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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 01:37 AM
  
WELL TODAY I THINK IT ENDED.....SHE DECIDED TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE TONIGHT....SAID I WAS TOO PASSIVE FOR HER,TOO LAID BACK...ALSO SAID MY WORKING OUT IS ANNOYING HER AND MY DIET...SHE ALSO PROCEEDED TO TELL ME SHE WANTS DO AS MANY THINGS WITH AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE BEFRE SHE LEAVES FOR SCHOOL....FUCK I GUESS YOU WIN SOME AND LOSE ALOT.....IM EMOTIONALLY FUCKED AT THIS POINT IT FUCKING SUCKS SO BAD...SHE SAID SHE WANTS TO STILL BE FRIENDS AND SHIT....GODDAMN THIS SUCKS.....SHOULD I STILL BE FRIENDS???EVERYTIME I SEE HER I WANT HER SO BAD.....GODDAMNIT....LIFE FUCKING SUCKS......NOW WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? IP: Logged |
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studcj Amateur Bodybuilder |
posted June 08, 2000 01:43 AM
Same goddam thing happened to me 6 months ago. DON'T BE FRIENDS! MAKE HER FEEL BAD FOR THIS SHIT! Don't talk to her or anything. It's gonna hurt a while, but concentrate on all the bad things about her. You should be seeing "bitch" every time you see her. Let this motivate you to lift harder, then you can laugh your ass off when she's with some little fag with a beer gut, that is afraid to change a goddam tire. JUST REMEMBER: DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH HER. SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOUR FRIENDSHIP! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Kahn Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 359) |
posted June 08, 2000 01:52 AM
Fuck being friends. I still don't talk to my ex wife. She's at divorce +50 or 60 lbs now. I saw her fat ass last week downtown and walked right past her and didn't recognize her! I was shocked when it dawned on me who the fat bitch was. I've referred to her as cunt so long that people that new us can't remember her real name anymore. Her boyfriend(she can't find anybody) looks like he's had a stroke. I've got a beautiful wife and a 4 yr old daughter now. I'm 20 lbs heavier, too, but mine is muscle. It gets better man, I would have never even asked for what I have now. Look ahead, it out there. IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:00 AM
THANKS GUYS I NEED IT RIGHT ABOUT NOW..IM ACTUALLY FUCKING UPSET...MOTHERFUCK GIRLS AND LOVE....MOTHERFUCK THEM AND THEIR MATERIALISTIC WAYS.......THIS SHIT SUCKS TOTALLY........TOTALLY IP: Logged |
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blackhaus1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 487) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:05 AM
Steel, I am probably the last one that should be giving relationship advice at this point b/c everyone knows abuot my deal,which for some reason I am still working on. However, if she told you that she wants to do all these things before she goes away to school, shes obviously very immature. Let her do her thing. Shes not ready for a real relationship...BTW how old is she..18? About being friends...don't let anyone make this decision for you! You know whether or not you want this person in your life or not. If you're like me, you'd want to stay friends b/c its better than being without her all together. Theres the reverse side that being friends is just going to make it harder to get over her...Its your call. As for her being bothered by your diet and whatnot, thats her issue; you need to find someone who will appreciate you for every bit of greatness that you have. You are who you are, and NO ONE should ever try to change that. Email me if you want to talk because I am going through the same thing (except I was dumped suspiciously)... ------------------ [This message has been edited by blackhaus1 (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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studcj Amateur Bodybuilder |
posted June 08, 2000 02:09 AM
I felt like it was impossible for this shit to ever go away when it happened to me. I spent soo much time thinking about what I did wrong, and what I should have done. What I realize now, is that she is the one who fucked up. It's her loss. You'll spend so much time trying to forget about her, that one day you will wake up and realize that she is no longer a factor in your life. I know what your going through. It sucks and it's gonna suck for about a month. I drank alot and that helped. After she broke up with me I recieved 10 scholarships, broke school records, and I have put on about 15lbs of muscle. I am also dating a girl that is 20 times better than she ever will be. Trust me, it all gets better, but it takes a while. Just stay motivated and don't go into depression. We're here IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:12 AM
Don't be her friend. AFter that whole Tolliver incident and you confessing what you felt to her, she had the nerve to dump you!!! Fuck her, call that Brazillian chick and move on bro. Guess that means no internet pics huh IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:18 AM
SORRY TO LET YOU DOWN WITH THE PICS GUYS........I CANT STAND THIS SHIT RIGHT NOW ALL I WANT TO DO IS GO OVER HER HOUSE RIGHT NOW AND BE WITH HER....ITS DRIVING ME INSANE....EVERYTHING I HAVE AROUND ME HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH HER...THE SHOES I HAVE ON THE PANTS IM WEARING EVERYTHING HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH WHAT SHE WANTED....THIS IS REALLY GETTING TO ME....DAMN I WANT SOME HALO AND WANT TO LIFT RIGHT NOW OR DESTROY SOMETHING IM SO ON EDGE RIGHT NOW... IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:19 AM
Don't drink STEEL, ignore that bit of advise by stud, only masks the pain and keeps you from deeling with it which you'll have to do anyways. IP: Logged |
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studcj Amateur Bodybuilder |
posted June 08, 2000 02:22 AM
I didn't recommend it. Especially if your on cycle, but I just said that it helped. When I say "drank alot" that means that I went out with my bro's and hit up the clubs every weekend, and got pretty smashed. That's all IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:22 AM
ANY ADVICE ON HOW I CAN GET MY ANGER AND PAIN OUT ...I WONT TURN TO DRUGS OR ALCOHOL IP: Logged |
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ryry Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 300) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:25 AM
i feel for ya steely, as for staying friends, thats up to you. i dated this girl who was by best friend and when the realtionship ended we still remained friends, and guess what... she is still one of my better friends if not my best. as far as for getting over this girl the best way is to realize that you were better off w/o her in the first place. best way to do that is to realize that she was a no good, cheating, lying, filthy whore! use that as a motivation to better yourself and show her what she passed up bro... hope you feel better. as for getting your anger out, go hit the gym bro. i guarantee once you hit that "i'm better than her mode", you'll be breaking some of your own personal lifting records ------------------ "The race is long and hard... and in the end, it's only with yourself." [This message has been edited by ryry (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:31 AM
The best thing to do is to meet someone else AS SOON AS YOU CAN! Tomorrow, talk to a girl... any cute girl. There are a lot of nice, beautiful women out there that can make you happy. When you meet someone nice and pretty, you will be amazed how quickly you will forget about this bitch. Try to go out with a couple of women at the same time so that you don't get emotionally hooked to one because you are vulnerable right now and if you become attached, the same thing could possibly happen. So, go out, meet someone and have a good time with them....keep it lite. This will be a distant memory soon. IP: Logged |
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blackhaus1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 487) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:31 AM
Steel, I know the exact feelings that you're having, b/c I am dealing with the same shit..Except he keeps calling me after he broke up with me; i guess just to make sure that i don't get over him. As for your anger, I like to run when I get pissed. I feel like Forrest Gump, I can run so much. Or head to the gym b/c working out gets agression out too. Or if you have a certain friend that puts up with venting, try talking. Just remember...if you keep doing things that are good for you, you'll see her after the freshman 15 and laugh b/c she got fat and u look hot..MWAH..i feel your pain! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:32 AM
Take up boxing man. Hitting something is the all time best stress reliever, beats even wieghtlifting, Imagine her face is the bag, that'll get you real fired up. And what about that Brazilian chick? IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:33 AM
MAN IM FEELING IT RIGHT ABOUT NOW.....IM SITTING IN THIS CHAIR HANDS GETTING SHAKY......FUCK I NEED TO DO SOMETHING...THIS IS SO FUCKING BAD...IM SITTING BACK THINKING OF ALL THE THINGS WE DID....IM ALSO THINKING ITS GONNA HAPPEN AGAIN WHEN I FIND SOMEONE ELSE.....WHY THE FUCK IS IT ALL A GAME???THIS SUCKS SO BAD,CAUSE IM SO FUCKING LOYAL TO EVERY SINGLE PERSON I KNOW...I WOULD HAVE DIED FOR HER....NOW TO GET TREATED LIKE THIS IS MAKING ME SICK....SICK AS FUCK....ALL I WANT TO DO SMASH THIS FUCKING MONITOR AND KEYBOARD...PLEAS DONT MAKE ME DO IT. IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:37 AM
Dude, run out in your garage and bash something that won't hurt your hand (like a wall) you gotta get that anger outa your system IP: Logged |
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ryry Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 300) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:39 AM
don't smash your computer bro! who else is going to post all this stupid stuff on the chat room (j/k). but if you do your just going to kick over yourself in the head as soon as you get your thought process back. if its a nice evening out just go take a walk and think. hopefully it will clear your head and you'll feel better. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:39 AM
Or scream at the top of your lungs and cry. Gotta get it out man IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:41 AM
MAN YOU GUYS ARE KEEPING ME UP....SHIT IF I DIDNT HAVE THIS ID GO BERSERK AND DO DAMAGE...I WISH WE COULD ALL GET TOGETHER...THIS IS WHAT I LIKE ABOUT YOU GUYS...EVEN THOUGH I PLAY AROUND ON HERE ALOT AND SAY SOME THINGS THAT ARENT VERY NICE IM A GOOD PERSON AT HEART AND REALLY APPRECIATE WHAT YOU ALL ARE DOING FOR ME...YOU GUYS REALLY MEAN ALOT TO ME.IM SUPPOSED TO GO WITH HER TO A PARTY THIS SATURDAY ...SHOULD I STILL GO? IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:43 AM
Fuck no, she hurt you, don't be afraid to do the same. Have you told her you didn't want to break up anyways? IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:43 AM
The fact is that you just need to live and learn. I was like you when I was younger...I gave women WAAAAY too much credit. You need them in your life, but you have to make sure that you don't kiss their ass. They will shit on you as you are kissing it. I have learned that ALL women are whores. Plain and simple. It's just the degree of whore that differentiates them. Women biologically seek more than one partner because it increases the changes of fertility. They don't do it on purpose all the time, but we have evolved to survive. With technology this is not necessary because people live longer and there is lower death rate at birth etc. but our evolution had not caught up. So, women have to sleep around by nature. I know for a fact that women cheat more then men...you just have to accept that and not expect perfection from the next woman that you meet. Then you will not be disappointed. IP: Logged |
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blackhaus1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 487) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:47 AM
Steel, I wouldn't do the party thing..too much too quick can't be good. If you have Instant Messenger...i'd be glad to try to talk ya thru this... Lorenzo, I am highly offended...I am not a whore and I NEVER cheat on my boyfriend! I happen to be a good person who always gets shit on in relationships. So for you to make a rash generalization by calling ALL women whores is ridiculous. It might have something to do with the fact that you're a stripper and most strippers are whores and thats what you have become accustomed to, but don't go giving good people a bad rap too! It pisses me off when someone that has been burned makes a generalization like this. I really liked you until u posted that... ------------------ [This message has been edited by blackhaus1 (edited June 08, 2000).] [This message has been edited by blackhaus1 (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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ryry Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 300) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:48 AM
hey steely, check your email. i got to go to bed right now but i sent you something that should bring a smile to your ugly mug... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:51 AM
No shit Lorenzo, you actualy think women cheat more then men do? Bullshit. Maybe you just got horrible luck man. Bottom line is that there are plenty of men and women out there going through the same thing. It happens to everybody IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:52 AM
WHERE CAN A COMPLETELY FAITHFUL GUY LIKE ME FIND A GIRL WITH VALUES LIKE BLACKHAUS?I HAVE YET TO FIND A GIRL WORTH ANYTHING WHO WANTS NOTHING MORE THAN TO JUST BE WITH ME...NOT MONEY, MATERIALISM...JUST ME..THAT IS ALL I ASK FOR...SOMEONE TO DEVOTE TIME FOR ME.....SEE ON THE PHONE SHE SAID SINCE I NEVER ASK HER OUT ON DATES AND TAKE HER OUT SHE DOESNT THINK I CARE.....I DONT LIKE DATES CAUSE THEY ARE SO SUPERFICIAL...I JUST LIKE SOMEONE I CAN BE WITH...IM NOT INTO THE CLUB SCENE OR DRUGS OR ALCOHOL...WHERE AM I TO LOOK? IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:54 AM
blackhaus1--- you are still young. Wait 'til you are in your late 20's early 30's (your sexual prime). You may be able to fight the urges....but they are (will be) there. It's the best defense for us men to understand this. It keeps us from feeling betrayed and hurt. IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:56 AM
THANKS RY RY I DID MANAGE A SMILE...THANKS MAN.. IP: Logged |
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blackhaus1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 487) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:58 AM
Steel, Marry me...I got dumped b/c he said we stayed in too much and watched movies!!!!! B/c I didn't wanna go clubbing with him, b/c theres no need for that when you have someone...U have instant messenger or no?? Lorenzo, FOr someone who pretends to know so much, you really have your head up your ass. Not every girl is a whore, plain and simple. I have morals, values, and religion. I have no need to sleep around, and why the fuck would any woman sleep around to increase chances of fertility??? I don't want babies jsut yet thank you. And sex won't make a relationship... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:58 AM
NO-- I have the best luck. You know how many bachelorettes (women that are getting married in a week) are unfaithful at their bachelorette party? A LOT! I KNOW. Along with these bachelorette are married women that are unfaithful.... they are much more sexual then men! No Doubt. See, I get to see first hand how unfaithful they are. It's really great for me. IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:02 AM
Your a DumbFuck dude. Maube they do that at there parties, but I gaurantee you that the guys are twice as worse at there parties. Are you the male stripper or something, and thats how you know IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:03 AM
YEAH I GOT INSTANT MESSESNGER AND AOL.....MY SCREEN NAMES ARE THE TRUE ADONIS AND NATURAL VANITY......TALK TO ME BLACKHAUS YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL. IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:04 AM
Hey Steel, if you have aol find a womens type of chatroom and ask the ladies for advise IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:05 AM
It's just biology... not a purposeful effort on the part of most women. They are just made with that biological need that's all. Once us men realize that, we won't hold women to such a high expectation. Younger men especially need to not become so attached to a woman. It leads to what we have here....sadness. blackhaus1---relax, you are a nice girl and have good values. That's nice to see. IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:09 AM
Austin316---OK... I'm wrong you are right. Sorry for being so stupid ...I need to get my head out of my ass. Good luck to you all. IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:09 AM
LOL IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:15 AM
And thats the bottom line, cause Stone Cold said so!!!! IP: Logged |
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lorenzo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:20 AM
AMEN IP: Logged |
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Capt'n_Crunch Amateur Bodybuilder |
posted June 08, 2000 03:29 AM
Forget her steel, if you guys stay friends its just going to really piss you off when you meet her new boyfriend. You dont need her bro, if she cant appreciate you for who you are and cant respect your dreams and goals than she aint the one for you. Just think about it.... do you really want to share your life with someone who doesnt care about your aspirations? You'll be alright bro, just keep your head up and remember you always got us brothers to lean on IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 100) |
posted June 08, 2000 07:09 AM
Oh Steel, thats too bad. Be patient...there are a lot of good women out here. (Although it never seems like it when relationships end, does it?) There ARE women who appreciate guys who don't like to go out and party all the time. There are even women who appreciate and admire men who work hard on themselves...even if they do eat every two hours!  Take it easy guy...the right on will come along.IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 89) |
posted June 08, 2000 08:39 AM
Steel, I think you should go to the party with her Saturday. Sometimes girls go thru the "sewing their oats" stage just like men do. If though she is wanting to date you and sleep with other guys then just try to be her friend. My current bf doesn't like the social life either so one night a week I go out with friends and then spend my quiet time with him, we enjoy saying home together. As long as you can trust her when she is out you might want to try that. But if all she wants is someone to spend $$ on her to let her know they care then she isn't worth loving!!! I was with someone for 3 1/2 years and he ended it with me, I sobbed and started to destroy myself, but then I realized I don't need someone that doesn't Love me for who I am! So you learn to deal with it in your own way. 2 Months later he wanted me back and I said no, he decided to try suicide, and yes, I went back with him then just long enough for him to get better. We finally decided to part are separate ways and just be friends!! The good news is, HE is now my best friend, he still loves me and I still love him but only as friends, I am the one now he calls when he is having girls problems and needs advice. (and it's actually funny hearing him talk about the sex he has with them) We realize now that being friends is the best thing we could have ever decided to do. Yes, it will take a while to "move on" but when you least expect it love will find you! Don't look for it. Concentrate on yourself now and doing what YOU like to do. Don't ever change your TRUE self for some woman. And this is coming from a woman. Cause in the long run they will abuse you and then that is when the "game" goes into play. Stay Stong Buddy!!! IP: Logged |
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MrMuscle2 unregistered (Total posts: 89) |
posted June 08, 2000 09:10 AM
"SHE ALSO PROCEEDED TO TELL ME SHE WANTS DO AS MANY THINGS WITH AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE BEFRE SHE LEAVES FOR SCHOOL" am i the only one that thinks this sounds like one major bitch? i know you love her man, but you can do a HELL of alot better. and besides, you still got me to kick around. ------------------ "..damn you for not giving me my TEST. " - Metallica IP: Logged |
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Fish Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 265) |
posted June 08, 2000 09:39 AM
I don't post at night, so I am late on this one, but Sorry for you. blackhaus1 is right, she is too immature for a real relationship. About how to get your anger and pain out? I broke up with a girl of 5 years, engaged and all. Did not want to do it, neither did she, she just would not quit doing coke. I could not be around that. Anyway I swam like a mad man everyday till I could not move. Maybe the gym will help ya???? Good luck. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 382) |
posted June 08, 2000 11:38 AM
Sorry Steely first chance I have got to see this one. Dude - fuck this girl. Please, and I dont mean physically. You need to not get in contact with her period. She has said some very hurtful things - dont try to rationalize it. This girl wants to do things with as many people as she can? She gets annoyed b/c your too easy going, maybe you should have been an asshole to her. And whatever you do dont go to any party where she is at, unless your ready to bring it like a man and hhok up with some chicks in front of her - but I don't think that sounds like a good move for you right now. You need to lose this girl bro - she has made it very easy for you to understand what your next move should be, please don't compromise your self respect bro - GOOD LUCK AND DO THE RIGHT THING! We are all with you whatever your decision. Slopain IP: Logged |
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2BIG4U Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted June 08, 2000 12:08 PM
Get really drununk and fuck her bst friend...that always brings them back when she sees you with 1 of her friends, or totally ruins everything....You can't just be "friends" after something like that IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 118) |
posted June 08, 2000 12:18 PM
For the most part, Lorenzo is right. Only good looking...REALLY good looking men know what he is talking about. Women cheat just as much, if not more, than men..they just make it count when they do it. Recent survey (saw it on CNN) put men and woman in par with this. No joke. Anyway, the worse thing about dating is the possibility of a broken heart. It is always there...lurking...someone will get their heart broken or you'll both end up at the alter. Statistically speaking, it will be the former. BUT..and this is a big BUT, we can't go on living out of fear of that or else we'll grow old alone. So, we go out and we date and you just have to accept the risk..or you can choose to grow old alone and not date but that's not realistic. I really can't give you any more advice...everyone handles break ups differently. Matters of the heart are the worse...i would rather have a broken arm, leg, or root canal than a broken heart. It eats away at you like a plague until you wake up one day and its 10% less, then another 10%, and another, and so forth, until its gone. IP: Logged |
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sammythebull Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 36) |
posted June 08, 2000 12:40 PM
I agree with 2big4u go screw her friend. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Life is way too short to sweat the small stuff. It sounds like you are pretty young and believe me things get much better as you get older so don't sweat it it isn't worth your time. [This message has been edited by sammythebull (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Steelsoldier Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 145) |
posted June 08, 2000 12:58 PM
Best thing to do steel.
This is no joke steel the less she sees that you don't need her to occupy your time the more she will need to see what you have been up too! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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FitnessChick Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 636) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:03 PM
Sorry to hear that....figure you don't want to hear this but if it didn't happen it probablbly wasn't meant to be....you need to find a girl who loves you for what you are, a girl who understands & supports what is important to you whether or not she likes it....you deserve better, so don't settle for second best....she is all you know right now, so she seems the best option...mark my words, you will find a better girl.... IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:57 PM
THANKS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT...THIS SHIT HAS BEEN KILLING ME SO FAR BUT IM TAKING IT LIKE A MAN....I KNOW FOR A FACT SHE WILL NEVER EVER FIND A PERSON LIKE ME AND FOR THAT SHE WILL LIVE FOREVER WITH THAT POOR CHOICE SHE HAS MADE.WHAT IM GOING TO DO IS GET IN THE GYM AND FOCUS....FOCUS REAL HARD AND MAKE EVEN MORE DRASTIC IMPROVEMENTS...SO NEXT TIME I HAPPEN TO RUN INTO HER,SHE WILL REALIZE WHAT SHE GAVE UP.WHAT I HAVE FOUND LATELY FOR EVERY NEGATIVE THING THERES AN EASIER WAY TO TURN IT INTO A POSITIVE....IN TAHE LONG RUN I KNOW I WILL EVENTUALLY COME OUT BETTER AND SHE WILL BE THE ONE LIVING IN DOUBT.ILL ACCEPT THIS LOSS,NOT AS A FAILURE.I DIDNT FAIL.SHE FAILED ME. ALL I CAN DO IS FOCUS ON THE FUTURE,WHATEVER THAT MAY BE.ONE THING IS CERTAIN SHE WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE BURDEN THAT SHE RUINED WHAT COULD HAVE SAVED HER,SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY CARED FOR HER.I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU FOR SUPPORTING ME AND BEING BY MY SIDE.YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH YOU GUYS HELPED ME THROUGHOUT THIS WHOLE ORDEAL.EVERYDAY ITS A DIFFERENT STRUGGLE,I JUST GOT TO ROLL ON.THANKS AGAIN GUYS AND GIRLS FOR YOUR HELP.NOTHING LEFT TO DO BUT PUMP SOME MORE IRON. IP: Logged |
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Fish Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 265) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:00 PM
What a speech! Good luck, better hunting! ------------------ [This message has been edited by Fish (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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ryry Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 300) |
posted June 08, 2000 05:06 PM
sob(tear in my eye)... that was beautiful man. glad your turning this experience into something positive. live and learn as i always say. BTW, what movie did you get those lines from (spoken like a true poet) ------------------ IP: Logged |
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2BIG4U Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted June 08, 2000 05:54 PM
Steel, I'm going to toss a few back tonight in your name. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, I'm sure you will make te best decision for you and only you not because of what we had to say....but it was a eal good discussion.. Lot of Luck to ya!! IP: Logged |
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2BIG4U Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted June 08, 2000 05:57 PM
Steel, I'm going to toss a few back tonight in your name. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, I'm sure you will make te best decision for you and only you not because of what we had to say....but it was a eal good discussion.. Lot of Luck to ya!! IP: Logged |
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Checkmatebloated Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 341) |
posted June 08, 2000 06:24 PM
Can't be friends. you will always have that emotional attatchment. Phuk her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know it sucks but as everybody says and it is true, time will help pass the pain. IP: Logged |
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bignate73 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 854) |
posted June 08, 2000 08:13 PM
steel hang in there bro. stay focused on you and you'll be fine. emotions are pretty rough to deal with but an outlet is what you have and it will only better you. keep your head up and keep growin. peace IP: Logged |
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sandiegomike Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 23) |
posted June 09, 2000 12:45 AM
she is not your ememy. your pain and anger is your enemy. this is what can destroy your life! in life you might date as many as 100 or more of the wrong girls, she definitley won't be the last. if you put yourself through this every time you split up with a girl, your life will be a disaster! i used to put myself through the same emotions as you are going through, i understand completely. all i can say is that by age 24, i put myself through this soo many times already that i was either gonna go completely mad, or stop myslef from being a slave to my own pain. at 30, i still haven't met the right girl, many of them not worth their own weight in salt, and have dated at least 100 women. wheres the right one??? who knows..... but at this point anymore i just take them out on dates and have fun. i never expect anything more ovrwhelming than that to come out of it. just enjoy yourself buddy, don't do this to yourself. we are here to enjoy our lives. lots of women lie down the road ahead of you, just enjoy them as they come along, and smile at the fun you had as they pass out of your life. do this and you will have fun in the meantime, and when the time is right i still truly believe the "one" will come along. IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 09, 2000 12:50 AM
Hey STEEL< how'd ypur day go bro, you still bent up about this, whats the update? IP: Logged |
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2BIG4U Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted June 09, 2000 11:14 AM
Hope you had a good night last night!!!! Give us an update.... IP: Logged |
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Roy Batty Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 144) |
posted June 11, 2000 02:38 PM
Hey bro, feel for you. I'm not gonna give you all this "I'm older and I know more" BS.But if there is one thing that is a sure fire cure for your situation, it's a new girl right away. It's f*cking like magic. Shake it off and go get one. Man, it's worked miracles for me in the past, because the objective now is to get your mind off her and keep it off for a while. JMHO ------------------ IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 160) |
posted June 11, 2000 04:11 PM
fuck her. Dont take that "I want to be friends shit", you must be pretty young, youll learn. There will be others IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 357) |
posted June 11, 2000 11:02 PM
THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT GUYS! I WENT WITH HER TO THE PARTY AND IT WAS THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE DONE....EVERY SINGLE GIRL NOTICED ME...I WAS BY FAR THE MOST BUILT GUY AROUND AND IT PISSED HER OFF SO BAD THAT THEY WERE ALL ADMIRING AND COMING UP TO SEE ME FLEX...ANYWAY, THERE IS A NEIGHBOR UP THE STREET WHO IS HIGHLY INTERESTED IN ME AND SHE IS HOT TOO. SO I BOUNCED BACK QUICKLY.I STILL THINK OF HER THOUGH AND HAVE HER ON MY MIND BUT I KNOW SHE ISNT WORTH IT,SO I DONT CALL HER OR PAGE HER OR WHATEVER..IF SHE WANTS TO ME SHE HAS TO CALL ME.WHAT I HAVE LEARNED FROM YOU GUYS IS GIRLS ARE LIKE GUM,THEY TASTE GOOD BUT EVENTUALLY LOSE THEIR FLAVOR....ALSO IN THE GYM I BROKE NEW RECORDS INCREASING WEIGHT BY 5-10 POUNDS ON EACH EXERCISE...THANKS AGAIN GUYS FOR EVERYTHING.I CANT WAIT TO START THINGS WITH THIS NEW GIRL IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 147) |
posted June 12, 2000 12:21 AM
Good for you man, I wouldn't have opted for the lets be friends but do what you want man and fuck what anybody else has to say, do what makes you feel good. So what weight did you break in the gym bro? IP: Logged |
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DubSack Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 8) |
posted June 12, 2000 11:28 AM
HOOK UP WITH HER BEST FRIEND....I MEAN IF SHE LOOKS GOOD ENOUGH IP: Logged |
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