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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 08:47 AM
  Mighty Dog, asked that I start a new Thread cuz the other one was getting way too long! Okay, this is to Hot Blood! I only talk this way on here sweetie. I am a smart lady and I do know that REAL MEN do not like a foul mouth on a lady, but thanks for the input! Guys, I had a GREAT weekend, (well, great Friday night) I didn't hear from the asshole, and the "other" man came over and stayed the night, since he was leaving for the beach at 3:30 AM Saturday (too bad he was late leaving) LOL IP: Logged |
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mightydog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted July 24, 2000 08:59 AM
Good going Dlady, I think you had some of us worried there for a while. Being a woman you have a jump start on getting with a dude if you look good. Look at us guys. Almost everyday some buffed stranger with decent looks looking for help with a "can't get laid thread." Someone said women are getting more aggressive these days but I don't see it. Maybe George will start a lonely hearts club for dudes with lots o' muscle and a little personality to boot. Women would respond to ads like that if it were exclusive and contained a pic. Don't you think? IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1144) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:09 AM
You naughty girl, DLADY! IP: Logged |
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Vitaman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 493) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:20 AM
Your weekend sounded good. What is next? IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:33 AM
"What is next?" PLEASE! I am having more troubles now, than what I had before! Here you go! This is my standing situation right now : 1. I have the ex crying to me everyday of how "he is so sorry" and wants me back. 2. I have the "other man" at the beach calling me evey night to check in on me. (he will be home Saturday) 3. All of a sudden my ex from 2 years ago calls from "out of the blue", and he lives next door to me ~ go figure! So what would you guys do in this situation now??? Gosh, I feel like a stud! LOL IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1144) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:36 AM
Look like you need to find yourself a male prostitute. IP: Logged |
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fitness-for-life !! Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 42) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:37 AM
Step back take a week or two away from all 3. Take the time to assess what you want. Make a pos./neg. list for each and see where they fall go from there... IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:38 AM
TD, please do not start this early in the morning! Let me have till atleast 10 to wake up. IP: Logged |
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mightydog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:39 AM
So much for being alone. Just scoff at their pathetic wimpers. They sound like some kind of weak pussy whopped bastards. Drain them for all they are worth and crush them under your heel when it appears they are no longer worthy of you. They sound vunerable. Have fun. IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:46 AM
MD, I kinda thought of the same thing, cause the ex, has a family jewelry business, then the other one is a bank manager. I figured I could have a pretty nice bday and Christmas, but I do not want it all coming back on me, SO I decided "No go" on that thought! I do NOT want this all crashing down on me. So what is a girl to do? IP: Logged |
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Vitaman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 493) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:46 AM
Dlady I would say #2 is your best pick so far. Saturday is not that far off. IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:55 AM
Vitamin ~ But he is an ARIES MAN too!!!! And they are controlling and possessive men!! IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1144) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:58 AM
Go with number 2. I wouldn't buy into all of that astrological bullshit. If you want some good advice, call one of the psychic hotlines. [This message has been edited by Thick dog (edited July 24, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Vitaman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 493) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:59 AM
Ok (option #4) taking time off is the best pick. What sign do you think is most compatible for you? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 386) |
posted July 24, 2000 10:02 AM
GOODMOR'N DL, (and all) check ur mail D. I like mightydog's reply...
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 10:20 AM
Vit~ They all tell me that Cancer is my marriage sign, and that is what the 2 years ago ex is. And I still care for him alot, but it would be hard for how much he hurt me before. I like option # 4 too, take time off! IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 10:29 AM
BY THE WAY I FORGOT TO LET YOU GUYS KNOW THAT I STARTED TAKING MORE PICTURES LAST NIGHT SO I WILL FINISH THE ROLL OF FILM TONIGHT AND GET IT DEVELPOED THIS WEEK AND YOU CAN SEE IF THER IS A DIFFERENCE IN MY BODY YET! HAVE TO WARN YOU THOUGH MY BELLY IS STILL UGLY, I THINK. IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 471) |
posted July 24, 2000 10:35 AM
Hey D, I am a Cancer, wow now I realize why I was pointed to this board, destiny awaits. J/K. The only person I will Marry is Juana. IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 11:38 AM
The Marriage sign doesnt mean that is who you will marry, Havoc. It is just who you are most compatible with and get along with easily. That is all. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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wrlord Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 62) |
posted July 24, 2000 12:06 PM
Uh, Dlady? Didn't the first thread start with you being concerned about hurting someone? Maybe the guy turned out to be a schmuck, but do you really want to just turn into a playa? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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mightydog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted July 24, 2000 12:21 PM
What do you mean you don't want all this crahing down around you? Keep smiling, nodding your head, and enjoy the meal tickets. Watch them all make fools out of themselves bumping into each other as they try to woo you. Oh yes, they will bark and wimper, that goes through one ear and out the other. You need to become the user or one of them will use you. Thats how this world works. Drop the mystical bullshit and get busy. IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 01:10 PM
wrlord, No I do NOT want to be a player here with these guys, but I am a VERY confused person right now, I am always the one in the guys shoes, and here for once I have the upper hand and do NOT know what the fuck to do. I have the ex crying to me right now, and I am afraid of what he'll do next, I do not want him back because I feel sorry or guilty for him, I love him deeply but want my freedom right now, ya know? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1144) |
posted July 24, 2000 01:20 PM
Congratulations DLADY, you brought a man to tears...not an easy thing to do. Your ex however, should be your last choice of the 3. You basically said that you are afraid of him. That would create a little tension, don't ya think? IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 570) |
posted July 24, 2000 01:20 PM
PATHETIC! Sorry, Dlady, couldn't resist. IP: Logged |
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mightydog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted July 24, 2000 01:32 PM
UhhhGG! These sniveling slime of subhuman excrement do not deserve your sentimentalities. How could your lower yourself to even consider having feeling for those who were put on this earth for your disposal and amusement. Don't you ever get tired of being nice? Don't you see where being "nice" has gotten you? To hell with them! IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 02:42 PM
MD, I know I know. Being nice has gotten me nowhere in life. I do have many doubts though about breaking up with him, isnt it true that if a man REALLY LOVES a woman that they can be willing to change things for the better? I am afraid that maybe I am not giving him a chance here... I love him so much but it is just hard now, and I know that most people have been in my situation before so what have you guys/ ladies done to solve the problem? They say that the relationships that last are the ones where the people work thru ANY problems they might come across, could this just be one problem? IP: Logged |
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DYLAN Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 356) |
posted July 24, 2000 03:05 PM
I usually don't chime in on these stupid topics, but I think I will on this one. Dlady, I'm sure you are a good person, but you are sounding a little schizo to me. I mean, in one week, you are breaking up with your boyfriend, having men spend the nigh, calling your ex an asshole, scum of the earth. You are afraid of him, but you say you "love him so much". Believe me, it is not love. If you love somebody you would not even think about saying or doing the things you are to your ex. It would never even cross your mind. If you do love him, you are really doing him wrong. Think about it, hope this helps. IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 03:21 PM
Ol' Yeah that just helped so much, calling me a schizo, mmmm, NOT! If you cant say sometrhing helpful here, go away !! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 03:30 PM
I guess I have come to the assumption that I just do not know what love is yet! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Plato Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 54) |
posted July 24, 2000 03:30 PM
Hey, I'm an Aries, and not possessive or whooped. Just back off from all three. Say no to unnecessary drama. IP: Logged |
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mightydog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted July 24, 2000 04:02 PM
Love, hmmm, no if it were there you would be more desisive. Trying to generate love out of this is a waste of time. If you want to love, start with yourself. It will empower you and allow you to use these obstacles, the same hapless creatures calling on you, to your advantage. Love yourself, thats all you need. Why extend that feeling to the rest of the untrusting world? What gain of it is to you that you love any of these pathetic souls? IP: Logged |
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IronChick Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 71) |
posted July 24, 2000 04:12 PM
I don't usually reply to these topics, but can't help noticing that this post is getting more responses than anything else on any of the boards. So, I read both threads. I don't know you and I am not a relationship expert, but I can be objective about it since I am not involved. I see a pattern here with the types of men you attract and are attracted to. This #2 guy you are seeing is giving you the warning sign that he is exactly like #1. He is a controller, too. He's already checking up on you, calling you every day? This may seem flattering to you, at first, but it should be a clear warning sign about things to come. You need to find out why you are attracted to this type of guy and work on changing that. Men like this look for vulnerable women. I don't mean to offend you with this, but they can sense self-esteem problems and they feed off of it like vultures. They charm the shit out of you in the beginning to get you hooked and then the abuse starts. That guy with all the phone calls already....I would be backing him off big time. In order to help yourself, you need to examine why you keep getting involved in these types of relationships. I think the problem is about you, not these guys. They have their own problems they need to deal with. Work on yourself and you will attract "healthy" men. That would require some time alone and maybe a professional to help you understand some of your behaviors and motivations. It's hard to break patterns if we don't understand why we are doing it. I hope that helps you in some way. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Iron God Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 291) |
posted July 24, 2000 04:14 PM
looks like those few pounds you lost are really paying off, maybe your "fat" mind can't deal with your new "buff" body  ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 24, 2000 04:54 PM
THANK YOU IG, YOU GAVE ME A LAUGH AT THE END OF THE TODAY. SEE YA'LL TUESDAY! IP: Logged |
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pizza man Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 365) |
posted July 24, 2000 07:56 PM
take all 3 to a swingers house party, and the one that doesn,t want to swing w/anybody except you / thats the one to keep? IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 429) |
posted July 24, 2000 09:03 PM
Listen to Ironchick. Quit attracting controlling idiots IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 25, 2000 09:14 AM
I have to SCREAM this! " I DID IT!!!" I FINALLY TOLD THE EX LAST NIGHT, AFTER A LONG TALK THAT I JUST CAN NOT BE THE GIRLFRIEND THAT HE WANTS ME TO BE RIGHT NOW!! I FEEL LIKE A HUGE WEIGHT HAS BEEN LIFTED OFF MY CHEST. I EXPLAINED TO HIM THAT I WASNT TRYING TO PURPOSELY HURT HIM IN ANY WAY , BUT I JUST NEED TIME TO MY SELF RIGHT NOW, WITH OUT ANY MEN AROUND. WE AGREED TO STILL GO OUT ON OCCASSION BUT NOT LIKE WE HAVE BEEN SO SERIOUSLY, SO NOW HE HAS THE FREEDOM TO DATE WHOMEVER AND SO DO I WITHOUT HAVING TO EXPLAIN OR ANSWER TO EACH OTHER. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1144) |
posted July 25, 2000 09:20 AM
Hooray. Now which one of the other 2 guys are you going to start banging? J/K IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 25, 2000 09:21 AM
CAN NOT TELL YOU THAT TD, ONLY GILBAY KNOWS WHICH ONE OF THEM, HEEHEE ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1144) |
posted July 25, 2000 09:23 AM
So you and Gilbay are getting it on, eh? IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 25, 2000 10:56 AM
Oh, Yes. We have an "internet affair"! No you putz! But he helped me figure out how to say what I was feeling basically! You always have to be a comic huh? IP: Logged |
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Pamela Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 46) |
posted July 26, 2000 04:38 AM
Hi DLADY, I think you need time away from ALL men. Give yourself some time to be with some of your girl friends, and laugh and cry with them. Don't make the mistake some girls do; Go from one to another!! I hope this helps!! :-) Pamela IP: Logged |
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Steelsoldier Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 287) |
posted July 27, 2000 02:09 PM
I smell it in the air.....oh yes. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Steelsoldier Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 287) |
posted July 27, 2000 02:10 PM
I smell it in the air.....oh yes. Do i like what i hear? Not at all. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 27, 2000 02:11 PM
What the hell are you talking about? ss. IP: Logged |
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mightydog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted July 28, 2000 11:09 AM
Pamela is right. Don't get relationship dependent. Learn to be 100% without anybody else. Kinda go "off cycle" from dudes. You may feel some withdraw. IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 952) |
posted July 28, 2000 11:11 AM
AND BE WITH OUT SEX ARE YOU CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
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