posted June 15, 2000 12:41 PM            

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just curious how many bodybuilders are also swingers? my wife and i have been since we got married 21 years ago.

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posted June 15, 2000 12:47 PM         

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I haven't beem swinging since 4th grade. We moved to another town and my new school didn't have any monkey bars.

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posted June 15, 2000 12:48 PM            

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yours neither?? fuck and here i thought i was the only guy whos playground didnt have them. we have a nice sandbox though and at recess our teacher lets us bury each other

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posted June 15, 2000 12:52 PM            

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pretty funny, that was a good come back. NO not playgrounds. Swap wives ect....

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posted June 15, 2000 12:54 PM            

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oohhhh and here i thought you were just another child on the board. gee looks like i fucked up. to answer your question no i dont trade wives , but i do bang yours

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posted June 15, 2000 12:56 PM            

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you think that bothers me? Sorry Most couples into swinging love to see their wives banged and watching is great.

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posted June 15, 2000 12:57 PM            

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youre a good guy , email me if you need some...um...entertainment

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posted June 15, 2000 12:59 PM         

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Send her over to my place and you can videotape it.

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posted June 15, 2000 01:00 PM            

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goleafs already did before you asked

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posted June 15, 2000 01:01 PM            

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sorry thick dog , i got to her first

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posted June 15, 2000 01:03 PM            

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thick dog e mail me if you live close to dallas major party this sat nite??

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posted June 15, 2000 01:05 PM         

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The other night on Dateline or 20/20...one of those shows...there was a story on swinging couples! Crazy stuff...basically, its an orgy. Where do you go to find this crap?...not that I'm interested but just curious! Is Dallas a big swinging town?...

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posted June 15, 2000 01:08 PM            

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ever in dallas e mail me. or look up dallas night scene on web Clubs Jet set San souci Velvet curtain spankees or pick up the the paper in dallas called Dallas observer

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posted June 15, 2000 01:09 PM         

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Sorry, bro. live in South Florida. I'd love to go to a swinger's party, though. Do you need to have a wife?

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posted June 15, 2000 01:10 PM            

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Might sound crazy but the ultimate is watching your wife get banged by one guy from the rear and giving head to another guy at the same time !!!!!!awesome

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posted June 15, 2000 01:11 PM            

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youre a damn fine pervert...keep up the good work

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posted June 15, 2000 01:13 PM            

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Been to parties in dade county. No you don t have to be married . a lot of guys out there that like others to screw their wives while watching. Got into this after visiting nudist camps in florida and calf.

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posted June 15, 2000 01:24 PM         

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Man...I just don't get that! That is like watching some Joe Shmoe take your Ferrari that you worked hard for and invested a lot of time and effort and care on and letting them take it around the track and crashing it all up. How can you like some guy to bang your wife...punishing her...banging the shit out of her...having her cum all over some other dude she is lusting after...and then you have sex with her and eat her out in the same place some other mans dick was just in! Sick shit dude! ...yeah, there's a lot of worse stuff in the world but not really when you think about it. There are so many things wrong with that I don't even know where to start....

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posted June 15, 2000 01:29 PM         

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Nudist camps would be great if everyone there weren't old and fat. What is it with older people and nudity! Is that the wisdom I have to look forward to as I get older? Funny how it is the same type of old farts (over 50) that parade around locker rooms naked! I mean, WTF! Do you all of a sudden get this urge to have your wrinkled nut sack hanging free when you turn 50 or something. The saggy ass, the saggy tits, the saggin gut, etc...nasty shit no one really wants to see except your doctor, wife, ....well, at least your doctor...

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posted June 15, 2000 01:29 PM            

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hey bro, no harm intended. Its really all clean fun , you really don t know how many people are into this?? Its a lot better than adultry and yes their are many many people into this, you cant say you never thought of banging a friends wife while he helps??

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posted June 15, 2000 01:32 PM            

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I dont know which nudist camps youve been to but the ones my wife and i go to are our age 35 to 45 and yes their are some fat ones but majority are fine.

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posted June 15, 2000 01:34 PM         

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I know!...watching that TV show the other night really showed how many people are into it. Kind of hard to believe because I don't think I could EVER watch another man on my woman...if I really cared about her. But call me crazy I guess...

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posted June 15, 2000 01:36 PM            

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bigpappa no your not crazy. Its just different values and i respect that

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posted June 15, 2000 01:50 PM            

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pizza man, i've been to spanky's isn't it behind that convenience store on northwest highway?

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posted June 15, 2000 02:02 PM            

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a WRINKLED NUT SACK ?????? okay~

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posted June 15, 2000 02:05 PM            

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dlady, you lost me. i'm confused.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:08 PM            

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I didn't realize how many people were into this until about 3 years ago... there are a lot of guys that get off on watching their wives with another man or 2. I have participated in this once before but they wanted me to do it on a regular basis and I felt sorta' strange about it. I think it's better than your wife cheating behind your back...but it is still for the very open and liberal couple. Hey pizza man... post a pic of your wife here, or you can email it to me....hehe

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posted June 15, 2000 02:11 PM            

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Holy shit I clicked on this one thinking nothing of it, but whoa! I just stopped laughing. You guys are fucking crazy, but I'll thow this one in. When I first moved to the place in which I now live my roommate and I and our girls were drunk and we switched and I must say it was kinda cool watching her get fucked, but at the same time I wanted to kick the fuck out of my roommate for fucking her. I will never do that with someone that I know again. Man I feel better getting that off my chest. Can't really talk to my friends about that one. Later!

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posted June 15, 2000 02:11 PM         

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Lorenzo: dude, you have a very unorthodox lifestyle...I have been reading your posts and you're (or at least pretend to be) a stipper, jiggalo, genius, homo, a whole bunch of stuff...can't really put my finger on it. Who is the "they" that wanted you to do "it" on a regular basis? Not a flame bro...just can't really figure it out. Post a pic or something.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:13 PM            

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tri~zilla

read what bigpappa wrote about the wrinkled nut sack... that was interesting...
never saw a wrinkled nut sack, old one that is.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:19 PM            

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posted June 15, 2000 02:19 PM            

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BigPappa--- I'm definately not a homo. I am a stripper however. The story: I did a show and after one girl (28years old) comes up and says "my husband has always wanted to see me with another men".. I have these pictures that I sign and I wrote: "I'll do whatever it takes to make your husband happy..haha"referring to fucking her would make him happy. So I left her my pager number and a week later I was fucking her while her husband was there watching. I did that one more time but they wanted to do it like every week....and I didn't.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:24 PM         

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wow...that's crazy man....don't think I'd have the balls for that. Can't really have sex with a woman with another man in the room...

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posted June 15, 2000 02:28 PM            

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swing aint my thing...but i do a pretty mean tango.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:31 PM            

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it was definately strange at first. We had some wine abnd chatted for a good hour before we did anything. But when we started he wasn't there...then when she went down on me he came into the room and started jeking off..... I felt damn weird!! But after I knew he wasn't going to freak out and I relaxed it was a blast!! He was telling her to talk really dirty to me... I didn't know this at the time, so when she was sying...fuck me harder and cum all over me, etc. I was like shhhh..shhh...YOU HUSBAN IS HERE!! BE QUIET!! But thats what he wanted....OK!

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posted June 15, 2000 02:34 PM            

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Now, that is gross. they were complete strangers to you lorenzo? this is a question... or did you become friends of theirs first?
that to me is just not right

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posted June 15, 2000 02:39 PM         

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Dude, you are a prostitute. Question: Do you think that's cool? Honestly? I am fascinated by people who can do shit like that...I mean, what is sacred to you if the intimacy and privacy of a man and woman isn't? ..and don't give me this family, life, religion bullshit. Did you get paid? So, a man and a woman approached you at one of your stripper shows, and then you go to their home, bang his wife, and they pay you for it? You are a prostitute dude! Not name calling, just the truth. Last time I checked the dictionary, that was a prostitute.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:42 PM            

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Well, I spoke to them several times on the phone over the course of a week. I wanted to make it clear that they knew what they were doing. They were childhood sweethearts and had been together since they were 13 and had been married since they were 18... This was their first time trying this and I just wanted to make sure that the husband understood what was going to happen and that the bast laid palns don't always end up going the way you plan. ANyway it was only supposed to be an oral thing.... When I met up with them we sat and talked to see if we were comfortable.... They were really nice people but I hadn't known them my whole life if thats what you are asking. I'm glad I was (am) not very close because that would have made it even more strange. And, of course protection was used. I'm sure that you have been with men that you didn't know for years! How long did you know the gut that you were screwing around with the other night?

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posted June 15, 2000 02:46 PM            

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Only she approached me at the show. I did not get paid for it. I thought it would be a once in a lifetime experience that I could say I did. I don't want to do it again necessarily. Do not call me a funking prostitute you fuck!! They would have found someone else. As far as I am concerned there is not a goddam thing wrong with what I did! SO FUCK OFF!

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posted June 15, 2000 02:50 PM            

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I aint knocin it. But this shit is foriegn to me. I have had sex with other people in the room, other couples in the room, and on a couple of occasions with some people watching us, but never someones wife or anything. I don't know how you could stand your wife sucking another mans dick never ming getting trucked by him. Makes me mad thinking about it.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:50 PM            

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I agree with you on this one, BigPappa.

I just do not find stuff llike this "right" at all, some people would even say that is the devil doing his work on you.

nope, I wouldn't do that stuff.

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posted June 15, 2000 02:53 PM         

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I guess we just differ...just reading your last answer is odd. You talked about it on the phone, make sure its comfortable, sat and talked to see if "we were comfortable", etc...Its as if you think you are providing some type of health service, or community service. Does anyone else think there is something wrong in general with the way this guy speaks?

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posted June 15, 2000 02:55 PM            

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If we lived in a world where everyone thought the same exact way...we would be nowhere!! It would be boring as hell!

Now I have had enough of this stupid board. I am never coming back here. I am going back to the boards from where I came...where people aren't so damn judgemental. Bye.

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posted June 15, 2000 03:00 PM            

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To each his own, but i know that i could never do that with a girlfriend let alone a wife.

I don't know how you can do it, i don't understand it, but if you like it than have fun.

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posted June 15, 2000 03:01 PM         

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Lorenzo: I apologize ...didn't mean anything bro...all this test. is getting to my head. Also, I was only kidding about knowing who you are...easy trick to play on someone on the internet and scare them. To each his own! You are absolutely right! Some of my habits and life choices are just as unique.

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posted June 15, 2000 03:03 PM            

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oh, my BP you scared him away! why do people get so mad when they are only on a computer??

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posted June 15, 2000 03:04 PM            

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BigPappa--- thanks. But I think you know a little more (about me) than you say. I don't know how...but you seem to. That makes me just a liitle uncomfortable.

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posted June 15, 2000 03:17 PM         

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really? Do you know Susan P.? that's my girlfriend and her neighbor's middle name is lorenzo...he lifts but swears he doesn't use this board. His skin is like leather and he dies his hair black...dude, is this you? if it is, no biggie here...we can hang together.

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posted June 15, 2000 03:21 PM            

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no that's not me thank god...
I do use the tanning bed too much and bleach my hair too much.
Anyway, I will be gone for a while at least.....
I wish you all the best...I really do.

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posted June 15, 2000 03:26 PM            

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hey pizza man i live about 2 hours away and come to dallas a lot. i would like to see what the hell this is all about. i might be in this weekend so e-mail and i might swing on by. haha

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posted June 15, 2000 04:32 PM         

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Dallas ROCKS, I live in good ol' S.A. I have alot of "fun" when go up there. BEUTIFUL, women there bros!!!!!

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posted June 15, 2000 04:39 PM            

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dubsack, check your email,

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posted June 15, 2000 04:41 PM            

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I'm not currently married but I hope that I will marry a girl who would be into that sort of thing. It's seems like a great friggin time. The trouble is finding a girl who's into that.

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posted June 15, 2000 04:46 PM         

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roobie, youd be surprised how women are into women, and theyre into that theyd probably be up for more. I could share my lady with another guy, with other women yes... anytime.

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posted June 15, 2000 04:50 PM            

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weird shit............

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posted June 15, 2000 04:53 PM            

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Thank you bros for all your responses, its great to know that the majority of you all are not judgemental. To each his own. If ever in plano look me up Ballys at alma st. and parker st. (I live there 90% of the time Ask for Pat> )

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posted June 15, 2000 05:06 PM         

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Two guys double teaming my wife would result in double if not triple homocide. First degree of course. Now two women and my wife is grounds to break out the video camera. Being naked with ANY other guy in a room has always sounded kind of gay to me. Too much Sunday school for me I guess-

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posted June 15, 2000 05:18 PM            

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i'll actually miss lorenzo. why does everyone hafta' bash different viewpoints?

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posted June 15, 2000 05:22 PM            

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About two years ago, I was seeing this girl that was kinda freaky. She loved all sorts of crazy stuff. She brought me into this swinger's club in NYC called Le Trepeze. It was all dark and shady inside. We had to undress and wear towels. We saw some crazy shit. Many people just going at it!!! Some were all busted looking but, some were hot as hell!! My girl comes up to me with some little Puerto Rican girl and they are all over me. It was pretty cool except the fact that some dudes just want to stand and watch while jerking themselves!! I had a problem withall those dudes standing around. we ending up leaving with her but, it basically ended there. It was a little different. I don't know if I would let another man touch my girl. It may seem selfish but, that would do nothing for me.

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posted June 15, 2000 05:22 PM            

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I couldn't share a woman - if I were calling her MY woman - with another guy. I have had a girl invite one of her girlfriends over. And she was really - I mean REALLY - into watching me do the other girl. But when I talked about enjoying it later it bothered her.
I agree with BPP - for me it's an intimacy thing. I think. I just couldn't abide the idea of another man touching my woman.

And for those who remember, yes, I'm the same guy who said I've often been the other man in a cheating situation. I guess I just keep an emotional detachment in those situations. Or at least I try to. I'm not always successful at that. Usually I haven't known the boyfriend, so I could keep him out there as an abstract concept, without having to think about the girl being with him.

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posted June 15, 2000 06:32 PM            

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so what your saying is:
1. I don't need to bring my gf to this swingn club to get in.
2. Me and my boys, we just show up and double team some1 elses pumkin
3. All this shit is Free except for door fee and drinks
4. free fuck and no commitment.
5. I know I got the body and when it comes to sex, I'm very comforable being naked
6. it's show time!!!!

there's a different b/t making loving and having sex, THIS IS PURE SEX.

SWEET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I"M DOWN WITH O.P.P

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posted June 15, 2000 06:38 PM            

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since highschool, a buddy i grew up with; we been bangin chix together for yearz. . they called us tag team all through highschool, we never have contact with each other, but we both love seeing a girl with a pipe in her mouth and in the puss .. i swear all women we have done have comeback atleast twice for more, this includez: girlfriendz and married women. . hehehe how would ya like to walk in on two guyz railing your wife? hahahah thatz us! women are just as crazy as men, ya just gotta know how to rub em right. ..

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posted June 15, 2000 10:32 PM            

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thanks again for all the replys, its a great feeling that most of you all dont damn anybody for doing wierd stuff.

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posted June 16, 2000 01:03 AM         

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Me and my best friend were at a bar and I picked up a chick and was gonna take him home on the way to my house. We stopped at his house, and we all went in, and the girl started making out with both of us. First me and I guess she had her hands on him while she was kissing me, then she starts kissing him while groping me. We looked at each other and smiled. I immediatly got naked and started to bang her from behind while she sucked my buddies dick. We were just laughing at her. We both took turns banging her while she sucked off the other guy all night long. In the morning I took her back to her car and she said "Thanks for a great night." No exchange of numbers or anything. It was great. We saw her again in a different bar while we were with our girlfriends and she was very cool.

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posted June 16, 2000 01:32 AM            

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This swinging shit is weird but I know so many people who are into it. I can't possibly imagine anyone else banging my girl, and if I saw it happen, I think I really would kill the guy. (And by the way Mr. T, it's not first degree murder. It's called voluntary manslaughter).

Anyway, check this out. I have a friend who has been married for several years (he's 24 years old), and both him and his wife swing. But here's the deal: He's allowed to bang whoever he wants, whenever he wants (including kicking the wife out of bed so he can fuck some other chick.) She's totally cool with it. She's allowed to be with other chicks, but she isn't allowed to bang any other guys. And get this... they both LOVE the arrangement. Now, that's pretty extreme. Most of the other swinging couples I know literally swap parties, and a lot of them go to this huge party up in Escondido (a little north of San Diego) every Saturday night for the huge swinger's party. It's $20 to get in. All you need to do is bring a partner and have fun. I could never do anything like this, but I just wanted to let you guys know that down here in Southern California, swinging is fairly popular.

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posted June 16, 2000 01:57 AM            

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man, this sounds like a good place to take your date on the first date huh?

A FUCK IS JUST A FUCK, nothing personal.

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posted June 16, 2000 02:05 AM            

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well I cant honestly say I would get into this stuff myself (now, being single this is all hypothetical of course)
1) dont really want to watch another person (even a woman) sleeping with my wife
2) even if caught up in the passion, would have serious guilt/moral conflicts after wards
3) dont judge others who are into swinging... if both partners are honest and upfront and into it, more the power to you
4) in my opinion it isnt horrible, like cheating on a spouse, where the lying and deception can really hurt someone

so as long as both partners are agreeable (and not doing it to please the other one) I suppose its fine, but I always wonder if the relationship is solid if you are seeking outside intervention to stimulate your love making... just my two cents worth on the topic... I dont expect everyone (or even most) to share my morals, which are a little old fashioned

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