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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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I just read that guys post about his 20 year old friend that couldnt get laid. I've got a hot girlfriend but its because my friend hooked us up. Other than that I'm somewhat nervous to approach chicks. Lets help the guy out. What can he do to improve his game? DC     | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 473 |
I need to know this as well, unless Im a little intoxicated I am to shy to do anything, I caught two girls looking at me today and smiling but I didn't do anything, I feel stupid | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 39 |
maybe if you stoped watching wrestling you might learn somthing about women. instead of watching men grope eachother on tv, | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 473 |
whatever, I don't know why u flame me considering I have never even talked to u before | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 2525 |
Yeah austin that shit happens to me too bro. More with older women, ie. 20-40+, especially at the gym. They sit there and stare and I'm like, WTF is going on, so I look down to make sure my dick's not hanging out or something, then I realize that they are checking me out and I smile at them, they smile back...then I puss out and look away. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 473 |
This was when I was closing down my store, they (2 of em prob bout 17-18) smiled, I nodded, they giggled and smiled more, I left the mall and I guess they did to. Same fucking thing has happened quite frequently lately. Im feeling ashamed and stupid about it [This message has been edited by Austin316 (edited February 25, 2001).] | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 39 |
I WAS JUST KIDDING MAN. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 473 |
its all cool then, It's hard to tell if people are serious or not on this board | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 609 |
Find a reason to ask a question, do it, then introduce. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 51 |
follow them every where they go for a couple months and take pictures... hehe j/j i usually just ask their name and if they are intrested in me it will progress further. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 12 |
Women scare me also... ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 596 |
i find meeting woman through work is the best and easiest way. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 222 |
number one is to be polite and just try and break the ice with small talk even if it's just hello, next be yourself and don't try to be someone your'e not because eventually you'll have to expose who you really are and if she doesn't like that person ( who you are ) then it wouldn't be worth it to try and be phony in the beginning. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 970 |
Ok this shouldn't be that hard to give you a few ideas... 1. Just relax and be yourself maybe even add a bit of the "I dont give a fuck attitude" when you start getting nervous just laugh at yourself a little bit and say.."Ahh I don't give a Fuuuccckkk" it will make you laugh a little more and smile some(Say this to yourself not her). It never hurts to come across as friendly when they see you smile 2.While smiling look directly into their eyes and try to see how their eyes react to such a deep look. If you can't think of anything worthwhile to say you can always comment on their pretty eyes.(That has to be a last resort) 3. Find a common point to start with. If they are shopping comment on whatever store their bag is from or ask them what they are or were shopping for. In general you can ask them a simple little question like "what brings you here" or "how are you doing today" just remember KISS A conversation is 90% body language, so just be comfortable with yourself, smile, look into her eyes and make notice of things about her, and last but not least find a common point to start up a conversation with...This simple and plain jane approach works for most occasions | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1337 |
It depends on where you are at. If you are just walking around somewhere just make eye contact and look away-and look back. If they look back then just casually approach them. One hint-compliment them with something like this " Im sorry to bother you but that (haircut, ect.) looks nice on you. Where did you get it. The reason I am asking is that my best friend is your/frame/size and it would look great on her. Hint to her that she looks better than your imaginary friend. 2) Shop at a place like Bath and Body works-theres lotsa coochie there. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1335 |
GHB does wonders for removing inhibitions and making you talkative... | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2749 |
Last night I was at the bar/club. I was ordering a "Jack and Coke" when I saw this girl standing about 10 feet away. After I got my drink I walked over to her and said "Hello." I asked what her name was and we started talking for a while....just B.S.-ing about what we do etc. Turns out she's a teacher and I asked her about that...no magic there....A short while later she gave me her number....I'll probably give her a call and ask her out. If that sounds simple and easy, it is. Women are people too. Seriously. yeah they are "wired" differently, but the following is true: She knows right away if she will be interested. We think some girls are attractive, and some we need not bother with. Same with them. You either have a look that she likes, or you don't. Generally being tall and fit, plus clean and just decently dressed will be 90% of it. You don't have to be Fabio. Just take 10 minutes to look nice. The worst thing she can do is not be interested. SO FUCKING WHAT? Move on. Ladies does that make sense? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
When it doubt, whip it out. If that doesn't get her attention, then proceed to slap her across the face with it. There it is folks, once again uncle fistfullofsteel delivers the goods. | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2749 |
Fist - Nice. I bet you get laid every year. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
quote: You hit the nail on the head with this one! Most girls like this kind of attitude! You have some very informative and intelligent posts, TXcollegeguy....what are you going to school for? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
ummmmmmm, that was joke, if you didn't figure it out. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
quote: YOU MADE THE WRONG BET | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2749 |
quote: The wrong bet? So you don't get laid every year? Oh dear....that's too bad. Try doing what I described above. You'll get some eventually. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
sorry, i have no interest in the priesthood. i most definitely don't want or need your advice. [This message has been edited by fistfullofsteel (edited February 25, 2001).] | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
quote: yes, i don't get laid every year. i do have sex with my girlfriend almost every day though. | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2749 |
have you given your hand a name yet? Or do you just call it "my girlfriend"? We can clown all day. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
quote:
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 893 |
no wait, "matt's mom", that is what she likes to call herself. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 736 |
would you guys shut the hell up and go make fun of my pictures? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 970 |
Night fly I was trying to impress upon him that he should think this in his mind. I wouldn't suggest comming across like "what the fuck" cause it might apear a bit to brash... right now I'm in a rough spot with college. I'm a Computer information systems major, but soon to change. The program here at my school is more like the Computer science program just not as in depth. I enjoy Economics and Management courses, but I can't really decide which one I would want to graduate with. So for the past year I have been doing a little soul searching to find the answer to that question. I am leaning toward economics because I enjoy reading data about market and industry conditions. I enjoy putting on my "Swami" hat and gazing into a crystal ball to make predictions...lol Just kidding To be honest i'm really just wasting my parents money till I figure out what kind of degree I want or what might help me the most. I really want to start into Sales for a Telecommunications company to learn a bit more about the business, then go from there | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Ah...sounds interesting! I wish you luck with that! | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 970 |
thankyou nightfly...what is it that you do? if you don't mind me asking | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
Well, I am in my second semester of nursing school now. I am currently doing my psych rotations which allows me to hang out with the crazy people at the state mental health institution! It's actually pretty fun! I have a year and a half left and after that I want to get my paramedic/EMS so that I will be able to be a flight nurse. I will be in school 3 and a half more years! Uhhh...oh well. I love what I do, and I can't wait to finally get to where I want to be. It's so hard, though. Never studied so hard in my entire life!  | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 970 |
That sounds like a very interesting line of work. I'm always on icq so hit me up if you ever get bored during studying | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 901 |
go up to a girl and introduce yourself with a hello, how are you, i am so and so and your? then tell her that she has very nice eyes. in fact they twinkle like stars in a night sky. then go on to tell her she has an amazing pair of legs, and you wanted to know what time they open. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 440 |
One day when I was 21, I bumped into this girl that I had liked since high school. We talked for a few minutes and she sais to me "do you want to go for a walk in the park with me?" Then the stupidest words I've ever said popped out of my mouth, I said "Uh, I gotta go lift". I knew that wasn't what I wanted to say as I was saying it. I just got nervous and freaked out. She got kind of pissed and things were never the same. 7 years later I still want to go back and do that moment over again! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 66 |
1. Whatever you do, DON'T APPEAR DESPERATE, or your fucked. 2. Whatever you do, DON'T APPEAR CLINGY or your fucked. In my humble opinion women dont want to be your | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1178 |
CONFIDENCE in yourself. Once you truly have that you'll be having sex with more women than you can count if that's what you so choose to do. [This message has been edited by The Whole F/N Show (edited February 27, 2001).] | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1191 |
Get on clomid. You will suddenly become the "sensitive type" and find you can converse with chicks about the dumbest things for long periods of time. I am not kidding. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 182 |
Yeah, basically I've heard that it's confidence, but I wouldn't know, cuz eery time I want to talk to a chick, my nuts shrivel up and I can't grow the balls to do so. Even when they are staring right at me, I'll just turn away, it's like I have to wait for them to come to me! I ned to grow some real brass balls. I can stick myself with a 18ga x 1.5in needle, but I cant talk to chicks........... |
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