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 WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR ABSOLUTE WORST EXPERIENCE IN LIFE SO FAR.
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Olympian 
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MY DAD DIED WHEN I WAS 8 YEARS OLD.I THINK ABOUT HIM EVERYDAY.WHATS YOUR WORST EXPERIENCE IN LIFE? ------------------
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Cool Novice 
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not sure if i can narrow it down... one of them is losing my dog nearly 4 years ago... the other is my cat of 21 years... college was bad too... i'd like to start all over. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 552 |
Clearly my absolute best friend passing away this past summer 3 days before his birthday of 19 years of age. It seems like ages ago but it isnt. Still hard to believe. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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thats a tough one, Losing my grandpa right after my 8th b-day, Lossing 33 people I knew well and some close to over a 3 year period, due to car wrecks, cancer, and suicides, moving accross the state to be with someone I was going to marry only to end up getting dumped after getting their while dealing with a lung cancer scare and going threw that virtually alone, my parents splitting up then finding a note my dad's whore left, or maybe even going to the Rodeo bbq with them Both on friday night.....it's been a REALLy bad year for me to many bad things to limit just one | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 432 |
Damn 21 year old cat. My worst experence would probably be having to go to could for a 2nd felony a year and a half ago could have been sent to prison for 8 years. Here is how it happend. We got a girl from school to strip at a buddies bachler party we were all in school togeather. The girl was 17 years old I as if I could take pictrues IT was a kodac moment. Well someone steals the photos and the get into the hands of the local fuckwad pd. They said it was child porno I was 19! Cost 2500$ to buy my freedom thank god for my mom she came up with the money for the lawyer.The bitch came in there and gave them a sob story and said I made her take the pictures BULLSHIT! When the jury said not gulity I was about to beat my meat. God answered my prayers that day. | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1552 |
BUMP. ------------------
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 316 |
Living in San Francisco at the begining of the Aids epidemic. Over a 4 year period nearly everyone I knew died. Co-workers, my barber, drycleaner, neighbors, friends... It got so depressing I moved to Long Beach and started life over. The George Bush Sr. recession/depression of 1989 runs a very close second. | ||
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Olympian
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my father was murdered a week before my second birthday..i never knew him..but just the fact that i have grown up without him..has haunted me alot ..over the years ..just knowing the pain and suffeing my mom has endured because of it ..hurts peace kb ------------------ "modus operandi" "hesitation is the mother of all regret" | ||
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Olympian
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being born was pretty traumatic... but seriously... 1) watching my dad die after 4 years of cancer and seeing a former 6', 200 lbs guy waste away to 90 lbs...I still have nightmares of the way he looked at the end. 2) being thrown out of my apartment by a guy who put me 10G's in debt, used me and then threw me out for his other girlfriend. 3) having my mom go through cancer after my dad had already died...I didn't think i had the strength to do it again. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 177 |
Getting arrested for trafficing MDMA-Looking at a 6 yr. bid J | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 54 |
Seeing my father dying of a fatal heart attack in front of me when I was a teenager. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 421 |
Losing both my parents at 12. Miss them every single day. I'm a parent now and no way are my kids going to be fatherless. Matter of fact, I'm planning on partying with them at their fraternity in about 12 years. ------------------ | ||
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Moderator 
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In 1991, my best friend since Kindergarten died in a car accident. It sucks because we literally grew up together...sometimes I wonder what he would be doing now......I have been fortunate to make some really good friends in my life, but that "first" best friend - the one you take the school bus home with - is always the coolest. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 79 |
When I was 16 my younger brother and one of his best friends were shot and murdered across the street from my house while I was on our front porch watching. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 199 |
fighting heroin
[This message has been edited by tyler durden is jack (edited February 14, 2001).] | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1200 |
I thought I had some pretty bad shit, but compared to some of you guys...it's not even worth mentioning. | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1552 |
THANKS FOR THE RESPONSES GUYS ------------------
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Mutant  
Posts: 3196 |
I think Stonecold said it best..."Sheesh"...I'm sorry for all your guys and gals (kat) suffering.....  ... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 335 |
I can't write about that because I think about it day and night. Good post. Peace! | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1997 |
when I was in Highschool I had the biggest crush on this girl. She was older than I and went off to college and got killed in a car wreck. I remember it was pouring rain that night that my mom and sister told me and I just went outside and sat in the rain and cried. ------------------ | ||
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Olympian
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When I was 16, I was dating the head cheerleader. Everybody always skipped the day before final exams. I didn't skip, I wanted to study....she got into a car wreck that morning and died...I still think about it..... | ||
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Olympian
Posts: 1674 |
men. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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Damn big buck and mp5 those are some heartbreaking stories. I guess life has been somewhat good to me because some of the shit that has happend to you guys is bad. | ||
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Freak
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This is kind of a weird story, but when I was in 8th and 9th grade I 'experimented' with LSD quite a bit. I'm guessing now in hindsight that the shit I got was probably pretty dirty. Anyway, basically, after so many trips plus some stressful things (divorce) going on at home, one day I just never came down. I was basically perma-tripping for almost a year and a half. Now it wasn't the fun kind, it was a paranoid, feel like shit, horrible experience. For those of you who have used lsd, imagine the feeling after being up for 24 hours and you're coming down, that's how I felt all the time. I was very close to killing myself. | ||
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Cool Novice
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I have been fortunate enough to not have experienced death in my family for 27 yrs. then last April my Grandfather died and 2 months later my Grandmother died on my Dad's side. Now my Grandmother (Mom's Mom) is in the hospital with breast and liver cancer. She is my best friend, knows EVERYTHING about me. I hope that miracles do happen for her anyways. For the rest of you I pray that your pain will ease and the voids that are in your life now will be over come in time. From my heart to yours. [This message has been edited by kartchick83 (edited February 15, 2001).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 85 |
My wife of 16 years tossing me out like a sack of shit while I was overseas thanking the lord to wake up alive each day. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 773 |
Of all those people who died in that time span that were close to me and died, I wish I would have had the courage to have been by one of my close friends side when he was dying of cancer, but one thing I took away from that is I'll never be afraid of it again and when my time comes I wont regret not having done things in my life. Sometimes the most horible things teach us the most about ourselves | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 85 |
Hey Tex C guy, My mom died of cancer in 1989. We kept her at home, her wish, and took care of her till the end. It was hard but for some reason when the death came we all felt good because we knew the pain was over and she was in a better place. I learned from that time period that we have to live our lives happy. Money means squat if you are not happy and enjoying the only life you will live!! | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 773 |
thats very true slappy...I think what made me feel bad about not wanting to see him was the fact that over 10 people I knew within a 3 year time frame had all fought and died of cancer. He was a good guy and unfortunately a highschool physical can tell you if you have a hernia, but it can't tell someone they have had a tennis ball size tumor in their lungs for 3 years. Before he was to have surgery to remove it they realized the chemo didn't effectively attack it and had in fact spread to other parts of his body. I think the last 4 months of his life he accepted what was happening and as I like to think was ready for the end. It's something I think about somewhere in my mind everyday, and I give thanks that I knew him for a time and that his death will allow me to better whats left of my life in some small way | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 460 |
Seeing the look on my Mothers face when she stared at the bottom of our pool with my brother at the bottom with a sawed off shotgun glued to his hands and the back of his head blown off----with blood filling the whole inground pool---That was the most fucked up day of my life----- | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 696 |
Wow Wombat, I'm sorry. ------------------ "how much can you really know about yourself if you've never been in a fight?" Tyler Durden | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 498 |
Christmas day two years ago, a good friend came over for Christmas dinner. During dinner, he showed me his new gun. One week later, he was dead. He had a fight with his roomate (they were both drunk), and the roomate got the gun and shot him. One shot, point blank between the eyes. He was only 22. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 139 |
My Grandfather (Basically my dad) dying. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 487 |
Worst day of my life as of now and the strange part was that I "felt" it coming on. The day is carved into my mind vividly... I was 13 and in the 8th grade. It was December 12, 1997, a Friday. I had a class trip that day. What better way to end a week of school than w/ a class trip to the NJ aquarium? Well I'm sitting in school that morning, while we're waiting for the buses to come. I'm in the back of class in my own little world thinking of what I'm going to do that weekend. Then something came over me. I felt something that said something bad was gonna happen. Then an announcement came over the PA that the buses were running late. No big deal. They came bout 20 minutes late and we went on our way. At lunch time the same feeling came over me again. I was scared, never felt anything that strong before, but I kept it to myself and played it off. After school I walk to my grandmom's house b/c of the bus route allows me to get there faster then it would be to get to my house. I go home and my little cousins show up. Me, them and my grandmother watched an episode of South Park. When it was over I went upstair to play Nintendo 64, my youngest cousin was on the computer and his sister was downstairs w/ my grandmother. About 20 minutes later she comes upstairs and says something is wrong w/ grandmom. I run downstairs and try to wake her up. Nothing. We were scared shitless. Called my aunt at work around the corner, not there. Called my uncle out in the neighborhood where we live now. He told me to call 911. I did and in a couple minutes they were there. My little cousin and I were told to go down the basement, found out later it was to recessitate my grandmom and they didn't want us to see. When we came back up they were just putting the white cloth on her. I was 13 years old and felt responsible for my grandmother's death. In an instant I had the pressure most adults can't handle thrown onto my shoulders. And to top it off one of my younger cousins [not the ones w/ me] blamed it on me. She said if I would've reacted faster than she'd still be alive. EMT's told us later that she was gone before I made the first phone call, but I didn't know any better. Every detail of that day is scarred into my memory. The looks on everyone's faces as they broke down in tears and the feeling that I let down my entire family. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 103 |
When my deportation letter and mother's death happened the same day. I lived in the States for 12 years and a lawyer's mistake forved my family to be kicked out. Also after being out of my country and not seeing my mother for 12 years, she died of what could best be explained a broken heart. I can still hear her crying "I love you, why don't you come to see me?", on the phone. |
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posted February 11, 2001 11:22 PM
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