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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 07, 2000 11:06 PM
 
What would you do if your girl posed for some guy on his car that he is selling on e-bay...in her bikini...without f'in telling me first????!!!! She gets $500 for it but still...what would you do? Left hook or right jab? Maybe a kidney blow? (Just kidding about the violence but man, I kind of feel like it!) [This message has been edited by BigPappa (edited June 07, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Kaisersosay Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 108) |
posted June 07, 2000 11:19 PM
MY GIRLFRIENDS A DANCER SO I COULD NOT REALLY TELL YA,SHE'S NOT A WHORE EITHER,SHE MAKES GOOD MONEY SHE ONLY DOES IT MAYBE 1-2 TIMES A WEEK.HELPS PAY THE BILLS,AND I'VE BEEN WITH HER ALMOST 5 YEARS SHE'S ONLY BEEN DANCING FOR LIKE TWO. IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 336) |
posted June 07, 2000 11:20 PM
 Depends on the content of the picture and the trust in the relationship. We would have to talk about it! IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 07, 2000 11:25 PM
We have mutual trust...well, at least I trust her. Basically, its the principle of the whole thing and worse of all her pathetic reason for not telling me first. "I didn't want you to worry". Can you believe that? So, when she goes into surgery after a car accident she won't tell me first because she doesn't want me to worry??!! I swear, women. Can't understand 'em..can't kill 'em. Her heart is HUGE and she is a good person...just can't believe she didn't tell me first! I have never done anything to make her believe she can't tell me or approach me on these things. Guess I am just concerned because it is a possible sign of a other things to come???? IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 336) |
posted June 07, 2000 11:30 PM
Easy, I think she know that she made a bad chioce on this one. I would be questioning the ass with the camera more. He knew that she couldn't say No and worked her. It least thats the read I was picking up. Time will clear things up. IP: Logged |
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Kahn Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 308) |
posted June 08, 2000 12:17 AM
What is the item number, then we'll tell YOU if you're kidding about the violence. Even the score, tag her on his car. Easy Pappy, its all cool IP: Logged |
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bignate73 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 808) |
posted June 08, 2000 12:24 AM
i dont think i would sweat it too much. (this is girlfriendless-nate speaking right now) she probably took a pg rated picture at best? and its just her in it. she got cash for it, maybe she should have asked you. but its not much different than modeling is it? there were no strings attached to this picture just her modeling the car to get it to sell. you should be flattered that shes looked upon as hot, and you are with her. as long as the photo guy is out of the picture, its all good. my $.02 on it at least. peace IP: Logged |
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thiassi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 470) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:16 AM
Holy shit I found it how much does he want for the car? But why is she nude in the pic?: http://209.213.98.1/forums/Attachment.cfm/chick%20on%20hood.jpg?CFApp=139&Attachment_ID=8029 L8R ------------------ [This message has been edited by thiassi (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Frackal Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 229) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:47 AM
Bwaaaaaaaahhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 08, 2000 08:25 AM
Thiassi: What the hell is that thing? Man, isn't it amazing how some chicks THINK they are hot? There are so many nasty girls who try to front and act like they're Carmen Electra or something...she probably even has a hot-girl bitch attitude. Anyways, my fellow board members, my girl is about 300lbs lighter and is about 10 times prettier...night and day actually. I feel bad for that towel on that car...skid mark city! LOL. Back to the subject at hand, it is the fact that she did this the other day and we EVEN spoke the night before on the phone (I was away making my next million) and she mentioned that this guy was giving her $$$$ for selling his car. This dude is a fat slob but is VERY nice to her and she works for him. He is a gentleman to her (for now) so I am not concerned about her working for him and he is loaded with $$$ and you know how ugly dudes who are millionaires are with pretty woman...they just GIVE their money away to them. Basically, this dude pays her about $40/hour for a job a monkey could do so as you can see, this guy is just hypnotized probably by her when she is around. She works part time for him. She was in a bikini and he has seen her before in a bikini, etc... But she didn't f'in tell me the prior night when we spoke was that she was doing this the next day...she just conveniantly left that out because "she didn't want me to worry while I was away on business". Interesting guidelines. Bet if I used the same rationale she wouldn't take it too well. Since she will be making all this money now and not involving me in her little side ventures, I told her she'll have to pay more for her stuff now that she has even MORE sweat-free income! WTF! ..and to top it off, this morning we got into a fight...well, more like she got into a fight with me. As you can probably tell, I joke around a lot (hey, life's too short not to) and I told her I wasn't hungry for the frickin' muffin she unwrapped for me...and I told her the cereal she gave me AFTER she was done with it didn't have enough milk for me. Can you believe what a bad guy I am???!!! And to top it off, she wants me to get her some gear! NO WAY! All I need is that on some androgens! IP: Logged |
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thiassi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 470) |
posted June 08, 2000 08:40 AM
I understand what your going through. I was living with this girl and she came home one night painted from head to toe like a mermaid. She had on a robe and toke it off and she was butt naked! She said this guy named Leroy Roper paints girls and sells the pictures. I was pissed I said you let some guy paint you while you were naked. She said he is gay and she would get a free portfolio out of the deal. I told her to get her ass in the shower and I was going out to get some beer. I have gone out with several dancers but this was different. L8R Sorry about the pic, I just thought it fit the idea. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Fitnessbarbie Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 43) |
posted June 08, 2000 09:08 AM
If your girlfriend is anything like me she probably did it so she could help contribute with things...I know I feel bad that I can't help pay for things as much as my boyfriend does so I try to think of creative ways to help out whenever I can (whether it be cooking, buying him little things or just giving him extra attention)....my boyfriend's birthday is a few months away and I'm trying real hard to put something real special together for him....I don't make a lot of money so I'm trying hard to put money aside when I can....I want to show him how much I appreciate him and love him by going without somethings and maybe working a little more here and there so I can do something wonderful for him because he always does things for me...it sounds like she is a nice person and that she was trying to do what she thought was right by not getting into an arguement with you while you were out of town and also taking advantage of making some extra cash....I'm sure she knows now that it wasn't the best idea, and she knows next time to talk to you about it first....but from what I can see you have a girl that really cares about you alot and wants to make you happy. IP: Logged |
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MrMuscle2 unregistered (Total posts: 43) |
posted June 08, 2000 09:16 AM
Come on bro..she earnt 500$, and that means 500$ LESS coming outta you wallet. and you should be happy she is considered prtty enough to be posing like that.. just my 2 cents.. ------------------ "..damn you for not giving me my TEST. " - Metallica IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 08, 2000 10:26 AM
Right Mr.Muscle. That's what I told her...that she can now use the $500 on stuff I would have to...but she freaked about that too....going on and on about how much money I make and all of that crap. Again, its just the principle of hiding it. And the sad excuse of "I didn't want you to worry". Shit, I have told her she should send her pictures to PUMP, MuscleMag, etc... Trust me, she is that hot. I am trying to get her to post her pics her but she is crazy and says she doesn't look good enough! She is mental about that. And FitnessBarbie: Your outlook/comments are appreciated but I think you are missing the mark that it is about communication...not hiding stuff. If someone THINKS someone COULD potentially be upset, then why go through with it? Kind of a contradiction. Think if your man, said: "Honey, I didn't want to tell you that I was joining an escort service to make us money because I thought you would be upset". Yes, an exageration but same principle. If you think he'll be upset then why do it without talking about it first. I don't really care...and my fingers hurt from typing so damn much. And I am upset because Enrique did prove himself this morning on Howard Stern! I was dyeing for him to be the next Milli Vanilli! IP: Logged |
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Stumpy Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 104) |
posted June 08, 2000 01:13 PM
Bro, seems like your girl has really learned her lesson but doesn't know how to deal with it. You state that she didn't tell you about the specifics of this "job" because she didn't want to have you worried. Well, by saying so, she's only making you feel worried; it's like she's feeling super-guilty but trying to lay the blame on you, and is expecting you to react to this in a very calculated manner. Don't fall into that trap, it will only complicate this matter even further, but rather meet her halfway. The fact that she told you about this $500 stint has already shown that she is trying to communicate; we all have our own ways of dealing with these matters. It's hard and and sometimes even pointless trying to decipher what others are attempting to convey, because we all wish people would think just like we do and just tell us what the hell is going on. In your case, it seems like that she understands what she did was not really appropriate and is feeling really guilty about it. Thus, you COULD dismiss her actions after that fact as being a cover-up, or you can just take it for what it is. Bro, sounds she IS agreeing with you, she's just feeling REALLY guilty about the whole thing (hence the whole "I didn't want you to worry" routinte) and doesn't want to be seen as someone with no principle. She probably agrees with you 100%, but can't back out of her position now for that would only acknowledge that she's the one who fucked up, and nobody wants to be seen in that light. In any case, I would go and have a little one on one with the fat dude. Just remember, FSU is the way to go. FUCK SHIT UP!!!!!!!! Peace IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 08, 2000 01:20 PM
Actually, I never take the approach of getting mad at the "other guy". Hell, men are men and they just want a piece. The woman or man who cheated are the ones to blame...NOT the one they cheated with...unless, of course, they are a friend or sibling. Anyway, if she was getting $10K that would be fine...hell, I'd settle for $5K. Baby needs shoes! Daddy needs clothes! IP: Logged |
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Steelsoldier Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 138) |
posted June 08, 2000 01:22 PM
Commence the ass kicking! Just kidding the girl is just using what god gave her to get paid she probally meant no harm to you. Think of the nasty things we do and we either don't get paid or have to pay for it! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Krak Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 40) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:45 PM
It's probably the Test talkin but i wanna F*** the shit out of her IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 08, 2000 02:53 PM
out of who? IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:09 PM
Get this latest scoop. She wore a thong bathing suit because "he said that was the only one that would look right because it has yellow in it and the car is yellow". How nice of this guy to think creatively like that?...shit just keeps getting deeper and deeper. Paybacks are a bitch! yes, I am immature like that. Very! IP: Logged |
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blackhaus1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 465) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:38 PM
Big Pappa, is the pic on ebay...can we see it? That will help judge its inappropriateness... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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skydancer Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 64) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:39 PM
ooo - BigPappa - I want to see your "payback photo" LOL!  IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted June 08, 2000 03:40 PM
..no it isn't. The picture isn't really "inappropriate"...just her standing next to the car. Doesn't show her ass or anything. Be nice if it did so I could at least look at it too IP: Logged |
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thiassi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 470) |
posted June 08, 2000 04:19 PM
What kind of car is it and the year as well. L8R ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 336) |
posted June 08, 2000 04:29 PM
I told you that ass was working it! I would go and make a serious point with this asshole!!!!!! Your girl is to nice and some fat ass will always take advantage. He played her with money to get what he wanted. The fuk is out there right know showing that picture off telling people that it is a pic of his girl and shit. I would clear this shit up ASAP. It's my .02 but, I told you earlier he was a fuk. Hope the best for you! IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 336) |
posted June 08, 2000 04:33 PM
Another thing - if its a car worth buy, he doesn't need her in the picture. It would actually take away from what he was trying to get done. I don't think he is selling the car! Shit I don't know but, it wouldn't suprize me. Just so you know I have a good hearted gal just like yours. It took a while for me to teach her to look into other peoples motives. She see the shit for herself now. Peace! [This message has been edited by Cleaner (edited June 08, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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