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 Girl problems! Please feed my advise
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 216 |
Alright heres the story. I met this girl 2 1/2 weeks ago we went out maybe 5-6 times and i am really into her. We started getting kinda close kissing and what not. But still this is not a relationship we dont talk on the phone regulary or anything cause she doesnt seem to call me unless i have called earlier. i wanted to see if she'd just call and she hasnt. Also on valentines she said some guy asked her out for dinner i dont know if it was her friend or whatever but i was so crushed i didnt ask and just pretended it didnt bother me. I called a few days before but dont think her sister gave her the messages so i didnt get a chance to ask her out. So whatever that leaves me here now havent talked to her for a couple days and wondering if i should just give up or try to call her. I have no idea if she is intrested but she seem like it when she is around me! Maybe i am just getting played!? Anyone have any ideas?     | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 562 |
As far as i can see shes just "playing" you, in a sense that she is not looking to be stuck with you. Treat her like shes treating you, take what you can, but dont ger serious. Otherwise it could end in some heartbreak, plus getting tossed to the side. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 85 |
She may be the type that doesn't call guys, if there are any girls like that anymore. I have a yr. old boy and girls call all the time. As Slick said you may be getting played but at the same time she may not be THAT interested. To find out be honest even if you don't really want to hear the answer. Call her, ask her out, if she gives you the run around the forget it, if not and she agrees to another date let her know what your concerns are (are you into me Blah Blah Blah?) You know, do it in a cool way though. But get the info you need, it suck sitting around saying to youself WTF is going on. Flat out ask without sounding desperate, it's only been 2 1/2 weeks. Maybe she just doesn't want to seem forward. Hell I don't know, just ask her what the problem is, you like me or not?  Let me know how it goes.------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 216 |
How do u go about that without seeming like a loser she acts and tells me she enjoys being with me. Also we r goin snowbording next week so I dont know!  I am fuckin confused but dont feel to call her! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 259 |
Well have you hooked up with her/gotten with her or just hung out? I would say dont call her for a few days or until the night before you guys are supposed to go snowboarding.. Dont sweat no hoes bro... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 216 |
We been hangin out just cuddling and kissing nothing serious u know but i really like this girl and never told her or anything i am guessing should could tell but how the hell do I ask a girl if she is intrested in me? without looking like a fool | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 245 |
What we have here is a lack of communication! How do you know that she is not wondering the same about you? Make your intentions known so that you can figure this thing out. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 756 |
quote: Uh, why would a girl kiss you and cuddle with you if she wasn't interested? I don't understand. It doesn't make sense to me. -Warik ------------------ BY THE POWER OF GRAYSKULL!!! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 216 |
you are as confused as i am man! ? Thats what i mean what the hell is goin on you know! | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 18 |
DUDE trust me on this one man. if she isnt acting interested now she wont later. it will only get worse. live up to your handle, beat her ass. i just had to break up with my girl cuz of similar shit. we have been together 8 months. if she were here i would knock her the fuck out thats how aggravated i am about the shit. fuckem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont sweat them hoes, let them hoes ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 993 |
Its too soon to tell either way, but if you really want to know where whe stands, have sex with her then dont call her for a couple days. She will change her tune because now she has "given it up" to you and will not want to feel easy and will be interested in you. Its a win-win for you because you get to have sex. I know you might be thinking "but I really like this girl and want to take it slow", thats not how it works if they play games like she does. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 97 |
Warik, because that's how some girls are. Sometimes girls will just kiss and cuddle with a guy so they don't have to explain to him that they don't like him. Others will just do it because that's all they want....just someone to kiss and cuddle with. Eminem...I suggest you just be honest with her (like kartchick said). Just call her and ask her if she would like to go out...see what she says...and then talk to her about what you're thinking. Girls actually like it when the guy is honest with them. Well, I do, anyway. Good luck with it. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 790 |
Well be carefull man Reguardless what you or others might think Honesty doesn't get people very far now days. Oh sure you might find the occasional person who is truely a good person and will listen and give you the honest answer wether you like it or not...I can't say most people in this world are like that now. She might tell you what you want to hear for fear of making you feel hurt, or she could just say no and continue to go out with you and do things... I'm just wondering how old are you? Unless your in a position that your ready to find someone and settle down I would suggest you just have some fun, get to know her more let her get to know you, and if somewhere along the way you both feel like hooking up then cool, if not dont sweat it. Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel but be real with yourself. Is this the time that those things should be talked about? and 1 last thing...why not call her up some time to see what shes doing and do this before you leave to go out with someone else. See how she acts when you tell her. That would seem like a more honest upfront way to see how she would feel vs throwing your feelings out there in the open leaving her to decide that bam in your face choice.... Oh and have fun | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 162 |
be honest with her... let things happen.. like football.. let the play happen and dont force anything.. just let it play its course.. u could be the D-end who gets the sack.. or u could be the QB who gets sacked.. let it happen.. and call her up tell her what ur feeling. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 62 |
get her to fuck shes taking the piss | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 119 |
Forget about her, she sounds like she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. |
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