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Author | Topic: My girl said if I do it she's gonna leave me! | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 85 |
I'm gonna miss her. Made the mistake of telling my girl I was going to start a cycle soon. Honesty is not always the best policy I guess, Oh well. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 95 |
See i dont see how that is right! i mean women wear make up and and fancy clothes and everything else to improve the self apperance. the when men come around to improve there bodies along with there mind and confidence these women turn around and tell us they dont want us to. I am in the same situation right now i mean i am doing it to improve my body as well as mind which can satisfy her and myself at the same time. i dont see what the problem is if done right and responsibly. These women confuse me more then anything | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 172 |
you have to remember that she is just another person who is ignorant to aas use. It sucks but if she was going to put restrictions on what you do and dont do, you didnt need her anyway. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 342 |
Neeeever tell your girlfriend !! What she doesn't know doesn't hurt her ! I know my gf and i talk to her sometimes about it cause i know she suspecting me of doing AS, but i know she doesn't wnat me to tell her. Just keep the things secret when everything goes right. that's my 2 cents Androl | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1366 |
She's bluffing. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 113 |
I agree with all the above. You'll get another one, and when you do, you will probably be big enough, but still don't tell her. | ||
Novice Posts: 10 |
Bend her over one last time and give it to her in the ars then throw her cloths out the door and when she goes to get them slam the door and lock it. Don't talk to her for days. Works for me -Raisens | ||
Moderator Posts: 2836 |
Bro, That is the very reason around here women call me " The Milk-Man " all my realtionships come with an expiration date...heh heh heh...If she cares deeply about you, she'll come back!!! Ranger | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 126 |
What is her reasoning for leaving you? Obviously you have a conflict in interest. I'd never hide it from a loved one. Stand up and if she leaves you make sure she eats her words... | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 856 |
she will get over it, once she sees how huge you are after your cycle, she won't want to let you go b/c other girls will be all over you.
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Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 660 |
eminem had the best point i have ever heard,ill be saving that excise for a few years haha ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 85 |
That Kermitts great! The whole thing is kinda hypocritical, I mean she would never had given me the time of day if I did'nt look the way I do. Oh well, this is who I am and that's the way I'm going to be so she can either accept it or move on. Then she threw in the "it's illegal line" When is the last time you have heard of someone shooting 2cc of Test, stumbling to their car and mowing down a family on a freeway or something. She will either move on or stay, I'm not going to miss a single workout over it. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 63 |
I agree with the other guys...there are a ton of girls out there that would not care about the AAS use. I do think most girls would care more about your health than anything else. My GF knows and she has shot me up before. She expresses her concern, but not about terminating the relationship. Just assure her you will be careful, and if that doesn't work...date my GF's sister! :-) | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 242 |
I agree with you guys. My girlfriend shoots me up all the time and sometimes she gives me a little attitude about AS but then she realize I'm not snorting coke or shooting heroin. My girl is good about it so I'll keep her. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 253 |
I told my fiance!!! She don't like it but she is still with me!!!! BuT ask her if she likes what my body looks like now???? ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 183 |
Tell her not to let the door hit her in the ass on the way out.... | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 60 |
Never give out information that is not requested. I believe in honesty but there is a large mass of people out there who do not, and never will, understand what it actually is that we strive for. This is a code in which we believe, thus the existance of the board. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 183 |
Jackle....I disagree to a certain extent. If you have somebody important in your life and you juice more likely than not there gonna suspect...now the relationship is tainted...if you give a shit about your girl be honest....and let the chips fall | ||
Guru Posts: 2821 |
dont let the door hit her on the ass on the way out... | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 809 |
I'm with hooch bro, honesty is the best--and only--policy, if you are at all concerned with having a long-lasting relationship/marriage...I told my girlfriend months before I started my first cycle, when I was still researching, and talk to her all the time about it now. She has a big fear of needles, so I just keep 'em in the cabinet. I try to send her as many threads off of here as I can so that she'll see I've "done/am doing my homework." She doesn't agree with it, nor even like it for that matter, but love can get you through some serious sh*t! If you're not in love, though, it didn't matter anyway! Just my 2 cents, take it or leave it! Good luck if she comes back, though! ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 246 |
Chicks are a dime a dozen.You"ll find PLENTY more!Don't ever give up who you are and what you want to do for anyone.You are your own best friend ------------------ | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 586 |
Since i lost my last gf because of AS, many more have come along and are much better. I think once she sees the difference she will want u back......... | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 57 |
This is some funny shit "The milkman".I wouldn't sweat it she'll be back or you'll find something better. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 353 |
at least give her abox of tissues on her way out bro!!!!!LOL ------------------ | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 403 |
Your response is: "See ya!'" | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 44 |
hey man If she really loves you she would not leave, look unless you are gonna marry the girl, dont sweat it, there is a ton of pussy out there, man move to LA, then you will be an hour and a half from mexico, and live around a ton of bitches, so dont sweat it, life goes on, and yes she will come back, right when you start poleing the girl who is ten times finer than her. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 48 |
Bro if she can tell you she will leave you for that you ever get married she will tell you the same for other things i know I have had Many Gfs and on my 3rd wife at a young age see what all this bodybuilding will do for you lol once the start making them comments they don't stop I would politely explain to here that you don't plan on staying on AS all your life when you hit 300lbs you will quit if she don't like that DUMP HER and get several more to take her place. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 30 |
Its all about control, and they want it. Personally I wouldn't give out any info that can come back to bite ya. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 246 |
The_Natural hit it right on the head.It's about control,and they want it.If it's not the juice issue,it will be something else down the road,trust me. I just dumped my fiance(4 and a half year relationship)back in May,becuase she told me to quit working out,and quit going to White Sox games.I told her to fuck off and walked right out of her life. Although she tried to play the waiting game,thinking I would come back crying and begging,she was sadly mistaken.I had a new chick shortly thereafter.All I have to say is THIS IS MY LIFE,AND I'M IN CHARGE ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 30 |
HA HA HA HA He Said "I'm going to miss her" He's not upset, but i'll bet she won't leave. Funny!! | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 660 |
racer what i think he meant is he will miss fucking her haha ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 30 |
Yea probably will miss fucking her, but he never said "maybe i shouldn't" or what do you think guys?? just i'm going to miss her. Funny ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 786 |
glad to see you're not pussy whipped | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 155 |
Better lay your pipe to her one last time at least. ------------------ | ||
Guru Posts: 3190 |
Well, I have a different oppinion on this matter. When I started the use of AS My girlfriend said that she didn't want me using it at all But I soon started teaching her about the subject and she found that I knew what I was doing and said it was my choice to do it or not to. Her main concern was that I would be OK and wouldn't have any problems with my health. She knows that no matter how bad or sorry I am I would never do anything stupid to put myself into danger. I feel that in a relationship thier is give and take. However when You say that you would rather give her up and take AS obviously you don't care for her or her feelings in anyway at all. Make your choice, Inform her of As, or give up Love if it is in your heart. ------------------ Lift | ||
Novice Posts: 6 |
WTF are all these men really sincere about being honest to women.....this makes me sick | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 98 |
Bro, If she loves you she will stick around if not then she is not worth the effort i tell any girl i get involved with about my useage to start with so she know's from day 1. My girl is ok about it....! ------------------ | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 348 |
She wasn't the right one. ghans | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 312 |
BRO, U DID UR PART AND WERE HONEST ABOUT IT. IT WAS HER DECISION TO GO NOT YOURS. HER LOSS.....ZEUS | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 239 |
Thats bullshit. If a woman can have saline filled bags surgically implanted in her chest then why can't guys juice. Woman are hypocrites about shit like that. My advice is to keep your business to yourself and if anyone asks tell them creatine......... ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 37 |
When I told my girlfriend she went mad, but I just sat her down and talked her through it. She was just worried about me screwing myself up, a little education went a long with her and she is now pretty cool about it. Your body, your decision, she just has to accept it or hit the road - head first. The old creatine line cracks me up. The number of guys who have gotten massive gains on that stuff is amazing :-) ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 239 |
Bush pig, I understand where your coming from. I told my girl everything i was doing but my girl is uniqe because her dad was Mr.USA back in the 80's and she already knows about the stuff. On a regular basis i keep to myself. I have learned that the less people that know your business the less problems you will have. I know to many people that ran and and got caught banging another girl only to have their girls run to the cops and tell on them...... ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 34 |
My girl knew I was juicing before I started dating her and didnt have a problem with it until about 4 months in to the relationship. Then she told me she wanted me to stop. At first I was pissed about the whole trying to change me and you knew before you started dating me shit. Then, she started crying her eyes out and said the reason she didnt care back then was because she didnt care about me but now she loves me and is scared about being able to have kids and worried it will adversely affect my health. I could tell she was sincerely concerned. So now I just tell her I quit and that I get big from cycles of "creatine." DC | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 447 |
You have two options. 1. Tell her "ok honey I won't take roids " Then keep your mouth shut and take them! 2. Tell her " buh-bye" abd take them. Either way you get to take your gear. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 294 |
what you need to do is explain to her the different kinds, whats is worse on your body (of course you tell her you dont take that kind) Also, inform her that you will be going to the doctor to get blood tests done. If she still persists, then go behind her back or tell her not to let the door hit her in the ass when you boot her ass out! | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 66 |
i posted the question before about if i should tell my girl and a lot of you bros replied honesty is the best policy, well i never told and never will and this situation backs it a little more. so my theory is honesty is the best policy if you are our want to be single. some things people will just never understand | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 91 |
tell her you changed your mind and go out and buy a little bottle of androstene and tell her thats what your on. she wont know the difference. tell her that how mark maguire got so huge. trust me if she decides to do research on roids and andro she might tell you your waisting your money go with the roids instead. education is the key. i was an avid anti-roid bodybuilder until i did research on them all. i had no idea how many there were. i thought steroids was 1 thing man was i stupid. good luck bro. | ||
Novice Posts: 9 |
Dude that sucks. My girl is a nurse and she injects for me. Bet your ass if she sticks around she'll like the results though. Good luck | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 18 |
It is always Creatine and Pro Hormones!!! Never gove in to her or let her know. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 160 |
Like you said bro your going to miss her! She won't leave and if she does oh well, life will go on and you will find many many more in time! Just don't tell her, there are some things that are no ones business but your own, surely she don't tell you everything! Good Luck! ------------------ | ||
Moderator Posts: 1006 |
My girlfriend doesn't care | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 30 |
You guys worried about not being honest; what about the women that take diet pills, Rx drugs, have breast implants, binge and purge, etc. all of which they keep from you. By not telling them you are: protecting your best interest, protecting them (in a sense), avoiding any fights, and I�m sure there are other reasons if I think more. Ps - don't forget all the times they go out and buy shit, hide it, then say they've had that for a while when they finally wear it for the first time. lol | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 942 |
i lost a 4 year relationship over this. i competed and took my share of juice after being told when we first met take them and i am gone. steriods were compared to taking herione (i know) which shows not being eductaed. can't hide the fact your on gear when you gain tons of weight and muscle. in my case had i been told my relationship was in jepordy i would have stopped. was never told,and found myself dumped and hurt. met someone 5 months later, we workout together and i am always told i look great. long story short if this person is your soulmate educate her to the facts. if not move on as there are many people who like muscles. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1177 |
Well Livinlarger, you got a problem if you have strong feelings for her. My advice to anyone is DON'T tell anybody. It can and will be hold against you. Deny, deny, deny, unless your partner does the same or takes drugs. The first time you have an argument or more with your partner, she will throw it in your face, maybe even tell her colleges at work or your family. It's the creatine and nothing else. ------------------ Don't look back, life is too short | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 57 |
These are all some very good points I have my girlfriend do my inj. she was very very against steroids and now that changed shit she went with me on a long trip to go get em and put her ass on the line as well but education is the key I think. She'll be back when that cycle kicks in and she sees the results. | ||
Novice Posts: 2 |
my girlfriend was more happy about me doin the shit then i was she gave me all of my shots like a nurse then she would rub my ass after the shot .i guess it depends on the girl .she thinks you will get mean or some shit .tell her about the shit how if u use it smart ,it is harmless. good luck! |
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