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 I gotta vent: Girlfriend Problems, need opinons.....
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Cool Novice 
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well i know this is an AS discussion board, but i need some GF advice. Me and MY chic have been going out for 2 years, and she's the greatest, she does anything for me, and i really love her a lot. But lately for me the spark just hasn't been there, like everything is the same, and i care about her so much, but i have 2 chics lined up whenever i want, and i really want them too. I can't cheat on my girlfriend, and i won't. And i don't want to dump her either, cause i like what we've got. I just don't know what to do. what would u guys do? GM    | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 123 |
Although this is not a subject for this board, I too am having a similar situation bro. I don't know what to do either, I dig my girl and all, but ... yea that spark just isn't there anymore. Kinda depressing. Anyways ... | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 23 |
Sucks shit man, i'm young i wanna have fun, but on the other side i wanna be responsible to, my GF makes me feel so good, and she depends on me a lot, its just when i see other chics i gotta have them too kinda thing, if i'm this horney now, wait till i get on the sauce, some serious shit is gonna go down GM | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 40 |
More the marrier--maybe you can get a quadurplesome--J/K good luck "Always on the edge" thelegacy  | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 23 |
That's the thing though, i really do care about her, and i don't wanna lose that, but on the other hand i wanna fuck around. I wish i could just be single for like 2 months, just to get it out of my system and then go back to where i was. I hate this feeling. GM | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 181 |
Like they say..............u can't have your cake and eat it too!!!!! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 196 |
Ok heres a test bro and no im not joking. Go jack off get it out of your system jack off twice if your on test  Now 5-10 min after you are done do you want your girlfriend or the other chicks? Im not kidding do it and be honest with yourself. You will never get lust out of your system but bro take my word for it love is better. When everything in your life is going just right its easy to say fuck it and think you dont need anyone , But when the day feels like shit and you go home to the girlfriend /wife , Bro let me tell you it makes everything seem so much better. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 67 |
Heres the deal bros. You can leave your chick and it will be fun for awhile. It just might equal what you have now. I tell you this - I went the fun route once - and I would give anything - anything to be next to her again. Shes married now. She still calls me though when hes not home rxderrick | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 123 |
Greekmonsta, I hear that bro, I too wish I could take a small break, but then again, I think I'd probably miss her after a short while ... man sucks.  Kookyguy, you've actually got an interesting theory going there | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 23 |
KookyGuy, that shit just might work......Sounds like a good plan, pretty funny, but it probably works. I think i may just hang with my chic for a while after all, i think she's to good to leave behind. Here's another test i thought of. GM | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 123 |
Ok Greek, that worked ... the unlucky fellow might have to meet Thunder & Lightning hehe  Grrrr! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 196 |
Greek trust me bro I have been married for close to 6 years now and it works. Best way to tell love from a crush is to jack off. Sounds funny but 10 min later , I know I only want my wife. 2 years ago a nanny of one of the kids in my school invited me to go to reno with her and her girlfriend for a threesome , And I was going to go. But I went home I was so fucking horney thinking about these two hot chicks I had to jack off. As soon as I was done , I didnt want to go to reno anymore and thank god I never cheated on my wife. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 71 |
I fucked up with my GF from 4 years ago and still think about it sometimes. We were together for 3 years. I left her for someone else. i regret ever doing that. she was so good to me. now i cant stay in a relationship for longer than a few months. maybe im just fucked up in the head. do the right thing. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 14 |
Yo have been with her for 2 weeks!!! You obviously dont love her yet. Do you have a ring on your finger???? Fuck the bullshit!!!!!!! ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 55 |
Here's what I do when the sparks are gone temporarily. Go fuck around and get it out of your system, it'll feel great but then you'll feel kinda bad and love your chick again. It's better than to risk losing her and fuck around, so just keep her and do it, but don't get caught. That is the key to a healthy relationship!....maybe not, but it works for me. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 23 |
2 weeks? learn how to fucken read bro, i said 2 years. I guess hooked on phoics didn't work for your sorry ass. Peace Out GM | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 280 |
Some would say that if you really LOVE her, you would never even think of cheating on her. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 106 |
Why not have a trail run. Start seeing the other 2 chics on the side and then see who you wantr to be with all the time. If it is your current chic then 'what she don't know wont hurt her' and you will have had a great time finding out. simple! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 329 |
Put this on the chat board! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
Simplt! What does the other two look like? Big tits, great body? If all of the above you know what you have to do. What do you think that you have found the only women that will make you happy? Tell here and see what she say's. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 41 |
not trying to be a dick man, but if you really loved her as mich as you say, would you really want to fuck other chicks that bad | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
Look all women are fucking scum! Treat them like the hose hounds they are and go on! ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 189 |
quote: Would you be fine with her doing the same? Because when you are single for 2 months, so is she. And girls seem to go on a fuck-fest when the guys they love dump them. What are you facing is common to every man in this world, bottom line: Who said love was easy? It is something that you have to continuously work at, just like your body. If it is too hard for you and you want to give it up, so be it... but if you want to work at it, you know what you have to do. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 83 |
Maybe you need to do something to get that spark back. Have your girlfriend dress up like a slut and meet her at a bar. Fuck around and tease with her at the bar, then take her to a motel and knock the bottom out of her. That's probably what you'll do with the other girl, only you'll have your girl around when times are bad. Have some fun. Get creative! There's nothing wrong with that. You may start having fun again and find that spark.
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 86 |
Lets all hold hands in a circle and sing cum ba ya................. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 40 |
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 844 |
Bro I've been in that situation before and it is not fun at all. I would be honest with her and confront her about it. ------------------ | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 2975 |
quote: Hey Casanova...He didn't turn gay. Of course he's still going to be attracted to (i.e. wannna fuck) other women. ------------------ Visit my website at http://profiles.elitefitness.com for up to date A.S. info. ------------------------- | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 105 |
Hmmm, I have been there a few times bro. I agree with much of what was said prior.....#1 wackin off, #2 tell her, #3--go have your fun for a few months. I tried #3 when I was engaged to my wife, and believe me, I still pay for it any time we get in an arguement. And the trust was almost completely gone between us, and it has taken years to build it back up. In NO WAY was fucking a few ho's here and there worth all the damage it caused. By the sounds of it, you need to find out if you still are "in love" with her, and you can do that without screwing everything with a hole. Maybe take a break for a while and DATE other people, just make a promise to yourself to keep your pecker in your pants, it will save you a lot of remorse if you two do hook up for life. Of course now that I have been married for several years, whenever I get the "craving" for some other woman, I resort to #1. :-) Good luck brother, I know EXACTLY what you are going through. | ||
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Novice 
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Listen dude, keep the sure thing!!! If you start messing around with other women and lose the one that means the most to you deep down inside, You'll wake up everyday regreting it. How do I know so much. I lost my sweetheart due to me being a stupid asshole. I would give up anything to have her back,and yes I even gave up the "supplements" to help combat the "rage" and fighting that we did. so my advise keep her and show her that you really care, forget the one night stands. Your friend, | ||
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Novice
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Hey bro I have been in your shoes before and took the wrong route. Listen to Kookyguy! I have a wonderful girl and I almost lost and will if she finds out what i have done. I had a girl at work that wanted to fuck bad. I told her no for several days until lust got the better of me. It was great no doubt but after the thrill was over I felt like shit. 15 seconds after you blow the lust is over. So take my advice and try what Kookyguy says for a little while. It really works. I have been doing it for years now. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 65 |
Greek, take it from me, Kooky's idea is solid, All your hormones go to your damn head, A helluva a lot more when on juice!! But when it comes down to it can you see yourself spending one day without your two year love? Or can you picture yourself being as happy with one of your other "line ups"? Believe me, if you loved them you would be with them, right? Dont mess up a good thing, i did,,, and you will never be the same. ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 65 |
Greek, take it from me, Kooky's idea is solid, All your hormones go to your damn head, A helluva a lot more when on juice!! But when it comes down to it can you see yourself spending one day without your two year love? Or can you picture yourself being as happy with one of your other "line ups"? Believe me, if you loved them you would be with them, right? Dont mess up a good thing, i did,,, and you will never be the same. ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 57 |
You said she'll do anything for you? Well, thelegacy was right! Ask her if she would ever do a threesome/foursome. It's the GREATEST feeling in the world dude, and it's not really cheating (dishonest part). | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 24 |
well see if she's open to a threesome of foursome.. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 52 |
if your relationship with your girlfriend means anything to you, you don't even need to ask this question. there are always going to be tons of hot girls out there, but you will find out just like me that they could never equal a good thing with a woman you love! be true to your girl and if things don't work out, than think about those other girls, until then just love your girl. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 213 |
How old are you? What are your feelings about marriage? Do you LOVE your girlfriend or are you in love with her, or do you know the difference. Everyone wants something more,especially when sex is involved. Eventually Love will overwhelm sex and when that occurs, it is time for a mature commitment, as in marriage. If your not ready for the above, try honesty with your girl friend, you will either lose her or work things out. It's a lot of risk but you will have peace of mind.. By the way the worst possible situation is to actually be in love with two women at the same time, and it can happen fast, be careful. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 37 |
Kooks def. has the right ideas. The lust always leaves your head after you bust a nut - so go jerk off before you make a mistake. 2 years is a long time to sacrifice for a quick f@#$. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 247 |
You fucking Malaka!!! Sorry, that's the only word I know in Greek and I just had to let it out. That said, I think that if you can secretly cheat on your girlfriend without her finding out, you should go for it. Those other two chicks you mentioned... I say bone their brains out... preferably both at the same time. That should get it out of your system for a while. What your chick doesn't know will not hurt her. To quote Stephen Baldwin in Threesome: "You have a dick, and dicks are made for fucking." Later. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 11 |
View from the womans side - actuall the idea of getting the "urge" over with then thinking about it is pretty good. YOu will always be tempted, usually when you least expect it, or when you are least apt to say no. It is a matter of committment, feelings change or no one would ever get over a divorce or death, so it is natural for your feelings to change over time. DOnt expect the "honeymoon" part of the relationship to last forever - that is for the movies. You will fall 'in' and 'out' of love with your spouse or better half over and over again. So count yourself as normal with the feelings, but how you handle then will say a LOT about you and your character. What advise would you want to give from this experience to others - that you played - or that you stayed through it - what kind of person or man do you want to be?? Pretty simple Bunny This is who we are | ||
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Novice
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Man, I'm married and I know the temptation is rough, but think of all you two have been through to get where you are. Also, think of how long it took you to find a person that you wanted to invest 2 years of your life with. My wife and I are always searching for new adventures to share and we stay really active. If you're sitting around the house staring at each other, it's going to get old and you going to lose it. Alot of the temptation comes from discovering something new about about that other person. What if all discover is, you shouldn't have gone looking. Think about it, nobody wants to go through life alone. Good Luck! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 23 |
Well, i think i'm gonna stay with her for a bit, i don't really think i can lose her right now, i need her. We aren't thinking about marriage, we're too young (21) we want to start our careers first and are still in the having fun stage, and then see if we still got something later on in life....but thanks for all the help, some of those replies were pretty fucken funny. thanks again GM | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 33 |
Hey Greek Monsta I understand your situation bro but girls come and go . But from what it sounds like here with 2 years into relationship sounds like you've found a special girl that sounds like not only your best friend but a potential soulmate. I was in a similar situation like yours several years ago and I really did love that girl but made the wrong choice and was thinking with the wrong head . I screwed around on her and we broke up . I tried getting back with her but the damage was already done and it was too late to do anything about it. To me it was not even worth the cheap, temporary thrills of fucking a chick I wanted really bad but it was just lust and love is better. Unfortunately I found this out the hard way and have regreted it ever since . I have not found a girl yet that can make me feel as special as the one I lost and haven't felt a love like that to this day. If I could go back in time and do things all over again , I would have done the right thing and ignore my impulse to get my nuts off on a girl that I really didn't know just to relieve my sexual desire for her. I think about my true love often and don't know if I'll ever find something special like that again and often get very depressed and miss her a lot . So it's just my opinion bro but it just isn't worth it . Good Luck , Munzer | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 72 |
Hey bro. That is the same exact situation with me. Me and my girl have been together for about two years, and we have been through a lot. But I have another gorgeous girl waiting for me. This other girl is soo hot I can't even picture myself with her. I am just trying to get to know her and see what happens. I am not saying I am cheating on my girlfriend though, because I wouldn't do that. If she seems the best after I know her better, then obviously I am going to go with the best girl for me. Hope this might help a little. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 105 |
Even the thought of marriage is probably not the best idea in the world, put that on the back burner for awhile and get yourself figured out first and foremost. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 48 |
You need to think of a way to get the spark back.....like trip to Cancun or something. The grass isnt always greener on the other side |
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posted April 05, 2001 01:39 AM
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