posted June 20, 2000 11:11 AM            

we recently went on a trip together to the west coast and i met someone there. i've been emailing and calling this person (B) and really think B is almost a perfect match for me...same interests and same personality type, despite the fact that i am more attracted physically to D than i am to B.

we all will be together again in october in dallas, but at this point i'm daydreaming of uprooting my life and moving out to california to be with B...i know it's stupid but that's what i'm thinking.

posted June 20, 2000 11:29 AM            

D pros-
1. is hot
2. you are happy already
3. staying with D does not involve moving

D cons-
1. has different likes and dislikes than you
2. (can't think of anymore)

B pros-
1. is hot
2. has the same like and dislikes as you

B cons-
1. is not hotter than D
2. would involve moving to be with

Conclusion:
I say stay with D. In order to be with B you'd have to pack up, move, and find a new place and job. Also from what you say B sounds like she would be you, only instead of a penis she has tits and a puss. I sure as hell know that I wouldn't want to be with a female version of myself. Now by staying with D you get to bone the hotter of the two and you also get to bust her "balls" when your fav football team beats hers.

Whatever decision ya make...make sure ya can deal with the consequences. Good luck.

posted June 22, 2000 03:08 PM            

Take charge man! Do what you need to do. It's not easy but don't second guess yourself -- it won't get you anywhere.

posted June 22, 2000 03:15 PM            

Take charge man! Do what you need to do. It's not easy but don't second guess yourself -- it won't get you anywhere.

posted June 22, 2000 03:41 PM            

if A + D = (C)
+ A + B = (C)
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A + (D + B) = (C)

(A)x(C) = (D + B) or

AC = D + B

so:

C= D/A + B/A

C= D + B

A: cancle out.

Sorry bro, your gonna get kick to the curb by both D and B if you go for B.

I think you should hang out with C for awhile.

posted June 22, 2000 06:09 PM            

Example 2:Say "D" likes to go to the opera and you don't. She goes with her opera going fans and you get to hang with your boys, who say you're whipped, and prove you're not. Sure go to the opera every once in a while just to show ya care, plus its dark in there so you can fall asleep and she won't know it.

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The power to endure pain outlives the power to inflict it...the harder the conflict the more glorious the triumph. It is dearness that gives everything its value.
-Rexie the Italian Tank.