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Author | Topic: need a little chick advice | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1195 |
There's a girl who's a friend. Not an "old" friend, just a new aquantince whithin the last 2 months. I haven't taken the fork in the road yet, you know..where you decide if it's going to be intimate or just friends. I know she doesn't have plans for valentines, so I'm gonna call her up and take her out. What is the best way to let her know I'm interested without seeming too forward? And what's the best way to see what she wants out of this? Something about this chick man I'm tellin ya... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3078 |
Treat it like you would a first date. Since it's Valentine's day, you can get away with giving her flowers and candy without seeming to forward. Take her out to eat and to a movie or whatever you had planned. During dinner, talk to her and ask her about herself, they like to talk about themselves. If she's interested, she will probably give you some signals, such as subtley touching you and little things like that. Then see if you get a goodnight kiss at the end of the night. ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1203 |
spoken like a true mutant. do everything thick dog said but also bring anal beads on this date and break them out during dinner and look at her with a raised eyebrow. if things are cool she will take it from there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1220 |
First off, welcome to chat. To make sure you feel at home I will be inserting ramdom [bros] in my reply. First off, if she is alone on valentines day [bro] you are already going to get points for taking away her loneliness [bro]. If I were you [bro] I would write something in the card that clues her in [bro] on how you feel [bro]. Make it obvious. If she doesn't say anything about it [bro] she is not interested. Let her make the move [bro] of talking about it. Or, maybe [bro] she won't say anything, but instead, offer you naked pictures of herself. That would be cool to [bro]. Puc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3135 |
a "little' chick here... I'd venture to say that if the girl decides to go out with you on Valentines day....the lover's day...in public where everyone will think your a couple...then she's open to the idea of wanting an intimate relationship. I have tons of guy friends...but I don't think I'd go out with just one of them on Valentine's day(all the lovey dovey pressure)unless I wanted a little sumthang sumthang. So I say take her out to a romantic restuarant, where you don't eat off of trays, and go for the flowers if you want too. You'll be able to tell if she doesn't want lovin.... P.S. Or you can just bring over a bottle of whip cream and chocolate and see what happens.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1220 |
I did go out with a friend once on valentines day... but, we had known each other for a LONG time before that, so I think Shagwell has merit in that one... Puc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1195 |
quote: Oh my god! LMAO!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Moderator ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3513 |
I would help ya Stud-Man, but I feel certain I would find trouble...in lieu of such...follow Thick Dog's advice, and sprinkle it with a touch of Shag's as well... You will do fine, just be yourself[Bro]!!! Ranger ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Olympian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1675 |
Actually, dates should be an exclusive reward and privilege of those girls that you're already sleeping with. But if you still decide to take her on a date before that� don't make it a date, say that you'll just get together. And make sure she pays for her coffee/drink/food. If she refuses, eject her - she was only interested in a chump who would buy her food/drinks. You can however suggest paying for rounds of beer/coffee in turns - for example, you'll pay for the first round, she the second etc. If you still insist on doing the classic date, here's a bit of advice: "End the date before she does. You've gone to a movie and are now having a bite to eat at a restaurant [make sure she pays for her movie and for her meal; you don't want to be wasting your money until she has expressed her interest in you in a most convincing fashion - has had sex with you ]. Instead of letting the date drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home. Maintain control of the evening [you should be running patterns here, getting kino, making her feel connected to you, getting her horny and wet etc, but this whole dating advice is obviously intended for those lacking the appropriate skills ]. So if you haven't gotten these vibes, end the date while it's still going well [but in fact if you haven't gotten those vibes in spite of all your advanced seduction attempts, you should have ejected her a long time ago ]. You'll set yourself apart from the other guys she's used to [no you won't - they didn't get But honestly, avoid the whole dating thing. There are a zillion other ways to get to know to a girl than going on a "date". Do sports ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3135 |
Ranger...becareful not to springle too much ![]() Naty...how about courting...can you court someone? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 764 |
Forget all that other bullshit advice. All you have to do is just mention you are a friend of fistfullofsteel and she will be all over you. There it is, glad I could help. No need to thank me now. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Olympian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1967 |
Shags, i disagree. i feel like if she was remotely interested she would have given him a hint by now. Why do people think that there are tons of people out there that are romantically interested yet they never bring it up? If a chick likes you like that, you would know it. Save your money. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3135 |
MP3...don't you get tired of being wrong... ![]() perhaphs she did and perhaphs he didn't catch it. I know with some guys that liked me they said they wanted to ask me out forever....but never thought I was interested....these were usualy the guys I had to come out and finally say...so you ever going to ask me out. Plus some girls like to be old fashion, and like guys ot make the first move. God knows I'd like that to happen more often. Also alot of guys assume if a woman is some what attractive that she already has a boyfriend so they don't even bother. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Olympian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1967 |
Maybe I am not wrong. This guy is like 18 so I imagine the chick is your typical goofy 18-19 year old girl that still acts boy crazy. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1195 |
Fuck! all that advice for nothin. She said her aunt was in the hospital, which is code for "I made other plans"....oh well it's her loss. Well, I guess I'll have to try getting my back-up chick. Hope she didn't have plans. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3135 |
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