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 I just asked my girlfriend if she would be mad if I took steroids.....
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Pro Bodybuilder 
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I wanted to be honest with her (somewhat)....I didn't tell her that I've taken steroids a few times before and that I'm just coming off a cycle...but I told her that I had been thinking about taking steroids and that I had researched them extensively. I also asked her if she thought it would change our relationship if she knew I was taking them. The first thing she said was that she liked the size I was at right now....She said that she wouldn't be happy...but if it would make me happy to go ahead...WOO HOO...she also said that she would be mad if I kept taking them though....damn...well I guess I'll have to make this next one a killer cycle or lie to her in the future      | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 73 |
Dude, no offense, but if I were you I'd dump that chick. How can she tell you shit like she wants you to stay this size? Or tell you she don't want you to keep juicin'? NOBODY ever tells me that shit! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 534 |
for some of us its a sensitive issue to bring up, or uh, not bring up. | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 27 |
Whodaman, good for you; I told my wife up front I was going to use, I got kind of the same response; however, now she does all my glute shots. Bodie | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 587 |
She is anticipating a change in your relationship, i.e. your "mood swings" when on. However, I guarantee that when she realizes that you are no different when "on", she probably will forget about it. But you risk her telling everyone if you two ever break up. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 138 |
I TRY TO BE HONEST WITH MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY ON WHAT I PLAN TO DO. WHEN I TOLD MY BROTHER I PLAN TO DO MY FIRST CUTTING CYCLE HE FREAKED. THEY ARE REAL OLD FASHION AND STILL THINK THEY ARE AS BAD AS THE MEDIA SAYS THEY ARE, WHEN I TRY TO EDUCATE THEM ON THE SUBJECT THEY CHOOSE NOT TO LISTEN. I GUESS YOU CAN'T CHANGE SOME THINGS. M18 | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 422 |
When she said she likes the size I'm at right now, I asked her nicely "Why am I working my ass off in the gym then?" She just smiled and said "I just don't want you to get too big." My mood is definately not going to change toward her, because about 1/2 of the time I've been with her, I've been on without her even knowing. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1129 |
Whoda, there is not such thing as a killer (last) cycle. You will be doing it again. ------------------ Don't look back, life is too short | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 152 |
Be honest with her. If you plan on being with her for any period of time, she's (most likely) gonna find out one way or an other anyways. Then she's gonna be REAL pissed cause you lied to her. If she somewhat accepts it now, it's better than going thru the shit later when she finds out for sure. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 126 |
Don't blame you for telling her bro, but i told my g/f and she went and told her whole damn family about it...she has never seen me inject so what does she really know!! I told her family she was crazy, they didn't believe me but they don't ask anymore have only done the one cycle but am preparing for a big one in the near future! She won't know shit about it! ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1129 |
never tell anything that can be held AGAINST you. ------------------ Don't look back, life is too short | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 422 |
Yes, I'm not going to kid myself....i'll be doing it again, but I am definately going to slow down a bit....and I'm glad I told her, now I don't have to make up excuses when my skin gets oily and I have trouble sleeping at night....and why I fart too much(too much milk & protein)...hehe | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 228 |
You should'nt have told her anything.Now,if you ever really piss her off,she has this against you(legally),and let me tell you,THERE'S NOTHING WORSE THAN A WOMAN SCOURNED!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's really nobody's business but your own.And don't believe it when they say they tell you everything,Women keep secrets just as much as us. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 38 |
hell mine buys me pins and gets me clomid... It's so much easier for a woman to get pins... No questions. She does my glute shots too. Guess I am pretty lucky. She doesn't know where I keep it though heehee, that's a secret forever.... ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 422 |
I'm really not too worried about pissing her off, I'm going to do my best not too. I'm definately not too worried about the legal ramifications of anabolics for personal use...I don't think anyone is going to bang down my door for a bit of juice. If you feel that it's no ones business but your own..I respect your opinion and agree with you to an extent. The only reason I told her was because I didn't think she would get pissed...but she did thank me for being honest with her and said that she would be pissed if she found out and I was hiding it from her. I am not saying that everyone should go tell thier girlfriends and wives because that would be stupid.....that would probably cause a lot of broken marriages/relationships. But I do feel better about telling her and not having to hide it from her for a short period of time...I agree with what bchemist said...once she realizes that my mood wont change and that steroids are not that bad...she will probably totally accept me using them. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 534 |
I broke up w/ my last girl friend of 1 1/2 years because of steroids. At the time I wasn't even taking them, I just told her I was planning a cycle and I wanted her to know that I was going to use them. She told her whole damn family and its kindda funny because they are scared of me now.. LOL. They think im so jacked up on roids that I'll kill them if they talk to me.... They percieve them as being bad just like alot of people do. She kept saying my dick was going to shrink and that I would have "roid rage" and that she was scared I might beat her.... total bullshit..... Why the hell does everyone i ever talk to about roids always mention that they shrink your dick? Where the hell do people get that shit?  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 112 |
I told my wife a last week and she was cool with it. The only thing she was upset with was that I was hiding something from her. I guess I am lucky. I would be honest because any partner with any sense will eventually be able to notice. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1129 |
if you know how your partner is, you know what is best for you. To tell her or not. I will never tell anything. ------------------ Don't look back, life is too short | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 12 |
I'm a little new to this board, but here's a little personal war story from about 5 years ago. When my lady used to go nuts over a ripped dude, I was like WTF?!!? I'm gonna start juicin' and workin' my ass off in the gym too. I was playin' ball in college, so I was "ok" lookin but just thought it was a shame that she didn't look at me(physically) like other guys. It was ok for other men to look like that, but not HER man. NOOOOOOO! Needless to say that broad had to go. Do what you gonna do, man. Be happy with you. Have inner peace... deep, huh? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 73 |
She said she didn't want you to get too big? She actually said that? Geez! Are you that desperate? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 621 |
thats good she accepted it for now,all my friends precieve steroids as a hugely bad thing,i dotn take them but this site has a banner of it and i was on here at school and they are like if you take thoses steroids ur dick will shrink ,i wanted to smack them ------------------ | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 7 |
Bro, you are way to honest. She is your girlfriend. You don't have to tell her what she doesn't need to know. I don't know any girl that would say yes to her boyfriend being on steriods unless she was juicing herself. Do like I did. I just told my wife one day that I ordered some and would be taking the stuff soon. Of course she was worried, but when she sees the results she can't say no. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 35 |
I agree with throb.What she doesn't know won't hurt her!!!! ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 60 |
if she's not with you for what you stand for, then she should'nt be with you at all. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 621 |
i dont think lieing will help any,tell her if she loves to and wants you to be happy she would let you do this,or you could explain the difference between myth and facts of anabolics if she cares she will listen ------------------ | ||
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Novice
Posts: 8 |
Being honest with her was the right move. She will watch you grow slowly and as time goes on she will back off that "don't get too big" stance. I did. My husband is on and as long as he doesn't get as big as Ronnie Coleman that's fine with me. [This message has been edited by *Ulababe (edited October 22, 2000).] | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
my mom knows about my roids and iam 17 and she gives me the cash for them..lol...hehe | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 95 |
Hey,I'm a young 40ish and real good looking.Is your mom single?Does she live in Florida? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 130 |
Find a chick to do gear with... That's how it works in our house. I just go alot lighter than he does! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 588 |
I walk into the bedroom the other day, and there she is on the bed with the Ganabol in here left hand the dart in with the other hand. "I got your shot ready for you, honey". One night its like 11:30pm and we're about to crash and she jumps out of bed "Oh, we forgot your shot today". So, I dont think she minds too much. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 53 |
I told my g/f I was going to do a cycle and she got a little worried. She thought I would have roid rage or something. After I told her it's not like that then she didn't care at all. Now she wants to give me the shots. Guess I'm another lucky one. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 217 |
bump for u. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 178 |
Same here, she helps me aspirate the shots on shoulders as its difficult with one hand. |
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posted October 21, 2000 02:56 PM