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 For The Guys - Muscle Chicks or Fitness Chicks?
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 21 |
To add insult to injury I was told that I am "too big and muscular" by my boyfriend (he's on his way out of the picture). What do guys want? Muscle or fitness? I was given this option a few days ago - "It's either me or the gym, you can't have both". So - here I am at a crossroads. Is it possible to be too big (I am natural)? I'd really like some feedback on this. Thanks ------------------    | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 630 |
Fitness chicks but.... That is insane, giving you an ultimatum(sp?)like that. Choose the gym. There is nothing wrong with the muscular look, its a unique look considering most women are flabby and what not. Its just not feminine, still I'd kinda like my wife or g/f to be a muscle chick, either way...does not matter.  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 113 |
Well, unless you have ongodly genetics, I'd doubt if you were too big naturally. I do prefer the fitness chicks over the masculinity of most muscle bound steroid chicks though. [This message has been edited by Stan O'Zolol (edited January 14, 2001).] | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 407 |
I'll have to say fitness chicks on this one. I agree with you, though, if he wants you to choose between him or the gym... well... DUH! THE GYM! -Warik ------------------ BY THE POWER OF GRAYSKULL!!! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 21 |
I am natural - no gear. Blessed with genetics and huge legs. I'm not a hallowed out - winstrol humping freak. ------------------ | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 3632 |
A well built woman always gets respect from me. Seeing as i live in a country where women dont dare touch a weight cuz hey think theyll look like men, i have never "seen" a natural well trained chick..cuz the ones you see in mags are NOT natural...vut i say train..choose the gym..and find a man who appriciates you for who you are ------------------ "Pain, is just weakness leaving your body" "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray "IT DOESN'T MATTER" - The Rock | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 327 |
Fitness Chicks! ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2483 |
Wise words, indeed, from the Norwegian Freighttrain! If you are natural there is NO WAY that you could be "too muscular". It has been my experience (I've been getting a bit of that "but you USED to have such a pretty face" shit, myself a bit lately, too - hahaha) that when man sez this to a woman what he is REALLY saying, "My dick is shrinking in your presence because you are probably stronger than me and I am too fucking insecure about my own masculinity or lack thereof so I feel an overwhelming need to put you down that I might (in some pathetic attempt) retain some shred of my whithering manhood." tee-hee I say, dump the miserable sniveling mofo and get yourself a REAL man!.....on second thought, dump the miserable sniveling mofo and go about your world improving yourself and meeting your every whim and goal...a man is not necessary for this.
[This message has been edited by bikinimom (edited January 14, 2001).] | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1272 |
MUSCLES!!!!! ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 31 |
It's your body!!! You do what makes YOU happy! If he really loved you..He would support ANYTHING you wanted to achieve in your life! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 46 |
Both! Post a Picture... ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 245 |
dump the goof, get a real man. never see an big guy complain his wfe is to big, lots of people are gonna want those genetics ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 189 |
I don't care as long as they want to get naked for me. On a serious note, as long as there's not any masculine features and your body is symmetrical it's all good! Good luck! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 182 |
I say fitness - I'm in no way intimidated by muscular chicks - I respect the amount of hard work and deidication they must have put into it - I just have never been attracted to them. and bikini mom - I consider you a fitness chick and not overly muscula, unless in real life you look much different than your pics. my ideal woman is Torrie Wilson, muscular, but not is a gross way. ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2483 |
Brotha Happy - what you see in the pic IS what I look like in real life. I mean there is NOTHING worse than bad lighting, but it is would IMPOSSIBLE to make a woman like Vick Gates (who unfortunately does not have the prettiest face and who though I do admire how hard she worked to grow those muscles I do not want to EVEN ATTEMPT to emulate - I'm just not that hard working!) look like a Playboy centerfold. I had the pleasure of meeting Vicki in real life with her clothing on and saw her pose with very little clothing on (not competition-ready though) and I must say - DAMN, talk about your brick houses! But that is my opinion. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. About your girl - I used to be VERY small and lean (about 108#....a size 0) and I got tired of that shit. I was always tired and hungry and bitchy and though I busted my ass in the gym, my progress was slow and minimal at best. Since then I have put on some quality mass and fluctuate between a size 2 (if comp ready even less than that, but it is only temporary) and a true size 4, bulked fat and happy. What I am trying to say is, don't give up on your girl. She may get into finding her strength some day. And though she may never have the slightest inclination to compete (which is actually a good thing, hehe) she might understand that starving and tearing your body down will not make you happy. It will only make you and keep you a miserable slave. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 207 |
I personally like the fitness look more then the bodybuilder look for girls, but...there are 2 girls at my gym who are entering a bodybuilding contest this summer and they look incredible. So, I guess it all depends. Id just say that you go with what makes you happy, and you cant go wrong with that | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1382 |
F*CK HIM!! I wish my girlfriend would just actucally go to the damn gym with me...and I agree...I bet he's jealous that you're more dedicated than him...tell him to get in the gym with ya' next time... ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1077 |
quote: "muscle chicks" for me girl. I'd rather hump with a girl who would be willing to get serious in the weight room with me. what a turn-on. my friend's wife is just as hardcore as he is (I'm so jealous!) I like strong backs on women, damnit I just like strong women. come to me! I won't push you away! although I might be a little scared if your arms are bigger than mine... hehe ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 67 |
Both are fine but I'd have to say finess chicks. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 20 |
MrMuscle the norwegian women i know don�t need to lift to be big... just for curiosity how big is the biggest woman you know? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1472 |
Fitness chicks for me, overly muscular women look like guys with tits to me. Your boy shouldn't give you an ultimaitum. Do what makes you happy. | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1961 |
though i tend to check out the fitness gals at the shows... i have to say that i prefer both. as long as they are feminine, i have no problem with "too many muscles" cause last time i checked they have the same amount as any other woman, its just accentuated by lower bodyfat and a bit of hypertrophy. obviously this guy isnt feeling masculine enough, let him go find an anorexic suicidal chick with a stalking problem and he'll wish he stayed with you. hell, im sure you can find someone comfortable with themselves not to hate on you because you have size. if all else fails....long beach is a short drive away, we can head to venice to train. peace ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 210 |
It doesnt matter what we like but to which do you prefer- my guess is that this guy your talking about would be insecure with a fitness chix-Some of the fitness chix are pretty muscular-My guess is that he doesnt like muscle on a female. Thats ok-You do, he just isnt the guy for you! Most guys I know would prefer the playboy type models then the girls that work out-But these guys are also fat pieces of shit when it comes to their bodies( well most of them) lift for yourself and everything else will fall into place. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 13 |
Fitness chicks here, but thats just me. You have to respect the person you love no matter what. I know, I've been married 19 years and can't get my wife to the gym (although I try everyday), and it really shows, but still love her for her! Find someone to treat you right. [This message has been edited by idahohawk (edited January 15, 2001).] | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 24 |
Too difficult to call, I would go both ways Fitness and muscular. I just love to see the muscular phyisque of a woman's body, soo hot and sexy. A definite turnon 24/7 | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 3 |
I like muscular, but not as much as a pro bodybuilder. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 3632 |
i dont know ANY "muscular" norwegian chicks. Sure i know the farm type..with hands bigger than mine and such..but im talking about the one who train...nada...they are all skinny, or fat...nothing in between ------------------ "Pain, is just weakness leaving your body" "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray "IT DOESN'T MATTER" - The Rock | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 136 |
OOOOOHHHHHHH GOD-FITNESS chicks!!!!!I've prepped a couple of National level girls and you would not believe what they were on(d-bol,finaject,winny 50mg.EOD,12-15 clen a day....)You get the point-ALL these girls got so UGLY after doing serious juice.I DIDN'T want them to touch the Andros...but it was their choice.Many of these girls are pushed by their boyfriends to do what it takes to win-very sad.BUT,now even the fitness girls are doing way too many drugs-just wait to see who gets ugly in the next two years!!!! J | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2178 |
SD, WHY DONT YOU POST A PIC FOR THE GUYS SO THEY CAN DECIDE BY THE WAY YOU PERSONALLY LOOK? IF YOU ARE ANYTHING LIKE HEATHER DARLING WAS, THEN THAT IS TOO BIG FOR A WOMAN! IMO, ANYWAYS. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1466 |
Fitness Chicks. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 73 |
I find both are fitness chicks and muscle chicks can be extremely attractive. However, there is more to a person than merely his/her looks. Beauty attracts one to another, but that attraction only last so long. That is when one's personality takes over. Some of the most beautiful women turn out to be dumb as a box of rocks or annoying as hell. Moreover, some average women can become extremely attractive once you get to know him or her. I am babbling -- I know. All I am trying to say is that physical beauty only last so long -- if there is nothing more to you than your outer beauty, whether your a fitness chick or muscle babe is not going to matter. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 210 |
SDLiftingchick-Are you from San Diego? If so what gym to you work out in? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 810 |
fitness chicks | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 21 |
I just moved to San Diego, right now I am trying out the different gyms but can't find one that I feel comfortable at. Most are packed with people who treat the gym like a dating club. 24 Hour Fitness is nice but too many fake people there. As soon as I can figure out how to post a pic I will. My "boyfriend" dumped out all my containers of protein powder today - so I washed all his underwear and whites with a pink towel. Oops. ------------------ | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1961 |
are you serious? he dumped it out??? oh hell. i would have went way right on his ass if i were you. not that its the cost as being a big deal but...the principle. with all the stuff you have mentioned about him lately that would have been the icing on the cake. 24 hour is alright for the price...but yes alot of fakes. i go there just for the convenience(times). otherwise i would have gone to a more hardcore gym (golds). plus if i ever want to get humble, venice is a half hour away. but yeah, 24 hours are pretty plasticy inside. you being in s.d. can go to the world gym (old golds) pretty smooth look inside. i liked it. i trained there once or twice. good luck finding a good gym...and getting rid of your little boy (tantrum man...as it seems). sorry to hear when anyone is in these situations with "adults". peace ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 948 |
quote: I have to agree here. Everyone is beautiful in her own way. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 85 |
SD -- I'm guessing your boyfriend doesn't work out -- or if he does you're as strong as or stronger than he is. Who needs someone so easily threatened? If you're natural, there's no such thing as too muscular for a woman (the steroid freaks are another story). To hell with him. I'm in San Diego, there are a few decent gyms, depending on where you live. I go to a couple of different Ballys (yeah, I know, but they're good out here, honest!) -- they're both on Mira Mesa. There's always Gold's off Route 5; I haven't checked it out. There's a new Powerhouse opening off Route 52, too. [This message has been edited by wrlord (edited January 16, 2001).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 266 |
fitness chicks. | ||
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Novice
Posts: 7 |
Fitness by far! But whatever is clever! Do what makes you happy, to hell with him. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 259 |
fitness for me | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 727 |
Fitness. I have this thing for timea Nick | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1433 |
depends on the chiky, Ive seen women bb's I love to hook up with and women bb's I would touch, same goes for fitness. Its an overall thing for me so I cant really say either way. Please yourself, make yourself happy, someone will come along that digs ya for you and everyting that comes along with that. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1617 |
Fitness chick, If I wanted to date a man I would be gay. I seriously doubt that your desire for muscle is the sole reason for your split. There are underlying problems. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 309 |
I like both. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1108 |
muscle chicks are NASTY! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 487 |
Send me your pic I will give you my honest opinion. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 548 |
I think I'll take a fitness chick to go!!  | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 548 |
Yummy | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 354 |
http://mitglied.tripod.de/heinzpc/muskeln1.html http://mitglied.tripod.de/heinzpc/muskeln0.html well whats wrong with a lady how looks like this hell they all look very happy and as for you SD learn to do what ever it take to make you happy never change the way you want to be for ant other person Good luck ------------------ |
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