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Elite Bodybuilder 
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I DONT FEEL LIKE RETYPING SO JUST READ: http://www.elitefitness.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/011215.html     | ||
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Guru 
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One thing you must realize is that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. You may find that once you get down there, you may have more rules to follow with dad than mom. From what I have read of your posts is that you do sound confused and maybe depressed (but not necesarrily to be treated with drugs) If you turn this into a fight between mom and dad you will end up alienating both from you. Concentrate on school and if you have to let the weights go for a year or two. Yes, they may be important to you, but they will always be there and your family won't. Take it from me I know. Hang in there and be strong. ------------------ Strength and Honor The frost, sometimes it makes the blade stick. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Chesty is wise... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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I understand rules. I am not talking about that, I am talking about the fact that I cannot talk to my mom. She hates me and that is no lie. Thanks for the reply, I think everyone else is goign to give me shit but I don't care its not the first time. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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chill brother! things are never as bad as they seem! you could be homeless,starving, in prison and getting gang raped. your only 16, don't be so stressed! if you feel moving to fl. is what you need to do, then do it! espescially if it is going to make you happy! peace brother! ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1063 |
keep your head up garza. teenage years suck for everyone and we all go through bouts of depression unless you are a damn teletubby or something. hang in there, go live with your dad if you think that will make things better. focus on what makes you happy, be it the gym or anything else that interests you and don't dwell on the negative even though it may be hard sometimes. life gets shitty sometimes but it ALWAYS gets better even when you think it can't. take care. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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dude, you think your alone? what about your mom? you are going to leave your mom. she doesnt hate you, i can guarentee you that. your moms work is far more important then you getting to the gym, she makes the money in the house... you think your stressed? your mom is raising a child alone! i know your 16 and this wont get through to you, but act like an adult and stick it out, you OWE it to your mom... she has custody, she fought for that and WON. if your dad did not fight back then what makes you think he is the answer? you have 2 years before college, stick it out. starting over sucks, trust me. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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good luck bro hope to see ya around the board every once in a while ------------------ "Fighting for peace is like fucking for virginity." "In the 60's people took acid to make the world weird. Now the world is weird, and people take prozac to make it normal." http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 758 |
Thanks Madbomber, It is not the first time that this has happened. Upon an honest assessment of the problem, things cannot get better here therefore I am leaving. She always sides with her b/f, that is all she cares about. I am leaving or will die trying, wish me luck. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 899 |
see, you never mentioned a boyfriend... if my mom ever had sided with hers over me, that would be trouble... one plus... not sure where your at now, but i am POSITIVE you'd have a lot more fun with tan, bikini clad chickies in fla!!! call up shags, she is good for a ride or twelve. | ||
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Moderator
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Garza, hon (not belittling you, just speaking to you as a mother....I hope U don't believe that I have overstepped my bounds.....I know that you already have parents who love you more than life itself, even though it may not always be as evident to you). DON'T EVER THINK ABOUT ENDING YOUR LIFE! I know that at this moment in time life seems to dificult and complicated and without any light at the end of the tunnel. I have felt this way MANY, MANY times and though I am somewhat ashamed to admit it now, I have actually acted on these thoughts in the past. True, not since I have had children....and I NEVER WILL AGAIN. No matter how much pain I feel and how much difficulty I experience the joys that have been afforded me because I DID NOT SUCCEED in my attempts are too numberous to list!! I know that sounds like grown-up bullshit, but I would not say it if it were not THE TRUTH! Garza, talk to a counselor, therapist, shrink, WHATEVER!!! KEEP TALKING until somebody listens or you FEEL BETTER - whichever comes first! I am A MAJOR BIG PROPONENT of therapy! Had it MANY times myself....as I'm sure I may again in the future. .....and if the first therapist/counselor - WHATEVER is a schmcuk, then go to another and another and another - keep going until you find the one that helps you figure it out. Life is difficult and complicated at times, but there are few things that are worth having that ARE NOT!......as a matter of fact, nothing that I have (either materially/emotionally/spiritually/ etc) aquired that is worth having is easy!.....exept, of course, the love of my children. And even that is difficult for me to accept at times. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Goood luck garza...been there....my opinions of mothers or fathers who put their girlfriends or boyfriends over their kids isnt very high. And no Madbomber, not every mother is cut out to be a mother...my BF's mom took off on him and his brother when they were little right out of the blue. His dad did the best he could....and in she waltzes 5 years later like nothing happened. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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I appreciated the responses all of them, and i do understand what you mean bikinimom. I am happy to have some responses, some asshole free responses. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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Listen to BikiniMom. Get the help you need. That said, it is pretty normal for a teenager to feel unappreciated and confused. (Hey, I am 40, and no one listens to me either!)Things seem bad now, but you don't have the perspective to know when things are truly bad. Your mom does not hate you, and I bet you a million dollars that 20 years from now you will look back on the life that you have with her now with great fondness, even if it's not all perfect. Ask any old geezer like me. From your posts, the most crucial sutuation that seems to send you over the edge is a car and getting a license! I'm sure we're not hearing the whole story, and i know a car is important to a teenager, but if that's your biggest stress, you are indeed blessed. (I personally think 16 is too young to drive anyway, and maybe your mom does too.) Talk to a counselor, talk to your school guidance counselors, talk to your teachers. Some of them WILL listen. You're a smart, good kid and I think deep down you know that you have a nice future ahead no matter what life seems like now. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 350 |
I would say that these people who responded to your post are right. Our parents did not get a manual on how to raise children and children did not get one either. Talk to a counseler at school. I was very depressed years ago and I admit it and I am not proud of it but I tried to commit suicide. I am opening a sore spot in my soul but I can handle it, I hope you can to the same. When I got out of the hospital 10 days later, I turned a VERY bad thing completely around, and I am now a free man. I was wrongly accused and I proved it with out a doubt. Please don't do anything rash, every one has there ups and downs, so that is just life. I am sure you will find some help, just talk to someone who can and will help you. Good luck Bro. People do care. | ||
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Guru
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Either way you decide to go I wish you Luck And keep your head on straight. You have a long life to live. I just found this out myself. Jay | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 758 |
Well I have been talking to my dad. She was going to give me my car so he could fly up here and I cold drive back down with him but now she is not giving me the car. I have to get my grandma to help me out with that or talk sense into my mom. She has already taken my car keys away. Monday was chest and shoulder and i haven't even done it yet. Leg day is tomorrow I am going to be behing and am too depressed to think about eating so much. I tried to eat some tuna last night but that was all I had for dinner, this sucks ass. Hopefully I can get back on track once I am settled in, thanks folks. | ||
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Moderator
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Everything happens for a reason Garza, though it may not always be immediately evident. Just have faith that things always have a way of working out. ------------------ |
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