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HelmsmaN

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posted January 19, 2001 02:58 PM

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I am fighting back the tears as I write this.

My father had a massive stroke a week ago. He passed away yesterday 20 minutes after a beautiful sunset. The sky was still pink. He was surrounded by his wife, remaining children, and three nieces. I sat with him during his final hours, touching him, talking to him, and reminiscing with one of my cousins, who was like a sister to him. He went very peacefully. I did not feel his last breath, but after a period of no breathing rhythms I checked for his pulse, and announced to my family that he had finally passed. He was a great man that touched many lives. His legacy lives on. Services are being planned for some time next week. His ashes will be spread on the Pacific Ocean.

Please take a moment to consider the ones you love. You never know when will be the last time that you will be able to hear their voice or touch their warm hand. Give them a call on the phone a.s.a.p. and tell them that you love them, or- give them a special hug and tell them that you love them when you or they arrive home.

Than you for your consideration and prayers.

HelmsmaN


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Jae

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posted January 19, 2001 03:05 PM

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a beautiful but tragic post. You are in my thoughts bro.


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Pimp C

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posted January 19, 2001 03:06 PM

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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family bro. I am sorry for your loss, just remember the good times you had with him.


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The Canadian Oak

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posted January 19, 2001 03:08 PM

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sorry for your loss bro my condolences

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kat

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posted January 19, 2001 03:09 PM

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I lost my dad when I was 24 to cancer....sucks. I feel for you and your family.


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riptchick

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posted January 19, 2001 03:11 PM

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I hope that you find some comfort. I will say a prayer for you and your family.


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JohnnyO

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posted January 19, 2001 03:14 PM

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so very sorry .. i'll light a candle as i've been lighing a lot of candles lately.


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Strider

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posted January 19, 2001 03:15 PM

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My father passed away almost two years ago (Feb 14th) in the back of the car as I was driving him to the Hospital. This was the first time I ever lost anyone close to me. I am convinced that you never get over it, you just get use to it. I am Very Sorry for the way I now you are feeling right now. Love the ones that are still alive and remember dearly the one that aren't.

Chin Up.


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supersizeme

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posted January 19, 2001 03:19 PM

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my condolences to you and your family


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Gilbyag

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posted January 19, 2001 03:27 PM

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sorry for your loss bro, my prayers are with you and your family.


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flexed1

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posted January 19, 2001 03:40 PM

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very sorry bro prayers are with ya


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Cleaner

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posted January 19, 2001 03:44 PM

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Your father and family will be in my prayers.
Sound like the Lord was shining on him.


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Big Buck

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posted January 19, 2001 04:17 PM

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Sorry for your loss bro.....


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45Plates

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posted January 19, 2001 05:19 PM

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Helmsman-

Sorry for your loss bro, you and your family are in my prayers.

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new@gettinbig

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posted January 19, 2001 06:53 PM

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I am very sorry for your loss. We need to make sure we do not take the ones we love for granted.


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Rex

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posted January 19, 2001 07:10 PM

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Helmsman sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. I know what its like to lose someone close to you that you love. I had the misfortune of watching my grandmother die in front of me about 3 years ago (12-12-97). You never get over though, you have to get through it. Keeping them alive in memories is a good way. You family and friends help make it easier.

All of mine did except my cousin. She said that if I would've acted faster and called 911 sooner that she would still be alive. I believed it for a while, but then I found out that my grandmother had passed before I even realized something was wrong. I dislike alot of people, but I hate my cousin. So much as to the point that I don't consider her my cousin, shes not part of my family anymore. Blood related or not.

Sorry to cramp your post, but that always seems to come out when I reminisce about that day. I'm sorry for your loss.

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cm3504jm

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posted January 19, 2001 08:16 PM

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I lost my father about 30 years ago (I'm 40).
Still miss him every day.

My condolences go out to you, as you are part of him. He will always be part of you.

Peace.


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blackhaus1

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posted January 20, 2001 03:54 AM

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My prayers and condolences to you and your family...our thoughts are with you in this difficult time...

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SMASH NZ

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posted January 20, 2001 04:40 AM

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HelmsmaN,Peace out to you Bro.
If you were like I was you are more than likely feeling that you will feel this grief forever...
It will pass and you will grow because of it.
Be strong.

[This message has been edited by SMASH NZ (edited January 20, 2001).]


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HelmsmaN

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posted January 20, 2001 01:50 PM

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Thank you all for your kind words and inspiration. At least now he is resting in a better place with no worries.

HelmsmaN


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Captain_insano

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posted January 20, 2001 01:56 PM

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I am sorry to hear about your loss. He is in a better place now. I am sure he is looking down upon you and the rest of your family and he is smiling.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

insano


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Hindustan

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posted January 20, 2001 07:40 PM

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I wish I could say more. I am so sorry for your LOSS. I hope you GOD gives you the needed strengh to endure this hardship, and I pray that your father is resting in a much happier place.

Hindustan


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GiantJK

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posted January 21, 2001 05:01 PM

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I know how you feel I have so problems my dad is doing real bad in the hospital, my grandpa passed away this thursday, and now my great grandpa just died last night so I know exatly how you feel.


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The Ranger

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posted January 21, 2001 06:33 PM

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HM,

A very poetic post....it should cause us all to see how lucky we truly are...You and your family are in my prayers Bro...If I can help, let me know!!!!!!

Ranger


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Laserdude

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posted January 21, 2001 09:58 PM

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I have already done so & you do have my prayers for all concerned.

I suffered a stroke 11 years ago and fought to comeback, you truly have my condolences.

Sincerely.

TR


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Steak Helmet

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posted January 22, 2001 03:26 AM

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I feel ya...GOD bless and I hope the best for you and the rest of your family. Always remember the good things. He is in good hands. Make his funeral a comfortable place...not a place of sadness, but a place to remember the good moments.

take care


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thebull

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posted January 22, 2001 04:31 AM

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sorry for your loss. i am glad he went peacefully. just stay strong and remember you will be reunited with him once again.. i am sorry it must be really hard..


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Stillhere

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posted January 22, 2001 01:43 PM

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Sorry to hear that. Thanks for the advice.


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