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millgirl Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 76) |
posted May 20, 2000 05:09 PM
   My husband is 47, Im 30. I surely dont get it enough..... He says he is always tired and that our schedules conflict and he is right they do... BUT it sucks. I wish he wanted to do it MORE! Hell, its been three weeks. I do get tired of it personally. Now Im getting cut up and looking good and all tanned now, Im hoping he will snap to it! We'll see... I wish he would just grab me and get all wild. I need that and he does'nt, I guess. I wish he was more inventive. What do you do with a simple man, who is not as into it as other men out there??????? He is my husband and I love him, but SHIT I want some fire in the bedroom, ya know what I means? Okay I feel better now... Sholud I throw some anavar or winnie in his protein shakes?????? MILLGIRL IP: Logged |
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BigGuns2 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 44) |
posted May 20, 2000 05:19 PM
If a gourgeous, cut and tanned woman doesn't get him all worked up, there's no hope for him. Try putting some viagra in his shake! IP: Logged |
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millgirl Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 76) |
posted May 20, 2000 05:29 PM
I may do that. Its came into my thoughts a time or two.... IP: Logged |
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Blaine Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 17) |
posted May 20, 2000 06:59 PM
I feel your pain! I'm in the same situation just opposite roles. My wife is 37 and I'm 30. I've tried everything but I just can't seem to get her motivated often enough or creative. I thought older women were supposed to have a higher sex drive. And just like you I also am starting to cut up and look better than I have in years. Let me know if you find a cure. I'll try anything at this point. IP: Logged |
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runner Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 47) |
posted May 20, 2000 07:17 PM
i'm actually in the opposite situation...i have the lower sex drive in the relationship. (hmmm...maybe i need some testosterone) definitely try to spice things up by approaching things differently sometimes. if you're normally aggressive, try touching him softly in different places; if you normally start with romantic foreplay, try going right to his cock. if you ordinarily do it right before bed, try seducing him early morning on the weekends (many peoples' hormones rage more in the mornings). IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 897) |
posted May 20, 2000 07:58 PM
Married people having sex problems? Big surprise there. You guys should know that there's a chemical in wedding cake that lowers sex drive 50%. Matt I am the Skywalker IP: Logged |
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The Ranger Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 976) |
posted May 20, 2000 08:42 PM
Heh heh heh.....Matt, ya fucker.....your so full of shit......but, damn it does make you think!!!! Ranger IP: Logged |
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Steelheart Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 175) |
posted May 20, 2000 08:52 PM
Do what I do....Im 24 my g/f is 33, my ex 40. Im in my prime, there're in there prime...Damn! IP: Logged |
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bench Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 98) |
posted May 20, 2000 09:05 PM
I've got spare time on my hands. IP: Logged |
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E2 Moderator (Total posts: 3170) |
posted May 20, 2000 09:09 PM
Give him some good test shots, at least 1000mg a week IP: Logged |
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Pokemon Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 95) |
posted May 20, 2000 11:29 PM
wish i had a date tonight. IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted May 21, 2000 02:14 AM
Well lets see..Im 26..and my partners..are...um...23..32...22...27..and 33.. 47 must be a strange age..I mean your natural test slows down...the willy just stops responding..etc. I dont know..I cant imagine myself ever being in that situation..as I have always been one for spontaneous sex, anywhere..anytime.. There is quite an age difference between you two..and that in itself can cause problems. Seeing as how my useless degree in psychology dont do much..I love questions about this stuf..try catering to his ego...men are suckers for that in so many words...at his age try bonding with him on his turf...the rewards just may be worth it.. Good Luck, IP: Logged |
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MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 278) |
posted May 21, 2000 10:10 AM
hehe damn WCP, are you sure u got enough partners there?? u have them all at the same time?? u animal you  ------------------ http://home.sol.no/~mrmuscle/ IP: Logged |
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millgirl Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 76) |
posted May 21, 2000 12:27 PM
I am stubborn, I think Im going to show no interest and when he sees Im not interested, maybe he will come round. I dunno. We talked last night and he says he will work on it. Im working out really hard and Im starting to look really good. Im down to 18 % BF now, lost 3.5% in 7 days, I weigh 116 lbs, and Im on my 2nd week of primo. Im tanning every day and working out every day. Hopefully eventually he will get horny and come to me. My batteries are running low, so he better. I dont mess around, Im not that kind of girl. BUT I am being very patient in hopes that maybe this thing will turn around. He does not want to take roids, but maybe somehow I can persuade him.. We'll see. I have tried most everything. We did the movie thing, they were the movies I was in. BUT thats no big deal. So I dunno, I will just back off and let him come to me......... He says its just that our schedules conflict but damn a month! PEACE! IP: Logged |
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Capt'n_Crunch Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 413) |
posted May 21, 2000 12:56 PM
LMAO.....Matt thats some funny shit IP: Logged |
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scooby Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 53) |
posted May 21, 2000 02:34 PM
hey millgirl, exactly what movies have you been in? i'm really interested in seeing some of your work. needless to say i'm a big porn fan, and all you other guys don't deny it either, cause i know you all are! IP: Logged |
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aten8 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 264) |
posted May 22, 2000 09:38 AM
Hey millgirl, just in case your thinking about the viagra thing. It doesn't work on increasing sex drive. It is a vasodilator (causes dilation of the blood vessels) so it will only increase the hardness and length of time. So your still on your own to get him there, but hey once he's there hold on. peace [This message has been edited by aten8 (edited May 22, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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ripp Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 74) |
posted May 22, 2000 04:27 PM
maybe he is scared to get the virus...is he educated on this? IP: Logged |
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Steak Helmet Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 78) |
posted May 22, 2000 07:43 PM
Try going to a different place. 1. scout out a good shopping center with lots of dressing rooms. Pick a slow day and tell him you need some new gym attire. Grad an article of clothing and tell him to follow you. Once in the dressing room give him the look and tel him we need to make this fast. A quickie is always a good way to start into a long night of pure ass poundin' sex. 2. Get a hotel room with a hot tub...take the sex away from your bedroom. get out of the house. 3. If the gym owner is nice he/she will understand and let you have the keys for an after workout workout. If you need any more ideas just e-mail me.
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Rich1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 373) |
posted May 23, 2000 12:58 AM
I agree with E2 here. Just jab 750 to 1000 mg of test in his glutes at least once a week and be done with it, he'll thank you later for it...And so will you. IP: Logged |
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Texas Guns Moderator (Total posts: 423) |
posted May 23, 2000 01:20 PM
Someone left that chemical out of my wedding cake!!!!!! Married sex if FABULOUS!!!!!! My mother always warned me not to marry a much older man for that reason. His sex drive decreases right at the time that you hit your prime. And Honey, 30 is your prime!! Believe me. Thank God for birthdays. He had to do something to make us look forward to getting older! The problem could be the movies. What guy wants to see his wife having sex with someone else? It would turn me off not to mention hurt like crazy! Yohimbine might also be good to give him and it will also increase his energy level. Give it a try!! Mrs. Guns IP: Logged |
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BiffBoom Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 416) |
posted May 23, 2000 03:18 PM
You could always break out the video camera and make your own sequel with your husband. "Millgirl Attacks!!!!!!" starring ...Millgirl as the Primobolan wench Rated XXX IP: Logged |
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Checkmatebloated Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 221) |
posted May 25, 2000 02:47 PM
He millgirl, Viagra does not increase sex drive, it only prolongs or helps produce an erection. I am 28 and wanted to see why all the old ladys were nolonger grumpy and the old men were all smiling so I ordered 10 of them. well I only took on, because it swole up bigger than ever and made my face and body red and hot. It just relaxes the muscle that open the valves into the blood holding chambers of the penis. It lasted about 3 -4hours and started hurting after about one hour. I can not brag, because it was the drug that did it, but that girl still calls me to this day. hehehehe/ IP: Logged |
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Checkmatebloated Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 221) |
posted May 25, 2000 05:57 PM
bump. Millgirl needs to read my viagra story. IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 214) |
posted May 25, 2000 06:10 PM
I have done v a couple of times and last time did 2 of them b/c I wasn't happy with the results, mind you I dont have any problems (Im 23) just wanted to give it a go and wanted 2-4hr boner. It never happened only htink I did notice was a red face, blue visual flashes (nothing crazy very moderate supposedly happens to like 1% or so of the people that take it), and it was a little easier to get up after a couple times of nookie. It worked better when I gave it to the girl I was with, she responded better to it than I did. Slopain IP: Logged |
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Checkmatebloated Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 221) |
posted May 25, 2000 06:18 PM
Man you took 2? Did you have the 50mg or the 100mg. I had the 100mg. Anyway man I guess it is different for everybody, but after if took it and about 45min later it was getting hard just rubbing against my pants and we humped, made lover for you ladies, and slammed hard and fast for you hoes for at least 2hrs. man my abs hurt the next couple of days. Slow, fast inbetween it was forever. Anyway my penis stayed hard for a couple of hours after that. It hurt! IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 214) |
posted May 25, 2000 06:25 PM
I also had the 100mg, the place I got it from said not to even bother with the 50mg unless you take a couple. Well at least AS work for me and thats the way I like it if I had to choose between the two, just don't ask the same question in like 30 years hehe. Slopain IP: Logged |
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JayeLynn Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 51) |
posted May 25, 2000 06:46 PM
okay, I make this confession only because is might shed light on the other side of the situation. It's pretty obvious that all but one of you has more than your share of sex drive: mine is minimal. I'm 36 and my partner is 43. What I've noticed is that I tend to be too involved in my responsibilities and cannot readily shut it all down in order to relax into the idea of sex. I have a 12-year old daughter, a spouse and a high tension job ....I swear my work is never done and there's a constant demand for my time and attention. ..yes, I know that most of you believe that sex is one of my responsibilities as well but like it or not this is how my little reality spins on its axis. Now, remove me from that tight wire reality and things change. That could be a weekend of camping/fishing: a night out on the town, etc. It takes more than a spontaneous poke or nibble, but patience will pay off if he takes the time. We too are on different shifts and the only time we typically have during the week is one hour in the morning and 30 minutes at night. ...and the weekends....unless I'm on call. IP: Logged |
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NoviceJuicer Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted May 25, 2000 08:21 PM
Hhmm...yeah...fear of getting virus...maybe. That fear of getting pregnant is a roadblock for some girls. IP: Logged |
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