posted July 25, 2000 03:03 PM            

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There is this girl in my gym and she is about 29, which makes her almost 9 years older than i am. But she is in good shape and looks hot, but i dont know where to begin. i mean she talks to me and her friend has said stuff to me and asked about me etc..
I would love to get in to this shit, So i need some suggestions, anything will help,
later, Dub

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posted July 25, 2000 03:07 PM         

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HA, DUB I AM "JUST DATING" HAVING FUN WITH A GUY NOW AND HE IS ONLY 21, BUT ACTS ALOT MORE MATURE THAN THE GUYS MY AGE 27. SO JUST ACT MATURE BUT AT THE SAME TIME KNOW HOW TO HAVE FUN. DON'T LET THE AGE DIFFERENCE BOTHER YOU 2, JUST ASK HER ONE DAY IF SHE'D LIKE TO GO OUT AND HAVE FUN ONE NIGHT.

VERY EASY TO DO, GET SOME BALLS AND DO IT!

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posted July 25, 2000 03:07 PM            

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hehe well im 21..and im also hot for a thirty year old..hehe and she knows it

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posted July 25, 2000 03:09 PM         

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my girlfriend is older than me too!

oh wait, i'm 21 and she's 22. nevermind.

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posted July 25, 2000 03:10 PM         

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MR. MUSCLE NOW WHO WOULD THAT BE?????????
LOL

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posted July 25, 2000 03:12 PM            

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Just ASK HER OUT for gods sake..its not that difficult...

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posted July 25, 2000 03:14 PM            

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Chalk it up as a loss man. The age thing is way too large. For most women, they ussually date guys either older or roughly the same age as them.

Sorry

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posted July 25, 2000 03:18 PM            

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Hindu - would you say the same if the situation was reversed? How many older men do you see with younger woman? Just curious because it always seems to work that way...

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posted July 25, 2000 03:28 PM         

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How sure are you about the age???
A fit and cute looking 29 could actually be 30 something.
Does she know how old you are???
Tough call... But I would leave this one alone and move on. What the hell would you guys talk about?

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posted July 25, 2000 03:31 PM            

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When i was in my 20's all my girlfriends were between 35-46. They just seem a hell of a lot nicer than chicks in their 20's for some reason. My best woman was 46 and I was 27. Man, why did I go there, now I kinda miss her, oh well, seem to me they enjoy having a date without really going out on the town. Older chicks are more home bodies and you can do well by suggesting renting a movie and having some popcorn. Bring some wine, find out what kind she likes. Afterward have some conversation but sound decisive, not one of these who are still having to find yourself, i don't know you so you might have to BS a little. Thats what always worked for me. Keep us informed bro!

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posted July 25, 2000 03:35 PM            

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In my opinion, if she talks to you and her friends are asking questions about you for her, then pursue it. Keep stricking up conversations and go from there.

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posted July 25, 2000 04:23 PM            

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Fuck it, im going to ask her out or som, i mean screw all that "i wonder if something could of happened" bullshit. Thanks for the replies.........

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posted July 25, 2000 04:26 PM         

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GO FOR IT, DUB!!! YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY , RIGHT? SO JUST DO IT!

GOOD BOY!!!

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posted July 25, 2000 04:29 PM            

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And if she says "no", ask her mother out. Older women rock!!

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posted July 25, 2000 05:13 PM         

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I agree with Vitaman. If she is asking questions and making an effort to talk to you, she is interested. I don't think it matters at this point much what you say or do - just say and do something.

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posted July 25, 2000 07:13 PM            

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My hubbie is almost seven years older than me and my sister-in-law is almost seven years older than her hubby. We have both been married 10+ years. I'm not saying propose or anything stupid like that - I'm only illustrating that these relationships can work!

Suck it up, walk up to her, start off with some silly joke, get her laughing - be charming and ask her out. But go someplace fun - don't do that dinner and movie thing. Go play miniature golf or go to the beach, one with an amusement pier or boardwalk and play some silly games - or go to a comedy club. I can't speak for all women, but there is nothing like a guy with a sharp wit! And a kickin' bod don't hurt either! Ah - you young sinewous hunks of muscle!!!!

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posted July 25, 2000 07:41 PM            

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Just ask her out. Hindu is way off. I am doing a 36 year old now and a couple of days ago i was with a 42 year old and I am 29. Don't worry. I don't know if you are looking for a relationship, but In I two cases the women are just useing me and I'm Okay with that!! Being 29 though she may be looking for a relationship.

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posted July 25, 2000 07:41 PM            

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a few months back i had met an older girl at the local tavern ...i just turned 20 in may and she is 23..not that big of a margin..but she was hung up on it so much...we hook up a few times but she wouldnt let me sleep with her because i was young...to make a long story short ...after another month of hanging with her i just got sick of hearing i was to young and stopped calling her ....now she wont stop calling me ...and i say to her that she is to old for me and it driver her nuts....

some people are just to stupid and ignorant to see a good thing even if it is younger then them

peace romeo

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posted July 25, 2000 08:04 PM         

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bro, just ask her out and be yourself, she'll enjoy the extra fun. I've dated women up to 8 years older than me and they all seemed to have a real good time. Just don't try to impress her by acting older

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posted July 26, 2000 12:28 AM            

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if ya think shes into ya..go for it

kram-mark
just do'in my best...

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posted July 26, 2000 12:47 AM            

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Just be confident look into her eyes and ask her if she'd like to go out. He who hesitates masturbates. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain good luck.

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posted July 26, 2000 03:10 AM            

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Good Luck bro

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posted July 26, 2000 03:26 AM         

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I suggest running by her, then grabbing her ass as you dart out the door. You might also try other effective techniques such as mooning her through the window of your workplace, throwing spitballs at her all day, or even dry humping her leg. Hey, I got my current girl by throwing oily fries at her and pinching her legs.

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posted July 26, 2000 07:46 AM            

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Wow
Which i was in the US with the rest of you

I would just spark up conversation with her and get it to a piont where you can ask her what she gets up to when she is not in the gym if she says that she does not really have a lot to do (I expect she will) Ask her out..!

If her friend is asking about you chances are she wants a bit of you it maybe short lived or could be long lasting DONT let the age thing get in the way...!

I myself like younger girls but would like to hook up with an older woman but there not into the same shit as me im a bit childish and full of energy and am a hand full and younger women dont really worry about it that much..! My girl at the mo is 18 *GRIN*

PS Im only 21..!

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posted July 26, 2000 11:39 AM            

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Age is only a number, If she looks good to you just go for it!

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posted July 26, 2000 11:45 AM            

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Always go for older: Women in their 40's are reaching their sexual peak, they know more, and they are made to feel younger when aproched by younger male. They would be less apt to want to get married and have kids (more kids) another real big plus in my book!

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