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 Saturday night per May's request
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Moderator 
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I imagine Gabby's Mr. Hyde came out, as for the majority of the night at Rich's things were fine, and about 3:30 am we were leaving when I wanted to pick up some of the free magazines. Well, I kind of had to slip my hand out of his rather forecfully, since he was holding on pretty tight so I can get the mags, but Gabby blew up, screaming I was a jerk, and I can take a cab home, and ran back into the club. So I go wait by the car for him to come out. Well a homeless person started talking to me, so decide I'll hang with him for a while. We talked, walked around, saw his home under the bridge (with a lot of other people), and was a very enlightening experience, as he as not an unintelligent person. Then I attempted to walk home, but after 7:30am I was pretty tired, so I called Gab to pick me up. He doesn't show up until 9am, and when he does show up he has some trick with him. Since I was incredibly tired I didn't say anything then, but I need to say something about that today. I'm pretty sore all over from walking 30 or so miles Saturday night, I feel lost and not sure what to do next.     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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Jesus Christ, have some self-respect. Get the fuck out of that relationship ... ... and don't give me any bullshit answer like, we own a house together, or we've been together for 11 years, or anything else. Come to San Francisco. You'll love it ... ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
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ditto... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Jesus, and I thought my boy was an asswipe last night...yours is worse and thats saying alot dude. GTFO of there. | ||
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Guru
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Why did he blow up when you reach to get a mag? Were you fighting before in the club? Something here we don't know. Just because you pulled your hand away to get a mag he went nuts? Still no excuse in my eyes for him to pick up a slut the same night. And bring that slut with him to pic you up. what a piece of crap!! [This message has been edited by Checkmatebloated (edited January 29, 2001).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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Johnny, there's got to be more to it than this. Try to get him to explain what he experienced from his point of view, and don't interrupt him while he tells you. Every long term gay relationship has "trick-out" occasionally. Actually this sounds like a "revenge fuck". Monogomy isn't what it's cracked up to be. But that's no reason to break up. More important is at the end of the day, over time, do you enjoy being with him or not. Is this by any chance caused by stress of having new dependents living in the house? | ||
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Guru
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Sorry to here you had a bad time with gab, but I'm glad to see you broadened your outlook on life as a result. Time to move on I would think. It's hard sometimes, I know. ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
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We were NOT fighting in the club, I was a perfect date. I didn't even flirt on Saturday (since I only had 2 drinks). I think Gabby construed that I didn't want to be SEEN leaving the club with him .. i know that doesn't make sense, but he was pretty fucked up by the time we left. [This message has been edited by JohnnyO (edited January 29, 2001).] | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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i dunno, johnny. you seem very likeable, very normal, helpful, etc. on this board. a great guy seemingly. i may be reading things wrong but some of your stories make me think you've got some SEVERE self-esteem problems, perhaps well-hidden in the subconcious. i hear stories of wives staying with their husbands who beat them and wonder "how can this be?"....i'm thinking the same thing about you right now. as you know, i'm in houston...it's cliche, i know, but if you DO ever need or want to talk i'd be more than happy to lend an ear....you can email me at [email protected] if you're interested or in need. | ||
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Freak 
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Runner - you just voiced my opinion too. I do know that from what Johnny has told us about his family life in the past (being thrown out..) it may just strongly enforce the idea that he MUST have someone in his life. Typical of people who have been through that before. it is like - "I can't throw him out because then I won't have nobody." Self esteem and fears of being lonely. Johnny, you really MUST do something with him. He just attacked you the other month. What is it going to take to make you see what we are seeing? A stab wound? Loss of limb or life? come on, you are better than that. You KNOW you can catch better. Right now, you are more parent than partner. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Hmmm. I have had a similiar experience a few years ago except it was me who got moody with the other half. I did score but when we found each other a few hours later in Soho I would not have dreamed of poking it in their face (although I did come clean later, as always). If you ask me your other half was wrong by being so blatent.. in my opinion he was trying to wind you up. This kind of thing happens... it comes down to how willing you are to accept it - for me it is not to bad as I am 'into' open relationships (although I have NEVER gone behind my partners back and slept around and / or not confessed to it soon after). ------------------ | ||
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interesting opinion jae, and yes I do have self esteem problems .. i use sex and relationships to verify my self worth. I'm thinking couseling for myself. And do be fair, I don't know if that was a trick or not, the other guy was not attractive (rather pudgy), and not a word was spoken when we dropped him off after picking me up. | ||
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Freak
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it doesn't matter if the guy was a trick or not. He served his purpose which was to make you THINK he was. Come on, even if Gabby had showed up alone in the car, that justifies nothing. His behaviour prior to that was unexcusable. You really need to see yourself for what you are. You are young, good looking, you hve a great job (unusual for someone your age), you have a lust to live your life in a fun way, and you are a moderator here | ||
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Guru
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johnny- you can come stay with me in atlanta for awhile, i have an extra bedroom...im not sure, but ive heard there are a look of gay people in atlanta, maybe you could find out where they hang out and introduce yourself.... | ||
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Freak
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special bill - you KNOW where they hang out.  | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Amateur Bodybuilder
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It's a consensus, someone like you, can do better. Unless the sex is so extraordinary that it compensates for the abuse. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Gabriel is fat. Translation = bad sex. |
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