posted May 06, 2000 01:07 AM            

So here I am now back on the dating scene like the mighty Phoenix I rise from the ashes, I am now available, open for new business and dam I have never felt so lonely, I is hard to find a girl that embodies all that I want in a woman yup my standards have raised since my last relationship, and No I won�t settle for just any chick, and don�t get me wrong I have no problem getting laid but you see it�s the reaction I have after I have banged a girl I didn�t care for, well to explain it better to you let me tell you what happened:::

About two weeks ago some of friends invited me to go out with them to a bar and pool hall, on a Saturday night, well the bastards know I don�t drink nowadays so they wanted me to be a designated driver, well we arrive at the bar get setup on a pool table after a 30 min wait (this place gets packed on weekends)
Well to our delight up on the table next to us well, there where four girls, the one that really caught my eye and the eye of almost every guy in the place was a really cute Spanish girl she was about 5�4, she had long wavy black hair with blond high lights, had some kind of hair gel on looked like she had just gotten out the shower, she was wearing some tight black bell bottoms pants, with a short belly Tshirt , yup this girl knew she looked good and she was flaunting it cause it was Saturday night baby! her other three friends where good looking except for one who was severely over weight, se had a cute face though. Well me and my boys start looking to their table and they to ours, I being cool about it though mostly because I really
wasn�t looking to hook up with any body, well one of my boys works up the nerve (on his drunken state of mind) to start flirting with the fat one. This was some funny shit I mean ladies take note if you wanna get with a guy no mater how you look just wait util they are up to their fifth or sixth beer, well ofcource the cow feeling flattered starts flirting back, she sticks out that big ass pumpkin of hers while she bends over the table to hit the ball. Well after about twenty minutes of this hippopotamus mating ritual, he finally pops the question �what�s your name?�.
Well the night ended up with the four girls and us five guys stopping at a local seven eleven, at around 1:00 am. I made conversation with the cute Spanish girl, I found out her name was Patricia but she liked to be called Patty for short. Also that she was from Dominican Republic, her dad was pretty rich over there and was sending her to school here. So she lived on campus and stayed with her cousins on the weekends and holidays, and yup! Her cousin was the fat hippo.

posted May 06, 2000 03:49 AM            

SEX is Primal...NOT romantic...its a very natural order. Much like the food chain or common predator chain...think about various positions and tell me how romantic it is to do those??...I mean what meaning is there??.

Now I know..Im setting myself up for all you that want to impress the ladies on the board...and Im sure many of you ladies will want to nail my ass for that...so...FLAME ON!! I can take it...at least Im honest.

And as buffalo Gump would say..
Thats about all I gots to say about that..

Later,
WCP

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"Man doth not yeild himself unto the Angels, nor unto Death utterly......save only through the weakness of his feeble will"
--Joseph Glanvill

posted May 06, 2000 06:28 PM            

Save Loving for the one you marry. In the meantime..it's all humping like monkeys!!!

posted May 06, 2000 11:10 PM            

I would like to see a ladies perspective on this..it coule prove interesting..

posted May 07, 2000 10:37 PM            

delts

posted May 08, 2000 01:10 AM            

You're 20. I'm 24. I've had a few serious relationships but I have a lot of single guy shit left to do. Gotta go a lot of places and see a lot of shit I might not have the chance to do when I'm married.

Just my opinion. Enjoy single life. If you don't know whether or not you're ready for a relationship, you're not.

You're from LI right? What bar was it?

Matt

posted May 08, 2000 12:54 PM            

Women are like fine wine. Each one is different and enjoyable in its own way. Enjoy as many as you can - just be respectful. Even if your only after sex, be loving and kind - but be honest about only wanting sex. Dont look for someone to fall in love with or you might fall in love for the wrong reasons. Just let it happen.

I got married when I was 26 and thought I got all the freaky shit out of my system when I was younger. Not the case! Now that Im 30 I still like being with other women. I do think that sex with my wife is always the best because we love each other so much. But I would hate to give up seeing other women.

posted May 08, 2000 06:35 PM         

i commend you on your morals. not very many guys like us around (i'm the same way). sex these days is treated as just a way to get off. i was brought up with a strong religious background, i don't believe in sex w/o love. call me old fashioned by i have strong morals and values...

posted May 08, 2000 08:00 PM            

That said your young, have fun experience - take those situations with the young latina and others for what they are fun, thats it plain and simple. It is easier to have fun if thats all your looking for not a soul mate, she will come along and you have nothing but time.

posted May 09, 2000 04:40 PM            

Sorry but some women would love to take a guy home with the understanding that he had better well get the hell out of my bed when we are done, and go home. I am too busy to fix breakfast for him anyway with morning cardio!!
ANd there are females who love a great romp in the hay and that is all. GIve me sex on a daily basis - and we can make love about once a month!! Just pick up your F***ing clothes, wash your dishes, take out the garbage and fix my car.
If I get proposed to one more time - I will rip his head off!!!

Sorry to be so blunt, but you cant say all girls are only after the long term relationship stuff. Just look at the age group you are refering to - under 30.
Women tend to know what they want - find the women, find less hassles.

Bunny

posted May 09, 2000 05:51 PM            

Big Rick, I know exactly what you mean. When I was having problems, I could not even look at another man. Sure i was asked out all the time, but why would I want to just give it up to any ol' guy. Rich, goodlooking, smart, who cares???? Yes I am from the old school and actually "waited" for my current husband after my divorce. It was hard, but once a man found out he was not going to get far with me, he left anyway, which is what I wanted. You better know me and love me first.

Second of all, if I slept around while I was apart from the man I loved, it would have ruined our chances of working things out. Funny how a man can mess around, but will go absolutely bonkers if he even imagines some other man with his woman.

Did I go off topic here or what??? Anyway the best sex in the world is the sex you have with the person you are absolutely madly in love with. There's no guilt or remorse afterwards and you are in no hurry to leave.

BTW, Bunny, he does pick up his dirty clothes and I love cooking him breakfast every morning before we go to work.

Mrs. TG

posted May 10, 2000 02:43 AM            

God Bless Ya Bunny...heh..heh..heh..can we be penpals...HAAAAAA!!!!!!

WCP

posted May 10, 2000 09:48 AM            

Bunny
"This is who we are"

posted May 10, 2000 02:22 PM            

(OK scooby I was rushing, you smart ass LOL) LOL)