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 How to convince the girlfriend
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 55 |
Hey, guys I need your help. I'm going to start my first cycle in about 6 weeks. I have a problem, however. My girlfriend will not like it one bit and she may(read: probably) break up with me. That's the last thing that I want. So, would you give me a few arguments to give her so that she will be alright with it because I really would rather be open than try to hide it from her. Some arguments from her to consider: 1) She hates drugs, all drugs, period. Steroids are drugs, therefore I'm bad if I do them. 2) I don't need them, I'm big enough(as if that's ever possible) 3) They're bad for you Those would probably be her main arguments but if you could give me some other good reasons to give her for my use of AAS, in addition to refutations of her arguments, I would greatly appreciate it.     | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 22 |
I can see your concern, but if she really loved you she would stick by you. Why don't you show her literature on steroids and SHOW her they're not as bad as the public makes them out to be. Throw in something like you're doing it for her so you can be her beefcake. Women like it when you do things for THEM... take it from me.. I'm a woman! LOL ... If she wants to break up, then it wasn't meant to be honey. Hate to break the news to you. it's not like you're starting to do crack or anything! You're doing body enhancing drugs... what's wrong with that? there are plenty of women who wouldn't mind it. I wouldn't personally. Or you could hide it from her and lie and say you're taking creatine and natural supplements or something. Just my 2 cc's. Peeches | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 61 |
Dude it is easier to get forgiveness than it is to get permission!!!! Go ahead and make your body something she will love and then tell her in a few months, if you feel you need to tell her. I have done A.S. for about 4 years now, on and off and have never told my wife and never will. I think she knows something is up but as long as she doesn�t know she�s ok. Besides she likes the body now. Good luck��. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 87 |
First of all me and my gf have a great relationship. However I choose not to tell her for 2 reasons. I don't want her to tell me how bad they are and all that crap, which they are't. Second of all I don't want her to know because if we ever broke up I would not want her to tell everyone that I am a roider. Not that she would but I don't want to take that chance. Good Luck Bro! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 96 |
Peeches-will you go out with me? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 55 |
No way, dude! I put up the post I get first crack at peeches. So, like, uhhhhh...you wanna go out sometime peeches? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 82 |
Fuck her. She does not have the right to know. And what if you do tell her, and you do break up? She will tell everybody you know that you are a drugged out juice-head. This is one of those deals where you only want to tell someone if you know they will respond well. Remember what you are doing is a felony, the risks to you are enormous. And she may call the law in to arrest you, because she 'loves you, and doesn't want to see you come to more harm'. But hey, it's just your freedom, and that surely isn't as important as telling some chick you juice in the name of truth. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 12 |
-------------------IMHO------------------- Hey Grizzly! Listen friend. If you plan on doing anything "together" in life, you'd better start now. You have to be honest and you have to trust each other. . First and foremost. If she would break up with you because of something like this, you'd might as well find you another one right now. She's with you for some other reason OTHER than love. . >>>>"1) She hates drugs, all drugs, period. Steroids are drugs, therefore I'm bad if I do them." It's a money racket plane and simple. Don't you think for one minute that a government as powerful as ours couldn't stop drug smuggling. They make billions every year off fines and seizures. An that is the ONLY reason they are illegal. . >>>>"2) I don't need them, I'm big enough(as if that's ever possible)" You can say the same thing to her 10 years from now when she wants a boob job. Those are terms women can understand. . >>>>"3) They're bad for you" That just depends on what you use and how you use it. If you do your research and use you brain I would argue that you'll be more healthy in the long run. If not, you WILL get hurt. . Your wife/girlfriend can be your biggest help in the iron game. I've been with mine for 12 years now so I think I can speak as an authority. . Invite her into your lifestyle. Mine was in shock when I told her what I was going to do. But I immediately brought her in. Now she thinks I couldn't do it without her. She darts me, makes little packets for my orals and supplements, and keeps my calendar up to date. . Does she workout with you? She should! It makes her feel like she's part of the hole thing. Not to mention all the benefits from working out with a woman. . 1. It brings out the intensity in your workouts. You KNOW you have to push up the next one or you'll have 365lbs lying on your chest. "Cause she dam sure can't spot that much." Not to mention you don't want to look like a wimp in front of your girl. . 2. Working out around women brings your natural test levels up. You can feel the testosterone levels in the gym shoot up when my girl walks to the bench. I think everyone can appreciate that. . I took your question seriously and that is why this post is so long. It is however only MY opinion. All the things that you can't talk about here or with friends you can talk about with her. "If" she's on your side. . I wish you luck friend, and grow big. ~BigBob ------------------ | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 10 |
I agree with TxLonghorn. Mines asking me, why are you so mooding? why you getting so big? etc, etc ..... deny!! It aint worth it! especially if shes already stated her harsh veiw. how about me Peeches? well .... I will break up with her for you!!!! |
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posted April 23, 2001 10:21 AM