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Austin316 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 17) |
posted May 07, 2000 06:57 PM
  
When you guys started to get big, was it alot easier to get girls, and i mean hot ones IP: Logged |
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studcj Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 845) |
posted May 07, 2000 10:05 PM
First i got big, then I thinned out a little. they noticed me when I got big, then when I thinned out they noticed some more. then I finally put up 600 on squat and they think I'm gross. I can't win. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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FitnessChick Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 229) |
posted May 07, 2000 10:13 PM
awww....that sucks.....well, make yourself happy, look how you wanna look, & the right girl will come along....i promise....give it time....but dont change how you look 4 others.....cause then you wont be happy....i know i am probably preaching, but it is so true IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 738) |
posted May 08, 2000 01:13 AM
Yes it is way easier. Ridiculously so. I never really struggled but always had to work at it a little. Now, everywhere I go, I meet girls. I go to the store to get fucking food and I meet chicks. I go out - well you get the idea.... Worked for me. Matt IP: Logged |
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Austin316 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 17) |
posted May 08, 2000 02:44 AM
Im asking because when it comes to girls I am no good. They basically scare me and Im hard pressed to approach them. Im hoping when Im huge that ill have more confidence in myself (I already do compared to when I started 2 years ago at 16) and girls will like me more and show interest IP: Logged |
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Blaine Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 12) |
posted May 08, 2000 10:02 AM
Get big but then cut up. Women don't generally go for the big bulky look with no definition. Don't be afraid of women, if they sense that then some will use that against you. Just be confident when you approach them, odds are they are just as nervous as you. Besides, women are generally much more self concious about there appearence than men. If you know you look good then ACT like you look good. Don't be arrogant but don't give a woman the impression that she is out of your league either. Try the beach, clubs, the grocery store. You can meet women pretty much anywhere. Just be yourself and you'll do fine. Good luck bro! IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 738) |
posted May 08, 2000 11:27 AM
Just be yourself. Yes, a great body may get their attention but you can quickly lose it. 99% of girls out there appreciate intelligence, confidence and a sense of humor more than a great body anyway. (Ladies help me out here) And remember this and don't ever forget it: Girls are just as insecure as you. If a girl came up to you and was interested, you would feel great, right? Well, it's the same for them: if you show some interest it will almost always make them feel better about themselves. And that's a good place to start. Matt IP: Logged |
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gearseeker Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 76) |
posted May 08, 2000 12:34 PM
Im fairly short - 5'8" and used to take a lot of shit. I noticed that after getting around 215lbs or more I get a lot more respect from people. Before (155lbs)I would go to a club and catch every guys elbow as I walked thru the crowd. Now people give me space and respect. Women notice alot more too. I get better service at restaurants, stores, etc. The young chicks at the tanning salon haven't charged me for tans in two years. I love it. I tend to be shy, but a lot of women pick up on that and make the first move. Life is good. IP: Logged |
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Brandi Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 33) |
posted May 08, 2000 07:59 PM
Please don't change yourself to get a girl. Do it for yourself first. If all a girl is interested in is your body then you probably don't need her anyways. I wouldn't be telling you the truth if I said looks don't count. For myself, the first thing I notice is a man with a nice body. Then I have to go deeper. Do you have a good sense of humor, are you mature, etc. I think physical attraction will always be there first, but there's more to it than just looks. As far as talking to females. Just be yourself and the right one will come along. IP: Logged |
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Diver Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 63) |
posted May 08, 2000 10:36 PM
last night i converted a lesbian IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 175) |
posted May 08, 2000 11:29 PM
Man your 18 years old give it time. Thing will come to you. Your hormones are raging and all you want to do is score. No flame every male at 18 is that way, if they like it or not. Its the humane animal, can change that. Here a little info that I hope will help. Slow down, be your self. Girls don't want a guy in a big hurry. They want someone who is will to spend time with them and on them. You kinda got show you care and that one of the markers they use. Be confident, but not cocky no one like a show off. Basically any lady worth having is going to make you earn it and although having a great body will help it will only be one of many factors. Hey, if you just wanted to just score you would have gone after one of the easy girls right! Another key, if you see that girl keeps noticing you and maybe cops a smile or other contact - that probably giving the lights up. And some time you gotta say fuk it and make a move, shit everyone has been rejected. Just pick a time and spot, were your not doing it for world to see. So limit your exposure to "percieved failure", basically her rejection is not as big of a deal as everyone else seeing it. Hey - you don't want a gal just because she dig's your body. I don't know about you but AIDs scares me and I have broke to many rubbers to call that protection. Shit this is the hardest post I have ever made. Shit man what the f do I know. I had never meet my know wife and walk up and kissed her. New Years Eve party almost as long ago as you are old 1984. IP: Logged |
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Go Fast Man Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 50) |
posted May 09, 2000 04:50 PM
If you Build it, they wil come. IP: Logged |
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scott825 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 86) |
posted May 12, 2000 05:27 PM
Motor oil is Motor oil IP: Logged |
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