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 Help, I love a married woman
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 316 |
I've been obsessing about this lady I work with for a long time. The problem, she's married. I rarely find a woman that I want for more than sex (I know I sound like a sexist pig) but I love everything about her. She likes me as a friend and she sort of gives me this vibe that if she didn't have a husband she'd be interested in me. I know she has no intention of leaving her husband but I still can't stop thinking about her. God I'm going insane!!    | ||
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Olympian 
Posts: 1752 |
I feel the same way about a married women and i am insane... ------------------  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 56 |
Married= Ready for something new | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1027 |
If you know there's no way she'll leave her husband then there's no point in trying to start a long term relationship. However if she feels the same about you, is bored and seems cool about a discreet, no-strings-attatched affair, then go for it! Drop a line like 'Damn, I wish you were single' and see how she reacts. | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 2372 |
As a husband - If she plays into the shit - shame on me. As far as married = looking for something new Good luck | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1203 |
stop loving the married woman. focus attention on a single one, they are much easier to get into bed and you won't have a husband coming to kill you when you bang her. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 420 |
Bump for Cleaner. You really are getting yourself into a huge mess if you go through with this. Consider: 1. She falls in love with you- result: You screw up a marriage with endless pitfalls and nasty situations between yourself and her. Plus could YOU ever really trust her? I mean she screwed around on her husband, she probably will screw around on you too. 2. She eventually ends up hating you-result: She makes your life a living hell by calling at all hours and screaming, cursing you and wishing you a horrible death for screwing up her life. In the end, your stress level becomes catabolic and you end up losing about 40 lbs sitting on the couch watching infomercials and think endlessly about buying a bowflex. Too much trouble for such a little pleasure. Just my 2 pennies........ ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1302 |
First off, let me say that I understand your frustration. SOunds like a very uncomfortable situation. My .02 is this: If she cheats WITH you, she will cheat ON you. Believe me, I found this out the hard way. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 191 |
Could it be that she may just like you( in a non- sexual way)? I happen to be married, but have several male friends. Nothing wrong with having friends of the opposit sex! Maybe you are mis-reading her? I'd say move on too someone who is not attached if you really do "love" her! Lust and love are two different things. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 2372 |
Shit CM- Thats some funny shit. Little more info on the husband thing - 2. She feels it has gone past the point on no return and the guy is not getting it. 3. It has in some way made her either nervous or mad. 4. The last thing she wants to do is get me invold because it makes problems for us in that the questions it starts - how long, who is he, what does he do, where can I find him, what did he do, How do you feel about it. 5. Most wives don't want thier husbands dealing with there work problems or any of thier problems - they feel it makes them look like they can handle it on thier own. | ||
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Mutant  
Posts: 3204 |
Cleaner skip the questions about how long, where, and when just get the who and lay his ass out. ------------------ | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1892 |
here is an idea for you...... up stage her hubby... get her more roses, more candy... better jewelry... etc...  | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 310 |
Yeah, drop it dude. Nothing good can come of it. Except a major ass-stomping by a pissed off husband. Doesn't matter how big you are either. ------------------ | ||
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Mutant
Posts: 3125 |
Cleaner...and Shadow summed it up... Get over it you wanna be home wreaker!! | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1648 |
You don't piss in another dog's yard. Put yourself in the other guys shoes and ask yourself how you would feel if someone did that to you. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 2372 |
Been thru the whole I have more money thing. A very well respected Doctor wouldn't leave her be once.Flowers all the time and I have more money and so on. Then when he finally meet me.I reached out all nice to shake his hand and I grabbed that mother and clamped down on it - he was a surgeon - I preceeded to twist on it and and worked down to his finger. I told him I would break all his fingers and smash his hands if he didn't knock it off. Look my wife wanted me when I had less than nothing - it will take more than that to make her leave. [This message has been edited by Cleaner (edited February 14, 2001).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 87 |
Have to agree with cleaner. Get over it and get on with your OWN life, not some one elses. Also, if she is going to do this to her current husband, what makes you think she won't do it to you. | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 7 |
I think you should ask her out. So what if she's married? Lots of women like to cheat. Besides, maybe you're more exciting than her husband. Good luck! | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1720 |
ScumBag | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1967 |
My dad banged some lady when my parents were still married and I still resent it to this day. I would love to find that lady today a smack her around a little for being a home wrecker. I was only 3 when he started the shit with her. Parents were divorced when I was 7. Don't mess with married people. ------------------ | ||
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Mutant
Posts: 3125 |
quote: MP3...you speaka the truth...I have also felt your pain The way I see it, you gotta have something thats sacred, and it should be your word....if you married, and want to fuck around, then get a divorce...then you can get around as much as your little heart desires. But don't be a pussy and hide it... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 316 |
The problem is that I know I can't have her, like I said she has no intentions of leaving her husband. I just can't get her out of my mind. It's crazy, I think about her all day. I don't think she has the slightest idea that I feel like this about her. Why Why Why do I always want what I can't have. I feel like God is teasing me by placing someone so perfect near me but not letting me have a chance. Damn I need to see a shrink! | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1727 |
Cappy: youre in love with a married woman? how come you never mentioned this before? | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1967 |
Lil' shagie, I am sorry that you can relate. Sucks huh? ------------------ | ||
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Mutant
Posts: 3125 |
MP3...yeppers....  ...when i was little I was "daddy's girl", mom didn't even exist to me....then I realized daddy had another girl...now I'm not daddy's girl....it sure is hard to love someone you don't trust nor respect | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 492 |
I'm married and about a year ago my wife and I were having some problems. It just so happened that some fucking piece of shit at her work who had a crush on her, and took our problems to his advantage. My wife never did anything with the guy but instead told me everything that he told her. Now....I've met the guy on several occasions and he definately knew she was married. He knew what kind of person I am. And he decided to try his luck. All I have to say is that after my friend and I were finished with him, he quit his job and disappeared. DO NOT FUCK WITH SOMEONE'S MARRIAGE. If you really care about the woman you will respect her decisions and leave her alone. If she decides to leave her husband or whatever, stay out of it until it is done and over with. Otherwise, you are nothing more than a "rebound" getting perks off of other people's problems. What comes around goes around. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 333 |
I am guessing that you are reading and taking some of the advise (good) that has been layed out to you. In simplest terms...MOVE ON! If you do decide to "piss on someone else's yard" I hope you are ready to face ugly consequences. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 755 |
yeah big mistake buddy...I hope if something were to happen she doesn't have kids cause if you are able to avoid the hubby I'll bet one day the kids will come knocking on your door... My experience I met the enemy when she got tickets for me and my dad last friday to the Rodeo bbq...back in Oct I almost killed my dad after I discovered a little card she left for him, after waiting at his apt armed to the teeth my logical reasoning kicked in after about an hour of waiting. Take it from me I'll find that ladies pretty new mustang and then she won't find it in one piece...Comprende? I will do unto her as she has done unto me. So in case you want someone staking revenge on you I suggest you don't consider this an option reguardless how much you think about her...As for my father lets just say I'll be the cruel bastard and remind him when he's old if he has to depend on me...I'll just remind him what I found and ask him how he was thinking so much about his faimly during that time to kick us to the curb for a piece of ass and then kick ass to the curb or worse yet to my sister to deal with | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 316 |
You guys are missing the point. NOTHING will ever happen between us. I'm not moving in on someone else's wife. I just can't stop thinking about her. Do you know what it's like to find the perfect match for you and know that nothing will ever happen. I know her husband and he's a good guy. He has a good job as a lawyer while I make a whopping $8.50/hr. This situation is just torturing me! |
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