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Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
hi my boyfriend talks about doing steroids, and i really really don't want him to, just because of all the bad things i hear about them. can anyone please tell me the effects of the steroids? i know there are different kinds, he talks about using sustanon and deca (sp?) i'm scared he will lose his hair and have aggression all the time. our sex life isn't even so great now...will this make it worse??? anyone that can help, i would really appreciate it!! XOXOXOX | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 20 |
While he's on them he will proabably be a rabbit. And besides honey it will make his salomi grow a little bigger. He isnt gonna go bald off of 1 cycle. Besides Deca is one of the safest anabolic steroids around. You have nothing to worry about. One question though does he know what he's doing? | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 83 |
your sex life should be just about the same with this cycle. the two ingredients balance eachother out. A steroids aren't half as bad as you probably think they are. His bloodpressure might raise a little bit on this cycle but after it comes off he should be fine. these two steroids are two of the safest ones around. His liver and any other organs should not be affected by this. do you have any idea what his dosages are gonna be? you have any idea | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 539 |
FIRST OFF, YOUR PROBABLY ONE OF US IN DISGUISE... BUT IF YOUR NOT... IS IT YOUR BODY THE STEROIDS ARE GOING IN? NO? WELL THEN KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT, ITS HIS LIFE!!! YOU SOUND REAL YOUNG, ODDS ARE YOU GUYS WONT END UP TOGETHER ANYWAY... ITS HIS LIFE AND HE WILL DO WHAT HE WANTS, DEAL WITH IT. IF HE CHANGES THEN DUMP HIM... HOW HARD IS THIS? | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 76 |
Hey there, I wouldnt worry about your b/f, the two types of roids he is talking about taking are nothing to worry about. His nuts will shrink up but with the sust he should be horny as hell all the time. As long as he isnt someone to fly off the handle all the time to begin with they wont affect his temper. I have done cycles of sust and deca and the only side effects I got was a little bit of acne on my shoulders. Nothing to worry about!! Just make sure he monitors his blood pressure. The most important thing you can do is be supportive because if he has made the decision to get on the sauce nothing will talk him out of it. Be supportive, maybe even help with his injections and he will always love ya!! Good luck. | ||
Freak Posts: 1623 |
Madbomber that was classis. . . I would only like to add that this is a rediculous post, funny, but rediculous. . .what chick would write a AS board asking about AS and flaming her man's sexual prowess in the same thread. Great stuff, I've got to get my girl to read this one. . . .by the way if you are his chick, which I doubt. . .his balls shrivel up, sort of like a 10year olds, and a great many of us have an unbelievable peak in sexual interest often followed by a complete lack of it at the end of cycle. . . .but since you're a guy posing as someones chick you could have just come out and asked. Couldn't you? ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 20 |
Ya know what wise old kodiak you're right, im wondering why the fuck i even responded to that post. LOL o well, its all in good fun | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 694 |
Kodiak, I am with you bro. "he talks about using sustanon and deca..." What normal girl would even remember what her boyfriend was talking about, much less how to spell them correctly! What at stupid ass! | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
hi i would like to thank everyone who responded to this... for the rest of you idiots, i think i am right when i don't want my boyfriend using steroids, i don't want him to turn out like you paranoid freaks...why on earth would someo guy pretend to be a girl? sorry i am concerned about him! we discuss this a lot and thats how i know what he talks about using. i know he comes on here because i see him sometimes...thats how i know about this. and for the jackoff that said i sound real young and that we probably won't even stay together, real nice of you to judge a concerned girl. sorry i don't know that much about steroids, that is why i came on here! thanks to everyone who responded... XOXOX | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 694 |
"...real nice of you to judge a concerned girl." Yet, you also said, "i don't want him to turn out like you paranoid freaks..." Real nice of you to judge people you don't know user's moron. Idiot. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 111 |
hahahahahaha......madbomber is da man...... Sorry sugar-cake, but being someone's bitch in jail doesn't qualify you as a girlfriend... It's all good......don't take it so seriously. LOL | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
i have definitley made up my mind...he is NOT doing steroids...look at all of you, you are all so mean!....and for what? no reason at all. i just thought i could get some help!!! guess not... | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 694 |
User's Idiot, your man will do whatever he wants to do and you're not going to do shit about it. Trust me on this one. He may tell you he isn't doing this or that, but he will be. LOL! To even think you can tell him what to do makes me laugh beyond control! Dumbass! | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 33 |
Well guys, now you just confirmed the damn stereotype for someone once again. 1)Friggin chill out and stop jumping on everyones ass. 2)Maybe you DON'T know everything about everything and everyone 3)Being huge, (or pretending to be), doesn't mean you can fuck around with people and be assholes So this is this girls first encounter with guys and steroids. Good fucking job. And then you all wonder.... | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 539 |
HANG ON, THIS TRICK SAID SHE "MADE UP HER MIND"... BITCH PLEASE!!! ITS NOT YOUR CHOICE, ARE YOU FUCKIN IGNORANT? ITS HIS CHOICE... HE HAS THE NEEDLE, NOT YOU... IF YOU EVER FIND YOURSELF ON A LEDGE, JUMP!!! | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
i would like to thank Pat Blondage, PAT1usMC, and AZ tall guy...thanks for the information you gave me And to the rest of you guys, first I was a guy pretending to be a girl?? Now I'm just a bitch and a Trick?? Make up your mind, and get off the fucking internet!! Do you get joy out of being mean to people? I think you all need lives....Bye Everyone | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 539 |
ON THE NET AT WORK ALL DAY AND I FUCKING LOVE BEING MEAN. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 33 |
user'sgirldrop --me an email in private | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 539 |
PAT, JUST POST YORU FRIENDLY ADVICE HERE, OR ARE YOU TRYING TO SEE IF THIS IS A GUY OR NOT? OR ARE YOU GOING TO BE SOME FREAK AND HIT ON HER?
I'M IN A MOOD. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 26 |
I am going to start off by saying that this isn't even the area I should be in because I am a female, but I just wanted to see what the difference was between the male and female discussion board because I am so ignorant in the field of weight training. I am trying to become educated though. At first, I was upset in how you treated User's Girl, but then I thought that it was not my place to judge you guys, considering you were first more knowlegeable in this area, and second, you know the types of people that post topics. The only thing that I suggest to you User's Girl, is that maybe you should have gone to the women's discussion board and asked this question. The women on there know about this stuff and they could have probably told you the same things. That is why they do have separate discussion boards. I can say this because eventhough I am ignorant when it comes to training, I am not completely ignorant in the differences between men and women. I have found that they have given me a lot of help and support on the questions that I have on the women's discussion board. That is also why you don't see many posts from men on the women's discussion boards. And the ones on there, are asking about women in general. I hope that this reply is not taken badly by you guys, but I thought User's Girl would more likely see it here than on the women's discussion board. Have a great day. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 111 |
Right on....the women's discussion board is certainly the right place for you....what did you really expect? We are after all, a bunch of raised testosterone guys. C'mon. Plus, why take so much offense? This is a AS discussion board that you probably won't spend anymore time on. Anyways, get your boyfriend on this board. If he is really gonna do this he needs to know what he is doing. Honestly, I'm trying to help, if you really care for him order him one of the anabolic guides. Like anabolic review, etc. I don't have any web addresses but if you search for them they're there. And yeah, my wife disagreed wife AS and I did it anyways. So keep that in mind. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 694 |
LOL@Madbomber!! Here is yet another brilliant line from user'sIdiot: "Make up your mind, and get off the fucking internet!!" Okay, please explain the logic behind this one. So, we should make up our minds whether you are a trick or a bitch, and then get off the internet? OR, we should decide if you are a guy or a girl, and then get off the internet? Please tell me why we should decide and then get off the internet? If you are making us get off the internet, then why should we be forced to decide? Rarely do you ever run into a bigger idiot than this!! Thanks for the laughs today user'sIdiot! | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 502 |
WTFFF is this... What if User's girl, isn't one of use pretending to be someone else. This board is so quick in Flamming people! Instead of helping her out with the info she needs, or telling her to go to the womens board for help. Nope, lets call her names,ect... I dont' want to call anyone out on this, b/c it makes me sick, when people disrespect women(if she is a girl). But my g/f is a normal girl, and she can hold a conversation with someone and tell you what A.S if for cutting, and bulking... And no i don't talk about it all the time. She is a good listener and does research on A.S b/c she wants to know what i'm going to do to my body... To user's girl: I hope you stick around, and ignore the comments of a few. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 694 |
"But my g/f is a normal girl, and she can hold a conversation with someone and tell you what A.S if for cutting, and bulking.." bsjohnson, does this sound like somebody that is educated on Anabolic Steriods? "my boyfriend talks about doing steroids, and i really really don't want him to, just because of all the bad things i hear about them." This is the same sort of media brainwash shit that we complain about all the time bro!! Sorry you bought into it. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
thanks texas gurl, i never even knew that there was a woman's board, i just knew of this because i see my boyfriend go in it. i'll have to check it out... pat1us...i emailed you?? not sure if i had the right address | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 502 |
Ghost, I didn't buy into anything. I understand why everyone reacted the way they did to her post. But I just think it should of been handled differently. No hard feelings... | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 100 |
<<User's Idiot, your man will do whatever he wants to do and you're not going to do shit about it. Trust me on this one. He may tell you he isn't doing this or that, but he will be. LOL! To even think you can tell him what to do makes me laugh beyond control! Dumbass! Ghost your post speaks for itself, Your a fricking retard, nuff said......... | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 694 |
As does yours MarkM. By the way, idiot, it is "You're a fricking..." not "Your a fricking" Did you graduate high school? I didn't think so. Get lost. [This message has been edited by The Ghost (edited December 13, 2000).] | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 354 |
first off, ghost: loved how you caught her/he doing the same thing she/he accused us of. second, user's girl: you are going to make up your mind because of what a couple of guys said to you on a message board? why wouldn't | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 539 |
SEE, MY PROBLEM WITH THIS ENTIRE POST IS THE FACT THAT "SHE" IS MAKING UP HER MIND ON WHAT "HE" IS GOING TO OR NOT DO... WHO THE FUCK HAS THAT RIGHT? IF MY GIRLFRIEND SAID NO, I WOULD LAUGH AT HER... AND GOD KNOWS WHAT WOULD COME OUT OF MY MOUTH AFTER THAT. NO WOMAN OR MAN FOR THAT MATTER CAN MAKE UP ANOTHERS MIND... SERIOUSLY, SOME CHICKS BELIEVE THEY "CONTROL" THE BOYS DECISION, THEY DONT!!! AND TO WHOEVER WAS CONSIDERING "CALLING SOMEONE OUT" WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN? | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 502 |
Madbomber31, about me calling anyone out as nonthing to do with you. I was just saying that if she is a girl, and was looking for help, i just thought it was very rude how certain individuals handled this post. And by me calling anyone out was meant this way: I was not going to go and Name everyone who made a rude repsonse to her. Instead I made a gernal statement to everyone saying how I thought this post was handled the wrong way. So that is what i meant by calling someone out... Take it for what you want!!! [This message has been edited by bsjohnson (edited December 13, 2000).] | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 214 |
I tried to figure out a reason why a dude would come here posing as a concerned girlfriend, I couldn't come up with one. It's the internet, nobody knows who you are anyway. If a dude had a question about AS why would he come here acting as his chick? It doesn't make any sense, maybe we should have just sent her to the womens board or given her/him-whatever, the links to the information sites we give every other newbie that comes in here. Just a thought. | ||
Guru Posts: 2065 |
4 a-50 a day and large dose of vitamin A every day. 10times the recommened dose should damage the liver withing days. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 390 |
hey user's girl what's your boy friends name on this board??? aky ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 214 |
aky, cmon now bro, she would be handing us that poor guys nuts if she told us who he was. Look at what some of the bro's here did to her, now multiply that by 10 when they learn who the poor pussy whipped bastard really is. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1125 |
After my first cycle I flipped out cause all my hair fell out, and my dick shrank, so I gave my girlfriend a good beating. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 201 |
Mp5 Godammit you gotta stop posting shit man, Im laughing too damn much ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1125 |
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Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 57 |
Hey Girl, Now you see why I don't post very often here either...I did manage to latch on to the best looking Mod on the board....he's actually a great guy, on and off his steroids....and I have never seen him go off.... Of course you will have to excuse some of the more adolescent replies, most are nothing more that walking pimples with sticky fingers.... Don't let it bother you Girl....hang around, afterall....it's all good!!!!! Bunny | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1125 |
Bunny, he told me when he is on a cycle he gets so horny that he waxes all sorts of strange chicks. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 383 |
posted by users girl....... quote: My EX GIRLFRIEND said the same thing!!! Wow, I feel so sorry for some guys.... ------------------ | ||
Freak Posts: 1623 |
quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- i have definitley made up my mind...he is NOT doing steroids -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- . . . Livin Large, I don't care if she or he got flamed, I am still laughing about that quote. Because we weren't nice this poor dude isn't going to be allowed to use AS. Think about the power we as board members posses. Enough of the BS. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 171 |
Steroids will KILL HIM!! LOL do a search | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 57 |
Ohhhhhhhhhh...MP5, aren't you just precious....Hmmmmmmmm...!!! By the way....Is that your head, or is your pencil neck trying to blow a bubble...??? Bunny | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 143 |
His balls might fall off, oh well!! j/k
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Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 230 |
SAY NO TO DRUGS. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 191 |
User's Girl- You're welcome to come to the women's board and you'll probably be treated w/ respect and get some good answers to your questions .... however we don't take too kindly to namecalling there.... | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 201 |
Hmm...maybe Harmonic should go to the Women's board ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 30 |
Who would've thought that such a simple posting could inspire such deep society-realted comments about HORSESHIT! Somebody help me out here. Let's quit debating on the creation of the universe, answer this person's question, and put them on their merry way. Fuck me! Quit worrying about the degree to which this guy's pussy-whipped! I'm too fuckin' busy throwin' around weights and generally trying to make MYSELF into a mega-beast than bust somebody else' balls. Oh yeah, Merry Christmas! | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 539 |
YET YOU HAD TIME TO POST ON THIS SUBJECT AS WELL... WAS IT REST TIME BETWEEN SETS? | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1125 |
Bunny, maybe if you laid off the twinkies and talk shows your neck would be smaller than mine. ------------------ | ||
Novice Posts: 5 |
Man I'm sorry to see so little tolerance out there just last week I posted my first message about how much testosterone to take and I thought that this was the BEST message board I had been to. With people who were genuinely concerned about disproving all off the sterotypes that have long been associated with steroid use. User's girl or whatever my girlfriend also disagreed with my choice to use AS, but like most of the guys here said I have to comfortable with myself before anyone else's opinion matters, and I told her about what great feedback I had gotten from the guys here and it kind of set her mind at ease. You cannot make him do or not do anything what you can do is encourage him to research his decision so that he makes an educated one. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 18 |
Thank God you all aren't within arm's length of each other. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
Bert, Yeah, my boyfriend told me about how good this website was, and thats why I came on here. He told me how everyone was so great and told you everything you wanted to know. I know that he gets a lot of information from here, so that is why I am apprehensive...most of these guys sound like total idiots...so, yeah, this scares me a lot. However, thanks for your input. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 534 |
chill out | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1429 |
Well User's girl, you already got all the answers by now. So i put in my thinking. If he wants to do roids, let him do it. Because if he has a strong will he will do it anyway. I don't know for the Sust, but the Deca will kill his dick, maybe he will survive thanks to the Sust (never used it). And no not everyone is a Testosterone freak. Deca is not one of the savest roids. Ever heard of gyno ? When you get this, it's for life unless surgery. He can loose some hair, not all in one cycle. His BP can you up real high, this depends on the person. He can get prostate problems. No, roids are not safe, but we all try to get around the sides. You know: we use it and want to get away with it. ------------------ Don't look back, life is too short | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 383 |
Mass Monster, I think his balls have been gone for a while now. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 63 |
What a load of bullshit!! Some of you wankers realy should relax, stop and think for a second what kind of image you are portraying of yourselves. Does it realy make you feel so much better if insult and humiliate other people. If this realy was someones concerned girlfriend then you just proved to her that most bodybuilders and steroid users are nothing but a bunch of overgrown morons with a short temper. The replys to this seemingly innocent post make me wonder if perhaps some of you should lay off the juice for a while. As for Users'girl what the hell were you thinking it realy isn't up to you whether or not your boyfriend uses AS, but if it is done correctly it won't pose a threat to his hair, his temper or your sex life. Well, that's all i have to say, some constructive criticim and advice-use it don't use- ! MERRY XMAS all !!!!!! PEACE | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
yeah thanks BILL..but it is my choice buh-bye | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 65 |
looks like i'm not the only one who thinks this girlfriend is really just a lazy newbie trying a new way around doing his own homework... how could this post have gone undeleted? | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
okay Mr. Got Big~ I'm not lazy, I came on here for any kind of information, even HOW TO get information. I don't know a thing about steroids, and I was stupid for believing that I would find information out from these muscle-heads. If you think I am being "lazy", don't tell me what you know about steroids, just tell me how to find the information myself. I am not lazy...I just didn't think I had any other resort. Have a GREAT DAY, honey | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 242 |
user's girl i believe your predicament. if you need some honest unbiased feedback, email me. as for you arrogant jarheads. keep your mouths shut. your flaming is what gives all other juicers a bad rap. and flaming you i am not. it's called constructive criticism. | ||
Freak Posts: 1623 |
End this already, he's not going to use AS, so its over right????? ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 30 |
Ahhhh, the Christmas Spirit... ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 230 |
i wanted to post something funny but everyone else already did... how about, just be supportive of him and buy him like 15000mg of testosterone, trust me you will thank me later. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 113 |
This entire thread makes me sad....what a disappointment.... | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 18 |
this is turning in to Jarry springer show! | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 151 |
user's girl....well most steroid users arent this damn mean, but anyway. If he uses Deca and Sust he will get pretty lean. He wont get cancer or anything so dont worry. email me if you want to for more questions. nick | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 31 |
poor girl ------------------ | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 510 |
I am in shock with the way some people have handled this post. Fair enough user's girl may have been a fraud but until you know that for sure, from a number of posts, you should give her the benefit of the doubt. Some people over here must believe you are guilty until proven innocent. If my g/f came on here and was treated in that way I would be very f*cking annoyed. User's girl, firstly not all of the bros are as ignorant and would be happy to help you out. It is a shame that the few spoil it for the majority of us around here. However, this is a public forum so you can expect that. The sus should give an increase in your man's libido. Deca can cause temporary impotence, however it is in a minority of people and it is believed that the deca will counter-act this. I personally have had this twice from deca. It is one of the only steroids to cause this. His testes may shrink within a couple of weeks but should go back to normal after a few weeks of coming off. As long as your boyfriend researches sensibly on dosages, cycling etc. he should be fine. He should also look into ancillary drugs, to reduce the risk of associated side effects, such as hair loss, liver damage, gyno, acne etc. Side effects can be eliminated/controlled; if he experiences any at all. Tell him to get liver function and blood pressure checks with the doc if you are stll worried. As for agression, this all depends on the person. If he can control his agression already then he should be able to control it when on. If he cannot now, then it could get worse. Remember though, it is his decision and although you can influence it, he does have a mind of his own. If you don't like it then leave him, forcing someone to do something will only put stress on your relationship. My girlfriend is very supportive with me. I try to explain everything to her so that she knows I am doing everything as safely as possible. She knows how dedicated I am and helps me with everything. We have a strong relationship and can tell each other anything. You should be happy that he has talked to you about this. My training partner has been married for 15 years and still won't tell his wife a thing. Consequently, his relationship with her isn't all that stable. It can work fine if you both work with each other and help each other to make informed decisions. Hope I've been of some help, if you want any more give me a shout. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 641 |
User's Girl, this board USED to be the best board on the internet for making an informed decision. But it has become too accessible by too many children. Basically this has driven all of the older veterans to this lifestyle away from the board, or render us to just reading only....rarely making replies. The truth is, your boyfriend has made a very wise choice. If he follows the guidelines to their use, AS will improve every aspect of his life. He will be confident and have a better feeling of well-being, just to name a couple of benefits. To determine harm, if any, he should get periodic blood tests. Family history should also be a good indicator of potential side effects. If he has relatives who are bald or who have prostate trouble, he may need a preventative medication such as proscar/propecia. Ignore these children. Most have no experience and give advice for one. And two, it is bad advice 99% of the time. There are better places for info...the archives (search) is one, and there are other boards with many more knowledgable and helpful individuals that are harder to find....and would like to stay that way. Just take your time and look around. If you really love your boyfriend, you should have no problem spending the time to learn and make a well educated decision. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 93 |
I read this post when it was only 20 replies long, i have now come back and i cant believe what is going on. Well said Bchemist you summed it up well bro. :-( CY. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 113 |
Great reply Strengthmonster.... | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 246 |
I HATE ALL YOU PIECES OF SHIT WHO DISRESPECT WOMEN. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
Thanks Bouncer~ |
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