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Guru 
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would you do it with someone else, even if that someone else was the opposite sex? Heres the thing...I went out to dinner with my friend visiting from Colorado. She moved there with her bf about 3 months ago, and born and raised in FL, has never been in snow. And now after 3 months she has not gone sled riding, inter tubing, nothing, because her bf doesn't want to go out in the cold. So I told her to go with some of the guys she works with. She said she would be kicked to the curb if she did that.But I argured if he didn't want to go then you should be able to find someone who wants to go, cause who goes sleding alone??     | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by AGENT SHAGWELL: cause who goes sleding alone?? ummmmmmmmmm, ummmmmmmmmmmmm, ummmmmmmmmmm. damn you!!!!!!! why did you have to go there? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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why would you move to Colorado but then not want to be in the cold? if you or your mate can't handle the other person doing something with other people, I think there are some larger insecuirty issues at hand. fuck them and do what you want. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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ok, if she wants to go sleding alone, so be it. now if she finds friends to go with then whats the fuk'n big deal. they dont have to be guys, thats where the problem is, she can ask both guys and gals, them maybe her bf wont be so insecure about it. And if I wanted to id go damn it. | ||
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Freak 
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She should be allowed to have friends. He should go with her or let her go on her own and not worry about who she is with. If he cannot even trust his wife then they should get divorced. ------------------ | ||
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Guru
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Why would he kick her to the curb. There's nothing wrong with going sledding with someone. If he does'nt trust her enough, she should reassure him that nothing will happen on the sledding trip because not to many people like to have sex in the snow... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 740 |
go with girls | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 739 |
so she HAS to go with guys from work? not a girl? i'd have a problem with it when i didnt know the guy... i am a guy, i know what guys want from girls... IT AINT SLEDDING. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 152 |
If she went with one guy, or a couple of guys, that would be a problem. But if she went with a mixed group there shouldn't be a problem. Especially a group from work. Have somebody take an instant picture of the group everybody all bundled up in parkas and sweaters so her bf sees she's not romancing some buff ski instructor. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 487 |
I agree it's a bad thing at least one of the guys would be trying to figure out a way to hide the sausage. He should just go with her if it's that important. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2596 |
Perhaphs I'm just not a jealous person...I'd go with whoever wanted to go...wheather it be male or female... and when I had a bf I felt the same way...if there was something I didn't want to do with him (although there wasn't, cause I'm enjoy everything, at least once) I could care 2 shits if he did it with another girl...she aint got nuttin on me....but when it came to the many things I liked to do that he wouldn't (scuba diving, going to the beach, kayaking,going to football games...the list goes on) he'd get all pissy if I went with other guys...until I set him straight Here's the deal...if I wanted to get some from some other source...I'd get it...I'd don't need some excuse and go hang out with guys to get it...if I wanted to be with some other guy I would leave him and be with that other guy....but I choose to be with him, I loved him, only wanted him, he didn't need to worry...plus if he was more secure...he would have felt that those other guys had nuttin' on him anyhow..... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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she should remain locked in the cupboard under the stairs and only brought out for when he wants blowjobs. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 55 |
If you don't TRUST the person you are with, its not much of a relationship.... | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2596 |
barney...not everyone can live the life of your mother dear  | ||
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Moderator
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Shags, You seem to be pretty intellignet and well-spoken. As such I will assume your friends to be similar. So why do you and your friends have so many problems with relationships? Bottom line: if he doesn't trust her, then she doesn't need him. She is using him to fill a void in her life, and that's why she takes his crap. She'd rather hear the crap then experience the void again. That's the truth. tell her to lose the guy...play in the snow, and then move back to Florida. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2596 |
Why thank you Mr. Skywalker for the compliment...however, this friend is not much like me, but she is (or should I say USED to be) one of 3 girl friends I have that are really fun to hang around with. She is exactly what you said. Annoys the hell outta me...but its her life, if she wants to be with a selfish, controling, boring guy thats up to her. It not very easy to find girls that are fun. This is the only reason I envy guys. Also the reason I have more guy friends and few girl friends. | ||
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Guru
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This is stupid. Tell her boy friend to drink a glass of grow the fuck up and get on with it. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2596 |
Wodin...i have found by experience that it is best to stay our of my friends that are girls relationships....cause I'm the only one who loses... girls are very protective about there men...plus girls that would stay with guys like that, aren't going to listen to a word I say, or if they do they will tell their bf, and then he will tell them not to hang out with me anymore.... So I just smile when I'm around him and be extra nice, so I can still hang out with my friend ...and try to subconciously smarten her ass up | ||
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Moderator
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Shags, You are totally right about the person "not in the relationship" (you!) being the one who loses if you try to say anything. Girls are protective of guys....however it works both ways. Guys can't say anything to their friends about their friends' chicks either. I'd just rather be single forever than deal with another person's crap. Show me the girl that doesn't have any of the aforementioned "crap" and I will be indebted to you forever. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2596 |
 ....you are now indebted to me forever... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1148 |
Obviously the girl has low self esteem if she is allowing a man to dictate her actions. |
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posted January 17, 2001 03:53 PM