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 Don't know how much more of this I can take?
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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I was with my wife for over 3 years. I left her in November because she and I could not agree on anything, we just fought all the time. She wanted me back for 2 weeks, then found someone else. I want her back, and now she is fucking someother guy, but says she is willing to date both of us to see who is better for her. On top of that, I dated a girl for about 2 weeks who was amazing. We slept together and had great plans for the future. She went back to her ex-boyfriend and said she wanted to date both of us to see which one is better for her, then 2 days later she left me in the dirt. My dam sense of well being is gone, this is to much to take. I just needed to let it out and ask what should I do? Before my wife I had never dated, I married out of high school. I am lost, and now my (soon to be) ex-wife is dating some guy and totaly happy (women can do that, find a guy in like 1 day, for guys it is harder). And most women I meet want nothing to do with me? FUCK, I just want this feeling of being alone for the rest of my life to go away, and I don't think it will.... Thanks, and sorry for all this on this board. Lowe ------------------     | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 29 |
Forget both chicks and strike out on your own. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 179 |
It is so hard to forget the past. I remember a frase "the past is not ours to recover, but the future is ours to discover" I want to let everything go, but I just keep sitting here thinking about life. I miss having someone. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 475 |
SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME, my soon to be ex wife moved out on me and moved in with a boyfriend. She had been having a written relationship and was seeing this punk when she went back to IOWA occasionally to see her family (unknown to me) I got a girlfriend and dated her for 5 mos,I broke up with her and tried to get her back but she already had someone 6 days later. She says she's happy and that I was too late (6 fucking days) My soon to be X wife now wants me back but fuck her she left me and has been fucking some other guy, she broke up with him when she heard I dumped my girl and he moved back to Iowa! Like that's gonna make me take her whore ass back! Been going through hell myself but I met a very nice girl last week and things are looking up. Hang in there bro, things will get better just keep building your body, with that will come confidence and it will make you a stronger person inside and out! Hang in there Bro, good things come to good people.....Eventually it all comes around. ------------------ | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 2342 |
bro, How old are you? It seems to me you got married too young (was your wife young also?)and now you are both growing up and discovering what you want....and it isn't each other. Clear your head...leave the girls behind (no kids, right?) and get out of there. Begin again, elsewhere, or you are allowing your problems to cage you. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 179 |
Not sure about "letting my problems cage me" or even what that means. But I was 19 when I got married. I am 21 now. I only dated 1 girls before her. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I keep telling my self things will get better, but I see no light. I guess only time will heal it. But, how much time? I have no kids, the divorce is going very quick, about another 3 weeks and its over, 100%. I want my wife back, but she found someone else, and likes him also. She says she is confused about what to do, and she wants to date us both and go from there. But, I can not stand the thought of dating my wife while some other guy fucks her. This hurts....... | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2342 |
bro - nothing personal....you just got married really young....before you knew who you were. 19? You were a kid. Still are in many ways....(no flame bro, but you're young) first: your wife dating someone else: WRONG ANSWER. If you take part in that, then you are condoning it, and then you are just weak. Serve her divorce papers and get it over with. Your wife in all likelihood is NOT "totally happy" with the other dude...she's just temporarily satsfied, like she was with you. (sorry to be harsh but it's true). Now, the other girl - Ask yourself: do you really want to deal with some other girl (not your wife) while she finds out whether you or the other guy is best? Do you want to WASTE YOUR TIME waiting for some chick to make up her mind? here's the truth: If she isn't sure if she wants you, she doesn't. If she has to compare you to another guy, even you you "win" the same shit will happen down the road. Why waste your time. Sorry to be so harsh, so plain...btu i've seen this 1000 times and I'm fucking sick of seeing good bro's waste time with bad women. MOVE THE FUCK ON! | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2680 |
Go to a nice Oriental Bath house and get your knob polished by severeal wash attendants. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 119 |
This sounds like a very fucked up situation. I don't know why you wouldn't tell both of those women to take a long walk off of a short pier. They said they want to date both of you to see which one is better. That is a load of shit. The one you were married to knows already. She is just trying to have her cake and eat it. As for the other one, she might have been amazing, but two weeks doesn't say a whole lot about anybody. My advice is to tell your wife to suck a fat one, and that she will be hearing from a lawyer soon. As for you, get over it. Sorrow isn't worth it. Jack off like a mad man until another piece of ass floats your way. Then bang it! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 478 |
they both sound like whores, (sorry), definitely dont sound like girls i would want to plan a future with. Your so young and there is som many fish in that sea that you havent tasted anything but shark yet, try some trout,schnapper...young and single there aint anything like it. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 49 |
time will heal all wounds my dear. It's time to regroup and focus youself on something else work,lifting anything that makes you happy. You are young and you need to find out who you are and what makes you happy. it'll get better. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 179 |
Thanks everyone. It is just hard now, but I know soon I will get over it. I will be graduating from college soon and be making good money and travel the world. I work out 7 days a week and look dam good. I am 21 and have my whole life ahead of me. I will find someone else soon, but in the mean time I will live the single life (and try to forget them women for now) and let what happens happen. Again, thanks.......... ------------------ | ||
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Guru
Posts: 3626 |
you think you got it bad? well og, picture this..22 years old..never tasted pussy...scared you good there huh? ------------------ "Pain, is just weakness leaving your body" "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray "IT DOESN'T MATTER" - The Rock "Intensity builds immensity" - Kevin Levrone | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 276 |
Sorry to hear this. It might be difficult for you to understand this now but...... It will all work out fine. Till then, keep your mind busy and don't get involved with anyone. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1067 |
MrMuscle It tastes like tuna, and I know you eat a lot of tuna, so next time you pop open a can repeat this mantra: "Be Pussy, Be Pussy, Be Pussy, Be!" And, it will turn into a Nordic godess wearing nipple clamps. Puc ------------------ |
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