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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted May 03, 2000 12:33 PM
  
i need some info about how to approach a women out of nowhere and start talking to her. not to get her to sleep with me, just to get to know her. any books or websites that i should know about. i checked jay z's post. it was somewhat informative. but there has to be more info. IP: Logged |
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E2 Moderator (Total posts: 2938) |
posted May 03, 2000 01:21 PM
Say "Hi i'm gay" IP: Logged |
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big_bad_buff Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 386) |
posted May 03, 2000 01:30 PM
picking up women is easy, this is how it's done. when walking past a women, simple stick out your arm, and closeline em, knock on the ground, maybe kick em a few times, then ask if they need a ride to the hospital. then you can get to know them on the way there. another way is to spot a good looking one in her car, then simple pick up some speed in yours, and smash into her going atleast 35 or 40, then again, Ask if they need a ride to the hospital.....HAHAHAAHHA IP: Logged |
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BiffBoom Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 328) |
posted May 03, 2000 01:39 PM
you should say "My parents are the result of inbreeding..I have no job..no education....and no money. I'm hung like a 2 year old and all I want you for is a blow job". GOOD LUCK! IP: Logged |
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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted May 03, 2000 01:55 PM
im bisexual, not gay. looks like i will figure this out on my own. i have already found 8 books & 2 websites on this subject. IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 392) |
posted May 03, 2000 02:07 PM
the best thing to say is "Man i wish i had a swing like that in my backyard" as the girl walks by. It is such a stupid thing to say they know you arent really trying it as a line and if they think your are cute they will laugh turn and say that is the stupidest thing i have heard. And with that you are in there. I know it sounds stupid, but i owe my last 4 girlfriends to it. Then after that just be yourself, and unless you suck most chicks will dig it. IP: Logged |
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scooby Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted May 03, 2000 06:43 PM
just curious. what websites did you find? IP: Logged |
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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted May 04, 2000 02:11 AM
http://madli.ut.ee/~anton/layguide/ a very very informative website. very much so. and basically anything about psychology & nlp is the second. the books are at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0964160307/104-3335647-8018009 click on "click here for more suggestions" IP: Logged |
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Rich1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 226) |
posted May 07, 2000 08:09 PM
I don't see how you can call your self bisexual but not gay, sounds like your not very comfortable with your orentation sexually. I mean do you do both women and men at the same time? Pretty kinky if you ask me. What kind of woman is into that?,not that I would want her if she was...Ladies please?.... IP: Logged |
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joker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 127) |
posted May 07, 2000 09:05 PM
I tried saying hi and smiling, it's been working for a while now. IP: Logged |
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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted May 08, 2000 03:15 PM
gay means you only like men. bisexual means you like both. IP: Logged |
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Karate guy Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 250) |
posted May 08, 2000 03:43 PM
Just stick with the gals dude. Really, if you want a chick, then just be yourself and strike up a conversation, your sure to strike out sometimes, but hey, thats part of the game anyway. IP: Logged |
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BIG RICK ROCK Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 244) |
posted May 09, 2000 11:01 PM
HEY GUYS, WELL I'VE READ A LOT OF YOU GUYS ASKING THE SAME QUESTION! HOW DO I TALK TO GIRLS? WHY ARE GIRLS SHADY AT THE CLUB? PEACE OUT! IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 744) |
posted May 10, 2000 12:09 AM
I've posted this as many times as I've posted "it's safe to drink winny". But because I love my brothers (and sisters) I'll send it again: Most girls - the overwhelming majority) are just as insecure as guys when they go out. Yeah, they'd like to meet someone too, or at least talk to someone. When a girl comes up and talks to you, it makes you feel better about yourself, whether or not you're particularly interested. Girls are the same way. When you approach her, it's going to make her feel better about herself, and 9 times out of 10 that is enough to at least talk for a while, or dance or whatever depending on where you are. From there it's up to you. But don't let your own insecurities stop you from walking up to her......she's just as nervous about you. There aren't any magic "lines" either. Just be confident, smile, and introduce yourself. And take it from there. Matt PS Ladies help me out here. These bros are going nuts for no reason. IP: Logged |
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runner Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 30) |
posted May 10, 2000 08:55 AM
just out of curiosity, joseph_stalin, if you're bisexual and are equally attracted to both sexes, why not just stick with females and just avoid all the hassles and disapproval of being with a man? i think that's what i would do in your situation. btw, matttheskywalker's advice is excellent...EVERYONE's got some insecurity out there in the dating scene. IP: Logged |
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ryry Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 96) |
posted May 10, 2000 01:51 PM
i pretty much agree with matt's philosophy except for one thing. when you try and step up to a really hot girl, and chances are she knows she's all that and probably doesn't have any insecurities, if she does its not physical, then what? thats when you gotta have something extra, or do something special to get her attention. you come in strong, confident, and smooth(you also have to look pretty good). too bad i don't how to do that yet IP: Logged |
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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted May 11, 2000 05:03 AM
im not sexually attracted to men. i have a belief that sexuality & romance are tools to intensify a pre-existing emotional bond. I don't fantasize about screwing men i don't know. But if i had a strong emotional bond with one i would. IP: Logged |
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Bunny55 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted May 11, 2000 03:30 PM
Ok womans view: Change your web name from stalin. Dont tell a female you like other guys - we feel we have enough competition without the men!! Geeze!! Be yourself so you dont mess up some and say something stupid later that contradicts. Men and women are about equal with insecurities no matter what web site or psycho place tells you. Every one is an individual, so behave like they are - dont use the same line on all of them. Women cant please you if you are not happy with yourself and it sounds like you are not and want some female to make you happy - it wont happen. Ask yourself - would you want to date you?? Then panic accordingly. I would not recomend knocking them to the ground and asking them of they need a ride to the hospital. Luck would have it, she would be a black belt, and kick your ass in front of everyone. Bunny IP: Logged |
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jorje Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 34) |
posted May 11, 2000 04:26 PM
I've got a buddy who has a great approach to going up and talking to random women. (I've seen it in action it works) He'll spot a girl he finds attractive and make up a name, lets say "Donna". Then he goes up to the girl and says "my God Donna I haven't seen you in years." The girl replies "My name isn't 'Donna'". Then he pretends to be embarrased and strikes up a conversation. This does not guarantee a conversation or phone number but is the perfect way to clear the first and hardest hurdle, intitiating the conversation. He has had a lot of success with this approach, give it a try. IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 744) |
posted May 11, 2000 05:21 PM
Bros, Bunny55 said something similar to what I posted about girls being equally insecure. Thanks Bunny. Ryry as far as approaching a girl that's really hot, you know she is aware of her attractiveness. So when you approach her, don't say A WORD to her complimenting her appearance. Chances are she has heard all that crap 1000000 times and just wants to talk to someone for the person she is and not the appearance she projects. In other words, make her believe you want to talk to her for a reason other than her appearance, (whether you do or not) and it will go a long way. Matt IP: Logged |
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ryry Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 96) |
posted May 11, 2000 05:30 PM
damn matt, your a pimp! thanks for the advice  IP: Logged |
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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 614) |
posted May 12, 2000 03:48 AM
the reality is i am rather comfortable with myself. i just don't trust other people to be. which is why i want to know all i can about talking to people, as it would give me many options. i am a bizarre person and want as many options as i can get. because i am not really willing to change myself for other people. i enjoy being a pathetic bisexual who goes by the name stalin. i just don't think that most other people would be ok with that. and i want knowledge on how to talk to people so i can find out who would be ok with that and who wouldn't. you are pretty intellegent though. and i guess in a way i am looking for a woman to make me happy. but in a way i'm really not. i just want to be around someone who sees things the way i do. i would rather be alone than change for someone. and because of that i am trying to gather info on this subject. IP: Logged |
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THE STEEL BEAST Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 133) |
posted May 12, 2000 03:57 AM
AT LEAST YOUR NOT A BISEXUAL NAMED HITLER.HAHAHAHA (ARENT I A FUNNY LITTLE DEVIL) IP: Logged |
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Bunny55 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted May 12, 2000 12:22 PM
Gosh Matt - It would sure work on me if a man did that!! I get tired of feeling like a piece of meat (OK not always) LOL Bunny "This is who we are" IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 744) |
posted May 12, 2000 06:33 PM
Here we go again: Stalin, If you are comfortable with yourself, that's the most important thing. No matter what you do, how you look, how well you speak, regardless of all that, not everyone is going to be interested in you. There's no book out there that you can read, or website or other info that will change you into someone you are not. If you are comfortable with yoursefl, then don't let other's opinions of you make you feel worse. Matt PS Bunny55 where do you live? ha ha ha IP: Logged |
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