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 Keeping it a secret from your wife?
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evissam Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 68) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:15 PM
  
Anyone married and keeping your use a secret? I am just curious on how you keep your use and your gains a secret. The use is no problem. The last cycle I did, I gained 18 lbs "on creatine" (or so she was told). But the next one will be a bigger and better cycle. What would your explanation be for such potentially great gains? I have been hyping Andro products for a few weeks and that might fly. I will also buy a bottle as a cover. Any other suggestions? (Please no flames for being a pussy. I know most of you are still in the closet too). IP: Logged |
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BigPapaPump Moderator (Total posts: 426) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:23 PM
Just throw the wood to her more often...she won't care then. My wife never says anything. She has never seen my gear or asked if I use. I think she has her ideas but has yet to push the issue. BPP IP: Logged |
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gamer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 249) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:26 PM
My girl loves the frequent injections....I mean erections. hehee For real though I have a cool chick as she helps me smuggle my drugs in from Mexico and gives me shots if need be. I guess that means she's a keeper! IP: Logged |
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bb4424 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 72) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:28 PM
If you are being cool to her, giving it to her hard and often, and looking good.....she will not even bring it up. I think my chic knows, but she loves the effects on my looks and sex drive. IP: Logged |
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5setsofsix Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 63) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:32 PM
I never thought about it in the context of being in the closet. I guess you're right though. What an eye opener!! I am in the middle of my first cycle and haven't told my wife anything. I planned to keep it a secret but will probably tell her. I try not to hide too much from her. It can get to be a habit. IP: Logged |
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ulter Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 188) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:37 PM
My wife helped me buy d-bol in Poland. (Her Polish is better). But when she saw a syringe in my bag she freaked she didn't talk to me. It only lasted a couple of days though, now she injects for me. I think you should trust who you picked for a wife. Tell her and let her get over it. Tell her about the newfound health benefits to you. (I don't know find some). I'm tellin' ya once they get over it your life is a lot easier. That's just my opinion.. I could be wrong.. [This message has been edited by ulter (edited July 19, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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Jim Layhoe Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 605) |
posted July 19, 2000 10:40 PM
If she asks tell her, if not don't. IP: Logged |
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krzysiu013 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 378) |
posted July 19, 2000 11:40 PM
secrets like this just get you in trouble down the road. be honest about roids. she might freak if finds used needles and shit. once she sees your bulging, everything she'll be happy. education is the key. if she doesnt agree to the use. THEN hide the gear  chris ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Bchemist Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 41) |
posted July 20, 2000 06:47 AM
Alot of girls don't know the first thing about AS. Watch sports with your girlfriend and slip in little comments about how all the athletes are probably using. Also talk about how all your former high school football buddies (whether you were on the team or not) used if she takes the bait. Then make up a story about how you had this old friend who is being kept alive by Deca and how athletes use the same thing. If you casually drop little subliminal hints like that, she will be "pushing the plunger" without any encouragement in the near future.... If the media can try to brainwash us into thinking AS is bad, we can just as easily reverse it on our women.... IP: Logged |
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joe812 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 92) |
posted July 20, 2000 06:54 AM
My wife does not know,either however if she were to ask if I was using then I would be honest with her. Everyone is different though, and it is not about "she wont care, I give her the wood" or "I look so damn good she wont care" cause latter in life when your not as young and out of highschool mentality things will be different with you. Just 2 1/2 cents IP: Logged |
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Amp Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 105) |
posted July 20, 2000 08:06 AM
Not everyone has a gullible wife. I blow up so damn quick that she knows something is up. I tell my wife when I do it. She hates it but she knows I'm smart about it and it's something that I want to do. The best approach is to tell your wife how many countless hours you have studied the subject and all the negative she has heard is from the press and people that massively abuse steroids. If they were so damn dangerous they wouldn't make these drugs for humans (and animals -LOL she doesn't know what vetranario means on the bottle). IP: Logged |
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bouncer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 254) |
posted July 20, 2000 08:11 AM
I was almost cot one day. I came home and the wife had all my pins and barrels out on the bed. She exploded !!, but I said I was holding them for a friend. I showed her my arms and said "look, if I was injecting you'd see track marks up my arms like a fucking junkie". Man, I played a stormer there !!. She was "really sorry honey", ha. Then when I was sore after using sustanon I told her I was getting some shots in work for possible oversea service (I'm a soldier). Now I've just started a Testoviron depot / deca cycle yesterday. I told her I was fed up being skinny (I'm 231lbs at 6'1''), Hardly skinny, here we go......... Bouncer ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Kingpin Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 45) |
posted July 20, 2000 08:25 AM
Keep it to yourself - Always! You don't need this thrown in your face during an argument, divorce, or any other altercation. Regardless of what people say, most marriages are not forever and women have a hard time keeping their mouths shut! Deny Deny Deny IP: Logged |
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arcboss Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 4) |
posted July 20, 2000 08:36 AM
My cuz and me work out at our office gym after hours. our wives don't know our "workout routine" and probably don't care. we leave it at that. IP: Logged |
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shodan Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted July 20, 2000 08:41 AM
my wife does my injects for me, I showed her that AS were not as dangerous as the gov and press would have us beleive and she saw the light of reason, if you cared enough about this woman to marry her at least try to be honest cause if she discovers it on her own I imagine she will be pissed shodan IP: Logged |
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JaySee Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 154) |
posted July 20, 2000 08:55 AM
I am doing my 2nd cycle now. Wife does not know nor has never known of my previous cycles. She would absolutely freak out if she knew. She is the type of person who is not into fitness. She is naturally small (5'4", 110 lbs) and does not have to diet or exercise to maintain her figure. I hide all of my juice and do my injections in the bathroom while the shower is running and door locked. She has noticed my gains and has even commented about how my dedication to my workouts seems to be paying off. IP: Logged |
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Gymmyaus Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 93) |
posted July 20, 2000 09:12 AM
I told my wife when I did my first course, she let me finish it, then said if I ever do it again she'll leave. So now I blame andro, DHEA and creatine for my gains, and avoid any probs that way. She still suspects, but is happy pretending I'm not. IP: Logged |
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Fish Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 595) |
posted July 20, 2000 09:20 AM
I could not hide it. My sholders become so broke out. I don't know what to tell people. It is such a sudden change. ------------------ "Obsession is passion. Use it. Make it your strength." -by Puc IP: Logged |
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Big Boy Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 249) |
posted July 20, 2000 09:22 AM
My wife is the one injecting me. Yesterday she asked me when my next shot was. It's today 250mg of test propionate BB ------------------ IP: Logged |
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HHH Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 23) |
posted July 20, 2000 09:23 AM
i was gonna try and keep it from my girlfriend, but then i told her and she was very cool about it, even gives me all my shots, she dont like my aggressiveness IP: Logged |
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evissam Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 68) |
posted July 20, 2000 12:30 PM
I have always denied it. Like my past roommate did. I would watch him shoot into his thigh and he would still deny it to me - even when the needle was sticking out of his leg! (seriously) IP: Logged |
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1 Mistake Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 249) |
posted July 20, 2000 12:42 PM
My wife LOVES me on the beans!!! She actually asks me to go back on sometimes!!! I guess I lucked out J IP: Logged |
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Bjaarki Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 85) |
posted July 20, 2000 03:19 PM
Bump this back up. BTW, any gals holding out on their husbands (goes both ways, don't it?)? Bjaarki ------------------ BECOME SOMEONE'S HERO! IP: Logged |
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foreverblast Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 108) |
posted July 20, 2000 03:20 PM
keep it real bro.. Tell her the truth.. If you picked her as your wife you should trust her with your life. john IP: Logged |
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ulter Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 188) |
posted July 20, 2000 03:41 PM
Bjaarki, funny you should say that. I asked the women on the Women's side to post to this couple hours ago and so far nothing. I'm not sure what that says. IP: Logged |
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Mojo Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 436) |
posted July 20, 2000 10:01 PM
I told my wife a while back on the advice of some good Bro's. I'm glad I did. She respects me for it. She also said that she would be mad if I tried to hide anything from her. After all if you get caught she's going to wonder what else you're hiding from her. Do like I did. Show her your research. If she has questions show her the answers. My wifes initial response was: Ok. I don't want to hear you crying when your tits grow bigger than mine. I asked her how she knew about gyno, and her reply was, i'm not stupid. I then told her about Nolvadex, and showed her how I could counter act the sides. But do as you like. After all it's your life, and your Wife. IP: Logged |
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rippazoid Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 195) |
posted July 20, 2000 10:30 PM
my wife and i give each other injections. IP: Logged |
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big dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 156) |
posted July 21, 2000 01:22 AM
My girlfriend does mind not at all. Im on it, my friends, her brother, and even she took some winny. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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ChaosXL Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 18) |
posted July 21, 2000 01:35 AM
Man, Be careful!! My girl almost left me!! I wrote a similar post and showed her the replies. She still isnt cool with it, she doesnt want to see it. I know she loves my body now so she cant say too much! You might try to be honest because my girl threw it in my face that I lied to her. But my bro "TD24" told his wife and she was like " your a big boy, and I cant tell you what to do, just be careful!" Diffrent Strokes for Diffrent Folks!!! "Reinventing the Steel" ChaosXL IP: Logged |
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MIKAI Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 44) |
posted July 21, 2000 04:16 AM
If you can tell your wife do...! your relationship is built on a foundation of trust and she trusts you as u trust her...! If you lie to her and she finds out she is gonna go ape shit at you and that could have big complications and/or a devorce...! Tell her if you can from there you can make a choice if you have to...! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Lqdmscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 201) |
posted July 21, 2000 04:23 AM
Unless your wife does juice, don't tell her no matter how much you love or trust her. No matter what you believe a woman cannot understand juice. I don't care if she helps inject or smuggle you shit, when an argument arise, she'll say its the juice! Not a good idea guys. Remember Adam ate the apple? I guess he trust her too!! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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ironmaster Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 269) |
posted July 21, 2000 04:56 AM
Sooner or later a man needs to decide if this is his lifestyle. You can't help it. Either the iron owns you, or it's just recreation. If this is your chosen lifestyle, then your woman must accept it, just as you accept her chosen path. IP: Logged |
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2BIG4U Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 104) |
posted July 21, 2000 07:00 AM
Hey Bro all I can say is be honest!!! At first anyways. Tell her what you want to do. Educate her on the fact that AS is not as bad as most people that don't know shit say they are! Everybody always hears about the person who died or the person who lost thier legs, or some shit like that. They don't look at the overall picture. People only focus on the 10% of bad shit they hear, not the 90% that goes right...Thank God my wife is cool about this shit!!! If she still does not let you.....Use the Andro story!!!haha ------------------ IP: Logged |
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hardness Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 155) |
posted July 23, 2000 03:38 AM
i keep my cycles & usages away from my wife. She would go nuts. To much bad press about "Roid Rage" however she did find my DIRETICS 5 days out from show. In my kit bag,2 days previous i had emptied it of spare barrells,Pins etc , etc she freaked on the DIRETICS,god help if she found pins & barrels IP: Logged |
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hardness Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 155) |
posted July 23, 2000 03:38 AM
i keep my cycles & usages away from my wife. She would go nuts. To much bad press about "Roid Rage" however she did find my DIRETICS 5 days out from show. In my kit bag,2 days previous i had emptied it of spare barrells,Pins etc , etc she freaked on the DIRETICS,god help if she found pins & barrels IP: Logged |
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the mutant Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 3) |
posted July 23, 2000 04:13 AM
Before my wife and I were married, I told her about the additonal supplements. She respected me for that. I also explained in detail about each of what I was taking. This helped her to understand the truth about things and not the BS she had heard from some of her friends. You will rest better with the truth.....remember when sex comes into play and the jewels are not swinging quite as low, she might suspect something, when she reaches and doesn't exactly get a handful. | |---| | IP: Logged |
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Big Wiggs Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 61) |
posted July 23, 2000 05:24 AM
My wife had had a really bad view of bodybuilders before she met me. One of her friends husbands use to abuse her and he used to juice so she thought the roid rage thing. I told her that 6 months ago I was on juice and what did you think of my behavior? She took it well and now we talk about it. I trust her with with anything then again my wife if European (German) they're more open minded than American chicks. IP: Logged |
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shawdawg Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 14) |
posted July 23, 2000 09:55 AM
Well i just took a great paying tax free job in saudi arabia....wont see her for a year and tell her about all the gains im making on what mark mgwire is taking...not to mention my fiancee is naive as hell!!! good luck bro! IP: Logged |
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WARLOC Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 83) |
posted July 23, 2000 10:13 AM
I TOLD MY WIFE FROM DAY 1. SHE WASNT TO HAPPY BUT SHE GOT OVER IT. SHE SEES THE GAINS IM MAKING AND THAT MAKES HER HAPPY. SHE WAS JUST WORRIED THAT AS WOULD HURT ME. SO I HAD TO EDUCATE HER A LITTLE. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Krusher Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 386) |
posted July 23, 2000 10:29 AM
I'm not even married but have kept it hidden from a couple of girlfriends. My father always told me.."the less women really know, the happier they are". I asked why they're always asking questions and he said.."trust me, they don't wanna hear the truth, jus tell em what they wanna hear". IP: Logged |
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mistah_d Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 88) |
posted July 23, 2000 11:55 AM
Krusher, your Dad couldn't have been mor ecorrect. Women always ask fo rthe truth, but only like it when it's what they want to hear. Even if you tell your wife, and she's mad, then gets over it, who the hell wants to listen to all that shit anyway? Better off eductaing yourself, making your own choice and going with it. Even better to not have to listen to preprogrammed, uneducated nonsense... IP: Logged |
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eastarr Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 189) |
posted July 23, 2000 12:26 PM
My wife is cool with it. When I did my first cycle, my wife set out the gear for me and set the clock too. If she wasn't fraid of pins, she would help me on my next cycle of gear. Why lie and hide it. There is no amount of creatine in the world that will do for you what gear will do for you. Even to a nieve person. after time, someone will say something about it. ------------------ "Pain is weakness leaving the body>>>" IP: Logged |
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