shit for that person to change their outlook on the way they are viewed. There have been a few people that I know personally that I have tried everything on, from being nice as hell to a complete dick, even making the person get up from the table and leave because of the comments I made. Your woman is going to have to want to change, its her decision. Try being nice, try being rude. IP: Logged |
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Kingpin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 105) |
posted July 27, 2000 08:33 AM
Am I glad to see someone else with a post like this! I have been trying for a long time to get the 'ol lady off her ass and exercise, walk, eat right, etc... I am the "freak" of the house because of how I eat, drink water, and lift. Keep the ideas coming bro's. IP: Logged |
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cm3504jm Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 139) |
posted July 27, 2000 10:29 AM
Once you have a scary experience that could have resulted in death due to your lifestyle, believe me, you will change for the better! IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 11:05 AM
She has to want to do it for HERSELF, nothing you say is going to make her do it and enjoy it! Believe me cause I was there before ,i know what I am saying here. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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KATO/09 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 46) |
posted July 27, 2000 11:16 AM
I need to know too!! My girlfriend has a bangin' body with dangerous curves, and she dosn't work out or diet at all. Now Im not complaining, but if she lost 5lbs and toned up she'd be UNBELIEVABLE! I go to the gym almosy ED and have tried to get her to joinw/me, but every time I bring in up its the same thing,"Why, Do you think Im FAT!?" I an't understand why she dosn't realize how hot she would be if she got into good shape, and I dont know how to tell her. So if anyone has any good ideas, let me know! IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 11:23 AM
The easiet way is to show them this web site and some of the pictures of Fitness Chick and some of the other ladies on here, along with their improvements.... IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 499) |
posted July 27, 2000 11:23 AM
She's got to want to do it for herself...I am the freak of all my friends as far as training is concerned. The only thing you can keep telling her is that you want to do it together... And you know what guys..if she asks you do I look fat or you think I'm fat tell her the goddamn truth if you think she does. Don't pussyfoot around...yes she will be pissed, yes she will be hurt but if its the truth its the truth. The worst thing for me is when a guy says "oh you are so sexy" when I had 10lbs of cellulite to lose. (Okay, I know some men like that but PLEASE) Something else to think about is are you with her for the body or something else...if its just the body, you might think about moving on. If not, and she's not motivated to change well, you are going to have to put up with it. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 203) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:30 PM
skydancer is trying to get some guy killed  ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:33 PM
no bill, she isn't. She is really just trying to show you MEN that HONESTY is the best way to go if you want your lady to start working out! Some women actually rather hear the truth than a fucking lie! Why candy coat the truth. IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 499) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:33 PM
no - i just prefer the truth... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 499) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:36 PM
ha ha - Dlady - we posted the same thing at the same time IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 203) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:44 PM
ladies, ladies...theory and practice rarely collide.. may i add that my mental image of you both just gets sexier everyday... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:51 PM
Bill why have just a MENTAL image my pictures are up on this board! Take a look at the real me. IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 499) |
posted July 27, 2000 03:53 PM
HA - you should meet us in person...lol IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:07 PM
SKY, I THINK I KILLED BILL, BY MY UGLY SHOTS. HAHAHAHA! OH WELL :p IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 203) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:10 PM
girl, you best not play with a man's emotions.. ..that shot of you in leathers is nice...what is the name for that type of shirt...besides "sexy little no-backed thang"?..------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:14 PM
I HAVE NO IDEA , MY FATHER CALLS THOSE A "TISSUE" SHIRT, (HENCE NOTHING TO THEM) IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 203) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:18 PM
well, you keep showing off your bod and im gonna need a tissue (and a bathroom break)... hope you got the gratuitous masterbation reference...i know it was kinda subtle... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:19 PM
LOL, bill. IP: Logged |
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buckydingdong Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 103) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:25 PM
have you posted any pics skydancer? IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:26 PM
haha, I have her pictures, but she won't let me give them out. She isnt ready yet, I guess. But she is a very nice looking lady. IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 499) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:41 PM
I'm waiting to get some prof's done as a reward for working my ass off this year...then I'll share... Thank you Dlady...for the nice looking comment. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 27, 2000 04:43 PM
Ahh, no problem girly! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Romeo Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted July 27, 2000 05:27 PM
yo rob i have a friend ..actually my best friend is over weight ..i try to get him to get up and go with me to the gym it is impossible...now that he sees me going out ..im able to take my shirt off withoput embarressment ...he is starting to see the light he started to excersize on his mountain bike im proud of him...like the bros said it takes something ..that will trigger them to realize .....you never know what it will be ...just keep trying ..thats what i did
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 203) |
posted July 27, 2000 05:41 PM
ladies- could you maybe describe each other in lavicious detail...consider it a late birthday present ------------------ IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 499) |
posted July 27, 2000 06:43 PM
LOL - special bill...yeah that would be a nice bday present now wouldn't it!! And we are both so darn good at describing things too... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Rob-Guns Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted July 27, 2000 10:17 PM
Yeh, thanks guys! My girl is looking pretty good at the moment, but I see my friends, they get married, have a kid, then their girl starts to get that boring houswife look, no what I mean. They seem to just let it go ( I know not all women) and start gettin older and bigger. I like this girl for who she is, but I think that now she is no longer single, she knows I like her and treat her real sweet, and it appears she is not too concered about her looks anymore. Well once the pysical attraction goes for me, it statrs to go down hill. Probably why I can't seem to commit to a long term relationship. Altough it is close this time! IP: Logged |
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Future One Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 74) |
posted July 27, 2000 10:48 PM
you women are both over 40 aren't you? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 926) |
posted July 28, 2000 08:44 AM
over 40? I am gonna come over and kick your ass for that remark Future One! j/k Where the hell did you come up with that idea. IP: Logged |
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