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Author | Topic: UPDATE! My fiance & Eric Fromm post | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1097 |
Well, i just wanted to update you all and let you know what was going on with my fiance & I. First things first. She hooked up with another guy, i found out. Then i caught her in the act on Sunday night. Its been so damn hard going through this for the past 3 weeks, but honestly, now i feel so much better. I got her engagement ring & promise ring back yesterday! And i quit calling her, and basically cut her off from everything she has ever gotten. Money, gas card, ect. All fucking gone! ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3297 |
quote: Hang in there bro. I didn't honestly think she would pull that kind of bullshit after the Eric Fromm thing, but I did say that you shouldn't/wouldn't be able to trust her. Well, she showed her true colors, so consider yourself a very lucky man because it could've happened after you were married. She is obviously not the girl for you bro. There's plenty of girls out there, you just have to find the right one. Just dedicate more time to training, etc. for a while to get your mind off of it. Then, before you know it, you'll be back in the saddle. ------------------ Visit my website at http://profiles.elitefitness.com for up to date A.S. info. ------------------------- ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 112 |
Props to you! You did the right thing. It's gotta be the toughest thing ever, but stay positive. Hope everything works out for the best! Later. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 102 |
sorry to hear about the split hardcore but i think you made the best decision of your life. it will hurt for awhile,then it will be gone. keep your chin up,train hard. best of luck to you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 22 |
all i can say is that she doesnt deserve u bro!! good luck and im sure u r gonna make it without her.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 111 |
Dude I feel for you. I honestly have to say that this is the only kind of situation I am for BEATING women. I know i would have kicked the guy out Sunday night, then beat her till she looked like a toothless racoon!!!!!!!!!, then I would have tied her up and urinated on her all night long, I am sure she would have been sorry then.
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Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 297 |
congratulations...beleive me...better now than later.and hey,you're single again so go play the game.good luck hardcore. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1097 |
You guys are so damn nice, you almost make me wanna cry. Or maybe thats the clomid im taking? lol ![]() Thanks AJC & everybody for your support. I know that i can make it through this, and all i need is time. I am closing on our, or now MY house in 10 days! SO that i can look forward to, even though she designed the entire thing. Its all good. I cant wait to live on my own. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 13 |
hang in there bro. better things will come your way ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1097 |
Yeah, its taken a lot for me to hold back from killing this motherfucker, but you know what? I feel more mature that i havent started a fight, and have just gone on. I just didnt think that fighting would have solved anything, but would have made things worse. Its all good now. I dont really care who she dates. Im gonna be strong, and say FUCK HER! ![]() ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3297 |
Hey bro, it's time to go get some "I'm single again" clothes. You know, the skin-tight shirts, nice pants and some new Kenneth Cole shoes! LOL ------------------ Visit my website at http://profiles.elitefitness.com for up to date A.S. info. ------------------------- ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Moderator ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 6131 |
That's a damn shame bro.Nice guys get shit on all the time.It's good thing that you found out who she really was BEFORE you made the plunge though.What a shame it is when the one you fallin love with is a disloyal tramp...You will find another woman bro,and she will treat you a thousand times better,I guarantee it.This chick never deserved you.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3297 |
...and if your budget will allow, get a sports car or a nice SUV. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 73 |
hang in their bro stay tough Peace ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 21 |
SORRY TO HERE THAT BUT YOU BETTER OFF. IF YOU WOULDV'E STAYED TOGETHER THAT WOULD EAT AT YOU ALL THE TIME. NOW YOU KNOW THE TRUTH. GOT LUCK THEIRS ALOT OF CHICKS OUT THERE. I CAN'T WAITE TO SEE WHAT WOMBAT WRITES ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 21 |
HE'S JUST GOOD AT MAKING SOMEONE FEEL ALOT BETTER AFTER SOMETHING LIKE THIS GOOD LUCK ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 266 |
Hard, you're only 21, you have years to find a better woman. She was a hoebag, just think if you had made that home for her, she'd only be using it to get with other guys while you were not there. Believe me, you only have your best years ahead of you. Save your time for a woman who deserves it, not a scandilous tramp. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 752 |
You should go up to the guy and say thank you---shake his hand------He did you a favor, the good thing is you found out before you got hitched. This is the best thing to happen to you, it may not seem it right now but he saved you alot of money and trouble------Now its time to get huge, be single until your 28----date alot of diff-chix and have fun---------Dont buy into any chix bullshit------your 21 ---- live brother live---- ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 21 |
WHATS UP B I HEARD YOUR COMING BACK THE 4TH OF JULY HOWS IT BEEN I READ A FEW OF YOUR POSTS BEFORE AND DEASIL PROBABLY GONNA POST CAUSE I JUST TALKED TO HIM ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 164 |
Bro, I agree you should thank the guy she did it with. He just helped you out so much. What would have happened if you found out she was like this when your 30. Your only 21 so enjoy life. Your gonna love not having someone always know where you are and who your hanging out with. And summer is coming so enjoy your body. And i'm a firm believer that what goes around comes around. ---PEACE---Mad Max ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 2225 |
You just made a very hard decision, and I admire you for having the courage to do it. You did the right thing, but nobody ever said the right thing was easy. For now, all I can say is hang in there and just try to get over it. We all know it takes time. Other then that, just follow ajc's advice, that should take your mibd off it ![]() ------------------ The land where posession is legal! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 376 |
Wombat makes Fromm look like a bug so if you need any help. with him or the other little guys. Let wombat and Associates know we are nationwide. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3297 |
quote: Not to be materialistic, but wearing some kick ass new clothes is a major confidence booster for me...The car thing is good too, but that's an expensive confidence booster. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 23 |
This is a good thing your doing bro.Stay strong,you will fell great latter when looking back.proud of you.....wish i could buy ya a beer. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 21 |
I AGREE WITH YOU AJC SOME WIFE BEATER SHIRTS AND EVERY GIRL IS LOOKING AT YOU NOT CAUSE THEY WANT TO CAUSE YOUR THE ONLY ONE THEY SEE THINK POSITIVE ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Novice ![]() Posts: 9 |
CUT HER OFF FROM YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY SO SHE CAN SEE WHAT SHE IS MISSING, AND REALIZE HOW BAD SHE FUCKED UP!!! AND MAKE SURE TO GET SOME NEW PIECES OF ASS FOR THE SUMMER, AND MAKE SURE SHE SEE'S YOU WITH THEM!!! GOOD LUCK... ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 258 |
Spend all of that $$$ on yourself. Get juiced to the teeth and take your rages out on her. Get a few new hoochies and kick her ass to the curb. Congrats bro! Good job! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 894 |
NOW GET OUT THERE AND ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM! THERE IS SO MUCH PUSSY TO SAMPLE, MY FRIEND...SAVOR EACH AND EVERY ONE YOU MEET ![]() ------------------ NEWBIES, CLICK ON THE LINK BELOW AND GET YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED AT THESE FINE SITES. UPDATED WEEKLY ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 919 |
Man... I'm sorry. My fiance and I are having extremely tough times as well. And things don't look good. We don't really even talk. She's sorta decided that wearing really tight clothes at her job, because she works on commission and it helps her saves, and getting attention, and flirting like a motherfucker is a bit better than me. That's what I get for falling in love with an incredibly attractive woman. I'm sorry. It's gotta suck. Hang in there. Who knows if it'll get better... but you'll get bigger... that's all I can hold on to. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 217 |
2 positive things: 1. you got rid of the ho that would have shit on you for the rest of you life. Ain't that a relief! 2. guys, in general money, can spend a lot of resources (like emotions and money) on ONE gf/fiance/wife..... All for what? To get laid by the same chick over and over. Now you have an opportunity to spend your resources on getting laid by a ton of chicks and buying shit for yourself...I love that! Go fuck some hottie and get back on your playa! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 373 |
stay strong. This chick will b nothing more than a memory before you know it. Now get to work and put some more notches on that head board! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 570 |
Damn, just be glad you did not marry that WHORE! Good luck on your next relationship. (also do not call or talk to her ass EVER) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Novice ![]() Posts: 8 |
Good thing you got out when you did. Now focus on your new house, enjoy it. And think about training and gaining, your "free" right now and it's time to get huge and become a pussy magnet. Yeaaah, it's great being single. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3358 |
I would not have been able to do it. Im too damned emotional. That is wjy you are the wise man and I am the fool. Peace my friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 20 |
Hardcore 4ever, Good for you. Good for you man. She will probably call crying and ask for another chance once she realizes that the goodies that your provided (money, gifts, ect) aren�t there. Don�t even return her calls. Be strong. Hang in there. You did the right thing and were are pround of you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 82 |
Look on the bright side, at least you won't be wasting anymore of your life with her.....there are soooooooo many beautiful babies out there bro, you could live 100 life times and still not come close to being with all of the beautiful women that are out there right now! [Kill the bunny....you've got these big, sharp, friggen claws....and all you need to do is kill the bunny!] [This message has been edited by oeffler (edited April 17, 2001).] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 154 |
HANG IN THERE BRO. IT GETS BETTER,WENT THROUGH THE SAME SHIT 2 YEARS AGO ITS TUFF BUT YOU CAN DO IT,STAY HARD CORE 4 EVER!!!!! ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 102 |
Just remember bro....What goes around comes around, if not in this life, then the next! Hang in there man, and be glad you didn't go down to her level! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 303 |
it takes a strong man to walk away like that. myself i am a pussy and would probably start crying and asking her why she did that. fuck clomid makes me into a little bitch ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 21 |
I POSTED EARLIER BUT I THINK YOU SHOULD GET A PHD LIKE I DID (PIMPIN HOES DEGREE) THAT SHIT REALLY WORKS ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 2274 |
YOU MADE THE RIGHT MOVE BRO! IF SHE DID IT ONCE SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN. IT IS NOT WORTH THE PAIN. YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS AND THAT WILL MAKE YOU THAT MUCH STRONGER. IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK YOU CAN E-MAIL ME ANYTIME M18 ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 441 |
hey bro first it was eric f. and then you caught her with someone else.....bro you know what, all the posts on the first topic told you the right thing to do, man you are only 21 dont worry about anything, you know what in the end the woman is going to call you back crying and telling you she is sorry, man you sound like a good brother, dont surround yourself with bad people anymore, you think you know someone and then after four years you find out you dont know them at all.......bro take care and keep your head up, no woman is worth all the stuff you gave to her and dont ever talk to her again......bro you have god on your side, if you didnt you never would have found out the things you did, god was looking over you allowing you to get stronger and wiser.......now the ball is in your court....no wasting time on someone who isnt worth your time! ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 18 |
hey bro. hate to hear this bad news. but hang in there and keep your head up. Things will get better. Just remember you're the better person. Stay focused on training and eating right now you can spend your time and money on more important things. "Go hard or Go Home" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Olympian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1652 |
Sorry to hear that bro, but it sounds like your dealing with it fairly well. It may be hard, but you know your better off now. Good luck, you probably won't need it anyway. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 82 |
Hardcore4Evr, damn bro, I feel your pain. I dated my ex-lady for 4.5 years we were f****n teenagers and recently broke up. We had many plans also, engament, marriage, living together. It was hard as hell at first since she was everything I knew, went out to the movies, clubs,etc......... all with her. Well finally decided to give the boys some calls, started hangin out with them on the weekends and slowly but surely I started to forget about her. Man I've put on a few pounds of muscle got me a Sports bike, its all good. Well guess what, she started to call, and realized that I have mixed feelings about her. Bro, keep your head up, stay strong, avoid all her calls, vanish her from your life and get as much p***y as you possibly can! WannaImpress ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 727 |
Bro I'm very sorry to hear this I've been there and it hurts but everyone is right about you finding out before you got married because she would have done it afterward and then you might have had kids together and you would really hurt then and be tied to her for ever, your only 21 bro you will meet the right little lady down the road and live happyly ever after,next time find one that has high morals because if you don't there hard to break. I know because I've been maried to one for 9 1/2 years and caught her flirting with this guy giving him eyes and I was in a respectable place and it blew my mind we were very close "I THOUGHT" I haven't told her I love her in 8 months because of it. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 727 |
Bro I'm very sorry to hear this I've been there and it hurts but everyone is right about you finding out before you got married because she would have done it afterward and then you might have had kids together and you would really hurt then and be tied to her for ever, your only 21 bro you will meet the right little lady down the road and live happyly ever after,next time find one that has high morals because if you don't there hard to break. I know because I've been maried to one for 9 1/2 years and caught her flirting with this guy giving him eyes and I was in a respectable place and it blew my mind we were very close "I THOUGHT" I haven't told her I love her in 8 months because of it. If i didn't have a kid with her I would kick her in the seat. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1305 |
Women, who needs em? We do! It's just a matter of finding the right one. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1097 |
I find it to be so amazing that when i come to the board that i find so many posts under my topic. I am just glad that everyone has helped out in any way they could. Your words mean a lot my iron brothers! ![]() I am doing very good, though. I actually cut her off, and she hates it! I was at a buddys house tonight, and we were all chillin and shit, and my fiance had to bring his wife her resume for a job. So, she comes in, and cant keep her eyes off me. I go to piss, and when i open the door, she is standing there. Drags me into the corner and tells me she wants to talk about it. I said, "Look there isnt anything to talk about, Christi, it fucking over, and im not putting up with anymore shit from you!" I walked away. After she left, she calls on her cell phone, crying her eyes out telling me shes sorry and shit. I didnt give in at all. She wanted me to come meet her somewhere and talk, and i told her hell no, and that i didnt have anything to talk about. I said look, you wanted your space and your time right? Well, now the tables have turned and now I want some time and space! She just about freakin died! So, she is majorly upset from what her girlfriends called and told me, and i love it. She is getting what she deserves. I will keep you all posted as to what happens tomorrow. Should be interesting. But, i already have 3 pieces of ass lined up just waiting for me to kick off! ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 552 |
Sorry about the bad news bro. It's definately for the better though. I went through the same thing last year with my EX. Lets face it, it is gonna be on your mind for awhile so the best advice I can give is to stay active and busy. Hang out with your buddies, and try to hang out with as many females as you can. Go out of town. Go to the gym. E-mail my ass if you need something to get her off your mind. Just, do not talk to her. Drinking can back-fire so you may not want to do this. I found it hardest late at night and early in the mornings. Try to fall asleep early (even if you have to take sleeping pills). Schedule things to do in the mornings to keep the shit off your mind. DO NOT DRIVE BY HER PLACE!!! Trust me, your a better man now. Have friends stay over your new house. If you go to school, get involved with things to occupy your time. Get on these chat boards. Don't go beating anyone up because that will only get you in trouble! I can't really think of anything else right now, but I do agree with the others, and through my own experiences, you are better off without that stupid slut! Again, if you need someone to talk to, you can e-mail me anytime. Take it easy bro, and have some fun. MR. BMJ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 87 |
hell yeah!! You made the right choice bro. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 21 |
GOOD FOR YOU THAT IS THE BEST WHEN THEY WANT YOU BACK AND KNOW THEY DID WRONG STAY STRONG AND DON'T LET YOUR LITTLE HEAD THINK FOR YOU LET HER CRY LET HER CRY SHE DISERVES IT SO POUR IT ON TELL HER FRIEND YOUR GOING OUT WITH A HOTTIE TOMORROW AND LET HER HURT CAUSE ALL THAT IS A TEST SHE WANTS YOU TO SEE IF YOU GO RUNNING BACK DON;T DO IT CAUSE SHE'LL JUST DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN STAY STRONG AND PULL THE HOTTEST CHICK YOU CAN AND GO BACK TO YOUR FRIENDS HOUSE AND JUST SHOW HER OFF YOUR EX WILL BE CRYING SO BAD AND I'M SURE YOU WANT TO HER CRY MORE THAN YOU DID IT FEELS GOOD TO SEE THEM CRY WHEN YOU WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT DON'T BUDGE cause you'll only be hurting youself good luck ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 752 |
The best thing to do is to go on without her but if you have a chance to bang one of her friends or more then one, it wont make it right and most will say its immuture but your only 21 --- and it will make you feel like a king-----Even if you think her friends wont do that to her --- trust me, they will-------I know you will probably say no, you just want to move on but you have alot of feelings that you are holding up inside you because you feel you have been fucked over and the thing to do is break up with her, which it is but fuck one of her friends for all as guys that are on the outside looking in------Do it on principle alone if not anything else! ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 115 |
I agree with many above..they have done you a huge favor. 21 is nothing...just getting warmed up, the New clothes is a nice start. And when she calls say "this is the last time you ever get to hear my voice." And then never say a word to her, even if she on fire. Pulled this in the same situation when I was 19...still see the girl today 8 years later, she still starts conversations with a mute. Men aspire to so much when their time is their own. Be you BOB OUT!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 38 |
[QUOTE]Originally posted by oeffler: [Kill the bunny....you've got these big, sharp, friggen claws....and all you need to do is kill the bunny!] Oeffler, you're so money and you don't even know it. Hardcore, there's only 1 thing better than pu$$y, NEW PU$$Y! I went through the same thing, it hardened me up, I decided to not care as much when I was with a chick, and it turns out chicks dig you more when you're not as interested. Stupid Ho's, you can't live with 'em, and you cant kill 'em...well, you shouldn't anyways. Here's a tip that will make you feel better. Ask her out to dinner to "talk things over", take her to an expensive resturaunt a long way from your house, and be very calm & apologetic. Order wine and the lobster, tell her you have to go to the bathroom, ...and bail. Leave her skank ass there with the check. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 118 |
Time and a new woman is the best healer. Good luck be strong and soon you will have a new woman to worry about ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 118 |
Time and a new woman is the best healer. Good luck be strong and soon you will have a new woman to worry about ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 149 |
Sorry to hear bro - chicks are all just panty droppers anyway ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Olympian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1729 |
Cool. You are a strong man. Too many guys (pussies) put up with that type of shit thinking they can't move on. I did the same after a 4 yr'er only we got a kid together. I still see my son every fortnight despite her attempts to try and stop me. Think of it good that you got out b4 any further complications. Remember this saying - looking good and feeling fit is the best revenge! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Freak ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 2241 |
Yea, if you would've stayed with her it definately would eat away at you all the time, wether you think it would or not. My ex gf cheated on me and I ended up staying with her.. but it never worked out, because after that I never trusted her again. It only took little things to piss me off.. like if some guy would say hey to her or call her, i'd fuckin blow up, because the first thought that crossed my mind was that she was cheating again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 50 |
Two things: The bitch is gone (I know not all of her is a bitch in your eyes, but believe me shes a bitch, most of'em r) And now you can fuck all the chicken heads at the clubs and not feel guilty about it Thirdly, I know I only said two things but another came to mind, you can now spend the money you would have been dollin to her on "i'm single" clothes and on a "i'm single" cycle. Your on the up and up bro. Hang on there! If your ever in Windsor Ont for a noght we'll go clubbin and I'll hook you up with a few nicies! Thats a promise! [This message has been edited by aburgtank (edited April 18, 2001).] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 727 |
Strenth I agree with you bro men shouldn't put up with that mess but i'm on my 3rd marriage I have to stop running them off I have a kid with this one too and been through the kid battle with one of the other ex so I come to the conclusion that they are all the same. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Cool Novice ![]() ![]() Posts: 22 |
bro ur acting like a real man that makes her want u back so bad... but tell her that she is already in the garbage can.... and enjoy ur single life... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3297 |
quote: Bro, Great Job!! If you caved now and bought into her bullshit, she'll subconciously label you her bitch, and she may not even know it. Don't cave! She's fucked around on you several times. This is not the girl you want to mother your children. There's only two possible scenarios here: 1. She fucked around because she didn't care what you would think if you found out. 2. She cares what you think, but she fucked around because she "knew" you'd put up with it and eventually take her back. Either way she's a CUNT. I don't use the word often, but she has rightfully earned it. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 102 |
hardcare....good for you bro. you know what, you have just saved youreself alot of headache in the future. dont go back!!! thats the next challenge you will have. She will try to get you back. dont fall for it. You have everyones support in here and nobody will steer you in the wrong direction. You made a good choice and just remember, you will laugh about all this in the near future and wonder why you took so long to drop her ass. vinnie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Elite Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1097 |
AJC you are so right. Today, well she was callin and ballin on the phone. It really sucks guys, because i hate to see this girl in so much pain and shit, but then i think about what she did to me and it makes me stronger. I know that she is truly sorry, but you know what? You never really realize what you had until its gone. That is what i told her. She came and brought me a note she wrote me at lunch, and just looked at me and cried her eyes out. I told her that i was sorry, but that i needed my time and space, and to find myself too! She asked for a hug, so i gave her one, and then left. She was crying all the way out of the parking lot. It really sucks. SUCKS so bad guys. I know the feeling that she is now going through, and nobody should go through that feeling, but she deserves every minute of it. I guess that im gonna be a fucking soldier and stay strong, and keep my head up. ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Novice ![]() Posts: 5 |
just remember she was the one who cheated, not you. http://www.psychoexgirlfriend.com ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Novice ![]() Posts: 2 |
hey bro...i have an idea how ur feelin, this girl u got is gonna really and i mean REALLY try hard to get to ya, she knows how much u love her and shes sorta fuckin with u from what u've said. the key to this is realizing its gonna take TIME, maybe not alot, but after 4yrs, its definately gonna take several months to be happy with a new girl. Don't expect any of these new chix to come close to makin u feel the way ur ex did and prolly still does every time u see her, its not gonna happen. I will be happy to tell ya though that in due time u will be SET. and i'm sure u know this, because u seem very level headed, shes always gonna have a place within u, no matter how big of a hoe she is, just try to keep thing in perspective like it seems u r and u'll be A-OK good luck man ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Pro Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 485 |
hey bro eric works out here in colorado i see him ever now and again . he works at a night club . he ain't the one that she did this with is it ? i'd be pissed as hell bro . hang in there ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Mutant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 3512 |
Damn..she hooked up with ANOTHER guy after she apologized about Eric Fromm??? What a fucking dirty stankin' ass trick hoe... Sorry bro...but that's bullshit..glad you kicked her out.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 102 |
hardcore, dont fall for it man. I just posted but im gonna post again. I have had this happen to me and im tellin you. you cant go back. She messed up, not you. dont feel bad about it. you gave her a chance and she fucked up again. move on! think of your future. you will have this in the back of your mind forever if you get back with her. You seem like a smart man. dont be a pushover. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Olympian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Posts: 1655 |
forget her bro...hang in there ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 241 |
Wow, can't believe you caught her so many times. Better to find out sooner than later. Hey, can I get the house? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder ![]() ![]() Posts: 236 |
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Yeah, i mean, i keep hearing all the time about her having sex with both of them. She denys the hell out of it. Of course she would. ![]() She calls bawling today, and tonight calls my cell phone acting all badass and shit. Told her i was watching a movie with some girls (which i was thank you), and she was like alright ill talk to you later, and i was like, see ya! and hung up. She will call tomorrow. ![]() ------------------ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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