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 easier to get girls when you're big...?
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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hey, this is mostly for the dudes that were pretty small and got a lot bigger...is it easier to get girlies now (takin' into account that u have to work out and eat right and all the other bodybuilding related stuff) or back when you were small..? or, do u guys just think that it's the increased self-esteem that allows you to try and succeed, where before you didn't even try..? ~leaf~     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 781 |
Oh I definitely have a lot more self esteem now, and girls kinda look at me with mixed feelings I guess, they don't know whether they like me, or are scared of me. Personally I work out and keep trying to get bigger not for the girls, but for other reasons... ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 96 |
Girls definitely love diesel guys, but the trick is not to tell them that you are a bodybuilder.. you gotta be something else, like a martial artist, military guy or an athlete, I've found that most girls get turned off if you're just a bodybuilder. The whole game changes once you're built. | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1548 |
Shit it all depends on the woman. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1207 |
Fuck being embarassed of what you are. I always said I go to the gym and lift-it beats siting on your ass and watching "Cheers" reruns ------------------ | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 8 |
Are we all from the same planet? I was 6'3" and 170lbs and I hooked up with a lot of beautiful girls. It isn't how big you are it is how much you got to say(except for ugly ass motherfuckers) Christ I like being muscular but it never got me ladies. You kids need to realize it is what you have to say and not what you bench,,,, ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 14 |
comming from a female point of view, yes, i personally think being bigs helps you guys out. But not too big!! I mean, girls like fit guys, but who wants to hug a steel bar?? PERFECT: 6' or taller, brown/blond/JET BLACK hair/blue eyes/bench 250 or more, or some kind of martial arts or something like someone said, but above all you guys have to be sweet lol | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 877 |
so i am perfect! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 14 |
well, you might want to let someone else be the judge of that......not to say your not of course, i would never tell a guy who thinks he's perfect he's not, that would just be so jhard on them lol JK lol If you fit the description i said i'm sure your pretty close | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 211 |
I am a female and I love BIG men  Being just a bodybuilder is fine by me! You dont need to be a military man or anything else! I am going to compete myself and have to be with a man that knows how to eat and grow Every women is different though, some women do not like big men, nor do they like or understand bodybuilding, cause they dont go to the gym or have the mentality of fitness. The bigger the better | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 595 |
Everyone is different in what they like. I will use myself as an example. A beautiful woman is obviously just that. However, if she isn't CUTE too, then to me she is just another woman. Personal preference, nothing more. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 79 |
When I was thinner, I use to just think it wouldn't matter to girls about being more muscular. I did notice that when I put on some mass, I'd get more attention (skin tight shirts) but it really didn't help me as far as "getting" more girls. Keep in mind there are many variables, but more muscle does help. I'll always have my best friend (a girl) tell her friends to feel my chest or arms. You'd be amazed at how all attention focuses on you, but you better have some charm to back it up, otherwise it's very temporary. P.S. A good tan, straight white teeth, nice dressing and well grooming round out the package. Always try to look your best. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 677 |
Being big allows me to attract the kind of girls that I like to(muscular, fit, athletic girls). I haven't had any complaints yet ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 677 |
Also could you imagine what Frank Sepe or Mike O'hearn would be today without their bodies and just a good personality... ------------------ | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 2476 |
It gives her a reason to look at you. After that, it's up to you. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 57 |
Confidence in yourself will make you attractive to the opposite sex regardless of how "big" or "small" you are. If getting big improves your confidence keep lifting! However, if you're only getting big to get girls, women will see right through you. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 120 |
im not skinny, but im not HUGE.... But i noticed that the women like the firm chest ....i love it when they feel on it and say u must work out. Thats when i return the favor  | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1170 |
ya know it does a little but not all that much. it's more something that makes you stand out. I'm 5'7" 195 with a 33" waist, so it's hard to hide the fact that I'm in good shape (not that I would want to ) and for chicks who bitch about wanting a guy that's 6'0" or taller, lick my asshole. it all comes down to confidence, and does someone who is "bigger" have more confidence, maybe... but most likely not. to answer the question I would say: a little. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1581 |
most of the guys I see with 20 inch biceps walk around the club like they own the place, starring everyone down and never talking/dancing with any girl. Then you see some 140lbs backstreet boy mugging down with the hottest girl there on the dance floor. Personally I just think it helps your self esteem. If you don't have game, it doesn't matter how big you are, girls aren't gonna come up to you and start sucking your dick cause you look like superman, most likely they will be scared of you. ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 3375 |
You do it for the stares, the double takes, the looks ya get when ya walk around the mall in your best" Show your shit " shirt(and you fuckers wear them same as I so don't say ya don't!) heh heh heh..... Gotta love the attention..... WHY I DO IT! I do it for the stares, when they look at me, I do it for children, who giggle when I flex my chest, I do it for the blood�Coursing through Viking veins, I do it for the women, though those days are soon past, I do it in the gym, where I�ll always feel so free, I do it when I�m feeling down, it always makes me soar, I do it because others can�t; they cannot feel the desire, I do it with determination, for that driving need, I do it for that special someone, who knows I love her, RANGER
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 321 |
What matters is how you are as a person. matttheskywalker is right - body will get you looks, but if you have no game your stuck with Rosy. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 25 |
Ranger.. Amen. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 966 |
I find it alot easier to talk to girls when I'm not wearing stuff that makes me look big. Whenever I'm in a tight shirt or tank, all they do is ask me about lifting and then list their own sports background/interests. It gets really old quick. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 965 |
Fellas don't kid yourselves.. a 260-300lbs dude is NOT the ladies choice. Most women are terrified of men that size. IG | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 19 |
ranger u get the props!!!! i do it for me.. and my viking blood!! damn straight... anyone can pull the pussy if they have game.. if u got the bod.. itll help get the attention but there is so much more important then some putang pie.. do it for urself.. not just for the women.. do it for urself and the women will follow! MEANFREAK 666 ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 70 |
Natymike, thats some funny shit, I know exactly what you mean about the guys walking around staring, or standing in the corner with their arms crossed looking out at the 140 lb backstreet boy with the fine ass chick,,, and sometimes ulgy ass chick. |
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