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dunkin

Cool Novice

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From:east Jesus new mexico
Registered: Jan 2001

posted March 09, 2001 06:00 PM

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I work out and take steroids but my genetics are so poor look like a normal guy 180 with a gut and 15 inch arms. That is sad sure I will get bigger but the side effects such as hairloss are not going well. Feel like was screwed over. Feel bad about myself all the time hard to look people in the eye cant hold a job think it is because I huffed lots of gas when I was a kid cant pay attention. Want to get surgery and braces but cant because am not working. I am sure you are sick of me feeling sorry for myself but it just feels good to get it out. Havent had sex since 99. erevy relationship has ended up with me getting my heart broke. Even if a girl would be interested scare them away because I dont know why anybody would want to be with me.Being ugly,fat,small sucks. Wish I was somebody else, It really pisses me off to work so hard on my body and get so so results. Mabey life will get better. At least im not in prison,parlized or missing a arm. Anybody else feel like shit?


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HappyScrappy

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posted March 09, 2001 06:14 PM

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well, I tried to kill myself once and fortunately fucked that up and I got a new outlook on life after some time in the hospital.
there are a billion people out there (probably more) with much harder lives and I always keep that in mind whever I complain about something in my own life.
The biggest change to help me was to stop being so competetive about everything and set reasonable goals. I used to do anything to win and to acheive goals immediately. I was lucky and happened to actually follow through on a lot of that, but then for awhile I didn't, and I felt like shit and failure for it.
Now I set goals well enough into the future that they are reasonable to attain, but not so far off that they are impossible to envision. This also allows room for little errors along the way that won't really have much to do with the long term outcome.

You might want to look into counseling or the like - I personally hated it and will never ever go through it again, but I know it has worked for many other people. the best way to find out if you are one of those people is to try it out. (this board is a bit like a counselor, you can vent your feelings and get responses to them, but it is free!)

I know it is frustrating to just hear someone tell you to suck it up and deal - but in reality, they mean well. if you think you can reevaluate your situation and make slow changes for the better, then that would be my recommendation.
or hookers.

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"Fear of things invisible is the natural seed of that which every one in himself calleth religion."
--Thomas Hobbes, Leviathan (1651)

Build a man a fire, he is warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he is warm for a lifetime.


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Steelheart

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posted March 09, 2001 06:18 PM

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I wish I was my Girlfriend- So I know what it feels to get Fucked by someone like me.

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To Prevent Temptation-Perform Some Masterbation


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Warik

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From:Miami, FL
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posted March 09, 2001 06:41 PM

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I sometimes wish I could be my future self, for that is the only man whom I would ever consider my superior.

-Warik

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BY THE POWER OF GRAYSKULL!!!


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1911

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posted March 09, 2001 06:55 PM

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quote:
ever wish you were somebody else?

No.

quote:
Anybody else feel like shit?

No.


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Adonis

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From:Central Cal
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posted March 09, 2001 06:57 PM

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Never !!!


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MattTheSkywalker

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posted March 09, 2001 07:32 PM

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Dunkin,

We all have our ups and downs brother.

Lately I've been having more downs than ups. I screwed up witha really great girl and I am trying to get her to see beyond that - I really care for her and not having her around really sucks.

I'm feeling shitty now. I know I can "meet another one" but this was a special girl. I wish I handled things better. I wish I could go back in time and change things. Life is never perfect.....we all get banged up at times.

Hang in there. It all comes around.


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goleafs

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posted March 09, 2001 07:33 PM

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nope , i am completely in love with myself...


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MP5

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posted March 09, 2001 07:47 PM

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I don't want to be someone else. Even lately my luck is fucking horrible. I keep getting sick, I had to buy a new engine in my truck, I have to move out in a month and have no where to go. My job sucks, and as I type this I am getting a sore throat. Fuck working in an office, all you do is get sick. But...life goes on.

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Stan O'Zolol

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From:Ste. Roid, Quebec
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posted March 09, 2001 09:18 PM

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Matty,

Is this a relatively new girl or one of the old ones?


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GLP

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From:columbus,ohio,usa
Registered: Oct 2000

posted March 09, 2001 10:16 PM

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You kind of sound like my older brother. He dosent look a thing like anybody in my family. But girls have picked him before over me dont know why but a few have. not many though. sounds like you need to get a job and get the work you need done bro you will be a much more confident and have a better life if you feel better about yourself.


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N-V-R-2BIG

Amateur Bodybuilder

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From:la
Registered: Sep 2000

posted March 09, 2001 10:49 PM

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YALL PUSSIES!!! (dont take that literally)
i would trade places with anyone on this board!!! i have enough problems in my life that every morning when i wake up i wonder why i didnt blow my head off the night before!!! lol! the bad part about it is i am goodlooking compared to most, i have a good body compared to most. anyway enough about this shit!!! just be glad you all dont have any real and bigger problems to deal with like i do. and no i'm not getting into it right now!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I fucked ya mutha, that makes me the MUTHA FUCKIN MAN


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GLP

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From:columbus,ohio,usa
Registered: Oct 2000

posted March 09, 2001 10:57 PM

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What is so bad in your life bro? and to dunkin. bro go for the looks before the body girls dig looks a body will get you somewhere but not nearly as far as good looks


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HamsterHider

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posted March 09, 2001 11:00 PM

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dUDE atleast your roomate isn't threatening a restraining order that could ruin your career that isn;'t true. Take 10 deep breaths go for a walk look at the stars and pray. You'll be ok


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