posted April 07, 2000 01:41 PM            

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I want to tell my wife i'm about to start my first cycle, but to make the news easier i've been leaving shit i've printed like Sustanon 250: Four Testosterones in one: 1 30 mg test propionate, 2 60 mg test phenylpropionate, 3 60mg test isocaproate 4 100 mg test decanoate http://matrix.crosswinds.net/~absolutetruth/susta.html
Dianabol ( methandstenolone ) mg\tab 100/bottle, or 10 cc / vial, 25 mg\cc "oral steroid was originally,,,,,ETC,ETC.ETC, http://matrix.crosswinds.net/~absolutetruth?dbol.html and the same about Clomid http:matrix.crosswinds.net/~absolutetruth/clomid.html I have even let her read along while i've searced and learned on Elite Fitness, Buttttttttt She hasn't said one damn word about it? What the hell should I say to her to initiate the conversation????? I'm gona juice regardlesss. I just thought I would let her in on it. Not the juice, just the fact that i'm gona juice. Her lack of words has me baffled? I would like her to help with the darts, but I have done enough research that I will inject myself if necassary! By the way. Thanks Biz for the diagram!!!!! It helped alot. Also, thanks 2 thick, for the site & the pics. I also want to thank E-2, and all the other Vets for all the great advice! You may not have known it was for my use when you gave it, but I take in everything & leave the trash talk by the way side.I've learned who I can respect, and who I can disregard. Once again, THANKS FOR YOUR HELP ON THIS MATTER!!!!!!!! MOJO!

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posted April 07, 2000 01:44 PM            

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My advice is to come right out and ask he what she thinks about it. Tell her that you've been thinking about it and you want to know what she thinks about it.

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posted April 07, 2000 02:03 PM            

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I left out my reciept from Western Union too. No reply? Oh well? My money! What the hell? Shouldn't she at least say----What's up???? What the hell. When she gets home from work, we're gona talk. She knows what i'm up to, and she hasn't said a word. But she's still givin up the P, So she must not be too mad? We'll see about 5:30? Thanks E-2, I'm going to send the kids outside to play, and just open up to her. If she has any questions i'll tell her to ask you. he he he ha ha ha ha ha.

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posted April 07, 2000 02:17 PM            

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Well man you just gotta be straight with her. Tell her that you've thought a lot about this, and you've researched it a lot and you've decided to take some AS. Tell her the safety precautions, and all the shit you learned, and how sterile everything will be. Asure her of all this crap. And say, that you didn't want to keep anything from her, and basically keep on emphasizing safety. And if you need to, say you're getting supervision from a doc. Or atleast have a doc check your blood every once in a while. Tell her that.

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posted April 07, 2000 02:26 PM            

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MOJO

this is my advice to you....this is your wife, not your girlfriend, tell her the truth, asked her what she thinks, and this is just me, but don't tell her your going to do it weather or not she cares, this is suposed to be your best friend, and you guys should know everything about eachother.

if i was married, and my wife did not want me to use steriods period, and she had a good reason, then i wouldn't do it for her, and i would expect her to do the same for me.

but if it was a girlfriend, then i probibly would, because who knows how long the relationship would last anyways, so fuck it........peace

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posted April 07, 2000 02:33 PM            

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i agree with everyone else. you need to be straight with her. discuss the pros and cons of the a/s that you are going to take. my wife was very understanding. when i discussed it with her the first time, i wanted her to be okay with it. i asked her to tell me when i was "raging", angry, etc. so i could step back and regroup. depending on what you are going to take, she is your best bet to help you keep your emotions in check once you are on it. i have never injected myself. my wife has always done it for me. you need her on your side with this, believe me. you may turn in to a horny mf and she is going to be the one to fulfill your needs.

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posted April 07, 2000 02:36 PM            

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Hey bro - I had to deal with the same thing about four years and a lot of muscle ago. My wife (girlfriend at the time) was concerned that I would use juice even before I thought about it. She just knew I loved bodybuilding. I figure, the person I love and respect the most deserves the truth no matter what, so when I was thinking about trying it I told her. She was upset because of the negatives she had heard. I reasured her I would have my Dr. do blood tests at least once a year and my wife would have the final say if health or aggression became a problem. She still wont inject me, but she will help a little if its a hard reach and she has been very understanding.

Ive found that because I dont hide anything from her, she trusts me and gives me a lot of freedom. I can even see other women if I want(I just wish I could bring them home!)

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posted April 07, 2000 02:39 PM            

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Explain to her that they are HORMONES! Not the Mystery Babylon The Great the mass media has made them out to be. The people who control the media lie!

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posted April 07, 2000 02:41 PM            

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Honesty's the best policy,bro. Alot of good smart bro's here.

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posted April 07, 2000 03:12 PM            

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I WILL SHOW HER MY RESEARCH, AND MAKE HER UNDERSTAND. FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE, TILL DEATH DO US PART RIGHT. THE WEDDING BAND IS A CONTINUOUS CIRCLE OF LOVE AND DEVOTION. MINE WILL JUST HAVE TO BE RE-SIZED! THANKS BRO'S!

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posted April 07, 2000 03:47 PM            

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Hey mojo - You were right about needing a bigger ring. I had to buy a second wedding band. One for the winter and one for my summer diet.

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posted April 07, 2000 04:00 PM            

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As a marriage counselor by trade I don't think you can take her silence as affirmation. I think she is waiting for you to open up to her. She might not even know what to ask even tho you have laid the groundwork. Please do not assume..u know what that means.
She knows you are into you body and hopefully she is into it as well. She will be your best barometer if anything starts going funky. Respect her wishes above all else. If it takes time to educate her and you have to put off your cycle for a while so be it. You are a couple and decisions must be made accordingly.
Explai allthe safety measure you will take. Especially mention how you are ging to keep it out of the prying young minds and hands of your kids. Don't even presume to think that they do not know what is going on. They do! Needles are a dangerous thing. So have your safety measure all laid out. Show her you have been thinking long and hard!
make a deal,with her that if she lets you do this what does she want in return...

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posted April 07, 2000 04:06 PM            

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bro, you should definately tell her. She will know whether you tell her or not. She is probably pretty intelligant and when she see's the weight gain, combined with the info you have shared with her, she will know. Not to mention the the little shot areas on you ass or quads. The best thing to do is to ask her opinon and go from there. That is what I had to do. If she objects, put her on the board, will we gladdy try to educate her and smooth things out.
Good Luck

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posted April 07, 2000 04:53 PM         

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This is a hard one. I have not told my girl that I have done them, I actually haved lied about it and denied it. Funny thing is when we met I was on a cycle. I do not get the acne and stuff so it is hard to tell. She is so against roids that she would leave for sure if I told her. I have talked about them and told her that I have had friends that have done them and it was no big deal but she would not hear of it. So, I am not saying lie, but what she doesn't know might not hurt her. Thing is, if you mention it, and she is against it, then forever in the future she will think you are on them anyway. I guess if I were married it would be different.

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posted April 07, 2000 05:06 PM            

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Hey, lets face it, some of us are lucky enough to have a sig. other that understands what we need to do--and support us fully. Others may not be so lucky. Maybe you can use the old "but you love the way I feel and look, right" routine. Explain that she might not totally understand now, but in 12-16 weeks she'll probably have no complaints because you look so damn good.

GOOD LUCK BRO-DON'T ARGUE OVER IT
RAGING BULL

P.S. I ALSO BELIEVE THAT HER SILENCE IS HER WAY OF WANTING YOU TO "TAKE THE LEAD"

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posted April 07, 2000 08:55 PM            

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Just tell her straight out, what will she do, divorce you?

She might even administer the injections

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posted April 07, 2000 09:35 PM            

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Like diesel said, continue to emphasize that AS can be used safely and intelligently. Make her understand how important it is to you, I've dealt with this just recently myself.

deltman

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