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Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 194) |
posted May 01, 2000 01:43 AM
  
Why is it so hard for us to approach girls? Sometimes i gotta drink a shot or two just so i feel more relaxed.... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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sasben Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 126) |
posted May 01, 2000 02:02 AM
Well My Friend is a master of talking to women. He constantly says to others (including me) Hey your dying every minute, may as well make the most of it.
When you make eye contact again, i usually smile/laugh (not majorly) and then whilst I still have their eyes, I will motion them over with a finger/hand. If they resist, I mouth the words 'come on' and motion with my head and hand as well.
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Sittin' On Diesel Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 364) |
posted May 01, 2000 02:10 AM
Just look like you're having a good time and they'll flock to you like flies on shit. It's easy bro.. it's one of those things where if you try to concentrate too hard on it- you'll fuck up. Just keep that in mind. PEACE IP: Logged |
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sasben Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 126) |
posted May 01, 2000 02:18 AM
Agree! Nothing beats having a good time with who you are with. Just not another hot chick :-) Pretend if you have to. IP: Logged |
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Dexter Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 254) |
posted May 01, 2000 02:20 AM
Sounds like you're just a shy person, JayZ. I agree with some of the comments made to your post. Here's something, too: http://madli.ut.ee/~anton/layguide/ (Sheesh, I think I may have gotten that URL from this board!) IP: Logged |
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bouncer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 131) |
posted May 01, 2000 03:21 AM
Chicks 'get off' on confidence guy's. I know that when I'm working in the club I can 'click' almost any night. A dirty trick I use is to stand beside a fat guy, makes you look irresistable !!. It also depends on the girl nationality. Here's may marks for 'clickability' and sexual proformance. Irish 5/10 on both accounts. English 10/10 The best there is. America (white) 8/10 both accounts. America (black) harder to shift, but 10/10 on on sexual proformance. Australian/New Zealand Wild bitch's !!!10/10 Asian 7/10 pretend to be shy, does'nt work!. South American Sweet, sexy and stunning. Northern european's, 9/10 very enlightened. Southern european's Light weights, can't take it from a body builder, too delicate. There you go guy's thats just my experience from working in night clubs in Dublin tourist area. Bouncer ------------------ IP: Logged |
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always02 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 122) |
posted May 01, 2000 09:00 AM
sounds like anxiety, goto doc and ask for serzone, or xanax, something to calm you down. IP: Logged |
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Ice Man Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 234) |
posted May 01, 2000 09:18 AM
Jayz, Congrats on the Pro Card! Now this whole women thing. It's really not that hard. I think as long as you don't look like a troll and can carry a conversation it all boils down to confidence. I'll tell you how I met my wife. We both worked in the same office park with two difference companies and a friend of mine was working where she was. I saw her sitting at the front desk and asked my buddy what her story was. Found out she was single or at least not seriously dating anyone and I left. The next day I called and found out my buddy was not in and she was. So I went over pretending to be taking my friend to lunch, said I owed him over a bet. I said well since he's not here let's you and I go. She laughed at me. Seriously! So, I steadied myself and said you must not have heard me. I asked you to go to lunch today, now. She grabbed her purse. And the rest is history. Married for 7 years and 2 little girls. If you see something you want to gotta' go for it! Stay Strong, Ice IP: Logged |
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Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 194) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:12 PM
Thanks everybody. I'm not that shy, just sometimes when I see a VERY VERY hot girl, it's kinda hard to approach. But as you guys said, confidence is the thing to have... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Badtemp Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 26) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:22 PM
why even bother with women.masterbation is all we need.I don't need a smelly pussy around my fuckin house. IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 372) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:29 PM
i understand the shit about the really hot girls. I have always dated hotties but when it comes time to go up and ask a new one out.....shit forget about. That fear of rejection will get the best of ya sometimes. IP: Logged |
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2legit2quit Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 108) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:41 PM
Thats a cool story Ice! I know we've all heard this before, but just bein' yourself is the best method. At least it works for me. If you can make them laugh, you've got it made, especially if you're not afraid to make fun of yourself. Of course, stretching the truth here or there doesn't hurt either! IP: Logged |
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glenbenton Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 144) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:47 PM
most girls dont really give a fuck if your massive, they would rather have a pretty boy with a nice face thats the only reason i can get laid. i mean im scrawney as fuck compaired to most of you. but like i say chicks only care if you have a handsome face IP: Logged |
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BROCK Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 95) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:54 PM
SASBEN, I THINK YOU GAVE ME A BONER!! IP: Logged |
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Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 194) |
posted May 01, 2000 10:57 PM
Yea, maybe I should get some reconstructive surgery...heheh ------------------ IP: Logged |
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studcj Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 818) |
posted May 01, 2000 11:12 PM
It's very simple. The bigger you are, the higher your confidence. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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sasben Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 126) |
posted May 01, 2000 11:16 PM
Brock: Why did I give you a boner ? :-) haha IP: Logged |
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Natural Wonder Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 185) |
posted May 01, 2000 11:19 PM
STUD's got a point!!! "the bigger you are the better your confidence!" (roughly what he said) Whatch out to not get over-confident girls think you're a jerk then! IP: Logged |
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B_Funk Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 110) |
posted May 02, 2000 01:30 AM
It's all about confidence. IP: Logged |
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demaroid Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 230) |
posted May 02, 2000 11:40 AM
Confidence comes through syringes and little tablets. Then you go to a place where they have big heavy weights and you lift them until it feels like your whole body is on fire. Then you put on a shirt that shows your guns and massive chest, go to a bar or club and just be your massive self with all of that dominat male shit pouring out of you and there you have it a perfect formula for getting what we all want....GIRLS! P.S. if that doesn't motivate your ass to get to the gym your dead. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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matty Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 480) |
posted May 02, 2000 11:43 AM
arent you the same kid that said he was doing 1000mgs of deca in 7th grade? with tits and 35% body fat? just wondering.....hhmmmm ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 194) |
posted May 02, 2000 12:44 PM
Bro, that was a joke...who else believed my story? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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matty Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 480) |
posted May 02, 2000 02:35 PM
that was a joke???!!!!!!?????!!!!! why dident you say it was ??? you should have covered your ass on that joke! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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scooby Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted May 02, 2000 03:31 PM
I don't know how you guys do it... how can you go up to a hot girl that you have no idea what she's like and just start talking to her. a lot of girls i know think that is freaky, the first thing they think is "who are you and why are you talking to me?" but thats just my personal opinion IP: Logged |
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SSMAN Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 166) |
posted May 02, 2000 03:40 PM
It all in the attitude Jay Z......women are attracted to confidence!! It's the way a guy carries himself.......you can sense a person who carries themselves in high regard.....the walk, the talk, the look  But then again maybe they confuse my quad injection induced brotherhood walk for an arrogant pimp limp SSMAN IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 102) |
posted May 02, 2000 04:10 PM
I have 2 things to say reguarding this post, in my experience a lot of guys are intimidated by stunning women, just remember that the get less serious attempts at it then the average looking nice girl (in most cases) And I refering to like the club/bar scene with people you dont know personally. Those girls get a lot of guys acting stupid and whistling at them and shit but as far as real trys they are less than average. Scooby, not a flame but maybe its the way you approach them got to be a little subtle but straightfoward. No one is 100% but if your like 5 out of 10 its all numbers just gotta sack it up and go talk to them. I agree confidence is big, I am even a little arrogant at first and then come back and am a little more genuine. I guess that was more than two things sorry for the ramble. It helps if they know other women dig you. Slopain IP: Logged |
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glenbenton Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 144) |
posted May 02, 2000 04:53 PM
jay z should change his name to gay z "that was a joke dude lighten up' IP: Logged |
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Platinum Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 164) |
posted May 03, 2000 10:33 AM
When you walk up to a stunning woman do not compliment her right away. Example? Last night I was out at a club with 2 of my body building impaired friends. We were hanging out and a couple of 9s walked in. I told my friends if I should lay down my mac-a-docious. They laughed and said I would crash and burn. Well, I walked up to the more attractive one and said "Damn, girl you are skinny. Don't you eat?" Her friends jaws dropped to the floor. I walked back to my friends and they were doing the infamous sign for crash and burn. You know you take your hand bring it down real quick and make a noise like "zzzzzz...booomm". Well, not five minutes later guess who I was talking to? Long story short. I got her phone number and I will probably call her in 2-3 weeks. Why? Because, these girls are used to being told they are beautiful. Go up there and say "Hey are those fingernails real or Lee press on?" or if she is wearing leather pants say "Damn, I didn't know they could make vinyl look so much like leather" Something like that...see how many doors it opens. Platinum ------------------ IP: Logged |
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ryry Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 70) |
posted May 08, 2000 02:07 PM
bump, this is a good topic IP: Logged |
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Joseph_stalin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 610) |
posted May 08, 2000 03:13 PM
supposedly that works. you are supposed to tell the slightly attractive girls that they are pretty, show disinterest in the extremely attractive girls, and offer acceptance to those with something that is bothering them. IP: Logged |
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RedHot Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 58) |
posted May 09, 2000 11:30 PM
Guys, just be yourself. Any girl who has confidence, is sure of herself and knows what she wants will wait around untils she gets its. It's called self confidence. I can tell what a guy is all about usually by just observing for a few minutes. Usually! Trust me, we also know when your trying too hard. Been aroud too many like that. There's no bigger turn off than getting to know somebody only to find out his outer package is the only thing he's got. I know you all got more than that. I always admire someone who has the balls to just walk up and introduce himself to me without trying to be "Ricco Suave". Just chill out. We usually don't bite. Not on the first date atleast! IP: Logged |
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ryry Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 70) |
posted May 10, 2000 01:56 PM
wow redhot, i think you just nailed it right there. but still even if girls don't bite, no body wants to get rejected! i know its a numbers game. you might be 9 out of 10. but that one that got away still hurts and bruises a mans ego. that is why its so hard for guys to step up is because the fear of rejection is too overwhelming. it would help a lot if girls would give out more signs. well at least thats what i think IP: Logged |
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JayeLynn Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 35) |
posted May 10, 2000 03:11 PM
listening to you guys offers some pretty light entertainment. I swear if there's one of you a day over 18, it doesn't show. If you absolutely must fit all women into a mathematical equation I'd suggest that you put away your algebra and start looking into non-linear differentials. IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 102) |
posted May 10, 2000 03:58 PM
JayeLynn, as crude as it sounds IT IS a numbers game. There is no denying it, the more women you approach the more oppurtunities you have to begin a relationship with them, and obviously the more oppurtunities the better your chances of finding a succesfull one. period. How can you say its not true? If you want to say well love shouldn't be a numbers game thats one thing. But as far as fitting all women into a mathmatical equation its easy watch: More attempts at interaction w/women = more interaction with women. Now throw some wine into the picture..never mind... Slopain IP: Logged |
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Smooth_Criminal Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted May 10, 2000 05:16 PM
Man u know whats tough, getting a real hot bitch, at another school. I see this chick like once a month or so at a party or whatever, but everytime i start having a convo with her, it gets interrupted by one of her friends at her college. I dont have problems talkin to ugly or average chicks, but for some reason I am so freakin conservative around hot chicks!!! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 102) |
posted May 10, 2000 05:35 PM
yeah smooth know what ya mean, chunky girls and gay men have a hankering for me for some reason... Slopain IP: Logged |
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