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 I GIVE UP!!!
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 139 |
Uhhh....I cannot get a guy. Plain and simple. I have so many guy friends, but they all consider me "one of the guys." Who cares if I would rather watch football on a saturday night than go out and spend a wad of money on things that are not going to last. So what if I like to hunt, camp, fish, play sports (yes, even tackle football), and be active all the time. What on earth is wrong with that? I just don't like to be bored. I do know how to sit down, cuddle, be romantic, and other stuff like that. Why can't they see this! I have a great personality, I swear I do! And..I'm not even one of those girls who bitches because the guy wants to go out with his buds or wants to dip in front of me. I am SO easy going! Oh well...I guess my time will come....but when???      | ||
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Mutant   
Posts: 3355 |
I think I'm in love!!! | ||
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Freak
Posts: 2524 |
I know you are expecting to get a lot of offers from the men on this board so let me be the first to clear off a spot on my face for you. Just kidding..I'm sure you'll do fine hun, you're pretty. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 2058 |
do like having sex on a boat? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 958 |
Well it's their loss not yours...keep your head up the right guy is out there... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Frackal--well, I didn't post this to get a lot of responses from guys...I just posted it to get it off my chest. To me it is very frustrating. I would just once love for a guy to come up and ask me out rather than me having to temporarily grow balls and ask him out. Is that too much to ask??? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 67 |
Why don't you put up a personal ad at love@aol. I do that all the time and meet plenty of cool chix. | ||
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Olympian 
Posts: 1893 |
Do you just want to get laid, or do you want a boyfriend? If you want to get laid, then its not that difficult. And if you want a boyfriend...waht the hell would you want some rock hanging off your neck for? Boyfriends are a pain. | ||
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Mutant
Posts: 3261 |
Stop looking so hard, you'll meet someone when you least expect it. If you really like to do those things, don't change to please someone else either, otherwise their likeing for you will be superficial. All the qualities listed ar every good in my book, maybe you live in a town full of chumps... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 396 |
NF--you must be joking? I just bumped your pic because I didn't want any of the guys on here to miss out seeing you. you certainly don't look like "one of the guys" in that picture! Wodin--I second the tought. I've been all depressed from my breakup, but hearing that there is a beautiful woman out there with that description... suddendly the world looks brighter! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Gilbyag- Oh come on...what girl wouldn't want to do that!  About the love@aol thing...I guess I have too much pride to go on one of those things...it seems like to me that those places are a "last resort" type thing. Hmmm....never know though. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 2524 |
Well nightfly, I understand. I however cannot help you because I am quite frightened of women and when they are checking me out I get very self concious and want to run away. I have also never asked a random girl for her number nor asked a girl out who I didn't know already liked me. But..I am beginning to cultivate a 'who gives a fuck' attitude toward women so maybe I shall be more sucessful in my future encounters. Umm..sorry to get off topic. Do you live in colorado? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 958 |
hey NF can you get on icq now? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
quote: Thick--I agree with you, but it's hard to just "stop looking", you know? I haven't and will never change just to please someone else...I learned that lesson a long time ago. It leaves me with no identity. And...I think I do live in a town full of chumps...who knows. Kat, I would preferably like a boyfriend. You are right when you say that finding a fuck buddy would not be hard. I had one of those, but it gets tiring. I said I would try to quit looking, but I think I still do it sub-consciously. Ever have that problem? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 230 |
You sound like my long lost twin.LOL, I saw your pic and you are a cute chick. I too like to watch sports, I race go-karts, I'm a goddamn Tom Boy! I never thought I would be able to find a guy like I did. He builds my karts, watches sports with me, cuddles me, treats me like the sexiest woman alive. I love it. It wasn't always that way. When I was in college I was "one of the guys." I hated it, but I wasn't changing for anyone or anything. Keep being yourself and some great guy will come along who thinks you are the "BOMB!" ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 191 |
Does it make you feel any better to know that it is not easy for any to find the right person to start a relationship with? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 83 |
How old are you? You're good looking and fun | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
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Psychoskitz(your name makes me wonder) | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1893 |
to be honest Night Fly, I never had a moments worry about getting a guy. When I was single I was happy, and if a half decent guy fell into my lap, then hey, I'll give it a go, and if it doenst work, being single is in some ways alot easier and lot more fun...its just a little lonely sometimes, but thats the deal. Then again , I grew up with a mom who said "it takes a hellofa man to be better than no man at all"....shes been a widow for 7 years and everytime someone says "why dont you get a boyfriend" she says "why, so someone can be under my feet? kids and husbands are no different and my kids are grownups now..dont need another one under my feet"...LOL.... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Kat, yeah, I think I need to start taking that kind of attitude about it. It's not that I'm depressed or anything...I am still happy and can go on with my life...I just like to have someone to share it with. Oh well...no more looking for me! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 382 |
quote: When I moved to Austin I put adds in Yahoo personals and Classifieds2000.com. [This message has been edited by john937 (edited February 26, 2001).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 230 |
This is what you need to do. Date different guys, stay single for a while, have a fuckin' blast while you are young. One day when you are married & a mommy like myself you'll say to yourself, "ohhhhhh, to be yound & single again!!!" ....wait a minute, I am still young, just not single. & Kat's mother is 100% correct, smart lady.... ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
quote: Thanks so much! I'll have to try that out! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 230 |
Actually I was refering to Kat quoting her mother, I agree with her 100%. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 2959 |
Screw a relationship! just have fun and then get married when your 30 or 35,. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1188 |
Hang out with hot girlfriends in public and pretend you are Lesbian. Guys will suddenly take great interest in "converting" you. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 83 |
I'm 20 as well, 21 in a half a year. Don't worry, my psychoticness doesn't show | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1033 |
Maybe youre not feminine enough. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Superdave--that's just it. I KNOW how to be feminine and I can carry myself with the best of them, but I also like to have fun and be my tom boyish self. I can dress up, go out, and rock the town...Who knows... | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 35 |
Diddo with WODIN! I would have to agree I think I am in love! Its to bad you don't live in Texas. | ||
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Mutant
Posts: 3130 |
your penis-like clitoris may be the source of all the confusion...see a doctor... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 83 |
Come to me, we can go to a football game together and then get into a fist fight  ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 206 |
So, you say i can dip in front of you??? You will have no problems my dear... If you keep posting on here tonight, you will probably have a b/f by midnight.. | ||
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Guru   
Posts: 5366 |
Well I usually don't come over here but I heard it through the Elite grapevine that their was a cute women over here who wasn't far from the spot that I live in. I searched for your pic"And yes you are cute". Needless to say if you havn't found a boyfreind yet keep your head up You shouldn't have a problem you look great and second you sound like a fun person to be around. Their are only a few around that are even in the same ballpark as you. Goodluck and if your ever In Louisville Shoot me an e-mail I'll show you around. Jay ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 950 |
Being just a tad older than you Night Fly...all I can say is that love finds you..it always comes when you are not looking for it..You are a very pretty woman... Trust me..it will find you... (It would find you a lot easier if you came up to Illinois where I am) ;-) Keep your chin up and it will happen......... ------------------ "You and I are getting in the Lifeboat..Father will be staying here a while.. "Go along with Mother to the Lifeboat" "John..." "Don't even say it I'll be fine..I'll collect you both tomorrow morning..You and this beloved Son of mine" | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
quote: Yeah, I heard {through the grapevine) that there were some fine ass guys in TX...TX, here I come! I am actually going to try to make it out there some time this summer. Seen ya'll soon! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 212 |
BigJay running game!?! That's a different tone than the one we get over on the anabolic board, Jay. What's up? JK, man. Anyway, NF...when you emailed me several weeks ago, I had no idea you were a girl until I read a post from you the other day. (I can't remember which one it was.) Where can I find that pic they're talking about? ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Genetiking---I don't ever remember emailing you, but the pic you are looking for is further down on the page...it says "Pics of night fly...posted by big buck." BigJay, I'll have to make my way up to Louisville sometime...is it fun, there? | ||
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Guru
Posts: 5366 |
Every Place is fun when you go out with me its not the location but the company that you are in. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
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Guru
Posts: 5366 |
Sure their are tons of tings to do here. From carriage rides downtown Boxing matches, Batting cages, Opera, many many clubs, Just about anything that you could think of you just have to know the right people to get in. Goodluck You'll find what your looking for. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 212 |
NF...Remember, you asked me where I lived in TN. I told you I had been to your hometown a few months ago? I think you emailed a friend of mine as well. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
quote: Man....I'm sorry...my mind is drawing a blank. I remember something about it...maybe you can email me a refresh my memory. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 212 |
My God, you're gorgeous. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 212 |
You must be pulling our chains. I'm sure you have guys drooling over you everyday. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 212 |
Okay, you told me you went to a show in the Kingsport area and I told you I just graduated from ETSU in Johnson City. Ring any bells? |
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