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 HARDBA;; CAUGHT BABY'S MOM WITH ANOTHER GUY WHEN HE CAME HOME FROM BASEBALL TRIP!!
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HARDBALL2 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 222) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:19 PM
   WELL FELLA'S THE SHIT HAPPENED AGAIN! I LEFT FOR FLORIDA ON 3-2 AND CAME HOME 3-9. I HAD JUST BOUGHT MY DAUGHTER A NEW OUTFIT AND I WANTED TO GIVE IT TO HER ASAP! SO I WENT TO MY GIRL'S HOUSE AND LOW AND BEHOLD, ANOTHER DUDE WAS SITTING ON MY COUCH! I BLEW UP ON HIM AND MY GIRL! I GRABBED THE GUY BY HIS FACE LIKE A BOWLING BALL, AND SAID "LISTEN TO ME PAL! THE NEXT TIME YOU THINK ABOUT COMING OVER HERE, THINK ABOUT LIFE EATING SOLID FOODS THROUGH A STRAW!" THEN I PICKED UP MY DAUGHTER AND KISSED HER, THEN I LEFT. THE PUNY WIG-DOG DIDN'T EVEN SAY A WORD. SO I GET BACK TO MY APARTMENT AND CALLED THE TRAMP! THIS JOKER STARTED TALKING SHIT LIKE YOU WOULDN'T BELIEVE! "I KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE DOG," AND "I'LL GET MY BOYS AND WE'LL PUT A BEAT DOWN ON YOUR ASS..." SHIT LIKE THAT! THE DAY I LEFT, MY GIRL TOLD ME HOW MUCH SHE LOVED ME AND COULDN'T WAIT UNTIL WE GOT MARRIED! THEN SHE PULLS THIS SHIT! I THOUGHT SHE WAS FUCKING AROUND ON ME DOWN IN FLORIDA, BUT WASN'T SURE. SO THAT'S ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT!@ I GOT NO HITS IN FLORIDA IN 20 AT BATS! I NOT ONLY LOST MY GIRLFRIEND, BUT I ALSO LOST MY BEST FRIEND! I'M SO DEPRESSED! I THOUGHT ABOUT DOING SHIT TO MYSELF, AND STILL AM. IS A BABY'S MOM WORTH THAT! JUST THINK OF THE TORMENT SHE'D HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE REST OF HER LIFE! I HATE EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE RIGHT NOW (EXCEPT MY ELITE BROS) I SERIOUSILY NEED SOME ADVICE! I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE! I FEEL SO BAD! PLEASE ANYONE HELP!!!
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THESAINT Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 78) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:24 PM
MAN DUDE, THAT SUCKS. THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS WALK AWAY. IF SHE'S INTERESTED SHE'LL FOLLOW. IF YOU KISS UP TO HER TO TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT SHE'LL NEVER RESPECT YOU AND SHE'LL DO IT AGAIN. TIME HEALS ALL BRO. WERE WITH YOU. IP: Logged |
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gary Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 130) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:30 PM
That's fuckin' cold Bro. I know it's easier said than done but, FUCK HER!!! She is not worth it. She'll do it again. Don't kill that motherfucker. Prison is no place to meet girls. Take care of yourself Bro. Tough times don't last but tough people do! IP: Logged |
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HARDBALL2 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 222) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:31 PM
YO SAINT, THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I'VE BEEN DOING, AND I THINK IT'S MADE MY SITUATION WORSE FOR ME! EVERYONE TELL ME JUST TO WALK AWAY, BUT IT'S SOOOOOOO HARD TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER LIVING WITH HER! SHE MAKES ME FUCKING SICK, BUT I STILL LOVE HER...IF I PLAY HARD TO GET AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT SHE'S DOING, YOU THINK SHE'LL FOLLOW!
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bstrong Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 64) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:32 PM
man i hear you, can't start to imagen what i would do in a fucked up situation like this. but befor u act try to think a lil bit. well u got to good thinks right now, you got your lil one, and u got red of that cheating @%#%... IP: Logged |
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THESAINT Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 78) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:36 PM
YOU SOUND LIKE A GOOD GUY BRO, YOU'RE INVOLVED IN YOUR DAUGHTERS LIFE. SHE WOULD BE STUPID NOT TO COME BACK. KEEP YOUR SELF RESPECT. WITHOUT IT YOU'LL FEEL EVEN WORSE. IP: Logged |
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Gtn-Big2 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 31) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:40 PM
Hey bro, There isn't a woman out there worth hurting yourself over...and you definitely do not want to go to prison. Just look at the good things right now in your life, and if you have trouble finding any of them...look into your daughters eyes! You are gonna make it IP: Logged |
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kpumpin Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 120) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:50 PM
I havent been posting much lately but had to when i read this. I have been in similar situations and have some advice. In the first place you are going to have to get your head straight. You are going to look back and see the time wasted in baseball and lifting when this is all over. I think once this happens in a relationship its over whether the two want to realize it or not. There cant be any trust involved now. I mean everytime you go on a road trip do you want to have to wonder if there is someone else with her? Trust me, the mind creates worse scenarios than are probably even happening, and that is going to affect you anytime you or her are away from each other. I dont think anybody could ever totally get over cheating. If they could they are a better person than i am. It sounds like things were going pretty good at the time when you left, so whats going to happen if you get married and go through tough time, cause everybody does. just remember, a good life is the best revenge, so dont let her go on having fun and destroy your life. Get in the gym and dwarf every guy she could even think about going out with and get your head in the game. Good luck bro. kpumpin IP: Logged |
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LittleSavage34 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 24) |
posted March 13, 2000 07:54 PM
Girls suck man, bottom line...except for babygirl.  Take it from me. Hurting yourself is never the answer, and while it may feel great to beat his ass, that's not the answer. You need to see your daughter grow up from outside the Big House. Keep it cool man, and pump the iron. That always seems to help me. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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The Ranger Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 434) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:10 PM
I feel for ya Bro!! Been there...done that!! I can tell you from experience, it hurts like a motherfucker at first...but...it gets better with time. DON'T DO ANYTHING TO YOURSELF BRO!! You have a little one to think about, and no matter what happens...no one can take that away, but you!! Been there a thousand times myself....Please be cool Bro!! Ranger IP: Logged |
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Socrates Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 42) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:20 PM
I am truly sorry for what you are going through. As some of the other bros said, you have to let your love for your daughter rule in all the decisions you make right now. And I gaurantee, there are a lot of guys on this board that would be happy to talk with you right now. YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS! IP: Logged |
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BIZ Moderator (Total posts: 337) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:22 PM
DUDE A HARD SUGGESTION.... WOMAN lOVE A CHALLENGE..I BY NO MEANS AM AN EXPERT BUT MY FAM IS MAINLY FEMALES EXCEPT FOR 4 OF US...AND I HEAR THE TALK BRO..iF YOU SHOW YOU CARE THEY WILL SH#T ON YOU!! I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT IF I WOULD HAVE WALKED IN ON THAT SITUATION I WOULD HAVE SHAKED HIS HAND KISSED MY DAUGHTER AND WALKED RIGHT OUT.. I WOULD HAVE NO CALLED HER.......... DO NOT CALL HER BRO... DO NOT LOVE WHAT DOES NOT LOVE YOU OR THAT WILL BE YOUR DESTRUCTION..... AVOID HER FOR A WHILE,,,DROP PACKAGES AT THE DOOR FOR YOUR DAUGHTER WITH OUT HER KNOWING.... IT WILL DRIVE HER CRAZY BRO..... BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER IF SHE DID IT ONCE....... I HAVE TO BE BLUNT ON THIS ONE BRO WITH ALL DUE RESPECT BRO...STOP BEING A BITCH THINKING ABOUT DOING HARM TO YOUR SELF BRO....SHIT AS MANY WOMAN THAT LOOK FOR COMMITTED MAN WAKE UP AND SMELL THE DBOL MAN!!! THE POST WAS NOT INTENDED TO DISRESOECT, BUT TO KEEP IT REAL BROO!! STAY UP BRO!!! BIZ!!! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Andrew-Genic Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:30 PM
Damn good post Biz. IP: Logged |
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Deepsquat Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 384) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:34 PM
Got to tell you man this happens a thousand times a day,your girl got pregnant"oh, I don't know what happened! The birth control must not have worked! But now we can get MARRIED"(she stopped taking the pill 3 months before, but didn't tell you.)You being the nice guy that you are plan on doing THE RIGHT THING,The media, women,and our gov't have been telling us for years that you should DO THE RIGHT THING and marry her.She is not stupid! That is why she got pregnant in the first place!To "force" you to marry her.Apparantly it wasn't happening fast enough for her so she decided to attempt to "force" some other guys hand. How much would you like to bet that if you hadn't caught her,and you were away during the summer playing ball and she got pregnant,and the fles she was fuckin said he would marry her right now,that when you came home you would have found her married,pregnant,and some other dude raising your daughter. I work for one of the largest companys in my state, and I have seen this shit go down time and time again,either the marraige thing or the cheating thing.Do not blame yourself! You are the good guy in this mess! And though you may love her,she has done you wrong not the dude whose face you want to break. Though this may be a rift that you and she ,may or may not be able to settle, you can still be an active part in you daughters life.Good luck and remember this crap has happened to 1 out of 5 guys on this board and we all grow a little wiser for it. IP: Logged |
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aceguy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 35) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:38 PM
sorry to hear that bro, i have been there to and im only nineteen. i know its easy for everyone to say get over it, but i know what your going through, you love her, just be strong, you got a little girl to take care of, if anything happened to you it would totally affect her life. stay tough man!! IP: Logged |
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D-Town Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 81) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:40 PM
I sincerely feel for you bro there's not alot of things that are worse than what your going through. Theres not much more that I can tell you other than what the other Bro's have already said. I have also been in a similar situation. I would like to think I would have had Biz's reaction but I would have crushed that guys skull. It will not truly do any good to kick his ass now but, honestly if that little bitch does try and come after you break his ass in half and then hopefully his friends will run away so you don't have to fuck them up to. Most people don't know how to jump someone so they'll try to step up one by one and you just munch some d/bol and a bust em up. But always keep in mind you don't want to be in that little cell, I been there to. Your little girl is all the reason you need to have perpose in life. Good luck Bro!!! IP: Logged |
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transparent Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 7) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:41 PM
Hey man everyone goes through these times. We have all been thier or will be someday. The only thing you can do is hold your head high, fight back the tears, and love your daughter. Now this is a woman you will know the rest of your life, whether you like it or not. The BEST thing you can do is improve yourself,be very successfull, find a woman better and prettier than her, so every time you see your daughter She will always be wondering what she lost and how much of a mistake she made. "THAT IS THE SWEATIST REVENGE!" IP: Logged |
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FreakMonster Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 35) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:43 PM
Man just think of it this way. WOMEN are nothing but whores (MOST OF THEM atleast). Same thing happened to me (my woman cheated on me)and all I did was turn around and screw as many hot bitches as I could. It really feels good. You should try it sometime. IP: Logged |
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egoman Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 139) |
posted March 13, 2000 08:59 PM
let me tell you bro.walk away get on with your life.if you hurt yourself she will feel nothing.make something of your life for your self and your little girl.if she will cheat on you once she will cheat on you over and over again.just remember your little girl needs you.put your life in gods hands and you cant go wrong.keep the word in your hart and the steel in your hands.i will say a prayer for you. IP: Logged |
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champion Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 94) |
posted March 13, 2000 09:02 PM
That really is to bad bro. My advice is ditch your girlfriend and let the dogg have the whore. Just make sure you settle something out with her about your daughter. You don't want her to fuck ya in court or some bullshit like that. Take it easy bro, talk it out. You don't need any hassels just get it sorted out. If you know your going to kill this guy make sure he aint around when your talking to the bitch. Your daughter is what matters. FUCK THE BITCH! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Mr. T Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 170) |
posted March 13, 2000 09:07 PM
If you are sure you are broken up for good- sleep with another girl. Nothing makes me feel better after a break-up. You can still be a good father even if it is not in the way(marriage) you thought it would. Remember, success is the best revenge. IP: Logged |
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Doc Ponch Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted March 13, 2000 09:09 PM
As Chris Rock says, "Sometimes commitment will give you a headache. But new pussy always clears your mind!" It'll make you feel muuuuuch better.
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ruffy Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 36) |
posted March 13, 2000 10:31 PM
DO AN O.J. ON THEIR ASSES! IP: Logged |
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B Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 80) |
posted March 13, 2000 10:55 PM
Hey Hardball, This has happen to soooooooo many of us it is not even funny. But just one thing........ Think about your Daughter bro. Take it one day at a time and what helped me get through a similar situation is that "everything happens for a reason". The big guy up stairs knows what he's doing. But just keep your little one in mind. Good lcu and GOD bless. IP: Logged |
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studcj Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 313) |
posted March 13, 2000 10:59 PM
OK, ruffy's a retard. Time heals everything. I had the same shit happen to me except no daughter. Just focuse on your daughter and how proud she's gonna make you when she wins the womens fitness competition! You WILL find a woman but your babys mom is not for you. I say find a rebound girl for a while. Then just focuse all your attention 1st on your daughter, then on baseball, then on your friends of eliteboard fame. We care about you bro. Don't do anything stupid! We are always here if you need anything. Feel free to e-mail me at [email protected] P.S. Beating the hell out of that motherfucker will make you feel alot better too. But, make sure he won't use guns and shit. Just had a gun pulled on me two nights ago....not good. Actually I think I'm gonna post about that. Take it easy and feel free to e-me. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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E2 Moderator (Total posts: 1363) |
posted March 13, 2000 11:00 PM
I'm really sorry to hear it bro. I can't offer any advice, cause all i know is that women are the strangest things in this world. All i can say is that hurting yourself won't do anything for you. It's not going to get back at her and it's not going to help anything. If you need to talk or to rant mail me and we'll hook up. IP: Logged |
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MiniMic Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 99) |
posted March 13, 2000 11:03 PM
It does happen to all guys. It sux more that you walked in on him sitting. Don't do anything to yourself, you alreading showed enough self control to not beat the guys face in, I would have. Focus your anger on baseball and lifting and always be there for your daughter. There are girls who wouldn't do that kind of thing, just make sure your daughter is one of them. Good luck bro!! Lots of love man. IP: Logged |
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CyrusTheGreat Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 54) |
posted March 14, 2000 12:32 AM
Sorry to hear. Lots of good advise up there. I would have to say, Just be the best daddy you can be and let her do whatever she wants as long as she is being a good mother. Bro you don't need her as anything more than that, your babies mother. She has proved unworthy.(yes I have been through this before , too) Concentrate on you baby girl and your life Baseball, lifting, job. I know it is hard try not to talk to her unless it concerns you daughter. Oh and try reading "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. It will get you in the right frame of mind.(although there are some strange things in this book , just take in what you believe) Peace Bro and hang in there this is what makes us men.. IP: Logged |
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bigmofo Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 9) |
posted March 14, 2000 12:46 AM
bro,i don't know how old your daughter is but let me tell you this there is nothing in this world that will bring you joy and happiness like a child, when she says "daddy i love you" for the first time it will melt your heart,so #1 do not i mean do not hurt yourself to try and hurt the mother, she will get over it and your daughter will not have her daddy, #2 forget about her listen to what some of the other guys said and move on without her. IP: Logged |
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Slim Whitman Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 44) |
posted March 14, 2000 01:21 AM
WOW, that sucks big time man!! I feel ya'. The best thing to do in this situation is to stay cool. Look before you leap. Some women need attention all the time, and if they don't have ALL of your attention, they'll create a scheme on how to get it. Ride it out, see what happens. A friend of mine had the same problem, you know what he did? He taped this gang banger making threats to him and went and got a restraining order against the dude. This way, he can see his child without having to worry about this dude being around. And if he ever came around, all you got to do is pick up the phone. Some times it pays to be smart, rather than tough. Plus you have started establishing a pattern of "poor decisions" by the mother. If she's fostering a poor environment for your child, that could be very useful in court someday, if you ever decide to go that route. Women love to play games. As far as hurting yourself goes, by hurting one man, your hurting everybody who ever loved you!!! Don't be so fucking selfish. My best friend killed himself and he had the perfect life!!! I'll kick out your fucking teeth if I ever hear that shit again!!! Sorry to be so rash, but it's true!!!! Good luck and God bless Slim IP: Logged |
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bignate73 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 140) |
posted March 14, 2000 03:25 AM
I have to say bro, when someone says they are contemplating doing something to themselves to "teach" someone else a lesson, I have to say something. There is no person in the world who is worth hurting yourself over. There are 2 people you need to worry about: YOU and your daughter. I understand that you had a feeling of trust and friendship with that woman, but apparently it wasnt as strong for some reason with her. Experiences shape how we deal with relationships and the value they hold to each of us. You cant be accountable for someone elses infidelity. Nor will you justify your dedication by harming yourself. If she had no qualms about hurting you, what purpose would hurting yourself serve. I dont like to see any of my bros get messed over by a gal. My best advice for you would be to focus on your daughter...from a distance. Speak to your babys mama and tell her that she violated a trust you had that can never be regained. There is no reconciliation. Whatever you do dont be out of control, go about things in a logical(i know that sounds hard) and calculating manner. Women have a tendency to go extreme when confronted with an ultimatum. Be calculating in your dealings with her. Show her you are rational, otherwise she can make it difficult to see your daughter. But make it clear that she is not a part of your life beyond caring for your daughter. Let her know you can help her out as well. But things have changed. Damn bro, I wish you the best in dealing with this. Emotions tend to throw things out of whack. We are all here for you bro. Hit the gym up to release some endorphins to help you relax and get a clear mind. Always works for me. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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king89123 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 61) |
posted March 14, 2000 05:08 AM
SORRY TO HEAR THAT HAPPENED 2 U, BUT LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT SOME WHORE WHO IS CHEATING ON U. I MEAN LETS FACE IT A WOMAN WHO CHEATS ON HER MAN IS A FUCKING WHORE. ALL U CAN DO IS TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND LOVE YOUR LITTLE GIRL. STAY UPP BRO. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dutch Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 58) |
posted March 14, 2000 06:20 AM
I know what you are goint through. Me and my wife seperated a year ago and all i wanted to do is drink as much as i could and do other stupid things.. now i am glad that i am still here and able to make my little boy smile.. A good father should take care of his kids. Believe me, the best thing on earth is to see the smile on the face of your kid and know she is happy to see you again.. Dutch IP: Logged |
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45Plates Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 121) |
posted March 14, 2000 08:03 AM
Bro i know how it feels my old girl did that to me never caught them but i heard from people. Anyway don't hurt yourself man it's not worth it and whats it gonna solve. Keep your head up bro, don't do anything your gonna regret. Plates IP: Logged |
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fartsmasher Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 5) |
posted March 14, 2000 08:50 AM
I used to be a Pastor, and I had to council couples all the time that have had situations such as this. I know you might not want to hear this bro, but your first mistake was having a child, and her (your girlfriend) not having a commitment to love and honor you until death in marriage. I'm sure most of us on this board came from broken homes and divorced parents and it's not a pretty life to live. But as of now, the best thing you can do is try to understand how this will affect your daughter and do your best to raise her properly, without putting her in the middle of adult arguements. I think you did the right thing by leaving the home and going back to your own apartment. But now since you KNOW that your girlfriend isn't too trustworthy you need to concentrate on the relationship between you and your daughter. As for your girlfriend, if she truely did love you that other boy wouldn't have even been in the home. If she's done it once, more than likely she'll do it again.
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DoctorSavage Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 109) |
posted March 14, 2000 09:02 AM
It feels strange to agree with someone who calls himself "Fartsmasher", but yeah he's right. You both fucked up when you bumped uglies and made your daughter before you got married. Now your chief responsibility in LIFE is taking care of that little girl. If it were me and my boys, I'd get custody. There is no way I would let some cheating whore have my kids to raise. Don't hurt yourself. If she would cheat on you, how much do you realy think she cares. She might be freaked out by your suicide for a while but she'd recover from your death long before you would. Don't hurt the other guy, after all, he was just fooling around with an unmarried woman, just like you were. Sorry to come down on you, but thats the way I see it. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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tommynj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 27) |
posted March 14, 2000 09:36 AM
STAY AWAY FROM THE CHEATING PIG!....She WILL come 2u , just give it time, in the meantime to keep your mind off her. The best way to get over someone is with someone else...so,get as much revenge/pussy as u possibly can before she comes back, u might even decide you dont want anything to do with her. Alot of times they dont come back until u are actually over them, its like they can sense it. MOST IMPORTANTLY...u said u lost her...but u didnt....SHE lost YOU. she cheated on u. She is a cheating whore who betrayed the father of her child....on the flipside..you are an outgoing atletic hardworking guy taking care of your responsibilities. It may sound cliche but she really doesnt deserve you. If u wanna take care of the guy, dont do anything yourself....but if you're in jersey too....u know who to talk to. good luck, it happens to everybody at some point so dont get too down. IP: Logged |
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HARDBALL2 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 222) |
posted March 14, 2000 11:14 AM
that's why i stay here at elitefitness...you guys are the best! the tramp can suck my balls!! i'm going to try to avoid her as much as possible buyt still seeing my daughter. it'll be rough, but i'm going to celebrate my 21st birthday tonight and going to florida again for baseball tomorrow! i'll get hits for all who helped me out! that's probabily around 34 hits....that'd be nice!
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Big Brother Val Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 324) |
posted March 14, 2000 11:37 AM
Hardball... sorry to hear it. I lost my wife over the same thing. Hurts like hell. My advice is: Teach that fucker to swallow his own face. Second: Get yourself a real hottie to take your mind off of it. Third: Beat that fucker down again after he gets out of the hospital. Trust me. It makes you feel better. There's nothin' like another man almost shittin' himself because of how scared he is of you. Makes you feel good. Doesn't take the pain away permanantly. But it's a real cool temporary fix. I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. I've been there. IP: Logged |
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big_dan Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 59) |
posted March 14, 2000 01:33 PM
I GOT DUMPED IN OCTOBER. I SPENT 7 & A 1/2 MONTHS IN DAMN BOSNIA AND THOUGHT I HAD SOMEONE TO COME BACK TO BUT AN HOUR AFTER I CAME HOME I WAS SINGLE. IT HURTS ALOT. BUT HURTING YOUR SELF IS NOT THE ANSWER!!!! LOOK AT IT AS ANOTHER CHALLENGE I ACT LIKE I DON'T CARE ABOUT THIS GIRL ANYMORE AND THAT DROVE HER CRAZY OR IF SHE SEE'S ME WITH ANOTHER GIRL THAT DRIVES HER NUTS. I STILL WON'T TAKE HER BACK (NOT THAT SHE WANTS BACK) BUT I KNOW SHE STILL LIKES ME BUT SHE KNOWS THAT SHE FUCKED UP (ALL HER FRIENDS AND FAMILY TELLING HER THAT I WAS THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO HER HELPED OUT ALSO). SHE WILL REGRET LEAVING YOU BRO. EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T TELL YOU, YOU CAN TELL IN THE WAY SHE ACTS. JUST DRIVE ON WITH A HARD ON. EMAIL ME IF YOU NEED TO TALK ([email protected]) LATER, BE SAFE: ------------------ IP: Logged |
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airtyme Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 162) |
posted March 14, 2000 01:56 PM
sorry to hear that bro. Just remember, you are your daughters best role model. Whatever you do will reflect on her. Be strong and be a better man than the other dickhead. As far as your old lady is concerned, she dosen't deserve you. It sounds like you really love your daughter and I commend you for taking care of her. Get some hits and think of that dudes face everytime you smash the ball! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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conan69 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 271) |
posted March 14, 2000 02:05 PM
Bro i hear where you are comming from but chill. next time you see the dude walk up to him and shake his hand for getting he POOO then spit in the bitches face than hit a big cycle and look good to get a better chick Bitches that cheat arent worth the aggrevation trust me so get big and drop your bombs ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1) |
posted March 14, 2000 02:18 PM
Easy - Been thier. Don't wanta again - worst thing in the world is to have your heart ripped out. Best thing is to to the gym and train - alone if you can. Release the energy and sort the shitout for yourself. Some might say what the hell do I know. Well you need to know.See I train like a crazy man and had this girl that I would have taken a bullet for no question ask! period. Well we had been together for a while and everything was great I thought. Then one evening she ask if I wouldn't stay over at her place because she had an early morning and shit. Ok, no biggie I can deal with that. So I take off and don't think a thing. Didn't think that anything was off about this. So we get together the next couple day and have sex and I happy but, one night while I'm pulling down my run something starts going very wrong down stairs and believe I get very worried. I knew right then that she has been some where and we had problems. So I pack off to to the clinic to get some little asian lady jabbing a 6 inch q-tip down my penis - which will by the way drop you to your knees. After blood test and ever other thing I get cleared up. So I went snooping to find where my little hag have dragged my pecker. It turns out some guy she knew came in from NY and stopped by. So I ask my best friend if he knew anything - and he tells me she has been hitting on him for a couple weeks. He was to scared to tell me because I had a bad habit off going after people when i get mad. To make it short when I confronted her she told me she was going to have sex with every male friend that I had and if I talk to a guy she would screw him too. Well I warned all my friends but that didn't stop them and I had to send them packing for the clinic. I think it was worse for them because it took them a while to build up the nerve to ask for help. IP: Logged |
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