Author | Topic: who's telling the truth | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 52 |
how many of you guys are with a girl that does not know you juice? mine does not know but has asked me before something like "you would never take steroids would you?" has anyone been brave enough to confess, if so what was their reaction? | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 23 |
My wife didn't like it at first, but accepted it later. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 148 |
I accidently told the last girl I was dating. I think it scared her. Oh well, fuck her. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 295 |
My wife knows but I dont talk about it hell we stay off the subjet alot and its OK now she doesnt like it but can live with it ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 77 |
My girlfriend is very outgoing. I had a guest pass to a gym, and one day I decided to give it a try. I was talking to her there and she asked me out right there on the spot. Well on the first date she came right out and said "Do you take steroids or what" so I decided, WTF why not and just came right out with a yes. Over the course of months she would occasionally ask a few questions, and then when it became evident that things were going to work out, the questions became more and more frequent. As she herself became more educated she is very supportive and understands that they are important to my goals. She is very supportive, and she even helps me with injections, and research. She even makes my protein shakes for me in the morning. What else can I say boys, I'm a lucky man! ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1005 |
I already cycle my girlfriends as often as I cycle my gear so what will be will be. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 423 |
She injects me, I inject her. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 615 |
My girlfriend does not mind, untill she hears how much I spend. ------------------ "Obsession is passion. Use it. Make it your strength." -by Puc | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 52 |
i may tell her one day, like if i win Mr. O or somthing like that but for right now i think it is safer for me to keep my mouth shut. she believes that you should not put anything in your body that might hurt it, she does not even like the fact i take ripped fuel. Fish you still out here??? | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 122 |
I wouldn't tell any partner, its gotta be firstly one who understands what you're trying to achieve and also one who trusts and cares for you. I told my g/f as she knew my dedication to my training before I even met her. She trains herself in the gym (my gym has a seperate ladies room) and as a member of the martial arts school which I run and it was at the gym that I met her. Before I told her I was scared to death of what her reaction would be as I told her very early in our relationship. She understood that I was serious about this and has been a tremendous support. She helps me with shots, cooks for me , makes proteins etc. and has the attitude that if I'm gonna do it I should at least win everything! If I ever skip a meal she forces me to eat ...it's great and I'm putting on more size than ever! | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 615 |
I am now. ------------------ "Obsession is passion. Use it. Make it your strength." -by Puc | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 166 |
This discussion has come up before. I feel pretty strongly that you should deny if your gf/wife asks and is not part of the lifestyle. Nothing lasts forever, and you do not need this kinda thing brought up and thrown in your face during an argument, divorce etc. And some ladies have a hard time keeping their mouths shut about ANYTHING! | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 122 |
Kingpin, Ain't that what Duct tape is for? j/k ladies. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 52 |
that is my thought exactly kingpin. i dont trust telling anyone because i dont want it to ever be used agianst me. my brother is the only person who knows i juice | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 379 |
MY WIFE WENT NUTS. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 132 |
It's quite obvious that I do it and all my friend do too. So when I met a girl they pretty much already know. But if they don't, the needles and vials laying around usually give it away. Not to mention all the stuff you gotta keep cold in the fridge. "Where's the mayo honey?" "Oh it's right behind the GH kits, to the left of the slin." | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 91 |
We inject each other. It's great to have support from your girlfriend/wife in bodybuilding. I couldn't imagine hiding something from my girlfriend/wife like a little child. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 615 |
It is a good point that it could come back at you. My best friend and I had a falling out, and he knew. He called my mother and told her what I did to piss me off. ------------------ "Obsession is passion. Use it. Make it your strength." -by Puc | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 52 |
i dont enjoy hiding it, i love being on gear and want to tell everyone how great it is i just dont think they will all see it the same as i do. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 13 |
Tell her at least the basics. Secrets suck in so many ways. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 166 |
Like I said Daeo, if they live the lifestyle it's different. I've been thru a divorce and you can't believe the shit that comes up! You have no secrets anymore. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 13 |
Tell her at least the basics. Secrets suck in so many ways. I told her and of course she was worried, but seems to be okay with it now. It makes things much easier. Good chance she'll find out anyway. And won't really trust you after that because you hid something about your life from her. Just tell her. Even if she's shocked at first, she'll probably come around. And she may surprise you and be pretty cool about it. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 24 |
I did discuss with my g/f she helped research and was blown away by the time and dedication i gave towards my first one, have been planning a second one sometime soon i hope and she said not to tell her about it! So she will not be informed about the next one i'm doing she will only know because of the effects it has hopefully on me! What some don't know won't kill them! | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 16 |
How about this - She got me my first cycle, stuck me, taught me how to inject (relatively) painlessly and keep everything sterile and clean. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 19 |
Here is my thoughts, Creatine, Glutamine Ephedrine, protien... all supplements if you tell someone you are on them they say "Well do they all work?" And "what do they do?" They bring up curiosity. Now on the the other hand... AS is known thoughout the country as "ILLEGAL" and not much more is known by the masses. So if you ask a typical GF they are part of the usual community of Anti-AS and will be more than horrified, they usually can not look past the walls built up by our dimwhitted society. Until the opinions are changed to facts and the world is turned upside down, Im not gonna say a word! ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 47 |
I TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND UP FRONT. SHE SAID NO AT FIRST, AND THEN I TOLD HER ILL GET HER SOME TO HELP HER LOOSE THAT 10lbs SHES BEEN TRYIN TO LOOSE. NOW SHES INTO IT WITH ME.. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 91 |
I must have a different way of looking at the world. Let's say the girlfriend/wife does go and tell everyone in the world that can understand english. SO FUCKIN WHAT! Why are you with such a vengeful, immature person in the first place. Obviously you aren't sharing the same interests as they are and that person will not support you. You are a grown man(at least I hope so) so stand up for yourself. If it's your wife that may be a different story. You can't just tell her to go fuck herself I know. But a little bit of reason will go a long way. And what women wouldn't love a buff bod | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 151 |
my girlfriend injects me sometimes | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 300 |
Hey nice plan KigKong ! What did you told her to take to loose this 10lbs ? Let me know, i may try that with my gf too ! hehehe She asked me several times but i always changed the subject when it comes, I guess she know the answer better than me ! Be aware guys, girlfriends and wifes are not stupid !!!! Androl | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 357 |
She kinda figured it out when i turned green and ripped out of my clothes, and proceeded to trash my place. "The juice is the salad" ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 55 |
I told my wife before I ever started. She did'nt like the idea...it scared her. Then I made her feel she was part of the decision and let her do some research. Now she's fine with it. ------------------ | ||
Freak Posts: 1640 |
I don't tell any girls...It scares the shit out of them. ------------------ Visit my website (free of all Musclehedz pictures) at http://profiles.elitefitness.com | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 35 |
i really didnt want to tell my girlfriend that i was on steriods but i had to because it felt like i was hiding something, she got pissed when i told her but i let her follow up on it and now she is ok with it until i told her i was going to stack over the winter,she didnt like that idea | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 215 |
I have never told her, although I think that she would be pretty understanding. But I don't tell anybody anyways.. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 190 |
i told my girlfriend before i even started. She would have gone nuts if she found up i lied to her. i had to struggle a bit to convince her, both first and second time but as long as we don't talk about it things are ok. i suspect she likes the results but doesn't tell anything cuz she thinks it's not worht it. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 147 |
quote: AN EXACT DITTO WITH ME, ROCCO!!! ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 190 |
hey mighty, to answer your question i think you should consider three options.( which i considered myself) 1 if you have a solid relatinoship that almost nothing would brake go ahed and tell her. you'll have to struggle a bit but you'll get over it. 2 if you think she would hate more a lyer than a juicer, tell her 3 if you think she would hate a lyer and a juicer in the same way and could breake up with you if she finds out, hide her but be very smart. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 404 |
Told my chick I had done them and she was cool about it, but then she said I cannot do it in the future! WTF | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 258 |
HONESTLY MATTERS...I told my girlfriend when I first started researching so that when the time came to start, it wouldn't be such a shock...my source and her are the only human beings on the face of the earth that know (well, besides all y'all) and I'd like to keep it that way, though! ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 14 |
Yeah, discussed it with her from the beginning. That is where we met, at the gym. She was very upset at the thought at first, but now is very open to it. She knows how hard I work at BB and knows that I do not do it to impress women or even her, just to satisfy the desire inside of myself. She even looks at this site a lot for info now!!!!! Truth | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 873 |
I've told my last two girlfriends. I also told the girl I'm interested in now, and she is totally cool with it. She even burst into laughter when a friend of mine expressed shock over the fact that some male ballet dancers juice (she is a ballet dancer). Bfold, I don't mind your handle, as it's different enough from mine, but your sig line could confuse people. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 11 |
I brought this chick home the other day after the 2nd date and she saw my needles and was like "Is that my your body is so hot? As long as you don't have a roid rage on me I don't care." I said baby there's no such thing as roid rage just make yourself comfortable in bed. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1483 |
my girlfriend now gives me the shots...the last girlfriend I told these shots are better then condoms in preventing pregnancy | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 84 |
My girl knows I'm juicing. This was a bit of a problem in the beginning, but now she understands there's a big difference between using and misusing. Anyway, I feel the relationship is a lot better when being honest. Good luck!! ------------------ | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 29 |
my wife was real concerned about what could happen at first. you know like are you going to beat me cause of roid rage. i laughed and said no if i beat you its because you did something stupid... IM JUST KIDDING I WOULD NEVER DO THAT... no but seriously, after taking it for a while she really likes the results and to tell you the truth ive become nicer to her. she can tell i feel a lot better about myself but the girls that hit on me kind of gets to her. ha ha.. oh well can't have your cake and eat it too. |
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