posted May 28, 2000 05:42 PM            

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I gotta bitch, and this seems like the best place to do it!!! My girlfriend used to be my training partner until a few days ago. She got lazy on me. Her diet was going fairly well, and she had been training with me for almost 8 months. I used to live a long way away from her, but I moved back into the area about 9 months ago and we started to train together. She used to be a great training partner. She could spot like a champion, even when I went heavy. She worked her ass off when it was her set. Now all of the sudden she wants to eat shit food and slack off when I wanted to go to the gym. I'm not one to judge (too harshly), but she has displayed this tendancy before, but not this bad. I have a plan though: I'm not going to say anything! I'm going to watch and even encourage her to eat whatever she wants. I'll just sit back and watch her grow,.....fatter! All the while, I'll refuse to have sex with her until she feels like a complete loser. I can't wait to see the scale scream! When we finally have a fight about the lack of interest in sex, I'll drop the bomb on her about why I'm not interested. Yeah I know that's a lot of grief to go through, but I think it'll be worth it in the end. I'll just beat off a lot until I'm free.

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posted May 28, 2000 05:54 PM         

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Fuck a game, drop the truth and it'll set someone free. Don't waste your time on a piddly-shit game. Free your mind and your ass will follow(Corey Glover in Full Metal Jacket). (Platoon maybe, who gives a shit) (Yeah, Platoon)

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posted May 28, 2000 11:17 PM            

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damn bro. i didnt know it was like that. just start tightening up and growing . she'll see that you are still interested in looking good etc. its contagious sometimes. the truth definitely helps but tactfully. harshness is always taken the wrong way. you should start talking about how you have a cheat day or whatever to help you make it through the week. seems like a good motivator. keep in shape and get a day of fun. i think the sex deprivation thing isnt probably a good idea. chicks have some weird ideas if thier man isnt putting out.

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posted May 28, 2000 11:40 PM            

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Man that's sad. My girl has just started training with me. She plans on entering a BB show in October. I hope she doesn't do the same thing. It's bben a week so far and she has been doing great....I hope she doesn't loose interest. She is already fine, but sometimes I just think she's doing this contest for me since i am a BB.

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posted May 29, 2000 12:18 AM            

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maybe she feels that she's with you now so she doesn't care if she gets fat..cause she's got a man

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posted May 29, 2000 12:52 AM            

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I'm just trying to figure out how a girl can LOSE interest in training. I'm addicted...

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posted May 29, 2000 02:25 AM            

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bump for my brotha.....

hope it all works itself out. could be that timey time of the 1/12th of the year too. never know.

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posted May 29, 2000 01:56 PM         

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I think your on track with "letting" your girl get fat and nasty. You said it was only a few days ago so don't panic. if she wants to get all out of shape and lazy, don't try to stop her. She'll stop herself. She'll be like, damn, I feel like shit, I look like shit, this sucks, I gotta do something about this, and then she will do it. If she don't, she's confused, and she need support and help, not a bad attitude and not a denial of sex, that'll only make it worse for her and YOU. If you don't help her (not make her) make the right choices, your both going to be hurt in the long run. Not that anyone gives a shit about the long term.

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posted May 29, 2000 02:04 PM            

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Screw it. Spend some time meeting other chicks at the gym after your workout.

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posted May 30, 2000 12:17 AM            

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Dude, do you really love this person? Is there a possibility of marriage in the future? If so, swallow your pride and talk to her. What would happen if the tables were turned? Yes, we all go through burnout. Would you want her to let your ass go to pot and then up and find another man?

If you really care, take the time and talk this out with her. If she is worth keeping, she will start back training, if only for you.

If not, then maybe it is time to move on. Make a choice as to what is more important. A partner for life or someone who will spot for you cause you can't make that last rep?

Think about it.

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