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NYyankee
Amateur Bodybuilder
(Total posts: 55)
posted July 11, 2000 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYyankee   Click Here to Email NYyankee     Edit/Delete Message
My uncle works for Coca cola so I have been helping him out this week with ordering soda for grocery stores.Anyway, I was at Dunkin Donuts this morning getting an ice coffee. In my line was the most beautiful girl I have ever seen before in my life. My dream girl, nice tan, nice legs, tall. As she was heading out the door she gave me that look, not really a smile but you know " that look "

So she got into her nice red Acura and a few seconds later I got into my Jeep.We then both pulled out towards the exit and I noticed she parked into a parking spot like 50 feet from Dunkin Donuts. I was sitting there at the red light when I seen her walk into a Nail Hair Studio. I imagine that is where she works.

At lunch time I was in a grocery store across the street from the nail hair studio making an order. At the salad bar the girl was there again !!!!!! So I was like, shit....I need to say something to her but pussied out because I couldn't think of a good line.

She went to the cashier and I went to the phone near the exit door to pretend I was calling someone. As she was wallking out the exit door she gave me that look again with a smile !! I wanted to say something but I pussied out again. So thats about it... I know she takes her lunch at noon so tommorrow im gonna be next to that salad bar waiting for her to come in pretending like I am writing an order. This time I need to say something to her ! Bros, What is a good line I can use ??

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goleafs
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posted July 11, 2000 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goleafs   Click Here to Email goleafs     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 64961519
nice nails...wanna fuck??

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Thick dog
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posted July 11, 2000 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thick dog     Edit/Delete Message
Ask her if she is following you next time you run into her. That should open the door for you.

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Romeo
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posted July 11, 2000 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Romeo   Click Here to Email Romeo     Edit/Delete Message
YO MAN MY ADVICE WOULD BE TO BE YOURSELF WITH HER JUST SAY HELLO AND INTRODUCE YOURSELF ..ASK HER IF SHE WOULD LIKE TO GO FOR A CUP OF COFFEE OR EVEN BETTER IF SHE IS HAVING LUNCH ..YOU DO THE SAME AND ASK HER TO JOIN YOU ...THIS WAY YOU CAN TALK AND GET TO KNOW HER ...AND LET HER GET TO KNOW YOU ..

GOOD LUCK ----HESITATION IS THE MOTHER OF ALL REGRET-----

PEACE ROMEO----CARPE DIEM--SIEZE THE DAY--

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Slopain
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posted July 11, 2000 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slopain   Click Here to Email Slopain     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with Romeo - be yourself - well unless yourself is boring and stinky then be me! j/k bro - Be yourself and be natural don't force anything.

Slopain

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ryry
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posted July 11, 2000 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ryry   Click Here to Email ryry     Edit/Delete Message

just say "gee, i've been running into you alot lately", that should be enough to make a little small talk and then its all up to you. go with romeo's advice and be yourself. unless yourself is an asshole

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Checkmatebloated
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posted July 11, 2000 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Checkmatebloated   Click Here to Email Checkmatebloated     Edit/Delete Message
Phuck a line. Tell her the deal. being honest works wonders some times and in this case it will I think.

Tell her in some way that you notice her a couple of time and really wanted to say something, but you are shy. You thought about her all day and came back today around the same time hoping to see her again because you did not want to miss out on the chance to meet her. Don't give her any of that girl of your dreams bullshit until you are in the process of phucking, oh sorry ladies, making love an you want her to cum. Then tell her that kind of line.

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NYyankee
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posted July 11, 2000 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYyankee   Click Here to Email NYyankee     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks fellas......I'll talk with her tommorrow,I hope she is there !!!! I'lll let you know how it went. Im cool when it comes to talking with women so im hoping I'll get the digits. later bros

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brumans2
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posted July 11, 2000 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for brumans2   Click Here to Email brumans2     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 28279372
sneak a nail on the floor where she is the go up to her, pick up the screw then say

"wanna screw?"

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moe dank
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posted July 11, 2000 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moe dank   Click Here to Email moe dank     Edit/Delete Message
just be honest. Walk up and say hi my name is so and so, wait and she will say her name then say i wanted to talk to you yesterday, but i am really bad at just going up to girls that arent prostitutes or just say people.

YOU MUST, I REPEAT MUST COMPLEMENT HER. BE IT THE CLOTHES, THE HAIR, THE EYES, THE SHOES, THE ASS(MAYBE NOT), SOMETHING SINCER. IT IS A MUST.

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"if you are not a rebel by age 20 you have no heart. If you have no industry by age 30 you are an idiot." Jackson
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NYyankee
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posted July 12, 2000 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYyankee   Click Here to Email NYyankee     Edit/Delete Message
Shit, drove by her work today. Car was there in the morning but drove by later on and it was gone. Maybe I'll go in there tommorrow to get a haircut even though I just got one a few days ago.......lol, later bros

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ryry
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posted July 12, 2000 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ryry   Click Here to Email ryry     Edit/Delete Message
ahh don't you think your going a little overboard here. some people might consider this stalking...

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"The race is long... and in the end, it's only with yourself."


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gamer
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posted July 12, 2000 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gamer   Click Here to Email gamer     Edit/Delete Message
Relax man, She's a girl not a goddess. Don't be so wowed by her and move with a little confidense. Tha's all it takes to get "things" started.....hehee

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Future One
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posted July 12, 2000 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Future One     Edit/Delete Message
Why can't I have this kind of luck??? a beautiful girl that likes me! whatta you waiting for??? go talk to her!
and I agree with the other guys, just be honest. Say something like, "I've wanted to talk to you but I'm shy and I just got the courage now..." or something like that.
DON'T USE BULLSHIT PICK UP LINES!!! you will shoot yourself in the foot because she'll think your a goofball...

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ThePitbull
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posted July 12, 2000 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ThePitbull   Click Here to Email ThePitbull     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 75689837
goleafs, you are a silver tongued devil.(LOL)

Just be yourself bro, tell her that you have been running into her a lot lately, that will break the ice, then take it from there. Be confident though bro. Don't go in looking like you sound.

Pitbull

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mystic_hormones
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posted July 13, 2000 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mystic_hormones   Click Here to Email mystic_hormones     Edit/Delete Message
I had the same problem and I was pissed but I thought about it and decided I am missing an opportunity so I just want to play cool then bam I will hopefully get lucky. That look is something isn't it. can't get it out. Go for it. say hi ask her to sit and have a drink. then progress.

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NYyankee
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posted July 13, 2000 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYyankee   Click Here to Email NYyankee     Edit/Delete Message
Oh shit, Listen to this. It really is a small world and I really do have the worst luck !!

I am at Starbucks this morning. Right across the street from that hair, nail studio where that beautiful girl works. Im there sitting down drinking my ice coffee and fucking around on my lap top. Guess who walks through the door wearing a tight ass white dress !!

I couldn't believe it was her. So my table is no more then 10 feet from the line. I am glancing over at her and she looks back at me. All of a sudden she starts walking over to me !!!!!!!!

( this is where it gets goooood ! )

She says......." Hi,this is embarrassing
butby any chance are you Scott's younger brother ? " !!!

I do have a brother Scott who is a complete player and I tell her " yes I do ".

Then she was like " Oh my god, I remember him saying he had a little brother, you two look so alike. I dated him up at Syracuse last year..... Right there my jaw dropped to the floor, gagging on my ice coffee. Seriously, it was just like a scene from a comedy. I was thinking to myself, WTF. The girl of my dreams dated my brother !!!!

She went on saying how she seen me pull up the the grocery store that day so she followed me to ask if he was my brother but she chickened out....Blah, Blah, Blah.

We sat down for a bit and we talked about my brother, at this point I was just thinking to myself how I have the worst luck. My brother played tight end for the football team and she was telling me how much of a dick he was to her, he was very obsessive and that they dated for a few months.

Finally I got sick of hearing her shit that I told her I was running behind. I asked her if she wanted to go out to lunch and she was like " Im sorry, I would prefer not to, just that fact you are his brother, maybe in the future "

I was like ya, ya, ya,nice talking with you,bye......... I cant believe this happened. Im gonna call up my brother when he gets back from some trip and tell him. anyway.... Time to move on. haha, later fellas.

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ryry
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posted July 13, 2000 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ryry   Click Here to Email ryry     Edit/Delete Message

shit bro... i got a million stories like that one. for some reason i always get the short end of the stick when it comes to girls. well at least you got it out of your system now. better luck next time

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hot_latina
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posted July 13, 2000 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hot_latina   Click Here to Email hot_latina     Edit/Delete Message
ryry's and romeo's suggestions are great!

Do let us know what you did say tomorrow if you're lucky enough to get another opportunity!

Here's what not to do:
Whatever you do, don't lie in the slightest way to make yourself out to be what you're not.

Don't reveal too much about yourself at first if you don't want, but little white lies will haunt your relationship forever if she is your dream girl.
Based on my experience, a guy will say what they can to get a date, but then regret it. What's funny is that after dating this one guy for more than a month and first base was no where in sight much less a homerun, I didn't know who this guy was for real. I thought I was dating a divorced guy with a degree with a good job etc etc, but the total opposite was true. Ironically, he was my type: extremely patient, adored me, and gorgeous. Too bad!!
hl

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supersizeme
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posted July 13, 2000 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for supersizeme   Click Here to Email supersizeme     Edit/Delete Message
sucks man sorry to hear about that. that'll ruin your day. i guess she wasn't the girl of your dreams. i'm sure your brother will get a kick out of it.

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Romeo
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posted July 13, 2000 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Romeo   Click Here to Email Romeo     Edit/Delete Message
wow yo yankee i was hoping you would get those digits ...and be able to tell us some good news but hey its like i always say....whose next..right ...dont worry..you will find another real soon...probably already have ..he he he ..

peace romeo

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