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dafoe69 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:21 PM
  
Please read my post I need some help bro's bad. Just some words to keep me going. IP: Logged |
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goleafs Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 305) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:24 PM
now , im trying to be sympathetic but damn bro...its only a girl. you will get over it and like the dude (sorry cant remember) in your last post said. she might come back tomorrow so dont do anything stupid.and quit depressing everyone...its been a crazy day around here. IP: Logged |
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remedy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:25 PM
Bro, I'm in the same situation as you. It's 10:20pm and I'm reading on the computer when normally I'd be getting laid or having fun with my girl who is now god knows where. There are a million people in the world right now in your same situation. You aren't alone man. When you are feeling terrible and all kinds of crazy thoughts are running through your head, just go jogging or workout or do something that totally burns your body out. Your thoughts are your reality, but your reality isn't everyone elses reality. 100% of what you are thinking about her and what she is doing or thinking is NOT TRUE. Just don't worry about it. remedy IP: Logged |
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goleafs Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 305) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:27 PM
right on , its your thoughts that'll kill ya IP: Logged |
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remedy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:29 PM
And whatever you do, stay the fuck away from her when you are like this. They hate seeing men all groveling at their feet heartbroken. Its a serious turn off. Only be around her when you are strong!!! remedy IP: Logged |
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dafoe69 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:30 PM
sorry but to the person thats going through it its not "just a girl" sorry about the posts but you guys are my only refuge right now. IP: Logged |
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Eramthgin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 276) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:45 PM
Hey dafoe69 I feel you pain. Well not really. Getting divorced so thats a win/lose situation. Getting back in to chasing ass is really tough. Some times I think I'll never get laid again but you know what I will. Take heart we have all been there and we all get through it. Take care bro. ------------------ If you enjoy it today you can always do it again tomorrow. IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 254) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:50 PM
best thing to do is see other girls since its pretty much over with you and her. you will find that there are other girls that are just as good if not better, trust me, I was in your situation last year, now its ancient history. IP: Logged |
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goleafs Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 305) |
posted June 22, 2000 10:58 PM
i didnt mean "just a girl" the way it sounds. dude ive been exactly where you are right now. the only difference is i knew to stay the fuck away from her. dont call her friends . dont talk to her fam. dont even think about her. its hard. lay off the booze , thats the worst and go build something. fix that hole in the tiles youve always been meaning to. start writing those memoires. go rent the testosterone triple threat: rambo , rocky and terminator. do guy things. i hate to be an ass , but sitting around being a sap will only worsen your situation. be proactive. IP: Logged |
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eric9999 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 5) |
posted June 22, 2000 11:16 PM
take your anger out on the iron. that's what helps me. IP: Logged |
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E M T Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 53) |
posted June 22, 2000 11:19 PM
Hey bro, I'm in your same situation. The only girl I ever fell in love with dumped me almost a year ago for no reason at all. I've dated a lot of girls since then, but I still think about her every day. I think my problem was that after we broke up I made her think that I couldn't live without her. So the only advice I can give is to show this girl how much of a good time you can have without her. It sounds that she gets pretty jealous by the way she was so upset over you talking to another girl. So, just show her what a great time you can have alone (and with other girls) and she'll probably be the one crawling back to you. IP: Logged |
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Bam-Bam Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 185) |
posted June 23, 2000 01:33 AM
BOO-HOO one day you will be married and remember the good old days when you were lonely. IP: Logged |
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