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Fidel Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 22) |
posted July 07, 2000 07:07 PM
 
Ok fellas I have been dating this girl for about 2 and a half years, well I have been having thoughts in the back of my head for a while now about if I am doing the right thing by staying with her, I have more fun with my friends but I am scared of losing her, I get hit on by chicks all the time and just wonder if I would be happier without her, she wants total control of my life, she bitches about everyhting and never wants me to see my friends, if I am having second thoughts and wondering If i love her it probably isnt right to be with her then? lately I havent even been attracted to her I do not even like kissing her, I think of her more of a friend then a girlfriend, help me out with what to do IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 789) |
posted July 07, 2000 07:13 PM
sorry friend but your wasting more of both of your lives time by staying with her. You have already made up your mind, you just need to sack it up and do it. Of course its going to hurt for a while - that is good that is normal, better hurt for a couple weeks or months then the rest of your life knowing you made a wrong decision to just be complacent and have a friend. Make sure to surround yourself with good positive friends and go out and have fun alot. If it was meant to be you will see, but if you hold off another year you a cheating both of you of all that time that could be spent adding to your life. Good luck bro. Slopain IP: Logged |
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Kaisersosay Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 217) |
posted July 07, 2000 07:21 PM
Hey bro I've been with my girlfrien 4 1/2 years.I feel ya.I don't know what I want?She gets me so worked up over nothing.I might have broken up with,but we've been living together since nov99 and she has no place to go.I love her.I just don't no if I want to spend the rest of my life with her.They say your wife is supposed to be your best friend,but this is just not the case.I just don't feel that hollow feling in my gut,you know what i meen? IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 371) |
posted July 08, 2000 11:18 AM
Correct, kaiser...supposed to be best friend also, and if she has a problem with your friends, SHES a problem. She knew your friends before she got with you so she knew they came with you. No one should try to seperate friends IP: Logged |
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TxCollegeguy Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 380) |
posted July 08, 2000 01:45 PM
Sounds like you and Kaiser are both ready to head for better pastures...Don't waste your time with them...There is someone better out there for you... Good Luck IP: Logged |
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