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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted April 29, 2000 01:21 AM
   Ok...why the hell do women dig fat dudes? What about the skinny ones?? The reason I wonder is there is a girl whom Ive been talking to lately..and thought the right vibe was there...well tonight she tell me how she just loves short chubby men...needless to say I about fucking lost it...it was all I could do not to just rant on it.. I dont get it??....ok..now I know that muscle is not everything..but I am educated, and very mannerly..now Im not blowing my own horn here..but I dont know why women are like this....????? I swear..I have a degree in pschology..and I still will never understand the rubiks cube known as women... Care to Clarify this for me..?? Later, WCP IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 520) |
posted April 29, 2000 10:34 AM
women are nuts plain and simple. The sooner you accept this the better. IP: Logged |
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E2 Moderator (Total posts: 3169) |
posted April 29, 2000 10:43 AM
Moe is wise! IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted April 29, 2000 05:49 PM
awwww damn....sorry I dont think I can accept it....I suppose its beyond my comprehension...well anyhow..I would like a ladies input here.. Bump!! WCP IP: Logged |
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waltzman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 126) |
posted April 29, 2000 07:26 PM
I havnt met one guy who understands women and i know i never will so i just stop wondering IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 282) |
posted April 29, 2000 09:37 PM
I always look at like this. Ask one what they want - the twenty minutes later ask them again, they will hve more than likely changed thier mind. Soooo - I would have to say they don't even know what they want. I have been testing this out on my wife for about 10 years. I have learned things are subject to change at anytime - and if you asked why they have changed they will not have answer for it. Just did! IP: Logged |
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goldilox Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 19) |
posted April 29, 2000 09:46 PM
women like pretty boys in general, like Brad Pitt for instance, not too many go for the Dorian Yates look, although we all know that my man Dorian is awesome. I can't relate to the fat boy phenomenon. must just be your luck. it always helps if your a musician, because girls like them, take a skinny tatooed guitar player who looks like he crawled out from under a rock, and check out the good lookin babes he draws. who can truly understand it....? IP: Logged |
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Brandi Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 37) |
posted April 29, 2000 09:50 PM
Okay, a womans opinion. Don't judge all women by what one likes. Just like men, we all prefer something that suites us as individuals. Personally, fat men don't do it for me and neither do skinny. A man who has a strong well cared for body suits me just fine. Also, what's up with all these posts that women like to be treated like shit. Anybody does that to me, they can hit the road. Life is too short to be treated like crap and to be in a relationship that doesn't make you happy. Then again, I'm sure there are ladies out there that like that kind of crap. It's not for me! IP: Logged |
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Gtn-Big2 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 116) |
posted April 29, 2000 09:57 PM
Or maybe she was trying to let you down easy and felt like that would be a good way, since you don't meeet the criteria and never will........................my 2 cents IP: Logged |
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goldilox Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 19) |
posted April 30, 2000 05:47 PM
Yeah I think Brandi is right for the most part, everyone is different and has different tastes. Brandi, do you think Brad Pitt is hunky or what? and are their some guys who just have that certain look, and would that be because they are pretty boys, no offence to you pretty boys. but if your a guitar playing pretty boy the girls will come a runnin..... IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted April 30, 2000 08:44 PM
Brandi..I for one have never posted anything on how women should be treated like shit..but Im sure that wasnt directed towards me. As for letting me down easy??..well I suppose thats possible..my ego has a hard time with the concept..but you could be right. IP: Logged |
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BiffBoom Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 416) |
posted May 01, 2000 09:35 AM
Sorry WCP....but Moe was right...just nuts! HEY MOE IP: Logged |
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Texas Guns Moderator (Total posts: 423) |
posted May 01, 2000 11:13 AM
Well from a woman's point of view, I don't want a man who is smaller than me. The bigger the better, that way I look smaller, hahahaha. Just Kidding. I think a woman, or at least I can speak for myself, wants a man who she can feel protected by. Granted that I can take care of myself in any situation, I still like to know there is someone there bigger and stronger who can jump in just in the nick of time to save the day. Also a woman likes to feel held. There is more security in a bear hugging you than a stick man. It also depends on the woman. One who likes to be in control all the time and dominant, likes a smaller man, because she feels like the boss. Some people like them the same size to be their total equal in everything. Last but not least, if she goes for what he looks like and not at the heart, well, then she gets what she deserves. HEARTACHE!!!! Judge a man by the size of his heart, not the size of his biceps!!! Mrs. TG ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Puc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 290) |
posted May 01, 2000 01:01 PM
I discovered the secret to women a while back, so I may as well share... 1) It doesn't matter what they WANT, because they do not know. Hence, the circular insanity. So -- All you ever really have to do is convince a girl that her friends want you, and she will. Puc IP: Logged |
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gearseeker Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 88) |
posted May 01, 2000 01:58 PM
PUC is very wise! IP: Logged |
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Vlad67 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 246) |
posted May 01, 2000 03:20 PM
I find myself with the same problem as the girl..sometimes im really attracted to short chubby women.......its usually after 3AM and alcohol is involved VK IP: Logged |
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Texas Guns Moderator (Total posts: 423) |
posted May 01, 2000 04:31 PM
One of the most attractive features of a man is self confidence and self sufficiencey. He may act like he doesn't need you, but he does. Give the little lady something to work for. And Puc was not half wrong. If she sees other women want you, then she thinks, "Hmmmm...maybe I missed something here and it's worth a second look!" ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Pipes Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted May 01, 2000 04:48 PM
I can't possibly imagine why any woman would be attracted to a fat dude. I must admit, i'm a little obssesive about that. I just don't like it, even if he was the nicest guy. There's nothing nicer than a lean body. I've even gone for guys who are quite thin, since the chance of them becoming fat is quite small. The only rational i can figure, is that the girls know that if they start gaining weight it won't be as noticeable, and the guy can't get mad. I wouldn't let it bother you too much, by the sounds of it, it's definetely her loss.... IP: Logged |
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Pokemon Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 95) |
posted May 01, 2000 05:02 PM
any women in here consider anal sex romantic? IP: Logged |
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Texas Guns Moderator (Total posts: 423) |
posted May 01, 2000 05:22 PM
Pokemon, Please get some kind of life!!!!! IP: Logged |
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Frackal Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 167) |
posted May 01, 2000 05:30 PM
Bwahahahahah!!! Are you serious POKE-emon???? Hahahahaahahaahahaha!!! IP: Logged |
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Pokemon Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 95) |
posted May 01, 2000 05:36 PM
any fitness women in here into lesbian, if so pin me. IP: Logged |
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thiassi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 302) |
posted May 01, 2000 05:36 PM
Is she hot? I'm about 6'1 but I've got some pudge around the middle. Ask her if she likes tall fat guys. L8R IP: Logged |
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Brandi Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 37) |
posted May 01, 2000 08:22 PM
Sorry WCP, I wasn't referring to you. Please don't take offense. IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted May 02, 2000 02:12 AM
NO offense taken.. and Thiassi..Ill ask her...and poke mon..your a sick fuck pal...I couldnt see anything being shoved up anyones ass as romantic...no flame intended. later, IP: Logged |
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delts Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 131) |
posted May 04, 2000 10:17 PM
Here's the ONLY thing that I am confident that I understand about women: Let them tell you their story and "just listen", if you make an attempt to help them with a problem they may have, you're f*ckin' up. They don't want answers, they just want someone to "actually" listen to them. Am I right ladies? delts ------------------ IP: Logged |
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The Ranger Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 976) |
posted May 09, 2000 07:58 PM
Ole Ranger to the rescue WCP, I agree with Texas Guns whole observation on women in general, but I'll add a little touch of the Ranger class from a man's point of view!!! !. Always make her feel like a woman first, and foremost in everything you do! 2. Never dominate the night....she has a brain and opinion too! 3. Manners will get you further than a smart-ass attitude! 4. Conversation is the key....show her your not just a over juiced, brain dead idiot......your already stero-typed that way....she will be pleasently surprised! 5. Be modest when it comes to your body....no bragging....big turn off in general! 6. Small compliments, and an easy smile will get a second date! 7. Chew with you mouth closed....not funny....I see you bone-heads not doing this! 8. Open doors, and remain standing until the lady is seated.....RESPECT! 9. Make eye contact....it's important to show her your interested in what she has to say....don't look at your feet and mumble jibberish.....shit! 10. Even if the evening sucked...tell her you had a great time....remember....a woman will spread the word about you.....she may not be the one this time, but her friend might be....! Of course none of this shit works for me....so I just write poetry instead, and wait to see Valhalla!!! Ranger IP: Logged |
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Bunny55 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 58) |
posted May 09, 2000 08:51 PM
Ranger - will you marry me?? Only kidding!!! Bunny IP: Logged |
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The Ranger Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 976) |
posted May 09, 2000 09:51 PM
Ssshhh...........Don't tell anyone Bunny55......People may think I'm just an old softy.....heh heh heh....Thanks....made my night....Peace!! Ranger IP: Logged |
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Texas Guns Moderator (Total posts: 423) |
posted May 09, 2000 11:32 PM
Bunny......Ranger......hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Could this be prophetic????? Ranger you are exactly right. Some women don't appreciate a good man so they get treated like trash. Girls, keep your eyes open and appreciate and take care of the good ones. They don't come along that often. Mrs. TG IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted May 10, 2000 02:49 AM
Ranger you are soooo full of shit...HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!....besides...ddidnt you know a bunny once...hmmm if I remember correctly. I agree with you though...actually all is well in this category now..I mis-read the whole thing....yeah I know..a pretty common male trait...heh..heh..Im in like sin...and Its All Good.. Later, IP: Logged |
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GEERHED Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 80) |
posted May 11, 2000 02:35 AM
What's worse than a Male Chauvenist Pig? A bitch who won't do what she's told. IP: Logged |
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Steak Helmet Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 78) |
posted May 13, 2000 03:29 PM
ALL WOMEN ARE...LIFE SUPPORT FOR PUSSY. EVERY WOMAN HAS THEIR OWN NEEDS AND THEY CHANGE LIKE THE TIDE. SO FUCK THEM ALL AND HAVE A GREAT DAY. IP: Logged |
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Rich1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 372) |
posted May 13, 2000 04:15 PM
Steak helmet isn't going to get a mate for some time, you might have a girl friend but your not mature enough yet to have a wife, real men have wives. I'm still playing the field, and I'm ready for commitment just haven't found her yet but if it's meant to be we'll find each other...I know I'm ready, but my damn job makes it hard to have a relationship, I travel too much and I 'll quit my job when I find the right one...So physically speaking I like women my size or shorter. I'm not a big guy, 5'4" 138, want to hit 150 on my next cycle. I like getting big gained 13 lbs on my last cycle of six weeks, next will be 10 weeks. T200 and eq.8% BF, leaner is better. I know my last cycle is just the beginning, lost 3 inches of belly fat, so being buff is good I want to look good for myself first and for the ladies second, gotta please my self first. I wouldn't do roids unless I liked how I look first after a cycle. later bro's! Respect to all the ladies on the board! IP: Logged |
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demaroid Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 329) |
posted May 15, 2000 01:44 PM
Sorry my luck has shown me women want the dominant men. Even if this guy is a jerk they will leave a pleasant conversation with a nice guy to fuck the hell out of a the jerk with the cash and confidence, sorry I am not stereotyping all women that way just the ones that live in Boise, Idaho that I have seen. question? Why are all the coolest hottest girls with bastards that treat them like shit? I have had many girls that I was interested in leave me to go out with one of the above mentioned types. I treated the with all the qualities on Rangers list but alas I don't have the key ingredient=Money!!! I am a poor full time student so I can kiss it all goodbye until I graduate. Thank you all for letting me vent I feel much better now! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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glenbenton Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 235) |
posted May 15, 2000 11:04 PM
i play bass and guitar but im not in a band i guess thats why the girls arnt a running at me IP: Logged |
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Mr. T Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 453) |
posted May 16, 2000 02:11 PM
A good sense of humor will get you in more pants than big arms will. The sooner you guys realize this the happier you will be. Ever meet a hot girl only to find out she has the IQ of your dog? Personality makes people way more attractive than they really are. Hard to find both though. (Looks and personality) Took me about 6 years until I found my wife- IP: Logged |
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BIG RICK ROCK Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 328) |
posted May 16, 2000 02:20 PM
GUYS I HAVE JUST POSTED AN ARTICLE ON THE SUBJECT, CHECK IT OUT!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
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Marcs25 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted May 16, 2000 08:13 PM
i see some of the finest lookin girls around here go for gangsters,lowlifes and they get pregnant and then there left alone with no father or support,to me it looks they want to screw there lives up. they could be much better off, i dont know i will never understand this maybe its an IQ thing. IP: Logged |
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E2 Moderator (Total posts: 3169) |
posted May 16, 2000 08:55 PM
I am really surprised at some of the answers in this thread, are you guys seriously that demented? E2 IP: Logged |
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WCP Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 914) |
posted May 19, 2000 01:01 AM
E2 you know me well enough to know that Im perfectly moral in all my actions....
WCP IP: Logged |
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Bicepasaurus Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 22) |
posted May 21, 2000 02:34 PM
Women are dunces. All of them. I've been in school with some very academically inclined females, but they still take 45min to comb their hair, and they can never make their minds up. They are perceived as innocent and precious, but in reality they're just as bad as men. So if she says she thinks George Castanza is Hot...wait to next week for her to change her opinon. IP: Logged |
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BigGuns2 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 44) |
posted May 21, 2000 07:14 PM
I now know all the secrets of women. They are looking for an overweight skinny guy who is sweet but treats them like shit. He should have big arms but not muscular. I'm going to admit myself to the funny farm now. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Stumpy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 49) |
posted May 22, 2000 01:57 AM
Women like tall men. So, if you're short, like I am, the best thing to do is to pull the trigger now and save the embarrassment of being genetically inferior. ------------------ [This message has been edited by Stumpy (edited May 25, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Fitnessbarbie Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 25) |
posted May 23, 2000 03:29 PM
Nice Stumpy....and you wonder why you can't meet any nice women. IP: Logged |
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BigPappa Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 27) |
posted May 24, 2000 02:14 PM
Hey Stumpy! News Flash bro! Your 5'2" ass ain't gettin' nothing! Especially with that attitude. You short bros have to really charm their pants off, literally, 'cause nothing else will. IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 282) |
posted May 24, 2000 04:12 PM
Well as this thread proves, wemon should have the right to change thier minds often. What a bunch of idiots. I truly understand know what has happened. Maybe from years of male conditioning the subconscious has had to build this defense against over bearing male hormones. It has all become very clear. Rangers right treat her like a lady! JJJEEEEEZZZZEEEEE IP: Logged |
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Bunny55 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 58) |
posted May 24, 2000 07:00 PM
Cleaner, Yes women change their minds often. Just read the myriad of responses to this question to see what we have to work with - LOL From the "only around for sex" to "play nice and act like a gentelman" No wonder we change our minds often!!!! Geeze!! If women had responed like this heaven only knows what men would do. Just thoughts Bunny IP: Logged |
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The Ranger Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 976) |
posted May 24, 2000 08:58 PM
Heh heh heh...Good one Bunny...!!! Ranger IP: Logged |
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Jay Z Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 405) |
posted May 25, 2000 12:08 AM
most women just want somebody they can control...i said most, not all. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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