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rajeem Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 9) |
posted August 03, 2000 01:51 AM
  
I have been watching the board for several months now looking for the best combo for my first cycle ever. Even by luck found a source in another country to tryout. Well, my first steriod cycle ever was going to be 8 weeks of Deca, 1st 4 weeks cycled with Sustanon, and the 2nd with Winstrol Depot, finishing off with HCG and clomid. Nervous about sending the cash and the thought of getting a letter from from customs, I said fuck it, give it a shot. Sent almost $600 for the order. Few weeks passed and no juice. Then came the first small package, and another a couple weeks later. Very freaking patient I was. So, a couple of months pass and only 2 more packages to get before I start. Well had to fly on business to CA for a week of training. The day I fly back, call my wife. This is where the shit starts, as you my guess. I hid the juice pretty good I thought. During that week, I receive another package that includes some juice and the pins, my wife decides she'll open it, despite that fac that she never has any interest in what's in the mail. She find the juice, and questions me on the phone. She was upset of course. Wanting to know whats the pins and vials are? I tried to play it off and say it was B-12 shots. Shit, she says your not taking any shots of anything. She said she's going to check it out on the web. I told her to hold on to it till I get home. Well get off the plane, and she's freaking pissed. I tried to explain with much effort that there was no harm, except for those whom abuse, just like anything in the bathroom cabinet. She was buying it one bit. Well in the end, she searched the entire apartment, and some freaking how found my stash, don't know how freaking possible. Trashed all $600 worth of juice. Never seems like I going to ever get ahead and look the way I want, because natural is cutting it after 8 years of lifting. Piss IP: Logged |
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ZEUS Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 19) |
posted August 03, 2000 02:04 AM
All I can say is the same first words Ronald Reagan said when he got shot.......Motherfucker! ZEUS..... IP: Logged |
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2Thick Moderator (Total posts: 3536) |
posted August 03, 2000 02:07 AM
I would have a good talking-to with the little lady. That is $600 worth of gear. Maybe you should chuck out her favorite night gowns just to show her how it feels. ------------------ http://2thick.elitefitness.com IP: Logged |
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THE APE Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 183) |
posted August 03, 2000 02:08 AM
NEXT TIME GET A P.O. BOX..SORRY TO HEAR THAT BRO. IP: Logged |
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MIKAI Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 156) |
posted August 03, 2000 03:46 AM
Bro, Make her walk to work and buy you more GEAR with the money she saved on fuel. Or tell her how much money she fucked away and say your not happy about it...! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Vovan Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 23) |
posted August 03, 2000 04:29 AM
Wow! It was FUCKING sad to hear this... But you are not alone in this shit. Very often women became a wall on the way of progress.  Just relax and live with this.Wish you to be strong. IP: Logged |
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horn_monos Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 27) |
posted August 03, 2000 04:58 AM
My fiance found out the hard way too...boy am I glad your in those shoes now and i no longer am. I feel for you because those shoulders can be very cold sometimes. I sat down and went over everything involved w/ what I was doing and why, and of course what it meant to me. In the end we worked out an honesty deal (which I SHOULD have been straight with her from the start) where I can use if she knows what I'm using. Worked out great b/c now she even really helps with my diet. Mine was madder at the lie than at the juice. Best of luck to you bro. IP: Logged |
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media Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 103) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:07 AM
Well, I feel for you. 600$!? Wow! I guess that I am lucky SOB, 'cause my girl helps me in my efforts. She is the one who jab the needle in my ass. God bless her! IP: Logged |
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Luca Brasi Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 322) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:58 AM
Tough break bro. Definately get a P.O Box or get them sent to a friends house. IP: Logged |
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spooky Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 48) |
posted August 03, 2000 07:14 AM
horn_monos you're right man they hate the lying ... they'll put up with everything else because they love you but they can't stand the lying -sigh- ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Vitaman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 543) |
posted August 03, 2000 07:21 AM
Wow sorry for your $600.00 lose. I guess she will not be getting much for Christmas this year. If you do not really think you can talk her into letting you use gear, I would try a PO Box as well. As for hiding it, that maybe your hardest task to do again. Good Luck. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Jeff_rys Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 581) |
posted August 03, 2000 08:09 AM
At the end this can cost you more then $600. She could leave you. Getting other juice is the least of you problems. You must find a place to hide it since she will ALWAYS be searching the appartment when you are not there. Long lasting roids are the way to go for you, then you would have to shoot yourself less frequent. It's not a question of the lie (in your case), even if you had ask her in advance she would have said no. Besides wasting the stuff has nothing to do with a lie. It's impossible to give you good advice, BUT it's your life. ------------------ Don't look back, life is too short IP: Logged |
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YellowD98 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 461) |
posted August 03, 2000 08:53 AM
Slap the FUCK out of that bitch. No seriously, I understand EXACTLY where you're coming from bro. My girlfriend is the same way. She is a wonderful woman, and I care about her dearly. I would NEVER do anything to hurt her or upset her, but when it comes to gear, she won't hear a word of it. I even told her I probably won't ever do it and that it's just talk. One of these days, after the gear pays off significantly I'll let her know, and hopefully she'll appreciate responsible use of steroids. Most people just don't understand the desire we have to reach a certain level of our physiques. And others just don't give a shit. IP: Logged |
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Big Wiggs Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 76) |
posted August 03, 2000 09:38 AM
That's why I told my wifey in the beginning. If she did that shit to me she'd be buying my next two cycle's just to be a dick I'd include alot of HGH. IP: Logged |
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joker Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 246) |
posted August 03, 2000 09:42 AM
You can have your gear sent to my house instead. I won't waste it.... IP: Logged |
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5setsofsix Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 124) |
posted August 03, 2000 09:47 AM
Your problem now is even if you get a PO or have it sent somewhere else, as soon as you start putting on some size she's going to know what you're doing. IP: Logged |
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Green Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 511) |
posted August 03, 2000 09:48 AM
Damn I must be lucky. My girl is totaly cool with it. She didn't like how I was cocky on my cycle but that passed after the test levels droped in my blood. She's willing to give me my shots but I just don't like that whole idea. I have one of those cute but clumbsy girlfriends. LAter, Green IP: Logged |
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JayisCrazy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 29) |
posted August 03, 2000 09:57 AM
horn_monos... I have the same story...My fiance was so pissed that I lied to her. I told her I was going to take Creatine and Andro (to explain the weight gain). She found the insert from the Nor200 that I had laying out. Doh! Anyways, I printed out a lot of info on the subject and now she helps me with my injections! I love her... Cheers, Jay IP: Logged |
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Hoss Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 7) |
posted August 03, 2000 11:05 AM
Guess I'm lucky, decided to take the chance and level with my wife before I bought anything. After some convincing she was cool with it...no problem. IP: Logged |
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XXXL Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 392) |
posted August 03, 2000 11:19 AM
you know relationships are all about respect. if i had a wife that didn't respect something i wanted to do/or property i really think i would have a problem. but i also think i would have been upfront about the whole thing too. what i do if i'm currently with someone who i care enough to tell is let her feel like she's in on the desision making process. she's not, but she thinks she is. i'll do my cycle no matter what, but just make sure the little lady thinks she been heard. then it's great, you have someone to give you your shots. ps. IP: Logged |
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HeavyLifterX Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 390) |
posted August 03, 2000 11:36 AM
I guess we see who wears the pants, (j/k) bro, I know that hurts, the pocket as well as your feelings. Get a PO Box. ------------------ Work With Your Back And With Your Brain IP: Logged |
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animal B Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1047) |
posted August 03, 2000 04:33 PM
$600, she was made because this is her money as well...your married remember..also you should have disscussed it with her first, and at least let her know you were expecting overseas orders...no she will never trust you and you are forever brannded as a lier..tell her to pay the next time...communication and trust goes a long way...sometimes IP: Logged |
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Fukkenshredded Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 107) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:25 PM
Women react terribly to exclusion and deception. I guess we all do, really. The trick is to remove the fear. Start by admitting to her that you were wrong to hide this from her. Explain that you were wrong to assume her reaction beforehand, and that you should have given her a chance to show that she is open minded. Help her see that it is very important that she approves of you, but it is also important that you approve of yourself. Because of the controversial nature of steroid use, combined with the personal nature of such business, you decided that it should be a private affair. It was not an effort at deception. If she insists that it was, remind her that she doesn't always point out and share every feminine private bodily affair. It is important that she understand that privacy was the issue, not deception. From there, it is all downhill. Explain to her the reasons for your decision to use steroids, and have references for the positive effects of proper usage at your fingertips. Thank her constantly for having such an open mind--you should've known she would listen, etc...pretty soon, she'll be injecting for you. Good luck. IP: Logged |
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Decaman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 696) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:36 PM
I have always been upfront with my girl about everything, so much so that she says sometimes i shouldn't be , so she would worry less. I think if you can tell your woman , it is the best thing. Your situation sucks bro, sorry to hear it , no gear, you are pisssed ,she is pissed, hopefully cooler heads prevailed. Good luck. If there is one thing my girl totally uderstands it is this-NEVER FUCK WITH A BROTHER'S GEAR ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Big Brother Val Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 736) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:49 PM
I hear you. My x at one point threw away 6 weeks worth of Sustanon. And said she was gonna call the cops on me. She threw it out in middle of the cycle... and I didn't have the cash to get more. Talk about crashing... you wouldn't believe the weight I lost... my dick went limp... it was a mess. I'm sorry to hear it. Trash something she likes... it'll make you feel better. Or show her things like this board, and other positive information about gear... and try to open her eyes to it. IP: Logged |
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LEGEND Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 239) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:53 PM
this is a tough spot to be in, thers only one thing to do, get yourself a good divorce lawyer, and make sure you get custody of the gear...........get a po box!!!!!!!!peace ------------------ IP: Logged |
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CraZyWhiTe Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 29) |
posted August 03, 2000 05:58 PM
.. Damn bro that shit sucks although im not married and the pigs .. I mean (Girls) i hang with they can figure out what im doing if they have half a brain ... the girls are you ng and at that materialistic state and would rather be with a great looking hard as hell guy instead of all these lil squirrels running around.... So i tell them if they dont like it .. THEY CAN BE REPLACED..... Hang in there .. and just another story of proff why i havent gotten amrried yet nor will anytime soon.... ------------------ -Big poppa Pump IP: Logged |
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Maverik Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 437) |
posted August 03, 2000 06:15 PM
If my girlfriend did that I would probably kill her but I am upfront with her about my juicing. I just let her know that I don't want to hurt myself anymore than she wants me to hurt myself. And I tell her the real facts, not myths, about the real dangers of roids. Get a P.O. Box and hide the shit at your training partners house. Just make sure you put it in a little safe that only you have the key to. Peace...Mav IP: Logged |
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Quarkey Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 212) |
posted August 03, 2000 06:29 PM
That sux!!!! That same shit almost and could have happened to me too. My girl found my stuff after she accepted one of my packages from USPS. She was freaking out and crying and calling me names. Damn..that was some bad shit. I told her I'm going to do what I want to do and she can stay the fuck out of my business or leave. About four or six weeks later she started asking me about the stuff and if women do it. I went into detail explaining the use and effects. I'm happy to say she started doing primo and winny. It was the coolest thing. Now I have someone to give me my shots and the primo and winny have made her look amazing. Peace IP: Logged |
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Diver Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 307) |
posted August 03, 2000 06:38 PM
maybe im lucky my girl is paying all the bills right now so i can pay for my next one!! IP: Logged |
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Mass_Sedation Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 16) |
posted August 03, 2000 07:09 PM
You should kill her. Gimme a shot of Sust and I'LL do it. IP: Logged |
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quenepo Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 962) |
posted August 03, 2000 07:10 PM
Sorry to heard that,thanks god my wife is the one who put me the gears. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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GAMUSCLES Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 27) |
posted August 03, 2000 10:33 PM
I think fukkenshredded has probably said it best. Why the hell is it that in the good ole USA it is perfectly legal to spend $5,000 on plastic surgery "enhancement" but a felony to buy $5,000 of roids and then work your ass off in the gym to get similar results? Do these idiot lawmakers not realize that you still have to eat, train, sleep and do everything else right EVEN when you take roids? Is that shit warped or what? Oh, I know about "roid rage" and "mood swings" but alcohol, tobacco and other "rec drugs" have and do kill far more people and some of those substances are not "illegal". What about the folks we all know who have to have a docs scrip of Prozac or Zolloft "just to get by". In my case I have been married several years but took my first cycle just over a year ago. I kept it from my wife because 1) she would not approve 2) she would think I was endangering her and our child 3) she would think the money had better use. Well, she recently found my "stash". It was rough for a few days but I explained and she understood although she does not condone it. We reached an agreement that I will continue with periodic cycling without involving her as long as I reassure her that I do not endanger her or our child by my purchases, contacts etc. The other big issue she had was she felt betrayed that I had made a decision alone about us possibly being unable to have additional children in the future because of my roid use. Best of luck bro. If this is someone you truly care for she will likely need a lot of reassurance and hopefully she is not the type that feels she has to control you and everything you do because if she is you may have to make an even tougher decision. IP: Logged |
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JSNAKE33 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 105) |
posted August 03, 2000 10:40 PM
WOW-- Im feel pretty bad for ya bro.. Hope I never have to deal with that... Another story for the board hall of fame!! PEACE ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~SNAKE IP: Logged |
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Roy Batty Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 260) |
posted August 04, 2000 09:45 AM
Bad luck man. But I'm going to disagree with most of the guys here. I can see discussing this sort of decision with your WIFE, as marriage changes everything. But ASKING YOUR GIRLFRIEND/FIANCE !? Ridiculous. It seems to me that younger bros are buying into this "tell all", Ricky Lake show bullshit. You do not have to tell them everything! Do you think they tell you everything? Please.Let's not be naive. Women are always on us to "talk to me, tell me what you're thinking""tell me everything", I, and I alone make the decisions involving my body. Women constantly scream about having control over their own bodies which is fine, but shouldn't men have the same? IP: Logged |
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