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flexed1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted May 16, 2000 11:28 PM
  
ok so the soft side of flexed1 comes out. lost a 3 year realtionship over a contest and i feel numb. really felt like this was the person for me we got along so well until i became obsessed with my competition in january and things rolled down hill. how do you recover? has anyone been through someone wanting space and the person comes back to ya? any help to get me through or stories of a comparable nature would be appreciated. i keep hoping we will end up back together as i feel deep in my heart this is the one. can time bring ya back together or pull you further apart. we still talk and seem to be on good terms just curious of your thoughts? [This message has been edited by flexed1 (edited May 16, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Steelheart Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 114) |
posted May 16, 2000 11:44 PM
Sorry to hear that. I ended a 3 year relationship last year. We both cheated on one another. It still hurt because we loved each other. 2 mothes later we came back. Than broke up again. The first time it drove me crazy!!! I thought sex would help but it doesnt! We broke up the second time and started seeing other people.... We are still friends though...but it feels weird to be on the outside...the other guy. Now I thinkIm single...new g/f isnt making it clear for me. Sorry to babble but I think the bottom line is, you'll eventually get back with her. If not you will stay friends. Its hard to take sometimes......Just stay busy or it will drive you nuts. IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted May 17, 2000 12:06 AM
yeah that sucks to hear bro. The one that i think is "the one" is with another guy that isnt worth a shit. I love this girl more than life its self, but that doesnt make a shit when you are 2000 miles apart. Do whatever it takes is my advise. If you feel the same way I do you would give up anything for that girl no matter what. Find whatever is wrong and fix it. goodluck ------------------ IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 856) |
posted May 17, 2000 12:07 AM
Bro, I was in a serious relationship for a while pretty recently. We broke up (she left me) and it hurt really badly. I was really emotionally fucked up. Had a hard time sleeping, etc. for a few weeks. We tried to stay friends, but I couldn't. So we lost touch, and I moved away. After like three months she calls me out of the blue and says she regrets her decision, and wants to see me again. We got back together but it just didn't work out again. We don't talk now. I usually do stay friends with ex's......I try to, because they were an intimate part of my life, and I can't pretend to hate them. (Unless they wronged me....) In this case, a clean break healed best. I'm OK now, but only time and the pursuit of other goals (I went back to school) helped me. Hope that helps a little. Matt IP: Logged |
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Pokemon Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 82) |
posted May 17, 2000 03:16 AM
my story: broke up w/ my GF of 8yrs, we lived 2gether 4 of those yrs (college). she had 2 abortions by me. I too thought that she was "the one" for me. As time goes by she simply "lost that lovin' feeling" for me and felt that it was unfair for me to be with some1 who doesn't love me. So she seperated from me 3 yrs ago to go into the "real world". All I could do is watch her leave. We both now live in diff. states. Since then, I never kept in touch. As for me, I've been a BAD BOY, very bad!!! I still think of her and miss her, but I would never presuit after her again. If you love some1, set them free. If they come back 2 u, it was ment 2 b. I still miss the touch of a lovin' woman. --------------------------- IP: Logged |
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Fitnessbarbie Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 12) |
posted May 17, 2000 12:56 PM
About 7 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up after almost four years...it was an on then off then on again relationship for the past year...it broke my heart at first and I was very lonely and even scared that I was making a mistake.....this time I left him.... then I met this new guy...at the gym and he is just wonderful...I never knew that a relationship could be so strong and full of great experiences...do yourself a favor and try to let go and look for something good in every day and little by little you will start feeling better....and when you start feeling better about yourself...other people will be drawn to you...that saying "when you least expect it" is so true....I wasn't looking and now I'm in the best realtionship I've ever had and now I know what love really is! Not only do I have a terrific boiyfriend ...but I also have a best friend! I wish you the same. IP: Logged |
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Serial Joe Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 53) |
posted May 17, 2000 01:07 PM
I hear you guys. My ex moved 6 hours away for a job of all things. It was the hardest day of my life watching her drive away after we said goodbye. We tried for a few weeks to make it work, but anyone who has been in a long distance relationship knows they never work out. We're still friends but it's hard to know that some other guy gets to be with her.... Anyways the happy part of this story is I met my current g/f about 5 months later (5 long depressing months) and she turned my world back around. I've recently gotten a job for a supplement company and I can't picture things getting much better. Sometimes I think about my ex and sometimes even wonder what would have happend had she stayed, but I now don't regret a thing.... Okay the moral of this story dude, is keep you head up and stay positive!!! Things will get better and you'll meet someone who will make all the pain you're feeling now seem small and trivial later. IP: Logged |
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flexed1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted May 17, 2000 01:27 PM
ok its not getting easier. have been keeping busy and going out but feel very empty. will be going on vacation 6/1 for 10 days to a place that we used to go every year. can't cancel the trip so i will have tons of memories. we spoke today gonna have dinner when i return for my birthday. at that time we i guess will talk and maybe mend things or start to or who knows maybe end any hopes that i know hold. with the house being so empty its eating me alive. can't sleep, big time emotions (coming off a long cycle and can't wait till everythings out of my body cause the A.S fuck with the emotions when you on to long.anyway just venting and if there are more stories to keep my head up would appreciate the help. are men supposed to be sensitive (joke) [This message has been edited by flexed1 (edited May 20, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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flexed1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 547) |
posted May 20, 2000 10:11 PM
bump ya go IP: Logged |
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