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 how do YOU deal with a broken heart???
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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whether it be a death in the family or to a pet... or a break up with "the one"? how do you deal with your broken heart?     | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 285 |
one word..alcohol | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 76 |
i dont drink. i bet you had lots after watching kstate walk on your orange fellas. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 285 |
no i was still hungover this morning..didnt need anymore..hah | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 698 |
Gang, you have a heart? JK man. The thing that helps me get through the tough shit is training. I honestly dont know what I would do with myself during times like the ones you spoke of, if I never picked up a weight. It is my support group. Also, I tend to rely on massive doses of Paxil. Without that shit, I guarantee I would be in an asylum right now or on death row. And Im not trying to sound like a hardass...Im pretty ashamed of the way I used to be. It got to the point to where my family wouldn't even ask me to go on the annual vacation with them being that I would always end up wanting to fight someone, or just couldn't control my mood swings. That shit(Paxil)has made a new man out of me & I dont know what I would do without it. Im like a ducks ass now as they say!! | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2487 |
Some really good herb. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 61 |
roidog youre a ducks ass?what? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 698 |
quote: Ya know how water just rolls off a ducks ass? Shit rolls off me like that. You never heard that before?? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 114 |
You may only have one life to live... Mourn for a week, after that say fuck it. Life carries on, and time heals. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 708 |
Find someone new. Its the only way to go about with your problems. Forget about who you lost and find a new partner. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 23 |
I'd have to agree with Celt.... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1435 |
Celt is right. Only time will heal. Of course true love doesn't go away easy and you still occassionally may run into that person. Death is FINAL. And in some ways, it may make it easier to recover. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 729 |
wine is the water of the gods, and I partake of divinity copiously. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 48 |
Time is the only true way to get over a broken heart. Everything else is nothing more than a temporary distraction -- the pain will eventually resurface. Just be thankful for what you have and everything life has to offer. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 30 |
i think the hardest thing to do is accept it, you can do all the drinking smoking injecting you can handle, but eventually your going to sober up. then the calm, or the detachment you found while avoiding the problem comes back and you have to start all over again... roidog is right on, focus on your training, that focus trickles down into other areas of your life... i don't know how many times i've been in the gym at 3am.... good shit man, got some of my best gains right after henous break ups.... best revenge is looking good... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 160 |
Agreed w/baddaddy. Altho I would at first revert to my drugs and alchohol, that only serves to put the problem on HOLD. You'll eventually have to face it and once you do, then you can move on. It will hurt a lot at first, then eventually pass. Everytime you go thru it, it makes it a bit easier to handle the next time. | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1428 |
Nine Inch Nails, Marilyn Manson, ecstacy, vodka, isolation and suicidal thoughts. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 527 |
i agree with MrH , and ide like to add two things : develop an unhealthy fixation on a co-worker and go gun shopping . ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 3238 |
And how can you mend a broken heart How can you stop the rain falling down How can you stop the sun from shining What makes the world go round | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 37 |
I tend to just sort of loose myself in training or for me golf. This last year was a bad one for me and I would go to the gym after work and have the most intense workouts. My focus was so strong in those times which is backwards from lots of people who can't think straight. I had quite the combination of death and girl problems to deal with and I pushed myself so hard. In a strange way I actually miss that feeling of being so consumed with what I was doing. It was all just a way of passing the days along. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 171 |
Diversion, you can't wish it away. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 49 |
Johnny O- that's really weird as I was listening to that song at the same time I read the lyrics you posted. That song really sucked the first 3 and a half times I heard it. Not for any emotional reason, just that I thought it was incredibly slow and boring and Shawn Ray at every posing display for the last 14 years-esque. Now I really love that song. It has grown on me for sure. The only reason I ever heard it is because the Good Will Hunting ST rocks and it's on there. Who sings that song-Sammy Davis Jr.? Here are some of the other lyrics that are well said: I can think of younger days And how can you mend a broken heart And how can you mend this broken man I can still feel the breeze So how can you mend a broken heart la la la la la la la ahhh ahh ohhh yeah la la la lallllalalalala I just wanna I just wanna I just wanna I just wanna I just wanna live again I think I, I believe I, I just got a feeling that I want to live and live. Bump that in your Lex or Benzo for all the dirty heart breaking iatttches!! Also as an added provision you should also pour out some liquor. Microwave for ten minutes, let cool, and enjoy! No wait, disregard the last couple steps. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2116 |
GG/ MBomer, You ask us this & then put up a post about how you had so much SEX over the weekend... I don't get it. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 4116 |
I deal with it by ignoring it and getting on to new things. Nothing like a few women to help you forget a woman. ------------------ For a good time click here: Search and Profiles (300Kleens Board) | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1175 |
Initially, I just go out clubbing, take a shit load of whizz and E and end up picking up someone else and ..... the next day I feel terrible but I soon get over it! ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 76 |
dlady, i moved 10 days ago but i went to nashville to visit djane for new years and move the rest of my junk. so naturally we made up for lost time... but then we said goodbye. understand? |
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