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 Should I get this girl flowers for our second date? -I need girls' imput
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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This chick is cool as shit and hot too. I want the make this last. I dont wanna look like a freak or stalker?. If you think I should, what kind should I get her?     | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 135 |
Cripes man don't ask for a girls input, they'll be like oh yeah buy her a diamond, or give her your credit card for the night. Seriously, I never bought a girl flowers once in my life, and I never had any problems getting laid or getting in some sort of relationship with them. It's all in the personality, the way I see it, that old tradition stuff is just that, OLD. Just be cool and somewhat entertaining, and keep your ears open to what she's saying and try and communicate, you won't need any flowers or other rigmarole to take her mind off something you might be lacking in. | ||
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Freak 
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not a girl here, but i think maybe a single rose would be cool and not freaky or stalkerish. im old fashioned though. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 530 |
never buy a girl flowers bro, never be nicer then you have to, or women will take advantage of you, they're like piranhas | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1159 |
quote: AHAHAahha!!!! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 135 |
OK, then don't over do it then. Treat her like any other girl you scored with, you overdo it, you're gonna give her that impression of too into the whole thing, cause you know, as odd as it may seem, some girls just don't want a guy to be too into them, that is, unless youre rich. Don't smoter her, play it normal. I know just buying her flowers or soemthing isn't really smothering, but a chick might think "oh man here we go, he's going to fall head over heels for me and be a pain in the ass" Just play it safe. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1159 |
Burning inside. There's also the possiblility that she'll think I'm a real sweet guy. that's why I need some input from the few women here. apreciate your point though | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 383 |
Ok sweetie, how old are you, how old is she, let me know & I'll tell ya what to do.... ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1159 |
I'm 21 and she's 22 | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 383 |
Alright, I don't need to know your age I guess. Don't treat her like all the other girls, we pick up on that shit you know. Yes, if you would like to buy flowers do so. I was a sure thing when receiving flowers, they were usually some illegal buds though, hahahahaha...j/k anyways, get some nice roses, no more than 6 or possibly just 1 (already suggested). Don't go for the long stem dozen. That is overkill. The reason I wanted to know your age is if you live alone (meaning w/o parents and her too) get a nice bottle of wine instead, wine does wonders, Natural Wonders, hehehehehe...get my drift? Go ahead and buy the gal some flowers, it can't hurt. Then if you continue to date, only buy them once in a blue moon, make it special, not a chore.....let me know what you think... ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 383 |
quote: you posted while I was in the middle of my blah, blah, blahing....Do you live alone or does she, will the wine thing work? ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1159 |
Thank appreciate the fast response. Yeah, she lives by herself. But I'm afraid she'll think I'm trying to get in hers pants, because on our first date we went to a bar and I got her a few glasses of wine and she was a little tipsy..... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 383 |
Then go with the flowers and if you don't get laid then bring on the wine the next time...seriously....!!!!  Only get her flowers if you are picking her up at her house, so she can put them in a vase or toilet or whatever...hehehehe...I, myself am drinking a LOT of wine at the moment....------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1159 |
how old are you kartchick? | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 530 |
don't do it bro, the more a girl thinks that you are not interested, the more she will want you, sounds dumb it is true, play it real cool at first like you like her, but you're only sorta interested, trust me it works | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 60 |
nat. wan. well one thing you are already making a mistake on is prizing her. if you treat her like a prize then she will act like one. she will use it to her advantage later in the relationship. treat her like your best friend. dont try to show her off. get her one single rose and give it to her. dont come off too strong like a dozen but get her something. the key here is talking. let her know how you feel and let her know your intentions. if hers arent similar its better for you to know now then for her to tell you later. it will be much more painful. the little things count here. they mean a LOT! just talk and let her know whats up. dont let her think that you just want the pussy. most of them think like that. dont try to get it too soon or just let her make the final move if yall are messing around! i actually turned mine down the first two times to prove to her that i cared for her!!! to bad she is selfish and a fucking bitch now!!!!!!!!!!!!! boy did i make a mistake ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1159 |
WOW, I dont think I'll ever be able to turn down pussy, I'm suprised I dont go on raping sprees. I'm dieting right down and eating only 1200cals a day, bearly any carbs. I got no energy but still horny!!! ahahha | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
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