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Author | Topic: Who is divorced? | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 472 |
Doing a little research for a friend that doesn't have a computer. The more (serious) replies, the better. I will print this out for him.
What age did you divorce? Are you in a new relationship? Is your new relationship good? How long did it take to find somebody new? In one sentence, what made you divorce? Did you have kids? How many? What age(s)? (If applicable) How hard is it to go from being a full-time parent, to a part-time parent (due to the divorce)? Did you miss your kids once terms went to visitation? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1467 |
in the process of.......don't want to get into details..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 472 |
I'm sorry to hear that. Can at least tell me if there are kids involved and answer the kid-related questions if so... It would help him out a lot. If not, that's cool. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1467 |
There is going to be a kid involved soon (she's pregnant), but I found out a couple of weeks ago that the kid isn't mine.....that's bascially the only reason I married her.......enough said..... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1397 |
Buck, WOW...i was unaware of that...can't u get the marriage anulled? ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1467 |
Yes, that's what I'm trying to do, the only thing is, she still lives with me. She's got no place to go right now....I'm not going to kick a pregnant women out on the street, I don't care if she lied to me or not, I can't do that. I'm going to let her live w/ me until the baby is born, then she can go live w/ her parents. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1676 |
How long were you married? 2yrs 10mths. Additional info: It was over before it even got started, but dipshit me thought it would work out. 6mths in I knew I had to get out. What age did you divorce? 31 Are you in a new relationship? somewhat, I consider it very new. Is your new relationship good? yes How long did it take to find somebody new? We were separtated but living together (for her benefit, so she could get her finances in order) for about a yr. I already had prospects before I left. But it took me a month before I took one up on her offers. Then I basiclly had a "pac" I played with till one surfaced to the top. Now shes the only one I date. In one sentence, what made you divorce? Lack of love, passion, respect and bad sex. Did you have kids? No How many? n/a What age(s)? n/a (If applicable) How hard is it to go from being a full-time parent, to a part-time parent (due to the divorce)? Did you miss your kids once terms went to visitation? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1931 |
How long were you married? Never married, lived together one year. What age did you divorce? I was 19 when I sent her on her way - gave her the boot Are you in a new relationship? yes, though it is six years old, not exactly new Is your new relationship good? very good, my biggest fear in the beginning was that I wasn't going to find someone as wonderful as my ex-GF was. Ha! Really, every girl I met, I compared to my ex-GF instantly, and I was subconsciously looking for an EXACT replacement. It wasn't until I moved my thinking away from that was when my whole world opened up. How long did it take to find somebody new? One year, though I went through about 12-14 girls in the mean time, they just couldn't compare to my ex-GF. Which is bad to make someone live up to another person's standards, which looking back, it wasn't her standards that made her so appealing, it was a pure LUST view and pull I had for her. Once I got over the thought of "replacements" material and decided to go for what I wanted, I saw much more positive people leading up to my current GF who is about 10,000x better than my last one. Funny I used to think she was THE ONE for me. How could I be so wrong? In one sentence, what made you divorce? Did you have kids? 1 How many? 1 What age(s)? 7 going on 8 (If applicable) How hard is it to go from being a full-time parent, to a part-time parent (due to the divorce)? Did you miss your kids once terms went to visitation? Whew! It was hard. But I am lucky, I have full custody of my son and see him everyday, I couldn't picture it any other way. I do know how hard it could be, I was seperated from him for 9 months until I was finished with the legal battle. I hated that. It hurts like hell, but time does heal and you can believe it is on your side. Eventually EVERYTHING works itself out and you see a much brighter light at the end of the tunnel. True Love doesn't go away easily. If it did, it wasn't true love. The Winter of the heart is a terrible season indeed, but spring looms right around the corner. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 451 |
My parents divorced when I was 7, I'm 16 now. My brother is 21 now. They had joint custody over me and my brother, but we lived with my mom. I now live with my dad so I can go to highschool out here. My brother lives with my mom b/c it is closer to college and work for him. My old man has a g/f who lives w/ us w/ her daughters. I just call them my step-mom and step-sisters to same me time and frustration. It was weird when I was younger having my parents divorced b/c at that age it seemed like everyone's parents were happy go lucky and I was different. Now-a-days though its not bad at all b/c its "normal". ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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