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Jim Layhoe Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 567) |
posted July 06, 2000 10:57 PM
Why can homosexual people who wish to have a sex change freely do so, and recieve injections to achive thier goals? Yet we as bodybuilders cannot get the same injections? What is wrong with this picture(LIKE I SAID NO DISRESPECT BUT) the media would rather see a bunch of he-bitches or she-men rather then a buff guy???WTF??? IP: Logged |
Kaisersosay Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 225) |
posted July 06, 2000 11:12 PM
Hey Jim.I don't think its gays that are doing that.I think it's people who are both and wanna change to just one, or I think some feel like a women on the inside but have a dick or a women feels like a man on the inside but has a puss. IP: Logged |
JohnnyO Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 75) |
posted July 06, 2000 11:27 PM
I don't know anyone who got a sex change all the way -- but I understand that you have to commit to go all the way (or at least find a friendly doctor) to get the injections. I hear that there is a black market for female hormones treatments just as there is one for AS. IP: Logged |
mystic_hormones Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 93) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:37 AM
I actually <dislike homos>. why are gay people gay. I mean how did they turn like that. I go to the gym with my parents. I am able to go by myself but I'd rather hitch a ride with them so My mom meets these <homos> in aerobics and it then introduces me to them and it is like weird I get the most uncomfortable feeling so intense that it could be compared to finding out you have aids which is intense I would guess but the bad feeling is what it kinda reminds me of and it sucks. If your gay take my words of wisdom and be straight. how can you look at a nother huy and enjoy the sight him on his knees... end damn the rest if to damn gross. yuck ------------------ [This message has been edited by mystic_hormones (edited July 07, 2000).] IP: Logged |
Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 933) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:39 AM
. eminem ------------------ [This message has been edited by BigPapaPump (edited July 07, 2000).] IP: Logged |
PeteyPete Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 106) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:44 AM
mistic, i'm not big on homos either, but it seems you got a real problem or insecurity with your own sexuality. I don't agree with their lifestyle at all, but your taking it a little overboard, if they make you THAT uncomfortable it seems you got some things to work out on your own IP: Logged |
Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 820) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:50 AM
oh no, looks like Mystic is gonna turn this thread into another politically correct/incorrect themed topic which recieves 50 replies... man have you no sense? Slopain IP: Logged |
mystic_hormones Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 93) |
posted July 07, 2000 01:01 AM
overreacted a bit and forgive me but admit it that it is damn disgusting. It is just that I cannot believe a man could possibly think like that. Excuse my overreacting. I get like that when there are things that get me pissed then later I feel that I came on a little to hard. that is why I am apologizing now but my beliefs stay the same. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 820) |
posted July 07, 2000 01:04 AM
dont worry bro just go back to you original message and edit out the hate fags part - or tone it down a bit eh? Slopain IP: Logged |
bignate73 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1145) |
posted July 07, 2000 01:16 AM
i knew a woman that wanted to be a guy and was getting hormones etc. now if someone on a whim or whatever reason, decides that they need to have more hormones for whatever reason, why is it not allowed for someone to do the same for bodybuilding purposes? it seems odd that a man or woman can take hormones from the opposite sex to feel more like that sex but a bodybuilder cant take them to improve a physique. its a double standard to say the least. i wont go into my personal feelings on this issue, but i guarantee its probably something that wont be addressed in this day and age, too many rights and freedoms for the sake of making votes. ah well. rant over. ------------------ IP: Logged |
thiassi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 845) |
posted July 07, 2000 02:30 AM
You make a good point, it seems that docs are a little two faced in that respect. Now on a side note I am a little homophobic, but I thik I understand them. I like black girls. They can be mixed etc... But for some reason I don't find white girls very attractive at all. I can't tell you why, but ever since I was a litttle kid I only liked dark women. I think it is the same for gay people. L8R ------------------ IP: Logged |
Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 342) |
posted July 07, 2000 02:49 AM
Thiasis right, they can't help who they are attracted to, but they can NOT act on it and do the right thing and remain chaist. Kinda the same Like Thiassi, I only find wite women to be attractive (doesn't mean that other color women are ugly) its just how I am. IP: Logged |
Recoome Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 87) |
posted July 07, 2000 03:53 AM
I believe that men are gay because their bodies don't produce sufficent testosterone. Hence the passive behavior, high voice, small muscles, attraction to men, etc. Their bodies have above-average estrogen and low testosterone, which basically makes them think like women. It has nothing to do with how they were raised or their environment. If you lock up a man in a room for years, and put a women in there, he is naturally going to be attracted to the female. It's biology. IP: Logged |
runner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 114) |
posted July 07, 2000 08:24 AM
i'm not claiming to be an expert, but i think recoome's on the right track. i think in the womb the fetus' body has some male and female confusion. the feminine characteristics of gay males makes it SOOO obvious to me that it's something inborn. thiassi has it right, too...believe me, it's just as hard for a gay to "choose" to be attracted to females as it would be for y'all to "choose" to be attracted to males. it just ain't gonna' happen, no matter how much you want it. IP: Logged |
flashman Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 34) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:14 PM
yep, it something to do with male and female chromosomes X Y Z I don�t know what alphabet they are but apparently SOME gays have insufficient chromosomes. I personally cringe when thinking @ the gay act, but my philosophy is that as long as u don�t harm your fellow man what right does one segment of society have two impose their beliefs on others. Some Gays in history Alexander the Great and Ceaser ------------------ IP: Logged |
Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 820) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:20 PM
flashman - I have heard a whole lotta gays/bis in our history most of the ancient greek philosphers boned each other, wierd to think about it. As for the chromosone thing I think if you 1 chromosome off that makes you mentally retared or something like that. About the hormones easier for trans. to get. I dont know about you guys but I like the fact that steriods are hard to get, makes it more rare to see great built bodies, if everyone had access you wouldnt get as much respect, I think - at any rate I don't want them to be easily accesible. Slopain IP: Logged |
Caesar Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 89) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:21 PM
What are you talking about? I'm not gay. ------------------ IP: Logged |
Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 820) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:25 PM
lol! Caesar Slopain IP: Logged |
supersizeme Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 49) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:35 PM
I'm being a hypocrite by even posting on this thread but I mean come on people. This is going to turn into another retarded thread about homosexuality which has already been beaten to death like religion, abortion, etc. Someone will post some homophobic response and then half the board will get their panties in a bunch and tell the guy he's got sexuality issues and blah blah blah. Stop posting stupid shit like this which is just going to turn into another dumb debate that has already been done a billion times over. IP: Logged |
havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 249) |
posted July 07, 2000 12:45 PM
I agree with supersizeme, I have been holding back some comments myself, fuck it flame me, first I am beyond content with my sexuality, pussy and I are synonymous, we go together like tom and jerry, frick and frack, arm and hammer, spic and span, mutt and jeff, rocky and bullwinkle, thelma and louise etc. A women is a beautiful thing, probably the most beautiful thing other than a bud of the finest marijuana, anyway I think all gays (only males and ugly bitch lesbians) should be quarantined to the tip of a lifeless peninsula somewhere in the Indian Ocean. The fine ass lesbos can stay and perform. Thank You and good afternoon. IP: Logged |
BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 494) |
posted July 07, 2000 01:03 PM
Roids are banned because of the threat and fear of their wide spread use amongst kids. If you mess with the children, the government will get you! Count on it. Why do you think Xstacy is getting so much attention now?..because it has deeply infiltrated into the kids' parties and raves. The government isn't really concerned about weirdos who want to mess with their bodies but it does about kids. Also, it is out of fear for what would happend to sports. If juice were legal, could you imagine how deeply they would become rooted into sports. Sure, it would be great to watch but damn, there would be A LOT of hard core usage and the team with the best scientists would win. IP: Logged |
George Spellwin Administrator (Total posts: 414) |
posted July 07, 2000 01:44 PM
Just to respond to Jim Layhoe's original post. This has come up many times and some of you have heard me say this before. First, gays and lesbians are not interested in having a sex change they are attracted to members of the same sex. Transgendered people can be both straight or gay, but feel like they were meant to be the opposite sex. The only thing that transgendered people and gays and lesbians have in common is that all are sexual minorities. Now to address Jim's questions about why transgendered people can get hormones, but athletes cannot. The reason is because unlike us bodybuilders, the transgender community is organized, out, and willing to fight for the right to use hormones of the opposite sex. They are not afraid to stand up for their beliefs, address their opponents, and make logical arguments using their real names for their need to be able to change their sex. They worked hard for this right and it was not easy for them to obtain it. We on the other hand are unorganized, and ashamed of our wanting to enhance our masculine characteristics using hormones. Read any bodybuilding magazine, and you will hear the Pro's attribute their success to anything but anabolic steroids. Cybergenic kits come to mind. Even on this board, no one uses his real name, and we all hide behind anonymous email accounts -- we even black out our faces when we post pictures of ourselves. Until we make a stand, things are not likely to get better. This is why at the least, with every post I make here, I include my name, address, email, and phone number, to in a small way let people know that I am not ashamed. If anything, we should learn from the transgender community instead of criticizing or being jealous of them. I am certain that they would be supportive of us. ------------------ George George Spellwin
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 820) |
posted July 07, 2000 01:45 PM
good point. Slopain IP: Logged |
runner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 114) |
posted July 07, 2000 03:58 PM
damn, george, that's a strong post. btw, supersizeme, i personally think that the old saying about homophobes having their own hidden sexuality issues is bullshit. most of 'em are just ignorant...and i don't mean that as an insult, i just mean they really haven't gotten to know any "normal" gays and get their impressions from the flamers and the ones on "springer". we (fags) are not ALL like that.
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JohnnyO Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 75) |
posted July 07, 2000 04:21 PM
I to was going to avoid this 'cause we don't need to run this subject into the ground, but it's true, there are a lot of us who are not flaming, feminine, or drag queeny types. besides, if any of you guys were to hang around me I could hook you up with all the girls that make passes at me. IP: Logged |
BACKDRAFT Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 185) |
posted July 07, 2000 04:25 PM
Well said George,when people band together for what ever cause it pretty hard to stop them. ------------------ IP: Logged |
JohnnyO Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 75) |
posted July 07, 2000 04:42 PM
And as a nod to George.. John is my real name, and you can easily find me (address, phone number, everything) with little effort. I spent a long time being ashamed of all kinds of attributes about myself, but that is not the way to live. IP: Logged |
musclebear01 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 2) |
posted July 07, 2000 09:27 PM
Hello, this is my first post. We have a lot in common. I've worked for years for more size, have been on cycle enough to mutter "Sustanon" in my sleep, and I know the hard work it takes to get big and strong. (depending on whether I'm on cycle or not I range from 220 to 250 at 6' tall. Bench in the mid 300's, comfortably squat 405 for reps. 19" arms and chest a little over 50". I'm 47 and have trained since I was 29) I respect every single one of you who has busted his (or her!) butt in the gym. I'm also a gay man. If you're planning to hate me for that, well you better start doing it now. But if you'd like to share experiences in the gym (and with anabolics!), and learn from one another, I'm here. There's a lot of misunderstanding going on about what being a faggot is, and is not--since I am one, I figure I can use the word. If you like, I'll talk with any of you by e-mail or in the forums about the realities of gay life, but I'd like to remind you that what brings us together here on these boards is a hell of a lot stronger than anything that drives us apart. I wish you the best rep ever, looking forward to new friends. Don IP: Logged |
Jim Layhoe Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 567) |
posted July 07, 2000 10:13 PM
What ever your sexual pref. is,i don't care. This thread was not intended to pass judgement on anyone for thier lifestyle.I just thought it was a wierd double standard that the medical comunity and media have. IP: Logged |
mystic_hormones Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 93) |
posted July 08, 2000 02:15 AM
to the new guy. I dislike the way you think. I do not care about what you have done. but I will not bother you because of what you have done and being christian(sometimes I overreact) I believe that what god wants for you will happen. but homosexuality is not on the to-do list. you may be a good person but why go against god? guys were not made to be with guys. thats why there is women. have you tried it with a woman. I am calm right now so I will leave it at that. ------------------ IP: Logged |
JohnnyO Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 75) |
posted July 08, 2000 10:06 AM
Lots of other religions besides christian.. hail Zeus. now where did I put that golden calf? IP: Logged |
NoviceJuicer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 298) |
posted July 08, 2000 10:15 AM
I also have strong sexual preferences. I love natural blondes. Almost every girl would look better blonde in my opinion. I am not sure why I am that way, just am and can't change it. I have even tried. I have (mistakenly) gotten involved with brunettes that were really cool thinking it would not matter - but it does. If someone is gay I am sure they also cannot just decide not to be. I have had several gay and Bi friends. I had guys who lived on my street who in grade school knew they were gay and openly shared their "secret" with me. I guess I am not shocked by it since friends I knew since I was really young have been gay - and I never felt and fear or had and struggles since they knew I was not. We were always just friends who had different tastes. I feel for people trapped in lies. I had a long time friend of about 15 years recently come out of the closet. The BIG problem is he was in a marriage of 10 years with 4 kids. What trauma that is to everyone. If society was more accepting of it, at least they could admit it earlier and avoid messing up other peoples lives. But instead many feel a need to conform and write checks they can't really cash. We are who we are to a large degree. I too have tried to fake it with people I am not really attracted to - but who are great girls none the less. If we had less pressure to be a specific role, and had more freedom to be who we are - there would be alot less faking it in the world. IP: Logged |
superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 394) |
posted July 08, 2000 11:28 AM
There is a gay man at my work, you wouldnt know it by talking/looking at him. hes 40something and one of the nicest guys ive met. If you dont really know him well, he keeps his shit to himself, which is what gays should do i think. I dont go around making it obvious to people that i want to bang women, gays should do the same. Thats all i have to say about that. IP: Logged |
MattTheSkywalker Moderator (Total posts: 1188) |
posted July 08, 2000 08:57 PM
MuscleBear, Good to have you. To everyone else, the "bear" knows his stuff and will be an asset to the board if the rest of you closed minds (if the shoe fits, wear it-you know who I mean) can listen to him. Don't use the religious argument against homosexuality. Religion is an opinion, nothing more. There is no proof. People used to say AIDS was God's punishment for gays until it started decimating straight populations too. AIDS is going to wipe out sub-Saharan Africa - destroy an entire culture; who is being punished there? What are you homophobes afraid of, that you can't treat a gay person with respect? What is the damn difference, what people do on their time? Why do you care? Or are you just trying to knock someone else down to feel better about your own mediocre lives? Just need to feel secure that your lifestyle is right? That's so weak. Bring the flames. Matt IP: Logged |
Rexie317 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 279) |
posted July 08, 2000 09:09 PM
No flame coming from me Matt. I don't care what a persons sexual preference is as long as they don't try to press it on me. If a guys gay that his business. I don't give a fuck what he does with who just as long as it doesn't affect me. I prefer women, blondes or brunets that are a little shorter than me but everyones different. If a person is a homosexual it doesn't make him/her less knowedgable than a straight person, it doesnt make him/her a worse person that a straight person, and it doesn't make him/her weaker than a straight person. ------------------ IP: Logged |
mystic_hormones Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 93) |
posted July 08, 2000 11:50 PM
No beef with a mod but matt we'll see If religion is an opinion or not. Are you athiest? Remember, In the End... ------------------ IP: Logged |
MattTheSkywalker Moderator (Total posts: 1188) |
posted July 09, 2000 12:36 AM
Mystic, I really don't want to change the subject, BUT - religion is man's interpretation of what God has told us. Belief in God (for believers) is FAITH, not religion, and that is between God and the believer. Religion is the customs and ceremonies associated with a certain group and their practices of worship. Religion is NOT belief in God. Faith is. I hate to hear the "it goes against God" argument, on any topic. It may or it may not - I am not God, nor are you. It goes against your religion, and what its leaders tell you to believe. I don't believe in organized religion. My faith, on the other hand, is as I said before, is an individual matter. Matt PS Feel free to email me if you want on this topic or any other IP: Logged |
BIG RICK ROCK Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 508) |
posted July 09, 2000 01:37 AM
I have been watching this thread unfold and have been holding back from posting because I had a feeling it was gonna turn sour, however the bros are in the mood for being civilized today, so here are my $.02 First in response to "Mystic_Hormones" I have personaly met many Homosexuals in my 20 years on earth, and one thing I've noticed is that they are people just like you and me, they have jobs, pay taxes and have problems just like the rest of us, in fact I have yet to meet a single "Homo" who is not succesful in some field. they work harder than some of us straight people, they are more united and have a common goal. I can understand that some of you here can have issues with Homosexuality, but it comes from deeper problems than just "thinking it's gross" and you'll need to take a long look in the mirror and see where the real problem lies. and "Musclebear" brother we welcome you and embrace you as one of us, we know you are an individual with goals and aspirations of a better healthier body just like the rest of us, welcome to the Iron Brotherhood.
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thiassi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 845) |
posted July 09, 2000 04:33 AM
I don't want to get off the subject but for mystic_hormones: The bible says incest is a sin. How did Adam and Eve's children populate the earth? How did the children of Moses populate the earth after the flood? If there are descepances like these in the bible, why can't someone be gay? A sin is a sin, so God made man to fail. I am not gay by the way. I hate to see two men show affection in public, but I nor anyone else have any right to say or do anything about it! L8R ------------------ IP: Logged |
Whammo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 79) |
posted July 09, 2000 11:55 PM
Simple answer: If they want to be gay. Let them. How do you feel if people criticize you? Unless you can study the culture, the people, and how they think and feel along with the biology behind the whole thing, you will NEVER understand, so don't make statements trashing them unless you have the whole story. The reason they get therapy and we don't, is becuase we don't undergo 1 year of Psyche eval., physical changes (surgery, hair removal, etc), group therapy and extensive analysation. Would you go through all that for 1 year to get 1 cycle??? The doctors don't GIVE it away, it takes ALOT to get it.... George, I agree completely, but what these transgenders are doing is LEGAL. They don't have a problem with the law, only social opposition. We have BOTH to overcome. I would use my real name etc, but, when it comes to anything underground, etc, people want to be as anonymous as possible to ensure their life isn't probed into, or even ruined by the law.. etc.. until we can overcome THAT, we will get what we are looking for... That's just my 02 cents IP: Logged |
Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 933) |
posted July 10, 2000 12:24 AM
i agree with you whammo, especially the last paragraph ------------------ IP: Logged |
Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 646) |
posted July 10, 2000 08:43 AM
what's bothersome to me about the war on drugs is the shame associated with xtc. xtc is a drug that makes you feel love and belonging. yet people make it illegal and look down on it. i can't respect the war on drugs because of that. i suppose most of you won't understand my logic in this view. It's supposed to be a war against suffering & pain, or at least it was once. IP: Logged |
George Spellwin Administrator (Total posts: 414) |
posted July 11, 2000 01:03 PM
Good point Whammo. Does anyone know if gender reassignment has always been legal? I would think that it was illegal at one time, but I do not know for sure. Seems I read that people used to have to go to northern European countries for the procedure. With respect to the law and anabolic steroids, they may have never been "legal," but they only became criminal recently. I think this really sucks, but there was almost no opposition when it happened. ------------------ George George Spellwin
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Whammo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 79) |
posted July 11, 2000 03:35 PM
I think the worst thing that propigates (sp) all of the myths is our beloved friend, the media. when they say - steroids kill, drug abuse and roid rages (all the public attention-getting key words), people have no choice but to generate an opinion. I have found people WANT to have negative opinions, I was the same way as well. Everytime someone makes a comment of how steroids kill and why they are bad, I ask them what a steroid molecule is and what a receptor is, and they shut right up. Because until someone challenges the media, people will keep on believing the myth. I remember an article in MuscleMag about Greg zulak going on Morton Downey with steroids. If all is true, it was a big circus.. why? because people DON'T want to take an objective view.. PEOPLE LOVE SCANDAL, LIES AND RUMOUR. These 3 things are SIN, people love SIN. Joseph, I COMPLETELY understand.. but... it's this way I found.. anything that is underground / counterculture, people LOVE to hammer down. If it doesn't read word for word in the BIBLE/KORAN/TORRAH/ETC, or does not fit the average Joe's value system (which most underground activites don't), people look down on.. with NO EDUCATION on what it is they are criticizing. It's like what's locally happening in my town.. they are trying to REGULATE AND CONTROL RAVES, because it is "KILLING TEENS" (btw, the xtc does NOTHING to kill teens, it is the lack of drinking water / dehydration that is killing teens, they just need to be more sensible when they do XTC), just like the mass deaths we all know are caused by anabolics... can you believe that? For Raves now, the city wants 45 day advance notice, something like a $450 fee for "processing" or some BS, and adequate security. They are just going to shut the government TOTALLY off and go back underground becuase of this. I know I am off on a tangent here, but the goverment REALLY needs to take an objective, intensive and analytical investigation into RECREATIONAL (by that I mean pot, xtc, shrooms, anabolics) VS. street drugs (heroin, crack, coke, etC) and reclassify how they handle them. To all FEDS: STEROIDS ARE >>NOT<< THE SAME AS COKE - people don't sell out family and home, steal and kill to go on a cycle. Just my 2 cents.. Sorry for the rant guys, but, this is something I feel strongly about... I will stop ranting now.. [This message has been edited by Whammo (edited July 11, 2000).] [This message has been edited by Whammo (edited July 11, 2000).] IP: Logged |
Karate guy Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 504) |
posted July 12, 2000 10:22 AM
Oh well, guess I won't tell any homo jokes. As far as AS goes, hey, people are gonna take em anyway, they might as well legalize it. Then the GOV can do what they do best, tax it, and then tax it again, and again, and again, with Nafta and Gatt the imported ones would be cheaper to buy though. LOL IP: Logged |
JohnnyO Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 75) |
posted July 12, 2000 11:14 AM
I don't think any of *us* have such a thick skin where we couldn't laugh at a gay joke... (please correct me out there if I'm wrong!) I got some really funny ones. IP: Logged |
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