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 How do I tell my mom I juice?!
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 945 |
She's so good to me I feel really bad lying to her. I need to tell her before I hit this next cycle. What do I tell her?!     | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 368 |
Damn that is tough Natural...I feel the same but feel that if I say anything it will just hurt her...I chose to stay silent. I feel for ya...Good luck [This message has been edited by DSPO (edited December 03, 2000).] | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 387 |
Why do you have to tell her. She may take it badly if you tell her. You never know. If I was to tell her I would make sure I had my shit planned and have some supporting facts about steroids. Even then she may not believe you. Society looks down on AS users in general and you may not want that from your mother. I'm glad I don't have to hide it from anyone myself... | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 42 |
If she doesn't realize that you're juicing just don't tell her. It's ok man, what she doesn't know will not hurt her. If she asks then tell her the truth and explain to her what it's all about. People have a lot of misconceptions about Steroids. For example everybody thinks that if you juice you'll die of cancer like Lyle Alzado. That's what my mom said to me! ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 703 |
I know it sucks lying to her but it's probably for the best. If you come clean she'll constantly be worried because of the negative reputation roids have been given. If you are set on telling her spend a month or so preparing a good argument. Basically just convince her of what we know that roids aren't nearly as dangerous as believed. It will be an uphill battle. If you hide it from her technically that's not lying. Good luck. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 319 |
tell me about it, after my first cycle i think my mon knows some thing was up, listen what i did "not to smart" i stayed up at school for the first month...i came home up 20lbs......my mom was bitchen? the second one was not that bad, i really did no what was going on so i only did 10cc of sust thinking i was going to make some good gains on my second cycle "wrong" and i was at home and my mom seen me every day | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 34 |
my mom just about dishoned me when she snuck in my room while i was in the process of moving some furniture and found a case of used syringes and norma hellas viles, and this is coming from someone who has smoked for 30 years... god I love how bad the government has brainwashed society... so the point is you should definitely lie because what she has been told or knows about steroids was someone elses lie, not your fault... not worth ruining a good relationship because now i can't say shit to my mom and just wear the baggiest clothes because if i gain 1 natural pound she'll think i'm juicing [This message has been edited by got big? (edited December 03, 2000).] | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 945 |
she'll know see can tell when I gain like 2lbs | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 945 |
You're right. She won't understand. BAGGY CLOTHES> I'll be a rapper for a little bit | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 28 |
What are you talking about? It is your business- an yours only. Why the fuck would you tell your mom of all people? Mommas boy? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 945 |
SuperJP. She's been a single mother worked really hard for us (me and my bro). We're really close I fell bad hiding anything form her or lying (she'll ask me: Juicing? then I don't wanna lie) | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 368 |
Natrual, Go buy creatine, andro and other supps and start the hype...do light dosages of gear...don't tell her but if she asks tell her. That is what I did with my wife. I know how you feel I have the same type of relationship with my mom. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 299 |
Lets see...you feel guilty about not telling her that you are taking illegal drugs and you are keeping them in her house? Ya I'll bet she'll understand  | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 739 |
Hiding what?....If she asks you why your sheets are sticky are you gonna tell her the latest mens exercise really got you excited...you wouldn't want to hide that from her would you?....do you still have to ask to take a drink with you to bed?...jesus..." I've got to tell my mommy "....sorry....you deserve this one | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 54 |
Here's a different point of view: It sounds like you and your Mum are pretty close. Are you absolutely sure she'll freak? Clearly, not telling her is bothering you. If you think she'll sell you out, or kick you out of the house, then maybe you shouldn't tell her. But if you don't have to fear those kinds of reprisals, I say just tell her. You'll feel better, and she may surprise you. Explain what you're doing, that you've researched this, that you're not using the kinds of doses and cycles that are so infamous, and that compared to the types of drugs most of your peers are into, this isn't that bad. Just because alcohol is legal doesn't mean that pounding 2 six-packs a day is good for your liver. Who knows, she may be relieved your not doing crack, and she'll probably be glad you trust her enough to share. Ultimately, no one on this board knows you or your mother, so this is one you're going to have to figure out on your own. good luck. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 238 |
My wife hates me doing juice - I have had to explain to her all the supporting evidence of how I won't die today from taking it. Her steroid education is from the media just like everyone else. You can keep quiet about it but eventually she will find out if you juice for the long run. Better she finds out from you rather than coming across some of your gear. When your open about it you don't have to sneak around as much. My wife watched me make Winny capsules last night. However she wasn't impressed. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 945 |
No I live on campus | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 945 |
She'll type in: side effect of steroids and she'll freak! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 54 |
look, if she'll freak, then don't tell her.. or don't juice. At first, you sounded like you were looking for possible rationales for telling her, so I gave you the best arguments I could think of. Now, it sounds like you've pretty much decided not to tell her. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
Geezz is that a new kid's club or what, tell your mommy...I can't believe what I read...and your juicing...oh my god...I'f you take an adult decision (juicing) act like one....don't mean to be rude but... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 387 |
No flame dude but how old are you. If you're young enough to be hiding this from her you may be too young to juice... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 158 |
no flame buddy but arent you your own person and doesnt she have to eccept that sooner or later | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 28 |
my mom knows i do and she doesnt want to know anything about. if shes a real goody mom dont even tell her tell her its creatine and weight gainer chances are she will be like everyone else steroids kill you there illegal and so on | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 142 |
What she doesnt know wont hurt her ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 49 |
ALL YOUR REALLY DOING IS THINKING OF YOURSELF. YOU KNOW HOW SHE IS GOING TO FEEL IF YOU TELL HER, SO DON'T. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE, I'M NOT TALKING SHIT, BUT YOUR ACTUALLY JUST BEING SELFISH!!! ------------------ | ||
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Moderator 
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she could react two different ways really bad or just kinda bad the only thing my mother hates is that i use her mail box addy for gear deliveries hehehe even thought i live like 300 miles away ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 49 |
That's fucked up Conan! LOL ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 34 |
as a parent myself, I can handle any truth. Its being lied to or decieved that really pisses me off. Like I'm ignorant and haven't already figured out whats really up? You've got like 1000 posts, obviously ya know gear. If you want to be treated as an adult, you've made an adult decision already... sit her down and tell her. The research you've done, the steps you take to minimize the sides, etc. Tell her you trust her as a parent,friend whatever. You don't want to lie to her, so out of respect this is whats up. It wo'nt be like a Brady Bunch episode but... you may suprise each other. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 695 |
good luck. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 266 |
It is very unfortunate that bodybuilders who live in Canada and the USA have to be put through this. If your mother was from another country, you will find that she would be very understanding about your goals. Here in the US the media has convinced everyone that steroids are poison. Everyone will try to discourage you from being a bodybuilder all the way. Once you win, they kiss your ass to your face, but will always talk shit about you and your use or suspected use, most people, not all. I was clean for years and was able to win a show without ever taking anything. Whats funny is that nothing has changed since I began evening out the playing field. Same talk, same slander......who cares. What I am getting to is that whatever you choose to do, you need to prepare yourself for the outcome, no matter what it is. I was much like you when I was younger. Now that I have reached a national level, it would have been pretty difficult to hide the fact that bodybuilders use steroids. It's a well known fact now by the general public. I believe the only reason Arnold got all the respect he got years ago was because of the lack of knowledge about steroids with the public at the time. Once people began trying to exercise and found out that they were not going to get the body they want in three months, they (general public) began using excuses to make up for their lack of accomplishments. Whats worse is that these beer drinking, smoking, junk food eating people and their counterparts...(you know the people who are healthy, "fitness" nuts...began using the excuse we are all cocky, arrogant, walking pharmacies. Once steroids were banned, that just gave them a better excuse to add to their lack of achievements. What I am seeing now is a new generation being taught by the sixties generation. For the most part our parents grew up in a time of partying. They knew nothing about health, AND STILL DON'T...except what they are told by "JOE" or "JEN", the $7.00 an hour trainer at the local "fitness facility." Fortunately, when I broke the news to my family they were concerned at first, but listened to what I had to say. They accepted it. Infact I had my mother pick me up 100 syringes last week. Pretty cool eh? I will turn pro. Remember I said that.....and when I do I will do whatever I can to change the attitude of this great sport. It's a shame that jealousy can convince parents and children to believe whatever they are told. Too bad they can't learn to implement these techniques on cocaine, heroin, x, crystal, ALCOHOL, SMOKING......of course jealousy is how steroids were catergorized with cocaine and all recreational drugs in the first place...if it was'nt for fat out of shape men in congress, steroids would still be legal today. I've said it once and I'll say it again...."Got some Dbol...I'm ready to go out on the town now." ITS B.S. that the US catagorized steroids like this....it can't even be considered a party drug, but somehow it is catagorized like one. The younger generation has already picked up it's parents example too. Everytime someone gets good results the youngster already knows about steroids? Yet if it's a football player they don't! Like I said typical fat ass preaching shit to his kid. Hopefully your mom won't be like this, some are not.....if your mom is American, I would be real hesitant about telling her. It may cause you more problems than it is worth. Sorry about the rant, but this subject really gets to me. If she really loves you she will listen to you. Too bad these ignorant peons in congress don't listen. By the way, steroids have been out now for over 40 years. With over a billion people who have used now, wheres the epidemic? NO ONE IS DIEING! Remember, those "jealous" doctors and what they have always said. It will not effect you now, but later. I come from a long line of bodybuilders, and ALL the x-bodybuilders I know are older, and healthier than the people who were so concerned about them dieing. Look at statistics...the non-users / exercise buffs are fatter, having more problems, and are dieing. This is a fact. Those who have used seem to be healthier provided the hormone use was implemented correctly. I HATE WHAT THIS COUNTRY HAS DONE!! EVERYTHING IS A LIE HERE! Sorry. Thats just how I feel. I still love the US. I just hate whats happened to it. THE US IS A DICTATORSHIP OF MONEY. Just ask OJ and Clinton. THATS A FACT JACK! |
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posted December 03, 2000 12:22 AM