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Sparkle Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 2) |
posted June 06, 2000 10:02 AM
  
Hi Everyone! I am a newbie, so please don't chew me up and spit me out on this first post. You can save a little something for later.  I am a lifter and into fitness and this is a great web-site. It has been informative on more than a subject or two... After reading through some of the posts, I was pretty surprised at just how much guys 'game' women. Really, it is all about sex, right? My question is..how does a nice girl avoid being gamed? Is there a way for a girl to know if she is being manipulated? Do guys ever tell the truth to women? Last question..do guys know a good girl when they see her and exempt her from the game or is that just hoping for too much? I understand that I am probably just naive about it. Thanks for opening my eyes...now if I can just get them shut again..I may actually date again. (kidding) IP: Logged |
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BiffBoom Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 468) |
posted June 06, 2000 10:08 AM
Most guys "game" because they've been gamed by a woman. If you think something is not right..chances are you are correct. Guys lie thru their teeth.."yeah honey...you look SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO pretty"... For me..I learned my lesson. I had someone really dick me over and I never did anything but be honest, caring, etc... IP: Logged |
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Latimer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 119) |
posted June 06, 2000 10:20 AM
It's always about sex. If a guy isn't sexually attracted to a girl then he won't be spitting game to her in the first place. I think the best way to tell if someone is just trying to play you is to not give it up for awhile. Most guys will loose interest real fast if that happens. The guys that stick around after that are probably really interested in you and you're less likely to get played. Good girls are not exempt at all. They're actually at a higher risk from all the real players out there in my opinion. They get bored with the "bad" girls that give it up at the drop of a hat. Good girls are more of challenge for them. That's the way I see things anyway. I think the perfect girl is a good girl on the outside, someone you can take home to mamma, and a freak inside the bedroom, someone you could write a letter to Hustler about. l8r IP: Logged |
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Kahn Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 234) |
posted June 06, 2000 10:28 AM
You're one step up knowing its a game. If you want in, you game. If you do not, fuck'em, its not worth the effort. Some people go after the innocent ones because that is the turn on. I can't stand weak minded women so I end up with mentally and emotionally strong women that piss me off because they have a mind of their own. It's all the game you choose to play. I wouldn't have mine any other way. IP: Logged |
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Fish Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 187) |
posted June 06, 2000 10:35 AM
If you really want to see tell him you plan to wait till you are married, even if this is a total lie. If he ever calls you either found some diehard SOB, or the most noble man out there. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 672) |
posted June 06, 2000 12:03 PM
First a guy sees a chick across the room and says man she is hot. Next thought is I wonder how long it will take me to bag that girl. Then comes the dating and the sex. After that it is all up to how much you bitch. If you arent a bitcher he might just keep ya. REAL GAME CANNOT BE DETECTED OR DEFENDED AGINST. GODBLESS TOO SHORT. I OWE HIM EVERYTHING. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 315) |
posted June 06, 2000 12:17 PM
Since I now have a real girl I will tell you what I *used* to do: Have 1 maybe 2 'good girls' these are the ones I treated well, and enjoyed being around, had sex with and they werent skanky...they make you feel good in your head or uh I guess you would say heart. Then I would rotate a bunch of nasty girls who I would never be with for more than a couple weeks b/c they were to skanky made me feal dirty f'n with them. Moes right though, you basically will never know if its tight game, good thing most of the men out there dont have it and can be sniffed out. One tell tale sign is if he is known as a player - if a bunch of girls want him guess what? hes a player and don't act suprised when he gets around to playin you. Slopain IP: Logged |
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Sparkle Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 2) |
posted June 06, 2000 12:44 PM
It's a damn cruel world, isn't it? Thanks guys. IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1020) |
posted June 06, 2000 12:46 PM
Personally I dont think "gaming" holds as much entertainment as it used to. I mean when your young, you get hurt, and it goes away...usually with no lasting impression, however when you mature, the shit tends to leave invisible scars, and personally that bugs me. If I go after a girl, I dont see any point in lying. Ive always been honest on here when dealing with women, hell I thought a couple of times I would get my ass flamed off, but didnt. I figure if your straight up, then you have no mask to hide behind later, and its much more comfortable, and when you find a gal that enjoys that aspect about a man, then she is the keeper.
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 378) |
posted June 06, 2000 01:23 PM
I have never gone up and started talking to a girl that I did not want to screw. It's that simple. The reason why I somtimes blow girls off and don't call themafter fucking them is that I have been screwed over many times too. If she is a nice girl, somtimes I will feel a little bad about doing it, but after a about 5 minutes I move on. IP: Logged |
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ryry Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 250) |
posted June 06, 2000 02:33 PM
if your being played, then chances are, the dude's just in it for the sex. so don't put out. tell him your the kind of girl that won't do that stuff unless your in a really committed relationship. if he really likes you, he'll stay around. just remember, the good playas are the ones that nobody thinks are playas. ------------------ "The race is long and hard... and in the end, it's only with yourself." IP: Logged |
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beerbarbq Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 284) |
posted June 06, 2000 02:59 PM
Men try and play women just to get sex, women try and play men for money....... I guesse you have to make them jump through a few hoops first but you can never really be sure when you first meet someone, girl or guy you wont know they are sincere until you have been with them for a while, and even then you still dont know sometimes. The rewards are worth the risk though when you get a good one. IP: Logged |
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